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Old 04-13-2011, 07:46 PM   #1
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Respect that the person you are with is always going to have individual needs and their own life outside the collective needs/life of the relationship.
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If you are wrong, don't be afraid to admit it but most important of all never, ever forget to say "I love you"
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Old 04-13-2011, 07:56 PM   #9
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take showers together

go on dates no matter how long you've been together

do communication exercises to learn new things

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Do maintain a sense of privacy. Family and friends don't need to know the intricate details.

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Old 04-13-2011, 08:01 PM   #13
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Talk to each other about everything even the hard stuff
take the time to show her how you feel actions do speak louder then words
make each other laugh
kiss her every chance you get
be honest be true but be kind
let her share your world for she wants to be part of you
never ever take each other for granted tomorrow is not promised
take time for the two of you to walk in the rain
hold her close when she is sad kiss the tears away
AND Cowboi don't you ever forget she is a lady and should be treated as such open her door walk her to her car before work bring her flowers just because
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Be honest--dont sugarcoat or rearrange the truth to make yourself look better or to garner sympathy

say thank you

say i love you

enjoy the silence sometimes

talk about things--even if it means things might get tense for a moment

never go to bed angry--if space is needed at least give them a kiss goodnight and let them know you love them

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Yep; this is the highest priority to me. If I can't trust you to tell me the truth, everything else is pointless.

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Remember to say *Please* & *Thank you*
Listen and hear what is being said...
Be patient... Be kind...
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Make promises you keep.
Make yourself easy to love.
Make the one you love feel safe and secure.
No matter what, make the one you love know she is a priority.
Talk about everything, and be brutally honest, even if it's difficult.
Treat her like a queen, and love her in all ways , always.
Build a bond together that noone or no thing can come between .
Apologize for your mistakes, make amends and do better next time. Then make amends again.
Take responsibility for your actions .
Validate her feelings by listening, stop what your doing, even when you're busy and pressed for time.
Always make time for her needs , even if your tired ,injured or bored.
Just a few things I always try to do when I love someone. It doesn't guaranty she won't still choose to walk away, but I don't think it hurts anything.
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Always assume good intent ... and have it yourself too.

Say "I love you" and mean it...frequently.

Be faithful...not just physically, but also emotionally, verbally...and especially in your own head and heart.

Talk it out...and if you find yourself shouting, take a breath, and keep talking.

Do the little things that show your love to your partner...in our case it's jello and foot rubbing (not together )

Spend time together....just the two of you. It doesn't have to be a fancy date....take a walk, go to the garden center, sit outside and enjoy the day.

Remember that they're human and make mistakes....and the same goes for you.

Remember why you got together in the first place.
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I disagree. I have to sometimes have time to process. I need a night for my internal soul to talk it out to my silly self. I actually wake up and understand it all and can work it out at the breakfast table with smoothness. But I need that night to process in my sleep....

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