Where are all the lesbian femmes that love us lesbian butches ??? - Page 3

TruTexan · 12-13-2013, 05:33 PM

Hello to all the femmes on the planet earth!

~ocean · 12-13-2013, 06:31 PM

~ femmes are checking all of the butch's out of course ~

TruTexan · 12-13-2013, 06:33 PM

well Ocean~ make sure you tell them we haven't disappeared from the planet or in real time, we are loud n proud and stil around for a long time.

~ocean · 12-13-2013, 06:40 PM

~ speaking for myself ~ I adore the femme & butch dynamic ~ w' out a butch ~ we are just pretty woman ~

DaddyNik12 · 12-13-2013, 07:13 PM

I gotta admit ... I love me some femmes ... *still looking for ms. right ..oh hell who im kiddin .. ms wrong will work just as good :P

Jhenay · 12-13-2013, 08:40 PM

I'm still feeling like there's some secret underground that I haven't found access yet. I mean...I'm in Portland Oregon, and it should be a walk in the park. But I'm wandering aimlessly trying to find sexy single butch studs.

They seem to be such a hot commodity here, that I think when one hits the street, they are snatched up immediately.

The butch dating sites all seem to have the same local people on them. The lesbian groups I see online are mostly femme.
My lesbian friends seem to only know femme women.
I'm not the type to go to bars/clubs alone, and wondering really are there any available butches here? I might have to grab a girlfriend and go check it out anyway.

Getting so desperate, I'm about to record "Where does the butch play?"

TruTexan · 12-13-2013, 09:23 PM

I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there.

I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself.
Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you.

Jhenay · 12-13-2013, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there.

I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself.
Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you.

Thanks for the suggestion.

Funny too... I was at Home Depot twice last week. Nobody caught my eye. Haven't tried Lowe's yet.

You think if I find her and tell her I need caulk, she'll know I'm asking if she packs?

As far as Texas, it seems 90% of all the ones I connect well with either live there, or have lived there. So maybe I need to just bite the bullet and move closer to that area one of these days. I admit, hearing "Yes ma'am" in a southern accent gives me good shivers all over.

TruTexan · 12-19-2013, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Jhenay

Thanks for the suggestion.

Funny too... I was at Home Depot twice last week. Nobody caught my eye. Haven't tried Lowe's yet.

You think if I find her and tell her I need caulk, she'll know I'm asking if she packs?

As far as Texas, it seems 90% of all the ones I connect well with either live there, or have lived there. So maybe I need to just bite the bullet and move closer to that area one of these days. I admit, hearing "Yes ma'am" in a southern accent gives me good shivers all over.

Well we do have a southern drawl in Texas, some more than others depending on where you live. We do say Ma'am a lot too. And you can for sure find some butches at Home Depot and Lowes here.

Make the move? That be up to you ma'am.

Erryl · 12-30-2013, 11:22 AM

I"m a slightly femme who totally loves butch. My wife is a slightly butch all the time, oober butch dressed up kinda lady. Mmmmm that's how I like it.

I define "lesbian sex" as any sex with another woman. I define "divine lesbian sex" as any sex I have with my wife!

TruTexan · 12-30-2013, 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Erryl

I"m a slightly femme who totally loves butch. My wife is a slightly butch all the time, oober butch dressed up kinda lady. Mmmmm that's how I like it.

I define "lesbian sex" as any sex with another woman. I define "divine lesbian sex" as any sex I have with my wife!

Welcome to the Planet, Erryl. I hope you find it enjoyable here in the forums/threads, there are tons of them. If you need any help with anything, just ask .

fatallyblonde · 01-02-2014, 05:01 PM

Right here!

Lesbian sex is anything two (or more!) lesbians have with each other... whatever that looks like!!

Jhenay · 01-02-2014, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

Well we do have a southern drawl in Texas, some more than others depending on where you live. We do say Ma'am a lot too. And you can for sure find some butches at Home Depot and Lowes here.

Make the move? That be up to you ma'am.

Yup...good shivers. Going to have to give it some serious thought.

lamuymuyfem · 01-22-2014, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there.

I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself.
Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you.

i show my true femme colors to butches who make eye contact……..be sure to keep your eyes locked just a little too long to be decent….

TruTexan · 01-22-2014, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by lamuymuyfem

i show my true femme colors to butches who make eye contact……..be sure to keep your eyes locked just a little too long to be decent….

welcome to the Planet muymuyfem. Hope you have a wonderful time here while you surf the threads, and make new friends. Enjoy yourself here !

imperfect_cupcake · 01-22-2014, 03:46 PM

Most of the butches I've dated have considered themselves lesbians or dykes. And a proportion of those also considered themselves an additional gender along with being a woman. So they were lesbian And queer.
I like that. I consider myself lesbian and queer. Not just queer.
I can't say I'm lesbian only and I can't say I'm queer only.
One of the things I dreaded about coming home was the separation of this. One community lesbian, one community queer. I miss them being mixed together.

Jessxox · 01-25-2014, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

This thread is started for all of us that ID as lesbian butch to be able to see who the lesbian femmes are that love us, date us, partner with us, and support us as the butches we are. Where are you??? Come out come out where ever you are!!!!

I would also like to entertain a question in this thread as well. If you ID as lesbian butch or femme, do you enjoy having lesbian sex with your partner? What do you consider lesbian sex to mean to you by your own definitions.?

ps. I didn't see a thread for this on the site.

I'm a femme who loves butches. Right here!!! :P

Jessxox · 01-25-2014, 05:02 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

This thread is started for all of us that ID as lesbian butch to be able to see who the lesbian femmes are that love us, date us, partner with us, and support us as the butches we are. Where are you??? Come out come out where ever you are!!!!

I would also like to entertain a question in this thread as well. If you ID as lesbian butch or femme, do you enjoy having lesbian sex with your partner? What do you consider lesbian sex to mean to you by your own definitions.?

ps. I didn't see a thread for this on the site.

Would it bother you guys, if I, being a femme, who loves butches just camps out right here??? lol!!!! xo

TruTexan · 02-01-2014, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Jessxox

Would it bother you guys, if I, being a femme, who loves butches just camps out right here??? lol!!!! xo

No, I don't think so. Heck I'll even offer to pitch your tent, even though I'm not that good at making tents popup very fast. LOL Camp away, maybe some other lesbian butches will come in here too if you did.

bokster · 03-17-2014, 10:08 AM

Been asking myself that question. Hmmm. I'm glad I found this site.

12-13-2013, 05:33 PM	#41
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,268 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	bump bump bump...... Hello to all the femmes on the planet earth! __________________

12-13-2013, 06:31 PM	#42
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,124 Times in 4,736 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	~ femmes are checking all of the butch's out of course ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

12-13-2013, 06:33 PM	#43
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,268 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	well Ocean~ make sure you tell them we haven't disappeared from the planet or in real time, we are loud n proud and stil around for a long time. __________________

12-13-2013, 06:40 PM	#44
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,124 Times in 4,736 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	~ speaking for myself ~ I adore the femme & butch dynamic ~ w' out a butch ~ we are just pretty woman ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

12-13-2013, 07:13 PM	#45
DaddyNik12 Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/Domme Preferred Pronoun?: Sir Relationship Status: still searching for ms right Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 580 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 515 Thanked 1,508 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 14895926	I gotta admit ... I love me some femmes ... still looking for ms. right ..oh hell who im kiddin .. ms wrong will work just as good :P __________________ people with sharp tounges , cut thier own throat !! smirk

12-13-2013, 08:40 PM	#46
Jhenay Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Dating Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Oregon Posts: 15 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17 Thanked 57 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 429508	I'm here. Where are you? I'm still feeling like there's some secret underground that I haven't found access yet. I mean...I'm in Portland Oregon, and it should be a walk in the park. But I'm wandering aimlessly trying to find sexy single butch studs. They seem to be such a hot commodity here, that I think when one hits the street, they are snatched up immediately. The butch dating sites all seem to have the same local people on them. The lesbian groups I see online are mostly femme. My lesbian friends seem to only know femme women. I'm not the type to go to bars/clubs alone, and wondering really are there any available butches here? I might have to grab a girlfriend and go check it out anyway. Getting so desperate, I'm about to record "Where does the butch play?"

12-13-2013, 09:23 PM	#47
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,268 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there. I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself. Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you. __________________

12-30-2013, 11:22 AM	#50
Erryl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Arkansas Posts: 42 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23 Thanked 94 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 2317129	I"m a slightly femme who totally loves butch. My wife is a slightly butch all the time, oober butch dressed up kinda lady. Mmmmm that's how I like it. I define "lesbian sex" as any sex with another woman. I define "divine lesbian sex" as any sex I have with my wife! __________________ "Don't waste your breath proclaiming what's really important to you. How you spend your time says it all." -E. Zorn

01-02-2014, 05:01 PM	#52
fatallyblonde Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: earth Posts: 446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 389 Thanked 769 Times in 181 Posts Rep Power: 7054720	Right here! Lesbian sex is anything two (or more!) lesbians have with each other... whatever that looks like!!

01-22-2014, 03:46 PM	#56
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,727 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Most of the butches I've dated have considered themselves lesbians or dykes. And a proportion of those also considered themselves an additional gender along with being a woman. So they were lesbian And queer. I like that. I consider myself lesbian and queer. Not just queer. I can't say I'm lesbian only and I can't say I'm queer only. One of the things I dreaded about coming home was the separation of this. One community lesbian, one community queer. I miss them being mixed together.

03-17-2014, 10:08 AM	#60
bokster Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: Manila and NYC Posts: 73 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 65 Thanked 136 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 1010583	Been asking myself that question. Hmmm. I'm glad I found this site.