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Old 09-24-2011, 08:57 AM   #81
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We need to be super careful about stating our preferences in ways that "other" people in a dehumAnizing or derisive way. I think if you said "I prefer..." and then stated what you like, there wouldn't be a problem. Being that we have some transfolks on this site who are pre-op, we need to be sensitive about language here because we aren't having any ugly transphobia here.

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We need to be super careful about stating our preferences in ways that "other" people in a dehumAnizing or derisive way. I think if you said "I prefer..." and then stated what you like, there wouldn't be a problem. Being that we have some transfolks on this site who are pre-op, we need to be sensitive about language here because we aren't having any ugly transphobia here.

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Thanks for increasing my sensitivity and my awareness. After reflecting, I can see how this comment might hurt someone's feelings even if it was said without malintent. I guess my humor can be crass and insensitive.

To clarify my position on this matter. I've been attracted to pre-op MTF. So, my attraction to a person is NOT based on any physical characteristics. It's all about the psych connection I have with her.

If my comment hurt the feelings of any trangendered person, please accept my sincerest of apologies.
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I don't view sex as a service unless it's in that specific dynamic. It's sex, and sex feels good, my phantom appendage will be attached when I am entering the person and I guess you could say it's an energy flow that is being passed on through the act of penetration. When I am entering it's all of me entering it's not tied specifically to whatever. I'm assuming it's like that for butches and ftm's it flows regardless of what one is using.

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And! I had this one for a while, but I lost it in a break up. I had this one in disco gold too...

i was just thinking about this one the other day....oh my Catholic roots! .
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i was just thinking about this one the other day....oh my Catholic roots! .
I own this in silver/gray.

It's well-made and a real conversation piece.
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I own this in silver/gray.

It's well-made and a real conversation piece.
i want one! And to hear *OH JESUS*..would be kinda fun too
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