What is on your mind - Page 9

Bit · 11-25-2009, 03:59 PM

{{{{{{{{{{{Bella}}}}}}}}}}} oh you're not nuts honey. I will say that I couldn't do it, couldn't maintain the close friendship--but I completely understand the impulse to. After all, if the ex weren't a wonderful person, you wouldn't have given 12 years of your life to Hir, right?

{{{{{{{{{{{hottprof}}}}}}}}} People get offended and it's never comfortable but I don't think it should make us stop posting. You've just started talking to us; please don't go away now, k?

Bit · 11-25-2009, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_G

Matthew is on my mind today. Harley's son, for those of you that know him from the other site. Another brain tumor, a tumor on his back....the news is not good. Please say a prayer for them both.

It doesn't seem good, does it G? We're sending prayers and energy for Matthew to have more time, and for Harley to find peace. It's such a devastating thing.

Andrew, Jr. · 11-25-2009, 04:10 PM

Hot Prof.,

Do not leave. There is no need to go. Please stay.

It is a time for love, joy, and peace.

Peace and love,
Andrew

JustLovelyJenn · 11-25-2009, 04:51 PM

Right now what is on my mind is that there are so many people I know, and don't know, that have my thoughts and good wishes. On this day of giving, I send out into the world all the energy I can to help, in thanks of all that I have and all that I have been given.

Gemme · 11-25-2009, 07:05 PM

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Originally Posted by BellaOctober1

I'm new here...

Hi

Two weeks ago, my partner of 12 years (who is 12 years younger) told me she wants to be single again. She's not cheating..loves me to death..but midlife has hit and she's in love with her motorcycle and new friends. I think I became Hir security and Momma; and now she's ready to spread Hir wings and fly into the sunset.

We're going to remain good friends, but in the mean time I have to move out of our house; relocate (we work together) to another facility and start a new life.

People are really angry with Hir. I'm not. I really understand this scenario. I was there once too. And, in all honesty, I worked too hard at the relationship. This will be a nice break. Don't get me wrong. I'm dying inside. I just can't do anything about this..so why not use my energy to move forward?

Any of you ever break up a long term relationship and maintain a close friendship with that person? People think we're totally nuts.

It can be done, with time and work from both people. I guess what would cause me confusion if I were close to either one of you is why is it YOU that is relocating and moving out? It's hir choice, so isn't the change she wants hirs to attain? Why must it be YOU who makes all the changes based on hir decision?

*shrug*

Maybe that's why some of your friends are angry with hir.

FeminineAllure · 11-25-2009, 07:41 PM

How thankful I am to have my father still with me to spend this Thanksgiving with.
Grateful.

lillith · 11-25-2009, 08:44 PM

I am sleepy and grateful for the next four days off...

WolfyOne · 11-26-2009, 01:32 PM

How thankful I am for chosen family. I love and adore all of them. Missing them and their kindness. Hoping each of them is having a bountiful day filled with family and friends.

Mitmo01 · 11-26-2009, 01:50 PM

How some people are completley transparent and phony......a snake in the grass who moves slowly will still fucking bite you....but i will not be letting that happen...

im also thinking that i really do not like a certain person and never will exactly because they are reptilian in nature, oh and throw in delusional, no matter how much bullshit they write on the interwebz about how positive they are

NotAnAverageGuy · 11-26-2009, 02:22 PM

I wish she was here with me instead of at work and how I miss her

that I can't wait to eat later tonight with my family

that I hope my sweet potato casserole turns out better than my moms HAHAHAH

these brownies I made are looking good but I can't eat them yet

JustLovelyJenn · 11-26-2009, 03:22 PM

I love it when my family can get together and actually get along. Its nice to have some adult time (my kids are with their dad this holiday) for playing games and socializing.

NotAnAverageGuy · 11-26-2009, 05:14 PM

I am starving and ready to eat, so I need to log off of here and get to my parents house to eat some good grub.

Surayna · 11-26-2009, 07:01 PM

I just made Thanksgiving dinner for 12, all by myself, in heels. Everything was from scratch. We had ham, potatoes, sweet potato pie, green beans, stuffing, gravy, rolls, pecan pie and pumpkin pie. Not a single complaint, and lots of compliments. After not wanting to cook for the last 10 years, I am officially out of the cooking closet again, and totally enjoying it.

KayCee · 11-26-2009, 07:24 PM

I'm thinking right now, how happy I am, that I've found the love of my life...finally!

FeminineAllure · 11-26-2009, 09:55 PM

We went out to dinner this Thanksgiving. So, no turkey sandwiches or leftover pumpkin pie.

Oh, and so many choices of smiley emoticons!

NotAnAverageGuy · 11-27-2009, 01:25 AM

finally coming back home to my place after all the eating and drinking I did tonight, so now it's rest up time with just me, the dog and the suggies.

cara · 11-27-2009, 02:35 AM

Needing to go to bed because I have to work tomorrow, but I don't want to go to bed and I don't want to go to work. Maybe if I think of it as a 1 day work-week. Hmm....

~cara

Penelope · 11-27-2009, 11:08 AM

mornings spent leisurely

violaine · 11-27-2009, 12:41 PM

a really horrible dream in which i was calling for help after the scare, and the person on the phone drove me crazy.

Bit · 11-27-2009, 01:47 PM

{{{{{{{{{{{violaine}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

11-25-2009, 04:51 PM	#164
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,995 Times in 3,685 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Right now what is on my mind is that there are so many people I know, and don't know, that have my thoughts and good wishes. On this day of giving, I send out into the world all the energy I can to help, in thanks of all that I have and all that I have been given. __________________ --Jenn

11-25-2009, 07:41 PM	#166
FeminineAllure Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: My rainbow is way overdue Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PA Posts: 1,145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 2,026 Times in 555 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	How thankful I am to have my father still with me to spend this Thanksgiving with. Grateful. __________________ Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you

11-25-2009, 08:44 PM	#167
lillith Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, hey you! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Los Angeles Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 204 Thanked 687 Times in 224 Posts Rep Power: 5173240	I am sleepy and grateful for the next four days off... __________________ now how can you ignore a dancing pink elephant? and how i so wish it would rain here.

11-26-2009, 03:22 PM	#171
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,995 Times in 3,685 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I love it when my family can get together and actually get along. Its nice to have some adult time (my kids are with their dad this holiday) for playing games and socializing. __________________ --Jenn

11-26-2009, 07:01 PM	#173
Surayna Member How Do You Identify?: Femme - babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Incredibly content, amazingly happy, and loved by some wonderful people! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PNW Posts: 179 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 93 Thanked 82 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 16	I just made Thanksgiving dinner for 12, all by myself, in heels. Everything was from scratch. We had ham, potatoes, sweet potato pie, green beans, stuffing, gravy, rolls, pecan pie and pumpkin pie. Not a single complaint, and lots of compliments. After not wanting to cook for the last 10 years, I am officially out of the cooking closet again, and totally enjoying it. __________________ "The more you love, the more you can love – and the more intensely you love." ~Lazarus Long~ "Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." ~Nicholas Sparks~ "Bite Marks Are Love Notes Written In Flesh" ~anonymous~

11-25-2009, 03:59 PM	#161
Bit Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme Relationship Status: married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 2,177 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,126 Thanked 3,772 Times in 1,264 Posts Rep Power: 10778869	{{{{{{{{{{{Bella}}}}}}}}}}} oh you're not nuts honey. I will say that I couldn't do it, couldn't maintain the close friendship--but I completely understand the impulse to. After all, if the ex weren't a wonderful person, you wouldn't have given 12 years of your life to Hir, right? {{{{{{{{{{{hottprof}}}}}}}}} People get offended and it's never comfortable but I don't think it should make us stop posting. You've just started talking to us; please don't go away now, k?

11-25-2009, 04:10 PM	#163
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hot Prof., Do not leave. There is no need to go. Please stay. It is a time for love, joy, and peace. Peace and love, Andrew

11-26-2009, 01:32 PM	#168
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	How thankful I am for chosen family. I love and adore all of them. Missing them and their kindness. Hoping each of them is having a bountiful day filled with family and friends.

11-26-2009, 01:50 PM	#169
Mitmo01 Member How Do You Identify?: Disobedient Thing... Preferred Pronoun?: Rebel Soul in the blood..Heathen as well Relationship Status: Marked and Loved....I Belong to Her.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Omaha Posts: 984 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,523 Thanked 1,354 Times in 579 Posts Rep Power: 927727	How some people are completley transparent and phony......a snake in the grass who moves slowly will still fucking bite you....but i will not be letting that happen... im also thinking that i really do not like a certain person and never will exactly because they are reptilian in nature, oh and throw in delusional, no matter how much bullshit they write on the interwebz about how positive they are

11-26-2009, 02:22 PM	#170
NotAnAverageGuy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Trans Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,723 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 109 Thanked 282 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 0	I wish she was here with me instead of at work and how I miss her that I can't wait to eat later tonight with my family that I hope my sweet potato casserole turns out better than my moms HAHAHAH these brownies I made are looking good but I can't eat them yet

11-26-2009, 05:14 PM	#172
NotAnAverageGuy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Trans Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,723 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 109 Thanked 282 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am starving and ready to eat, so I need to log off of here and get to my parents house to eat some good grub.

11-26-2009, 07:24 PM	#174
KayCee Member How Do You Identify?: Multifaceted Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: It's a secret Relationship Status: And from my lips hye drew the hallelujah Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow clicking my heels Posts: 732 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,646 Thanked 1,725 Times in 521 Posts Rep Power: 8635874	I'm thinking right now, how happy I am, that I've found the love of my life...finally!

11-26-2009, 09:55 PM	#175
FeminineAllure Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: My rainbow is way overdue Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PA Posts: 1,145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 2,026 Times in 555 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	We went out to dinner this Thanksgiving. So, no turkey sandwiches or leftover pumpkin pie. Oh, and so many choices of smiley emoticons! __________________ Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you

11-27-2009, 01:25 AM	#176
NotAnAverageGuy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Trans Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,723 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 109 Thanked 282 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 0	finally coming back home to my place after all the eating and drinking I did tonight, so now it's rest up time with just me, the dog and the suggies.

11-27-2009, 02:35 AM	#177
cara Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer/lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Married to my love 08.15.15 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Snohomish County, Washington State Posts: 3,401 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,994 Thanked 13,254 Times in 2,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	currently on my mind: Needing to go to bed because I have to work tomorrow, but I don't want to go to bed and I don't want to go to work. Maybe if I think of it as a 1 day work-week. Hmm.... ~cara

11-27-2009, 11:08 AM	#178
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11-27-2009, 01:47 PM	#180
Bit Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme Relationship Status: married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 2,177 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,126 Thanked 3,772 Times in 1,264 Posts Rep Power: 10778869	{{{{{{{{{{{violaine}}}}}}}}}}}}}}