04-18-2011, 08:10 PM | #81 |
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04-18-2011, 08:42 PM | #82 |
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Communicate about everything. Leave nothing out. Never hide anything from your partner. A white lie is still a lie. It still will be found out and it still stings and causes so much devastation to a relationship. White Lies are termites lol Romance. Flowers candles foot rubs body rubs bubble baths washing her hair and the little things just to name a few show how much one cares Affection. Just holding hands a hug from behind as she cooks for you holding her while she sleeps these are just a few ways to be affectionate but go so far Loyalty. Stand by your partners side even if you think they are wrong. Always present a united front Honesty Always be.totally honest Trust. Trust your partner with every fiber of your being. If you can't trust them work it out or leave. Without trust there is nothing. Always Date. This will keep your relationship refreshed. And you will remember why you fell in love to start with. |
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04-18-2011, 08:49 PM | #83 |
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04-18-2011, 08:53 PM | #84 |
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Cause love isn't everything!
Like the people your in a relationship with
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04-18-2011, 09:47 PM | #85 |
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Trust...don't just say u do
Be Honest...even when it is the hardest thing to do Try new things together...laugh where some don't work COMPROMISE Don't let the past negatively effect the future... Ask...listen...remember...surprise... Be random & silly together A whole lotta I love you's... Be affectionate...everywhere(appropriately) RESPECT...yourself, your partner, your relationship... Enjoy...time, little things, eachother...
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Read this thread.
Especially this post. Well said! Quote:
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04-19-2011, 10:30 AM | #90 |
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04-19-2011, 11:34 AM | #91 |
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play, have fun, joke around. Life is much less stressful when you don't take everything so seriously.
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04-19-2011, 11:37 AM | #92 |
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thought of another to do........If you are feeling like a night in shining armor or whatever you call a femme in shining armor. Jump on your horse and ride off into the sunset....come back and try it again when your armor is a little tarnished.
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04-19-2011, 12:36 PM | #93 |
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hmmmmm...
don't forget to take care of yourself... if you are not meeting your own personal needs, those can sometimes shift to your partner... which can be an overwhelming thing. you love your partner so easily... don't forget to love yourself!
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When faced with assuming an action or word is malicious or just stupidly thoughtless or what have you, assume the best.
Remember your paramour is not perfect and is a flawed, failing, wonderful human being, just like you are. Change is hard and it takes time. If you and your honey bunny are trying to change patterns that started in either of your childhoods or wherever in life, mistakes will be made, don't freak. Pick yourself up, dust off and start again, with consistent dedicated work you will see change, however, it is not instant.
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Make sure every minute of every day that the person you have chosen to spend your life with knows how very loved they are.
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Touch.....
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Create your own traditions...
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TRUST each other TRUST each others friendships, are just that friendships TRUST my judgment, I only want what is best for you and for us TRUST that nothing is off limits, you can talk to me about anything TRUST that we will not judge each other TRUST that at the end of the day no matter our difficulties of the day, we will go to bed happily and loving each other, not wondering.
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