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Old 11-08-2010, 06:29 PM   #1
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Don't you hate it when you are in a relationship and they end it through an Email??
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Yes that has happen to me before I called it being a coward
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I do. It is immature and is a totally inappropriate way to end a relationship! People all people deserve consideration and respect especially in these intimate matters.
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SORRY That is the worst!! I would rather have someone tell me its over. Email seems unresolved. BLAH!


This only means one thing...You can definitely do better!
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One Word! Immature ..
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Yikes, never had it happen.

I guess they thought they couldn't do it face to face?

Maybe they were worried about the reaction and did not want to deal with the drama?

Maybe they can't handle confrontation?

Maybe it's long distance and they can't see you face to face?

At least you got a notification it was over..


I don't know, sorry this happened to ya'll.
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Old 11-08-2010, 07:11 PM   #7
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Yikes... however, In my case I think that would of been way better than what happened to me. I guess we need to really be sure who we are dealing with.

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Yikes... however, In my case I think that would of been way better than what happened to me. I guess we need to really be sure who we are dealing with.

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Yikes... however, In my case I think that would of been way better than what happened to me. I guess we need to really be sure who we are dealing with.




Does One Ever Really Know Who The Other One Is.. I Don't Think So,
A Lot Of People Wear So Many Masks, It's Sad and VERY Scary..
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Does One Ever Really Know Who The Other One Is.. I Don't Think So,
A Lot Of People Wear So Many Masks, It's Sad and VERY Scary..
You are so correct on that.
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From the title I thought this would be the place to post how I hate it when I get non-consensual umbrella in the ass on the subway.

I didn't realize it was the sour grapes thread.
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Don't you hate it when you have a craving but you're too damn lazy to go get what it is you want?

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Or you live 25 miles from the nearest town and couldn't easily go get it even if you had the inclination?
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Don't YOU Hate It When??

You can't think of a word? What is it called when someone joins a site just because they want to put the "real" membership down? And they are misrepresenting that they are actually part of the group/community the site represents. I keep thinking.. "mole," or a "plant" (watching too many crime shows), but that isn't it!
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People just like hearing themselves talk. Bottom line is they're talking out of their assholes....

So do me a favor and shut the fuck up already....
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Default As an out of asshole talker, I didn't take offense to the preceeding post!

Don't you hate it when you close your eyes and make a wish over and over again and you've been really good and your fairy godmother still bails on you?
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Gemme, Oh dear one...

What I posted was not directed to anyone in this thread...

Just reading certain crap and felt the need to post in here...Ya know?

Now back to our regularly scheduled "talking out of assholes" chat
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Dont you hate it when the person in front of you has an insane cameltoe and even though all you want to do is look away you just cant cause it is so scary and out there? Ummmm ya!
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