Single Butches & Femmes Cafe - Page 11

Mr Nice Guy · 01-28-2012, 08:38 PM

Still single and just hanging. Have a great weekend everyone.

MysticOceansFL · 01-28-2012, 08:56 PM

Have a great and safe week end , Singles

msW8ing · 01-29-2012, 10:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uniquetobeme

Hello everyone. I'm kinda new to the planet and wanted to say hi. Thanks for this thread. I like to read entire threads before I post but some of them are sooooo long, pages and pages! LOL. Luckily, this wasn't too long :-)
I hope everyone has a wonderful day today :-).

Well hello and welcome to the planet uniquetobeme. It's a really cool place to meet new people. I hope you have a lot of fun. Check out the chat room sometime

Licious · 01-29-2012, 11:16 PM

*waving to the singles*

been some time since my last date, so I am saying hello again.

me: mature femme, like mature butches *read: graying, 50 plus*

as I have health issues, and that slows me down, can't join the skiers and snowboarders. frequent rest a must.

been through a lot of personal changes over the last few years, mostly for the better.

wonder if there is an older butch who likes graying ladies who dig coffee and make good jokes.

looking for the "lost art" of conversation...and a good attitude and compassion. is it me, or is this in short supply these days?

seems age makes people grumpy. it's understandable with the aches and pains, as I have plenty myself... but I just don't feel I have enough years left to waste it on negativity wherever that can be helped.

making new friends is good, romance is a plus. it all starts from friendship, yes?

trying to keep up on the thread more...

nice to meet you all, and hello to those I already know.

Leigh · 01-29-2012, 11:45 PM

Just passing by, hope everyone is having a wonderful day

uniquetobeme · 01-29-2012, 11:57 PM

Finished my homework and getting ready to pass out for the night and get a little sleep before I go to work tomorrow and then off to school in the evening...

So, I thought I'd wish everyone a great week! Hopefully Monday isn't too harsh on anyone

I need to find something fun to do on Mondays so that I actually look forward to them...Too bad it can't be taking every Monday off from work!

Zimmeh · 01-30-2012, 12:19 AM

Good Evening Everyone,

I am currently at work and looking forward to going home in the morning!

Have a great day!

Zimmeh

Turtle · 01-30-2012, 12:23 AM

So, I was married for quite awhile and now I'm not. I've been keepin my head down mostly (I did have a few outlandish moments we shall not discuss) because I have not been able to have a reasonable thought about dating. It's been a looooong time. Conversatin' - I'm good at that, if you can stand me makin up words ;-)

I can be funny, I can go deep - sometimes too deep for some peeps, my funny is better in person cuz it usually involves my face and we might have to do distance coffee, but that's OK.

I am sooo looking forward to the superbowl - getting out to a party, meeting new folks, not so afraid to let people know I'm single anymore - sheeeesh! It's gettin better...

So, would you rather have a conversation with only facial expressions or only words?

msW8ing · 01-30-2012, 12:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Turtle

So, I was married for quite awhile and now I'm not. I've been keepin my head down mostly (I did have a few outlandish moments we shall not discuss) because I have not been able to have a reasonable thought about dating. It's been a looooong time. Conversatin' - I'm good at that, if you can stand me makin up words ;-)

I can be funny, I can go deep - sometimes too deep for some peeps, my funny is better in person cuz it usually involves my face and we might have to do distance coffee, but that's OK.

I am sooo looking forward to the superbowl - getting out to a party, meeting new folks, not so afraid to let people know I'm single anymore - sheeeesh! It's gettin better...

So, would you rather have a conversation with only facial expressions or only words?

Why does a girl have to choose?? Can't i be greedy and have both??

SweetJane · 01-30-2012, 01:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Turtle

So, would you rather have a conversation with only facial expressions or only words?

I have to have words first. But facial expressions make me believe your words.

Mr Nice Guy · 01-30-2012, 04:18 AM

Hello everyone!! Still single here and hoping you all have a wonderful week.

fever · 01-30-2012, 04:30 AM

Start of another week. Sending lots of good wishes to A/all.

Candice

Spikester · 01-30-2012, 04:39 AM

Good Morning to all the singles its Monday
Everyone have a great week and that it goes
Fast

ScandalAndy · 01-30-2012, 07:17 AM

g'mornin all!

msW8ing · 01-30-2012, 10:17 AM

Good morning everyone. Monday has once again raised it's nasty head. I do everyone has a good day and it's not to rough on ya all.

I on the other am thinking this is going to be a second pot of coffee day

Countyfem · 01-30-2012, 11:53 AM

Good morning (or should I now say afternoon!) singles! Hope all have a wonderful Monday and that it continues on thru your week!

Mr Nice Guy · 01-30-2012, 07:25 PM

I was just told recently that I need a good Italian woman. Any out there?

Licious · 01-30-2012, 11:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Turtle

So, I was married for quite awhile and now I'm not. I've been keepin my head down mostly (I did have a few outlandish moments we shall not discuss) because I have not been able to have a reasonable thought about dating. It's been a looooong time. Conversatin' - I'm good at that, if you can stand me makin up words ;-)

I can be funny, I can go deep - sometimes too deep for some peeps, my funny is better in person cuz it usually involves my face and we might have to do distance coffee, but that's OK.

I am sooo looking forward to the superbowl - getting out to a party, meeting new folks, not so afraid to let people know I'm single anymore - sheeeesh! It's gettin better...

So, would you rather have a conversation with only facial expressions or only words?

What a great, thought provoking question! I have been going around with myself, wondering what would be better. I can see advantages in both. However, my love of verbage pulls on me to say ... finally... WORDS.

Turtle · 01-31-2012, 12:00 AM

Hi folks, sorry it's been a long day. If I go out straight from work, which I'm doing all week, I miss all the east coasty people :-(

The east coast-west coast thing can be problematic.

Yup, so I went out to dinner with a friend who has hearing aids, but being able to see your face during conversation really matters to her. I find the idea of totally communicating with just your face and your body intriguing...at least for one evening ;-)

uniquetobeme · 01-31-2012, 05:57 AM

Good morning everyone! I am so happy that it isn't Monday anymore!!! I hope everyone has an excellent day!

01-28-2012, 08:56 PM	#202
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Have a great and safe week end , Singles __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

01-29-2012, 11:16 PM	#204
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,974 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	waving to the singles been some time since my last date, so I am saying hello again. me: mature femme, like mature butches read: graying, 50 plus as I have health issues, and that slows me down, can't join the skiers and snowboarders. frequent rest a must. been through a lot of personal changes over the last few years, mostly for the better. wonder if there is an older butch who likes graying ladies who dig coffee and make good jokes. looking for the "lost art" of conversation...and a good attitude and compassion. is it me, or is this in short supply these days? seems age makes people grumpy. it's understandable with the aches and pains, as I have plenty myself... but I just don't feel I have enough years left to waste it on negativity wherever that can be helped. making new friends is good, romance is a plus. it all starts from friendship, yes? trying to keep up on the thread more... nice to meet you all, and hello to those I already know. __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

01-29-2012, 11:45 PM	#205
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Just passing by, hope everyone is having a wonderful day __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-29-2012, 11:57 PM	#206
uniquetobeme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: In an awesome relationship Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 98 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 464 Thanked 306 Times in 85 Posts Rep Power: 2537684	Finished my homework and getting ready to pass out for the night and get a little sleep before I go to work tomorrow and then off to school in the evening... So, I thought I'd wish everyone a great week! Hopefully Monday isn't too harsh on anyone I need to find something fun to do on Mondays so that I actually look forward to them...Too bad it can't be taking every Monday off from work! __________________ Unique

01-30-2012, 12:19 AM	#207
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Good Evening Everyone, I am currently at work and looking forward to going home in the morning! Have a great day! Zimmeh __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

01-28-2012, 08:38 PM	#201
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Still single and just hanging. Have a great weekend everyone.

01-30-2012, 12:23 AM	#208
Turtle Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A mixity Preferred Pronoun?: whatever Relationship Status: chillin Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: in a really really cute little place Posts: 2,144 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,442 Thanked 4,531 Times in 1,222 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	ah-huh... So, I was married for quite awhile and now I'm not. I've been keepin my head down mostly (I did have a few outlandish moments we shall not discuss) because I have not been able to have a reasonable thought about dating. It's been a looooong time. Conversatin' - I'm good at that, if you can stand me makin up words ;-) I can be funny, I can go deep - sometimes too deep for some peeps, my funny is better in person cuz it usually involves my face and we might have to do distance coffee, but that's OK. I am sooo looking forward to the superbowl - getting out to a party, meeting new folks, not so afraid to let people know I'm single anymore - sheeeesh! It's gettin better... So, would you rather have a conversation with only facial expressions or only words?

01-30-2012, 04:18 AM	#211
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hello everyone!! Still single here and hoping you all have a wonderful week.

01-30-2012, 04:30 AM	#212
fever Member How Do You Identify?: stonefemme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near Vancouver, B.C. Canada Posts: 592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 1,280 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 17783435	Monday, Monday Start of another week. Sending lots of good wishes to A/all. Candice

01-30-2012, 04:39 AM	#213
Spikester Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Boi, Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Atlanta, Ga Posts: 53 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4 Thanked 114 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 2118038	Good Morning to all the singles its Monday Everyone have a great week and that it goes Fast __________________ www.facebook.com/baby.boi.ty

01-30-2012, 07:17 AM	#214
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,220 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	g'mornin all! __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

01-30-2012, 10:17 AM	#215
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,498 Times in 655 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Good morning everyone. Monday has once again raised it's nasty head. I do everyone has a good day and it's not to rough on ya all. I on the other am thinking this is going to be a second pot of coffee day __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

01-30-2012, 11:53 AM	#216
Countyfem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NC Posts: 244 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 469 Thanked 932 Times in 211 Posts Rep Power: 9455031	hello all! Good morning (or should I now say afternoon!) singles! Hope all have a wonderful Monday and that it continues on thru your week!

01-30-2012, 07:25 PM	#217
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	I was just told recently that I need a good Italian woman. Any out there?

01-31-2012, 12:00 AM	#219
Turtle Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A mixity Preferred Pronoun?: whatever Relationship Status: chillin Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: in a really really cute little place Posts: 2,144 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,442 Thanked 4,531 Times in 1,222 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hi folks, sorry it's been a long day. If I go out straight from work, which I'm doing all week, I miss all the east coasty people :-( The east coast-west coast thing can be problematic. Yup, so I went out to dinner with a friend who has hearing aids, but being able to see your face during conversation really matters to her. I find the idea of totally communicating with just your face and your body intriguing...at least for one evening ;-)

01-31-2012, 05:57 AM	#220
uniquetobeme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: In an awesome relationship Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 98 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 464 Thanked 306 Times in 85 Posts Rep Power: 2537684	Good morning everyone! I am so happy that it isn't Monday anymore!!! I hope everyone has an excellent day! __________________ Unique