whats your style - Page 4

Inuus · 10-04-2011, 06:49 PM

I don't usually hunt...not my bag. I have before but it would be a rare occurrence.

1QuirkyKiwi · 10-05-2011, 11:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Apocalipstic

They want to date you because you are beutiful and you make them feel..you know...kinda butchy.

Thank you! I hadn't thought of it that way - I wonder how many Femmes are 'secret Butches'...... lol!

Trey339 · 10-18-2011, 02:18 PM

I am definately the Tiger in the equation,,,,tho I like my 'prey' to be equally enthralled,,and show it

macele · 10-18-2011, 04:05 PM

i have been told that i am a bold-ass butch LOL. i flirt, i can not lie.
i enjoy asking her a question that makes her laugh real big with a bit of shock lol. nothing vulgar, just a lil dirtysweet question.

i don't see myself as the hunter or the prey. if that's possible. she'll know if
i like her and vice versa. but i guess i do lean toward the prey lol. maybe.
and i have commitment issues. i'm not looking for promises, moving in. dating is a wonderful thing.

i'm laid back, ... so in the past i've waited too long to make my move lol.

two things for sure. i don't beg. i don't compete.

chai~ · 11-01-2011, 04:09 AM

I would say I am most definitely, prey.

Very shy at first, but when I start to feel comfy, I can be very flirty, and then I will need a 2x4 upside the head if someone is interested. I just don't "see" when someone is into me!

Would like to develop a hunter streak though! Take a walk on the wilder more assertive side! RAWR!!!!!

luv2luvgirls · 11-01-2011, 04:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by macele

i have been told that i am a bold-ass butch LOL. i flirt, i can not lie.
i enjoy asking her a question that makes her laugh real big with a bit of shock lol. nothing vulgar, just a lil dirtysweet question.

i don't see myself as the hunter or the prey. if that's possible. she'll know if
i like her and vice versa. but i guess i do lean toward the prey lol. maybe.
and i have commitment issues. i'm not looking for promises, moving in. dating is a wonderful thing.

i'm laid back, ... so in the past i've waited too long to make my move lol.

two things for sure. i don't beg. i don't compete.

yep.. dont beg or compete at all!! like this post Macele

thanks for your input

CockyDude · 11-01-2011, 04:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dixielady

Usually, I am the hunter. Although I will pretend to be the prey.

I chase them till they catch me. ;-)

Star Anise · 11-01-2011, 04:56 AM

I tend to like both really, each has its merits...

For example I find it quite pleasurable to be persued by a butch, to feel sexy and wanted.

But I do also enjoy the thrill of the chase, and the satisfaction of getting what you want!

CockyDude · 11-01-2011, 05:08 AM

Professionally, I have always been sought after so I haven't had to compete. Where women are concerned; hmmmm. I'm an unabashed flirter, even if I'm not interested in her. But if I see something I like, the hunt is on. And I will be relentless. I want what I want and I'm not leaving without it, dammit! LOL. Course, if there's a mutual attraction it's nice if she's got a little hunter in her too. There's nothing sexier than that initial "eye dance", the body language. Makes the hunt so much more sensual.

Random · 11-01-2011, 05:46 AM

Some of the time I'm a fairly agressive hunter... I'm not shy about letting someone know I'm interested.

Other times I'm a lazy hunter... I'm going to let you chase me until I catch you... grin...

Then there are those very rare times when someones energy blows me out of the water... Gulp... I go shy.. I go submissive... I can't talk...I tend to act like a idiot because I have NO idea how to attract the persons attention...
( Cringes at the memory of the last time this happened to me..)

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 11-01-2011, 08:47 AM

Years ago I started a screen name for myself in another life, calling myself "Gazelle". The story I told was that gazelles are swift and sleek animals, who are chased, often caught, and if they were very very lucky, devoured. I related totally to that idea. I WANTED to be chased, and I NEEDED that predator to want to devour me. I wanted and needed the fire of passion to overwhelm me, and us.

So I suppose I would say, for the most part, I would choose to be the prey. HOWEVER, there is a part of me that will answer back to that predator, giving back as much fire and energy and PUSH as she can take.

I had a scene once at a BDSM convention, a knife scene, where it started out with the Top coming to me with various knives. I was blindfolded at the time, and as the sensations and passion and fear built, I began to growl. the Top also started to growl back, almost in answer to my inner animal. Which upped my own gutteral sounds, back and forth between each of our inner animals. My wants and needs and DEMANDS for release were as strong as Hys.

One of the hottest scenes I have ever had the pleasure to partake in.

theoddz · 11-01-2011, 09:14 AM

I'm neither the "hunter" nor the "prey". I look for a woman I can be friends with, first. I consider "flirting" to be a mental thing. Once I have her friendship, I'll flirt. It's that friendship element that gets me into flirt mode.

If the flirting is too heavy, especially at first, I tend to become overwhelmed and skiddish....and I run.

I guess this is because I'm just painfully shy and introverted.

Let's be friends first, then once that's on fire, the flirting will begin.

Trust me.

~Theo~

sara-bera · 11-01-2011, 10:25 AM

I sort of need to be pursued... mostly because I'm not aggressive but also because I tend to be a bit dense when it comes to knowing when someone is interested. Honesty and clear communication are helpful, of course.

smouldering · 11-01-2011, 12:25 PM

Honestly, i am usually the prey, though depending on the circumstances i can also definitely be a mutual hunter, i am a flirt and a giggler

chai~ · 11-01-2011, 03:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

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I had a scene once at a BDSM convention, a knife scene, where it started out with the Top coming to me with various knives. I was blindfolded at the time, and as the sensations and passion and fear built, I began to growl. the Top also started to growl back, almost in answer to my inner animal. Which upped my own gutteral sounds, back and forth between each of our inner animals. My wants and needs and DEMANDS for release were as strong as Hys.

One of the hottest scenes I have ever had the pleasure to partake in.

well....THIS is fucken HOT!!!

chai~ · 11-01-2011, 03:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by theoddz

I'm neither the "hunter" nor the "prey". I look for a woman I can be friends with, first. I consider "flirting" to be a mental thing. Once I have her friendship, I'll flirt. It's that friendship element that gets me into flirt mode.

~Theo~

ditto! for me it's the mind set....I think this will determine if I CHOOSE to be the predator or the prey.

SugarFemme · 11-01-2011, 03:48 PM

Definitely prey. Even though it may sound old fashioned, I really enjoy the energy of a butch pursuing me, the femme. That person wanting and craving me and not being afraid to show me that in either words or actions. It's hot.

sweetee · 11-28-2012, 12:58 PM

I am definitely the prey...I like to be presued ...i would love to run across some butch who comes into my life by accident but stays on purpose ...just so hye could just make me smile and be my best friend and eventually my everything

Talon · 11-28-2012, 03:04 PM

I definitely want to be pursued...Unless you're shy>

...but, if I can tell that you're attracted to me...then I may just have to make that rare exception.

Rope · 11-28-2012, 10:47 PM

Snow lol---what an understatement

10-04-2011, 06:49 PM	#61
Inuus Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: Single Not Looking Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 265 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 242 Thanked 378 Times in 143 Posts Rep Power: 3733067	I don't usually hunt...not my bag. I have before but it would be a rare occurrence. __________________ “Kindness and compassion toward all living things is the mark of a civilized society.”- Cesar Chavez

11-01-2011, 04:56 AM	#68
Star Anise Member How Do You Identify?: Femme in boots. Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Free range femme. Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: St Kilda. Melbourne. Posts: 118 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 256 Thanked 538 Times in 87 Posts Rep Power: 4729075	I tend to like both really, each has its merits... For example I find it quite pleasurable to be persued by a butch, to feel sexy and wanted. But I do also enjoy the thrill of the chase, and the satisfaction of getting what you want! __________________ ~~Anise x http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/k...rsona/bfrs.jpg Who's my Daddi?

11-01-2011, 05:08 AM	#69
CockyDude Timed Out How Do You Identify?: FTM-man Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: What is today? Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Midwest Posts: 239 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 151 Thanked 420 Times in 141 Posts Rep Power: 0	Great thread Professionally, I have always been sought after so I haven't had to compete. Where women are concerned; hmmmm. I'm an unabashed flirter, even if I'm not interested in her. But if I see something I like, the hunt is on. And I will be relentless. I want what I want and I'm not leaving without it, dammit! LOL. Course, if there's a mutual attraction it's nice if she's got a little hunter in her too. There's nothing sexier than that initial "eye dance", the body language. Makes the hunt so much more sensual.

11-01-2011, 05:46 AM	#70
Random Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: back in the land of trees and snow Posts: 2,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,017 Thanked 5,327 Times in 1,379 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Some of the time I'm a fairly agressive hunter... I'm not shy about letting someone know I'm interested. Other times I'm a lazy hunter... I'm going to let you chase me until I catch you... grin... Then there are those very rare times when someones energy blows me out of the water... Gulp... I go shy.. I go submissive... I can't talk...I tend to act like a idiot because I have NO idea how to attract the persons attention... ( Cringes at the memory of the last time this happened to me..) __________________ ~Volunteer~ "It gets in your blood"

11-01-2011, 09:14 AM	#72
theoddz Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Old Poop Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. Beast Relationship Status: Happily Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 3,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,793 Thanked 9,862 Times in 2,473 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I'm neither the "hunter" nor the "prey". I look for a woman I can be friends with, first. I consider "flirting" to be a mental thing. Once I have her friendship, I'll flirt. It's that friendship element that gets me into flirt mode. If the flirting is too heavy, especially at first, I tend to become overwhelmed and skiddish....and I run. I guess this is because I'm just painfully shy and introverted. Let's be friends first, then once that's on fire, the flirting will begin. Trust me. *~Theo~* __________________ *"All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost."* -- J. R. R. Tolkien

10-18-2011, 02:18 PM	#63
Trey339 Member How Do You Identify?: Gq Butch Dom Preferred Pronoun?: Trey Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: united states Posts: 350 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 814 Thanked 864 Times in 216 Posts Rep Power: 8640662	I am definately the Tiger in the equation,,,,tho I like my 'prey' to be equally enthralled,,and show it

10-18-2011, 04:05 PM	#64
macele Member How Do You Identify?: a bold-assed maximus Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: mississippi Posts: 1,066 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,178 Thanked 3,239 Times in 849 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	i have been told that i am a bold-ass butch LOL. i flirt, i can not lie. i enjoy asking her a question that makes her laugh real big with a bit of shock lol. nothing vulgar, just a lil dirtysweet question. i don't see myself as the hunter or the prey. if that's possible. she'll know if i like her and vice versa. but i guess i do lean toward the prey lol. maybe. and i have commitment issues. i'm not looking for promises, moving in. dating is a wonderful thing. i'm laid back, ... so in the past i've waited too long to make my move lol. two things for sure. i don't beg. i don't compete.

11-01-2011, 04:09 AM	#65
chai~ Member How Do You Identify?: Self possessed Aquarian Preferred Pronoun?: Don't call me baby~ Relationship Status: Deliciously single and loving it. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: lotus land Posts: 1,173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,937 Thanked 3,383 Times in 864 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I would say I am most definitely, prey. Very shy at first, but when I start to feel comfy, I can be very flirty, and then I will need a 2x4 upside the head if someone is interested. I just don't "see" when someone is into me! Would like to develop a hunter streak though! Take a walk on the wilder more assertive side! RAWR!!!!!

11-01-2011, 08:47 AM	#71
ArkansasPiscesGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: feeling pretty darned blissful right now! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: central AR Posts: 856 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,594 Thanked 3,080 Times in 741 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Years ago I started a screen name for myself in another life, calling myself "Gazelle". The story I told was that gazelles are swift and sleek animals, who are chased, often caught, and if they were very very lucky, devoured. I related totally to that idea. I WANTED to be chased, and I NEEDED that predator to want to devour me. I wanted and needed the fire of passion to overwhelm me, and us. So I suppose I would say, for the most part, I would choose to be the prey. HOWEVER, there is a part of me that will answer back to that predator, giving back as much fire and energy and PUSH as she can take. I had a scene once at a BDSM convention, a knife scene, where it started out with the Top coming to me with various knives. I was blindfolded at the time, and as the sensations and passion and fear built, I began to growl. the Top also started to growl back, almost in answer to my inner animal. Which upped my own gutteral sounds, back and forth between each of our inner animals. My wants and needs and DEMANDS for release were as strong as Hys. One of the hottest scenes I have ever had the pleasure to partake in.

11-01-2011, 10:25 AM	#73
sara-bera Member How Do You Identify?: female Join Date: May 2011 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 1,161 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,687 Thanked 2,859 Times in 739 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I sort of need to be pursued... mostly because I'm not aggressive but also because I tend to be a bit dense when it comes to knowing when someone is interested. Honesty and clear communication are helpful, of course.

11-01-2011, 12:25 PM	#74
smouldering Member How Do You Identify?: Punky girly girl, glittery femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, etc. Relationship Status: Single, Recovering Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,288 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,306 Thanked 3,974 Times in 924 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Honestly, i am usually the prey, though depending on the circumstances i can also definitely be a mutual hunter, i am a flirt and a giggler __________________ ~~Smouldering~~ Suit the action to the word, the word to the action. ~William Shakespeare

11-01-2011, 03:48 PM	#77
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,463 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474850	Definitely prey. Even though it may sound old fashioned, I really enjoy the energy of a butch pursuing me, the femme. That person wanting and craving me and not being afraid to show me that in either words or actions. It's hot.

11-28-2012, 12:58 PM	#78
sweetee Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: hey sweet thang Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: nowhere Posts: 16 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 33 Thanked 46 Times in 11 Posts Rep Power: 1586904	I am definitely the prey...I like to be presued ...i would love to run across some butch who comes into my life by accident but stays on purpose ...just so hye could just make me smile and be my best friend and eventually my everything __________________ sweettee

11-28-2012, 03:04 PM	#79
Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,230 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	My style... I definitely want to be pursued...Unless you're shy>...but, if I can tell that you're attracted to me...then I may just have to make that rare exception.

11-28-2012, 10:47 PM	#80
Rope Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: polyamorous Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: San Francisco Posts: 304 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 79 Thanked 1,279 Times in 212 Posts Rep Power: 8577863	Snow lol---what an understatement __________________ www.ButchFemmeSocials.com

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