Butches: How do you like to be romanced?

[luv2luvgirls]

I would agree with the post's on putting thought and time into romancing me...but yeah a lil boob action dont hurt

I like when its the little details someone shows me they picked up on.

[Gaige]

Originally Posted by dixielady

I usually do that "move" without even realizing it! (Somehow I even accomplished it with HD, in the middle of Walmart when we were picking up things we forgot on our trip LOL)

Glad to know I'm not the only one, and that it's not necessarily a bad thing!

After the first few times i thought it was unintentional. Then as it continued, i started to wonder. I try to never assume anything which is why i came right out and asked you :laughin: either way, intentional or not, i enjoyed it

[The cute widdle wesbian]

Hmm ... let's see. I'm a very simple person, it doesn't take much, but it depends on how long I've been with this girl. Like, if we've been together for a while, we're committed to each other, etc etc, I like to be touched a lot. That's all it really takes, and I'm not talking sexually but just kinda touched. My arm, my knee, my ears (I love that lol), Idk it's kind of a gesture that she wants to be near me. That's how my cute widdle simpleton brain processes it anyway. I don't need material things generally, it's just not necessary.

If it's a first date, and really this works for the whole relationship, but when it's too early on for a little of touching and kissing, I'm usually the romancer. lol, I'm usually always the romancer anyway. But if a femme really wants to sweep me off my feet on the first few dates, I like to be taken somewhere I wanna go, I like to do things that I wanna do, and I like the gesture that she actually wants to be with me doing something I like, even if she doesn't find it to be a perfect blast. Haha, I'm not a boring person but sometimes what I like to do isn't what everyone else likes. An example of that is I was hanging out with a GF at my place after about 2 or 3 weeks of dating. A day was devoted to my favorite sitcom that I love. I was watching my show all day, while talking to her and doing the sweet stuff I try to do, and I asked her if she wanted to do something else. She goes, "No, I don't like this show but I just love your smile." Little things like that make me happy.

[bigbutchmistie]

I posted earlier what I like.. But I also think more and more the older I get the more about show and tell I am.. Meaning.. show me your interested, as we date with actions and gestures of affection... After being committed dont stop. It should only get better

[Rockinonahigh]

When I was younger I was as clueless as to any femme being intrested in me,green as grass I shure was.Over time I sorta caught on pretty well if someone was intrested or not,but all they were intrested in was a wife for a night date or moveing in not longer after hello how are ya,back then nither of them worked well at all cause I really was very buisey with jobs,my very young kids so I was very carefull in who I went out with.Over the years I havent changed much just got smarter,beleave less BS and really am looking for someone who isnt a player or has the U haul warmed up and ready to go.
With this being said,I really would like that if someone is intrested in me for them to let me know,I know I can be kinda dense but thats what life dose to us older guys after awhile.Its nce if we have some common ground in what we like,our political views,respect each other,become friends first most definatly keep an open mind that as anyone gets to know me they will learn im not the stodgy old bookworm you thought I could be.It will be a wild ride for the one fourtunate enough to be brave enough to try.

[ruffryder]

Know that I like my coffee black in the morning, have some available for me if we are spending the night together, make it for me. This shows you are thinking of me and care what I like.

If I bring you to my friends or family function, please help them out with the service, food. This shows me you are a kind, respectful person and appreciate the hospitality.

Appreciate the things (especially little things) I do for you. Telling me makes me feel good and I'll do it more.

I had a girl that made me cards and keepsakes of significant things that meant something to us. She would also pick out all the green m&m’s and give them to me. She would make little notes for me to find. She would surprise me and make my favorite meals and desserts. We would cook together. She would put on lingerie for me. Some girls unlock or reach over and open my door for me, I like this. Again, shows she is thinking of me also after I just opened her door.

Girls always say they want the guy to take initiative and ask on dates, etc. sometimes it’s nice to know a girl is interested in me and wants to date me. I like a feisty, firey, witted, silly girl. Be yourself! Take an interest in my interests, challenge me, lets laugh a lot and be playful and sexy together!

Brush on my leg or arm, head on my shoulder, get close to me. If I hold your hand or kiss your cheek or neck and you like it, tell me. Let me control the kissing. . nothing worse than a girl sticking her tongue in my mouth if we haven’t kissed yet. Haha. I think I’m a pretty good kisser and can control it with whatever the moment is. :P

Share food, feed me. Send music to each other about how we are feeling.

Most importantly, be honest. If you like me show me, tell me. If you don't, tell me. Nothing worse than dragging someone along that is not interested.

I know this is a lot but really I'm simple most of it has to do with actions and showing me you are interested and being respectful to each other.

To all the girls like this, you rock and roll. I HEART YOU! (:

[bigbutchmistie]

Please have brains and know how to carry on a conversation.

I love to laugh and be goofy. I will always be myself please just be yourself. If you are quiet and reserved we probably wont get along.

Keep your past relationships in the past. Thats where mine are

Dont talk to me about sex. Im very old fashioned when it comes to this. And talking about it, and expecting me to fuck you soon will run me off.

I wanna be able to just talk and communicate about anything and everything. The only boundary topic while dating is sex.

Show appreciation for the things I do for you.

Be verbal and show your interest in me. Appreciate I am a 2x4 butch. If I dont think your interested even if I like you, I wont ask for another date.

Having integrity, class, and manners will make love to my mind first and are all ways to get me to want more time with you.

Im a Gemini. If you cant capture me on the first date chances are there will never be a second.


Oh yea let me add :

I am very chivalrous. I love opening doors, pouring your wine, pulling your chair out, and holding your hand. Please know that when I do these things I feel like a King, and I will only treat you as a Queen. I have been known to spoil my dates rotten. Not with material things but how I treat them.

It might be a carriage ride in Downtown Dallas

It might be a picnic in an arboretum or on the lake watching the sunset

It might be grabbing some fast food and some Red Box movies for a night of movies

It might be going to a resturaunt

It might be going to a comedy club

It might be doing all sorts of low key different things.

It will bring me joy to treat you like a Queen provided you are on you are being yourself. .

[bigbutchmistie]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Please have brains and know how to carry on a conversation.

I love to laugh and be goofy. I will always be myself please just be yourself. If you are quiet and reserved we probably wont get along.

Keep your past relationships in the past. Thats where mine are

Dont talk to me about sex. Im very old fashioned when it comes to this. And talking about it, and expecting me to fuck you soon will run me off.

I wanna be able to just talk and communicate about anything and everything. The only boundary topic while dating is sex.

Show appreciation for the things I do for you.

Be verbal and show your interest in me. Appreciate I am a 2x4 butch. If I dont think your interested even if I like you, I wont ask for another date.

Having integrity, class, and manners will make love to my mind first and are all ways to get me to want more time with you.

Im a Gemini. If you cant capture me on the first date chances are there will never be a second.


Oh yea let me add :

I am very chivalrous. I love opening doors, pouring your wine, pulling your chair out, and holding your hand. Please know that when I do these things I feel like a King, and I will only treat you as a Queen. I have been known to spoil my dates rotten. Not with material things but how I treat them.

It might be a carriage ride in Downtown Dallas

It might be a picnic in an arboretum or on the lake watching the sunset

It might be grabbing some fast food and some Red Box movies for a night of movies

It might be going to a resturaunt

It might be going to a comedy club

It might be doing all sorts of low key different things.

It will bring me joy to treat you like a Queen provided you are on you are being yourself. .

I should have simply put if you wanna a Knight then act like a Lady that deserves one.

My every day actions are that of a Knight and only Ladies intrigue me

[Stud_puppy1991]

I'm a simplistic, yet a good blend of classic and new romantic. And, I'm a rather gentle butch, like a gentle knight, so I find anything absolutely romantic. I love it when my girl sticks little notes in my pocket, or pampers me with a nice dinner and some wine and some massaging or a hot shower or bath with candles. A mix CD is sweet too, and a goodnight text and Good Morning text always melts me. And on some occasions, I like them to dress to entice. Mmmm

[CockyDude]

I read all these posts. Very nice. But being the shallow ass I am I can easily be had with;
Blondes, beer, bikes, good music.
Seeing a pattern here? Lol

[bigbutchmistie]

Oh yea I should add .....

Mean what you say. Say what you mean. And dont be flaky. The key to trust is consitensy and reliability.

If I cant trust you in the little things, chances are I will never trust you at all with anything.

[macele]

romance should be easy, creative. easy as in holding my hand. creative as in writing something naughty and/or sweet on my toast/bread with honey or mustard etc. then when i see it, ... i'd like for her to say, "let me watch you lick it off."

is that flirting or romance? lol

surely this would not be on a first date though. or even a second LOL.

[xxzalciaiomenxx]

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

[bigbutchmistie]

Originally Posted by xxzalciaiomenxx

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

You are one lucky dude!

[Nurse Darlin]

Originally Posted by xxzalciaiomenxx

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

All because I love you!!!!!!!!!!

[xxzalciaiomenxx]

Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

You are one lucky dude!

Oh but I knw iu am! She is my heart and soul, and with her by my side I am all but invincible.

[Stitch]

I like being kissed on the cheek
I like being woken up by a phone call in the morning
And I also like sweet little random notes.

I'm pretty simple.

Now how come I can't find a femme.

[JAGG]

Originally Posted by macele

romance should be easy, creative. easy as in holding my hand. creative as in writing something naughty and/or sweet on my toast/bread with honey or mustard etc. then when i see it, ... i'd like for her to say, "let me watch you lick it off."

is that flirting or romance? lol

surely this would not be on a first date though. or even a second LOL.

That is sexy! I love it !

[Skittlesluver]

Surprise me...Be spontaneous...Most of all be sincere...if its from the heart...how can I not feel romanced?

[Jett]

I'm a passionate and affectionate person, I require the same. I enjoy old style romance or just plain sexy attention... physical and mental... a card, a rose, a touch... a unexpected sexy whisper in a public place.

Cooking for me, feeding each other- I think making and sharing food can be very intimate, I also enjoy cooking for her on occasion though I'm more BBQ and soup master material than anything too fancy... but I do cook what I cook very well.

Random texts :* let's you know she's thinking of you

Occasional breakfasts in bed

As far as gifts the greatest gift one can give to me is themselves, be open and share life and dreams with me.

Lastly, I am a romantic and expect it to carry on through the years together... romance shouldn't wane with time.