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I friggen LOVE to cook, I like to scrapbook, take photos and a bunch of other stuff. It doesn't define me, and you shouldn't let your love of doing "things" define you either my friend.
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Thanks Corkey! I don't now, I love it all too! But when I was younger I let myself be led around by the nose by my so-called peers, now, I'm happy being me and not pretending any more, like me, love me, or hate me, I'm not changing a damn thing for anything but my own benefit!
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Now that is a whole different story. I believe my reaction came from the delivery.
Pissing - Cock penning and henning... Sleeping with femme friends (lol). I know Dreamer who lives in Australia has the same issues. No real B/F community. Makes perfect sense.
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I'm with Merlin here, I have no gay community around me at all, I think there may be some lesbians within 30 miles of me, but it's too far for me to travel, it's an hour and a half bus journey to get to the nearest scene for me, and then I have to leave by no later than 7pm because otherwise I can't get back home again. It can be seriously isolated here somedays, which is why I personally rely so heavily on the internet and sites like this, because otherwise I'd never get a chance in hell to interact with other people in the B-F dynamic, which, for me, is a way of life now!
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Yes,i know of some lesbians but they don't like butches as we have a tiny wiff of testosterone . .
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I know,
It really makes things hard. Thank the lord for bfp and other sites.
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you n Tyler when you visited us in the TN. And I consider U a friend also. No Machismo was injured during the Batcave gathering! Well, lol...'cept maybe Kye, but that's another Topic all together. Demeanor and overall disposition is felt like energy. Relaxed and content vs Boisterous and belligerent I haz a Groovy Energy Meter Some folks set it off. Some folks, not so much.
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awww look at my lil boy..he is taller than me now and so skinny...im older,uglier and heavier---think Jo and her cooking has something to do with that--the weight that is As i told u in rep Day..he still remembers u..thought u were really cool...that was a good day!
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In my 20s it was andro lesbians.
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i hear what your saying June and i totally agree...perhaps that why i never experienced a lot of the other things i have seen posted on here--i.e snide remarks,looks,the ugliness of stupid ppl etc---i was too busy attracting people like this in my life to deal with real issues....im so glad i finally grew up |
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I have a mixture of both, but i do have a lot of butch friends. Most of mine are womanizers. and, then some try to wear the pants in the relationship. i have one butch friend that is doing basic in the Navy. other than that, most of the others are femmes, not that i mind.
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Having Butch friendships has always been important to me, and when I lived in England, the US and Australia, always chose locations where “community’ was strong- and often had to sacrifice much to do so.
Never in a Butch/Femme Community have I felt anything but respect shown for relationships, and much thought given to what is deemed acceptable behaviour. I have never experienced the posturing or competitive behaviour that has been mentioned here, from any group of Butches - but instead found it to be “typical” within the andro, lesbian community- where perhaps it has been my own fault for not understanding any of the protocols. Issues of everyone being everyone’s ex, friends becoming lovers becoming friends are all things that confuse me- I’m a simple person, I understand Butch/Femme dynamics- when lines get blurred, no matter how much I squint, I can’t follow the storyline. I’m old and cranky enough to no longer tolerate lack of protocols, and for me, nothing irritates me more than a lesbian who believes that Butch is a fashion statement, and who after putting on the “butch look” proceeds to behave like an adolescent boy with his first set of car keys. Perhaps these are the “cocks” that are being discussed, I don’t know, but what I do know is that without my Butch friendships my life would have been very different.
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I don't even know what to say to this (strange for me) except for what has already been said....Wow!!! My best friend is a butch and we could share a bed with nothing happening except sleep
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^ not sure I know what you mean ? Lol ..
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Over the years, i've always had way more butch friends than femme ones.
However in the past 6 months or so, I have been achieving something i wanted for a long time, which was some real close femme relationships. Friends are good to have no matter how they ID. A true friend is someone that don't just walk into your life needing or wanting and then disappear on you. Even if you sleep with them, IMO. They stay, no matter what....butch or femme, male or female, no matter what the ID....a true friend is a magical gift that i value and respect and know that i'm damn lucky to have these people in my life. Rock on.
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