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02-03-2012, 09:30 AM
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Morning all you lofters! It's FRIDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY....hope the weekend is awesome for all of you. I can't wait to watch Super Bowl!! grin..
Go GIANTS!!!! Incredibly awesome day here....still in shorts and tank top....LOVE it!!! Anyone up for some myschief...gimme a holla....grin. Hugs to all..Clay
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02-03-2012, 11:04 AM
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Good Afternoon
It is another beautiful day here. Just took a walk and headed off to work. Hope all of you amazing people are blessed today. Good news is on the way.
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02-04-2012, 03:51 PM
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afternoon all you lofters...hope everyone is having an awesome day..it is truly gorgoeus here. Weather is in high 70's and sunny, blue skies.
I can't wait til tomnorrow for Super Bowl! Sushi & Super Bowl..yummmmm! Sending hugs and wishes for a fantastic weekend to all!!! GO GIANTS!!!!! yay!!!!!
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02-05-2012, 11:31 AM
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Hi folks, sorry I haven't been on much. Lots going on! Family and friends have been quite ill lately so lots to take care of. Still job hunting... yuck!
On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure! Have a great superbowl sunday! Ruthie |
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02-05-2012, 11:40 AM
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On the bright side..very bright side.. I have had a few dates with nycbutch. One of the sweetest people I have ever met! We are having tons of fun and getting to know one another is an adventure!
Ruthie[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/QUOTE] Hey Ruthie: That is just awesome. I am so very happy for you! Enjoy that time..and let it evolve..slowly...and YOU are a beautiful woman..and hy is a lucky butch! Grin..hugs..Clay
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02-05-2012, 11:43 AM
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riseeeee & shineeee everyone..it is SUPERBOWL Sunday! Go GIANTS!!!!
How has everyone's weekend gone? Mine is a great one. Enjoyed the gorgeous weather and sunny skies..and of course my "eternal" shorts and tanks!! lol. Been busy with friends and doing things. Going to get some sushi rolls later this afternoon and watch the game (IF I can get this damned passive dig. receiver antennae AND Universal remote synched with my damn TV...grrrr) where the heck is my techno geek....  Have an awesome Sunday everyone..hugs to all....laterz...beautiful peeps...Clay
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02-05-2012, 11:52 AM
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02-05-2012, 12:00 PM
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OMG... HANDSOME. I USE TO RAISE AUSSIE DOGGIES.... HAHA..very cute siggy pic..
gawwd i miss my Hiedi ...I am hangin here in Nashville land... my co driver is no longer drivin with me  ... ad wow as crazy as it seems... ha... i sure miss hys hym.. ahh well.we have our cell's and hoping to play some games of words/ scrabble wwith hym. even with all the fussin at times... and living in this small space 24/7 , your ok there ((((((((((Electrocell))))))))))))) missn you. clay.... howdy yep is super bowl time for sure. i havnt been here that much.... my laptop is laggin and havign issues with the key board.. making my typo's worse then my speling.. LOL i took off a lo of video's nd pics.. and put them all on a flash drive.. but its still slow... i have a Noton program. but still having issues.. sooooo i think a trip to a computer techie.. maybe in order very soon. and get tis ting a tune up.. heh
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02-05-2012, 03:08 PM
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Ruthie,
I'm sorry for all the sickness in your family and friends,I know how it is. Its the pitts. I'm glad you have found someone to date and havr fun. I'm happy for you. Shoot that means I don't stand a chance.LOL You desurve someone. |
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02-05-2012, 04:05 PM
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do we have to be a paid member to have a pic in our siggy line now??
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02-06-2012, 12:05 PM
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Hey hey hey all you lofters...how is everyone's day going this AM? Great day here..as always...nice day weatherwise,. too!
Sending big hugs out to all of you...where is everyone...lol... It's Monday Monday...lol..laterz peeps
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02-07-2012, 10:11 AM
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Dropping by to say hello to all. I hope your week is going well. I am in my young 40's none the less here lol.
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02-07-2012, 11:11 AM
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Oldie but a Goodie
Ahh nice to see so many "seasoned" ladies and gents....this thread is a great place to discuss what our generation faces....look forward to some enlightening discussion. Here's a question to start things off....Do you think we as "older" persons should be limited to a particular age range when dating?
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02-07-2012, 11:20 AM
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Good Afternoon, Lofters; Just popping in to say hello and see how everyone has been. We are enjoying this unseasonably warm, snowless weather. Lord, I hope it doesn't all hit us in April!
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02-07-2012, 11:54 AM
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I, for one, don't think that we should be limited--within reason, of course. This is especially true for older femmes. Here in the B-F community, we often are subjected to traditional het social rules; ie femmes only date older butches. For some of us, that's just fine. For others, that's very uncomfortable on many levels. Let me explain. When you are dipping into your sunset years, the number of available older butches is quite limited. That means your dating pool is smaller than a thimble. That can make some of us resign ourselves to an easy chair and watch life pass us by. For myself, in general I prefer the energy of younger people, butch or femme, straight or gay. Their fresh view on life, their raw courage to try new things, their stamina amazes me. That's one reason I've covered music for so long. Younger people keep me young and keep me looking forward toward the next sunrise. But to date? I prefer someone a bit younger (or someone who has that same youthful attack on life). But my cut off is about 20 years my junior. Once someone is in their 40s the age and generational barriers dissolve. It's a matter of personal charisma and, of course, integrity. |
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Young folk can be fun and exhilarating and exhausting. Been there, done that, have the tattoo as a reminder  I prefer the wisdom and settledness that comes with age.
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I must totally echo Kobi. There are so many things that come with age and experience.
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02-08-2012, 05:08 AM
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morning lofters
my laptop is stil having issues.... it realy needs to get to a comuter place soon..for some debugging or something.. dating and age .... good topic.... i am 56 ... i dont feel 56 lol.. but do tend to stick to the age group of 45 to 60 in the datin dept. ... the conversations are more in tune with each other, like a common ground , on lifes experiences. ok i have a long day today... a drive to the reservation with my mom, then tractor supply store.. ha love that place... lunch.. and who knows. have a awsome day everyone.
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02-09-2012, 09:25 AM
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Morning all, Finally in the new house! What a ride. Now to relax and enjoy it.
Have already laid out new flower beds in my mind! So glad spring is just around the corner. Hope everyone has a wonderful day... 
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