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04-13-2011, 07:46 PM
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What TO DO in a relationship.....
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04-13-2011, 07:47 PM
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08-04-2011, 05:09 PM
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NEVER TAKE THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH FOR GRANTED. MAKE EACH DAY COUNT.
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08-04-2011, 05:11 PM
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08-04-2011, 05:21 PM
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Always treat her like the Princess she is! Let the same wonderful, silly, romantic loving emotions remain constant!
Be able to "walk the walk as well as talk the talk" Be best friends! Never, ever go to bed angry or leave angry! Make your bedroom the loving fields NOT a battle field. Allow for one another to have the girls/ nights and the bois' nights. Don;t try to be joined at the hip! Remember special dates.....make an ordinary day be a SPECIAL day...for no reason other than she IS special and your Princess! Make love to her in every way...be it a special lunch packed with a love note in it OR a lipsticked I LOVE YOU on the mirror....or maybe just spend quiet, cuddle time alone...kissing slowly, and caressing her shoulders... Leave a single rose on her windsheild at work. Pack a special picnic and whisk her away from on a surprise visit. Tell her how amazingly wonderful she is. Let your heart be open and forgiving of small, inconsequential stuff Protect her fiercely always!!! never lose a second to tell her how you feel....this is very important to me...and I live by it...whether in a new beginning or a longer relationship...for I am always living the day as if it were my last...we none of us know when that will come for each of us. NOT being morbid just accepting reality! Always ler her believe she IS right!!! Compliment her.... Hug her tightly...every day! Accept her for who she is...and likewise! Let her know she is always your Princess! Not all inclusive but what is on my heart at this moment! Write and read erotica to her Dance in bed... Spoil her These are written from my heart and I may add more later...
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04-13-2011, 07:48 PM
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04-13-2011, 08:28 PM
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I disagree. I have to sometimes have time to process. I need a night for my internal soul to talk it out to my silly self. I actually wake up and understand it all and can work it out at the breakfast table with smoothness. But I need that night to process in my sleep....
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04-13-2011, 08:31 PM
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Bathe regularly.
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04-13-2011, 08:39 PM
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other than the basics of love respect honesty...
never make tv the only thing that stays on in the bedroom
keep alcohol and drugs to a minimum in regard to intimacy. Its an issue if its the only way you can face being who you are and being with who you are with (meaning, the same sex) keep your own house clean. I mean that literally. I dont want to hear one more time about how bad a butch is about keeping up a house. Bullshit. I am not interested in becoming someone's house slave and then having a white glove judgement determine my femininity. You want me to keep your sink clean? Show me how well you keep it clean yourself. Tit for tat. if you plan on loving me, dont tell me later you didnt understand what I meant when i said I love horses and big dogs. At this point in my life, that is grounds for skinning you alive and wearing you for chaps (oh wait..is this one for the other thread?)
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04-13-2011, 09:00 PM
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Create together...
Date nights... Dance in the living room... Prepare meals together... Remember it is okay to disagree but it doesn't need to turn into a full on war... If you find talking about something hard right a letter... Notes... Appreciate the person you are with... Respect one another... Remember that every day isn't always a good day and that is okay... The little things... They matter... |
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04-13-2011, 10:09 PM
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Sing your favorite songs together
 Take long drives Be considerate of each others thoughts and feelings Share your thoughts and feelings Be honest Don't use their past against them Schedule at-home date nights, cook dinner together and then cuddle and watch a movie Buy flowers Never go to bed angry Kiss in the morning, before bed, and as many times as you can in between Hold hands in public Always ask them how their day was, and honestly and sincerely listen Laugh Love with an open heart Don't be afraid to take a chance Understand the difference between needing them and being needy Dance along to the radio Have some alone time away from home (cabin on the lake, camping) |
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04-13-2011, 08:01 PM
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Talk to each other about everything even the hard stuff
take the time to show her how you feel actions do speak louder then words make each other laugh kiss her every chance you get be honest be true but be kind let her share your world for she wants to be part of you never ever take each other for granted tomorrow is not promised take time for the two of you to walk in the rain hold her close when she is sad kiss the tears away AND Cowboi don't you ever forget she is a lady and should be treated as such open her door walk her to her car before work bring her flowers just because 
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04-13-2011, 08:10 PM
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04-13-2011, 08:14 PM
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Remember to say *Please* & *Thank you*
Listen and hear what is being said... Be patient... Be kind... |
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04-13-2011, 08:22 PM
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Always assume good intent ... and have it yourself too.
Say "I love you" and mean it...frequently. Be faithful...not just physically, but also emotionally, verbally...and especially in your own head and heart. Talk it out...and if you find yourself shouting, take a breath, and keep talking. Do the little things that show your love to your partner...in our case it's jello and foot rubbing (not together  )Spend time together....just the two of you. It doesn't have to be a fancy date....take a walk, go to the garden center, sit outside and enjoy the day. Remember that they're human and make mistakes....and the same goes for you. Remember why you got together in the first place. 
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04-14-2011, 08:28 AM
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No matter how mad you are, reach out and touch - literally - just before you go to sleep.
There is nothing as lonely or as crazy making as being in bed next to the person you love but being too hurt/proud/indignant to ask for a hug. Don't make them ask. Just do it. Words |
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04-14-2011, 08:33 AM
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04-14-2011, 08:45 AM
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Me? I need some kind of physical contact just before W/we go to sleep regardless of who's mad with the other. Nothing sexual, just a 'so okay, one of us is mad now but it'll all be okay in the morning' kind of touch. And, to be honest, nine times out of ten it is. Words |
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04-14-2011, 06:55 PM
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04-19-2011, 12:36 PM
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hmmmmm...
don't forget to take care of yourself... if you are not meeting your own personal needs, those can sometimes shift to your partner... which can be an overwhelming thing. you love your partner so easily... don't forget to love yourself!
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