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Old 01-03-2011, 10:37 PM   #1
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

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Event?

Exercise?

Experience?

Hobby?

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Love?

Meal?

Memory?

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What did I do for myself this year?

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?

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Old 01-03-2011, 11:01 PM   #2
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Oh hell you don't ask for much eh? LOL I will have to come back to this one, need to put on my thinking cap...
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lol I did the same thing... After I posted it.. I thought holly hell.. I need some time to think about it myself.. lol
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? seeing my daughter graduate from college with her teaching degree!

Adventure? the day I put on a strap on

Book? the reader

Event? the family christmas

Exercise? I will keep that to myself....

Experience? my hiatal hernia surgery where I found out I had a collapsed lung

Hobby? I would deny it but it seems health care

Idea? to put in a strawberry garden

Lesson that I am not submissive

Love? love only will come when other needs are fed and honored

Meal? beets

Memory? 200 kids petting my near dead dog and bringing her back to life

Movie? where the wild things are

Song? I dont listen to pop but anything by susan boyle

TV Show? proeject runway

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... I bought Rose Cottage!

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... other areas of my health fell apart

What did I do for myself this year?
bought a house, put in a huge garden, dyed my hair
What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
dyed my hair, remain single, leave the garden undone at the end of the season
If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?
not eaten all them damn cookies! LOL
If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?
employed or on SSDI. I need some form of income already, dammit!
What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
employment or SSDI, a horse, more gardeningWhat are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
more FemDom, more BDSM, and an operation for my lung
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? The day I began testosterone

Adventure? Beginning My journey to becoming Matthew

Book? Didn't read much, if at all, this year but I loved getting every issue of Weight Watchers magazine and reading all the wonderful articles

Event? Getting My *T* prescription and getting My first shot

Exercise? I didn't do much of that lol

Experience? Coming out as FTM, finally being able to be Myself

Hobby? Getting more into My cross-stitch

Idea? Didn't have many of those this year, atleast not any that lead to anything productive

Lesson? To be Myself, no matter what ~ I can't keep living for everyone else, I *HAVE* to live for Me or I wont be happy

Love? Had what I thought was true love but lost it - things happen

Meal? Oh gosh I don't know lol

Memory? Starting My transition

Movie? Despicable Me

Song? Raise Your Glass by Pink

TV Show? No Ordinary Family

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Starting My transition ~ seems to be a common these amongst the best things to happen to Me in 2010

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Going through My gallbladder surgery

What did I do for myself this year? Not much, but thats usually how My life goes

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway? Have surgery, come out completely & chance losing a friend to come out

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? Losing weight, only for My health

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? Moving out on My own, no matter how scared I am

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011? Manage My depression better, not stay cooped up in the house all the time and see a psychiatrist to work on past life issues

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011? Get My own apartment, make a life for Myself & not be so scared of living
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? Christmas Eve (I got "arrested" by the APD!)

Adventure? Any road trip with Candace in the car is an adventure!

Book? Snow Flower & The Secret Fan

Event? The 1st Reunion

Exercise? Treadmill, baby

Experience? Volunteering at the children's hospital here

Hobby? Taking my painting to a whole new level (I sold my first piece on New Year's Eve! Cuttin' it close, huh?)

Idea? See above! Graduated from paper to canvas, etc....

Lesson? Purging is good.

Love?

Meal? Ribs with Verity at Saltlick....Holy Mother of Gay.

Memory? The letters from my daughter in the spring.

Movie? Robin Hood (Russell Crowe)

Song? Galileo (Josh Groban)

TV Show? Thursday night comedies

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Volunteering

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... My daughter being arrested.

What did I do for myself this year? Purged. Downsized.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway? Treadmill work. Paid off a large bill that had been looming over me.

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? Be more productive.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? Marry.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011? 1. Don't sweat the small stuff. 2. Change what I can change. 3. Be a better volunteer.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011? 1. Get a job. 2. Have more courage to do what I need to do for me. 3. Make more friends.
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2010 memories...

Day..wow lets see..hummm.The day my son told me he was geting his master mechanics licence,im really proud of him.For myself,the day I won my first league pool game.im dyslic so anything with lines,curves and angles can be a chalenge.

Adventure.No real adventre last year,maybe this year.

Book.The last Templar..Its a book about what ppl beleave or not and if we found out it wasnt true,would you have the depth of true humanity to keep it to yourself no mater what you may gain for the sake of so many.

Event.Going back to work in a feild I left 40yrs ago.

Exersise?As much as I can.I have a lot of equipment..I should look lile a body builder..not.

Experence..Geting to know a fue femms hear at the planet..they rock.

Hobby.Playing pool and joining a league team..lots of fun.

Idea.Wow a tough one cause this last year has been about reclameing me and my life the way I am happy with.

Lesson..Im ok just the way I am.

Love.I have talked to and pm'd a fue sweet ladies hear at the planet..made some fine freinds as well.

Meal.Cobbs bbq,a hole in the wall place that has been hear forever..yummm.

Memorie?Looking at family pics and remembering the good times when life was much simpler.

Movie..Avatar

Song...An oldie but goodie...Thank you for being a friend.

Show..Servivor, hands down.

Best thing that happend to me in 2010..Going back to work,it saved my sanity.

Worst thing ...finaly comeing to the realisation I was going to have to let the docs do what they can for my back in juries.

What did I do for my self this year?Got rid of some mental baggage,quit smokeing,got rid of the toxic ppl in my life.

3 things I was reluctant to do but did anyway.I broke some old habbits that were not good for me(ciggies)..got up of my lasy ass and took charge of liveing right...its was easy to just sit and do nada..let go of some bad feelings that had been hanging round.

What would I change about myself in 2011..Be more open to ppl,live life with more vigor..take more chanches...the right kind of corse.

3 things I was reluctant to do,but want to do in 2011..Make more friends,take more and better care of me,maybe meet someone who will take a chanch on an old bachelor set in his ways.
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? 4am August 20th

Adventure? Voodoo Festival

Book? The Dragon's Apprentice

Event? The REUNION...Hands Down!

Exercise? The roman chair thingie

Experience? Falling in love at first sight for the second time in my life.

Hobby? Music with The Boy

Idea? An idea? Wow...Deciding to go to Voodoo Festival I guess.

Lesson? To let The Boy enjoy music festivals however he wants, as long as we're together it's all good.

Love? Finally meeting Dixielady in person.

Meal? The fried green tomatoes with crawfish etouffe sauce appetizer in N'awlins.

Memory? Bourbon Street on Halloween Night

Movie? Man...what did I watch last year....hmmmm Oh yeah! Alice in Wonderland

Song? Little Lion Man - Mumford and Sons

TV Show? Wizards of Waverly Place or Phineas and Ferb, it'd have to be a toss up.

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Deciding to go to the Reunion after all because a certain someone was going to be there and wanted a little "adventure". *giggle*

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Having to finally put Mom in a nursing home.

What did I do for myself this year? Continued trudging forward on my Master degree.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
Put Mom in the nursing home.
Let The Boy be away from my side for a minute at Bonnaroo.
Can't remember a third that was significant enought to remember. *shrug*


If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? My negative attitude.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? My employement/job.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
I will start a regular regimen of accupuncture to get my chi in order.
I will begin exercising again to make my body feel better.
I will spend time meditating and thinking positively.


What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
I wouldn't say I 'want' to do it, but I will have to go back to a real job this year and work day hours.
I want to explore/learn more about being a boi and a Papi. Obviously not both at the same time.
I want to learn more about being switch.


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The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Deciding to go to the Reunion after all because a certain someone was going to be there and wanted a little "adventure". *giggle*
*ahem* Not supposed to tell some things...LOL
What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? any day I get with her

Adventure? Hmm...that's hard. Either LR or Nawlins

Book? probably one of the darn Twilight ones

Event? Reunion

Exercise? HA! oh wait...sex can be an exercise

Experience? Nawlins was amazing

Hobby? photography

Idea?I have those?

Lesson? hmm...taking the chance instead of always choosing to miss out

Love? Pajara is my heart

Meal? Seriously? I have to pick just one???

Memory? I have a gazillion wonderful memories. I can't narrow that down.

Movie? hmm...Eclipse LOL

Song? wayyyy too many of those to choose

TV Show? anything on the I.D. channel

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... that's easy...Pajara

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... um...I pretty much forgot the bad stuff once she made her appearance...lol

What did I do for myself this year? signed up for school finally, after waiting for years

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
- let my son go to middle school (he's growing up TOO FAST!!!)
- actually get up the nerve to look into the school thing
- take a chance on love with someone who turned out to be perfect for me


If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?
my health

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?
possibly shorten some distances

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
- hopefully quit smoking
- start eating better
- get into a good routine/pattern to maintain health and happiness


What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
- not be so picky
- exercise (major reluctance there)
- take chances
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day?
The day we got in the car and just drove to Woodstock.

Adventure?
Going to Tampa for a long weekend to see my daughter--a mini-vacation by myself.

Book?
Water for Elephants, among others.

Event?
Melissa's and Vicki's wedding.

Exercise?
Walking the dog on our weekends away.

Experience?
The privilege of meeting with some of my elderly clients.

Hobby?
Planning and cooking healthier meals.

Idea?
To go back to school to become a NP.

Lesson?
No one is harder on me than I am on myself.

Love?
The love of my sweetheart.

Meal?
My surprise birthday dinner at Buca Di Beppo.

Memory?
Talking to my mom, finally, about Candy and our lives together.

Movie?
Avatar

Song?
Faith Hill, "Breathe"

TV Show?
The Good Wife

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was...
Starting to plan our wedding.

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was...
Procrastinating like crazy.

What did I do for myself this year?
I started to lose weight and get into shape.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
Worked a second job.
Made plans to replace the rug in the LR/DR.
Said goodbye to my daughter who moved to Tampa.

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?
Be less of a procrastinator.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?
Find a job that pays a little better and has better benefits so I don't have to work two jobs.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
Spend less.
Stop procrastinating.
Start school.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
Clean out the garage and basement.
Keep working on getting into better shape, physically.
Be more dilligent about paperwork at work.
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Day? the day Momma told Daddy he could come home

Adventure? Camping at Lake James

Book? I don't read books

Event? "Tootie's" birth

Exercise? running back and forth to the lawyers office

Experience? finding PeeDee refuge

Hobby? camping/fishing

Idea? the idea of getting a roomie

Lesson? never call the Dr sewing you up Hoss

Love? the enduring love of my parents for each other

Meal? all the ones Sweet cooked on the grill or at camp

Memory? The whole year though tough and full of every emotion available to man kind will be lasting in my memory. I learned a lot this year. A lot about people, love, life, death, but mostly that it is worth living, even when you thing it isn't and that it could all be taken so quickly

Movie? UP

Song? Do I by Luke Bryan and The Truth by Jason Aldeen

TV Show? Billy The Exterminator

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was...
surviving the trials and tribulations of the year. It was a tough year

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was...
The fall at Lake Lure...the Dr actually said to me "you are suppose to bring all the pieces with you, so I can put you back together?

What did I do for myself this year?
learned to relax some

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
join this site chuckling...yeah really
take on a roommate
attend my first TG meeting



If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?
Chest surgery

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?
My job

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
eating habits
exercise habits
job


What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
Keep my roomie
continue to learn about myself and the community
move on with my life
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......


Day?
2 days actually-
The day I came home to SC from being in Colorado for 3 yrs away from my family / and 9-11, the day we had our bbq with fabulous Planet folks.


Adventure?
The cross country trip to Seattle and back in that badass 2010 red Camaro

Book?
The Anne Rice Vampire series

Event?
The birth and nurturing of this little black kitten currently in my lap

Exercise?
Runnin all over god's creation job hunting

Experience?
very painful realizations in progress

Hobby?
writing delicious erotica, camping, photography

Idea?
I'd like to run far away and find solace

Lesson?
One lie made me believe nothing ever again

Love?
Even the hottest beginnings have the coldest endings.

Meal?
A plain ol steak on the grill, or anything italian

Memory?
A slow dance on the way to a decadent, unforgettable edge.

Movie?
Book Of Eli, How To Train Your Dragon

Song?
End Of Me- Apocolyptica and Life Is Beautiful- Nikki Sixx (Sixx Am)

TV Show?
Sons Of Anarchy, SVU

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was...
I came home to SC

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was...
I lost myself

What did I do for myself this year?
not a hell of alot

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
trust in friendships, take a good look at myself, leave my grandsons with their mom.

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?
To stop letting myself settle for less than I deserve.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?
to live in truth for a change would be delightful.

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I will find a job, I will find happiness somewhere, I will raise my grandsons again.

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I will stop smoking, I will make my own adventures even if it's by myself, I will be the bad guy if I have too.
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? The day our kitchen and addition were finally completed in August and seeing the beautiful outcome.

Adventure? Ha, living with me is an adventure all in itself, Just ask my other half…Heh

Book? “Not Without Hope” by Nick Schuyler

Event? 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics

Exercise? Ugh…Yes trying to get motivated to be good in 2011 (not working so far as I’m tossing back chocolates and cookies we still have here at work). A ton of our Vendors sent us major stash!

Experience? Depends on what the experience is being referred to…But, as always, everyday life is an experience.

Hobby? Music and cooking.

Idea? If I told you, it wouldn’t be “my” idea anymore, now would it?

Lesson? Hefty lesson learned: Don’t drive 86 in a 65 mph. A Statie pulled me over a few months back and he issued a ticket for $210 which means major points on my insurance for the next 3 – 7 years. What a prick and it was my first ever ticket offense. This state is always looking for money and yeah I know I’m guilty, but still. Maybe he got upset when I accidentally referred to him as Ma’am instead of Sir when he was reading me the riot act…No lie, it was an honest mistake!

Love? Definitely.

Meal? 2010 Christmas Eve (Ginzo style) I cooked my ass off and enjoyed every minute of it.

Memory? The look on our faces when we saw the finished product of our combo engagement/wedding rings. They’re absolutely gorgeous. Bling, bling baby… ;o)

Movie? Avatar

Song? Bound To You (Christina Aguilera)

TV Show? Boardwalk Empire Series (HBO)

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Out of the blue, at the dinner table, I said “I think it’s time we get married”. Her response with those wide green/blue eyes “REALLY”???!!! I think she was shocked to hear me finally say it, probably thinking OMG finally! I know, I know, but remember, good things come to those who wait. Not the way I envisioned it happening, since I’m the romantic type and wanted it to be special, but…It’s definitely time and well overdo (being 8 years we’ve been together)…or I should say “I Do”….

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... When my mom wasn’t doing so well with her rollercoaster health and in the hospital for a couple of months. Oer the Summer the doctors wanted to have the “talk” with my brother and I about what her wishes would be. That took a major toll on me in 2010. Thankfully, she pulled through and is still with us even though she’s continuing battling with her health.

What did I do for myself this year? Being true to myself and feeling ready for marriage.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway? 1) In the process of appealing a speeding ticket (even though I know I’m guilty, but taking a shot at it, since it’s been my ONLY ticket ever in all of my driving history) (Hoping they’re a little lenient, but I don’t think that will happen) Court date is in a few weeks) (2) Invited my forever Eeyore ho-hum sibling to my home for Thanksgiving and (3)Telling the family my lovely lady and I are planning on getting married.

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? Stop trying to take the weight of the world on my shoulders and fix everything and everyone.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? To take better care of my health and focus on what matters.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011? 1) Obey speed limits (give or take a few miles over the limit) but not go 20 miles over the limit, 2) Consider going back to physical therapy, 3) To take advantage of any good opportunity when it/they come my way.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011? 1) Stick to a healthy regiment, 2) Control my junk food appetite and 3) Try and I mean “TRY” to control my Road Rage, especially when my honey is in my vehicle. People can be such assholes on the road
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What was my favorite in 2010!

Day? : The 1-year anniversary of the Planet. Such a proud feeling to see how the community righted itself and came together to be reborn bigger and better.

Adventure? : Every day of 2010 has been an adventure. Not kidding. This has been the fastest-paced year of my life and I'm loving every minute of it.

Book?: Believe it or not, "Exquisite Corpse" by Poppy Brite was my fave. It's about 2 Gay cannibalistic necrophiliacs. It wasn't so much the story but more that this book reminded me how much I love a good piece of fiction.

Event? Reunion 2010 by far. In a word: Amazing.

Exercise? Does power-cleaning count?

Experience?: Having so many houseguests this year that we love. Finally being in a home where we have enough room to actually have guests has been pretty amazing.

Hobby? : Learning new tech stuff which has entailed countless hours of reading and surfing (both, other favorite hobbies of mine!)

Idea? : Not telling yet

Lesson?: That making excuses for people's bad behavior does not help them. That usually when you get a whole bunch of different stories that don't make sense, that it usually means that the other person can't keep their bullshit strait, not that you have a bad memory.

Love? : The love of friends, family, our beloved Gracie, and most of all - myself.

Meal? : Relearning how to love cooking at home - Mission accomplished!

Memory? : Walking down to the Meet and Greet at the Reunion, hand in hand with Jack and seeing a whooooole lot of people we love hugging and mingling.

Movie? : Didn't see any movies that totally stand out but got totally hooked on "Hoarders".

Song? : "I Gotta Feeling" - Blackeyed Peas

TV Show? : "Hoarders" again!

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was: Celebrating a year in our first home together, celebrating a year on the Planet, Celebrating a year at my job.

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was: Dealing with outside insanity.

What did I do for myself this year?: Recommitted to personal writing and projects.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?: Worked a fuckload of hours at my job
Purged the hell out of the office and closets
Donated some of my favorite clothing items to the FemmeSwap (it was worth it!)

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? : I plan work harder on eating healthy and maintaining healthy boundaries.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? : My group at work would suddenly gain 2 new employees to take the load off of all of us!

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
I will devote more time to creative pursuits.
I will completely organize my office.
I will do that thing Im doing that Im not talking about.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
Im not crazy about going for my pap and breast exam but Im going (Goddamit!)
Im also not crazy about having more dental work done, but Im going (DAMMIT!)
Im seriously not interested in clearing more of our land, lest I find snakes but it needs to be done and Im going to lend a hand. (DAMMIT!)
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Get those exams!! I missed about 4-5 years in a row and then finally went and got a pap and had a bad result which led to surgery, and then a required 4 paps in one year. I had to get one every three months. Seriously not fun. Ok, not trying to put you off here but they can seriously save you a lot of problems. I'm fine now and have had two years of clear paps and I'm back to one a year again.

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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? My Nieces Wedding

Adventure? Road trip with April (Hot-not) To the Little Rock Reunion

Book? I didn’t have a favorite

Event? The First Butch Femme Planet Reunion in Little Rock. OMG that’s all I can say!!

Exercise? Well if I was having sex I’d say that. So I guess jogging?

Experience? Butchfemmeplanets Reunion.

Hobby? Sports!

Idea? If I told you all, You would run out and get a patent… lol

Lesson? People aren’t always what they appear to be.

Love? My Family and Friends.. (My BF Peeps!!!)

Meal? Anything Mom is cookin!!

Memory? BFP Reunion!

Movie? Precious (I think I seen this at the beginning of the year)

Song? The Player, by Nelly Echo

TV Show? Biggest Loser & American Idol

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... I met some amazing new people in Little Rock.

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... I started my change, found that out in Little Rock.. lol

What did I do for myself this year? Bought a new car

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
1) Bought a new car
2) Told someone to suck it! And I don’t mean “suck it”
3) Joined Facebook


If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? To get back on track with my health… quit smoking and eating healthier.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? Let life happen.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
1) Not take things/life so serious.
2) Don’t sweat the small stuff
3) Let go a little easier.


What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
1) Meet the “right one” for me. Taking a chance on New beginnings.
2) To get the courage to go back to the Doctor to for a second look at that mammogram that I have put off for far too long.
3) Look at my long term goals.
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day?

September 1

Adventure?

Conquering my irrational fear, twice, with the same person supporting me.

Book?

The only stuff I have read this year has been for work, except The Secret Garden.

Event?

Work retreat this summer


Exercise?

Chasing one of my kid client's down the street, does that count?

Experience?

In February, was the first time that I was the one who ended the relationship. Rather liberating.

Hobby?

Poker.

Idea?

Re-arrange my living room furniture, makes a huge difference (got some help with this idea though)

Lesson?

It's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you unhappy.

Love?

Oh yeah.

Meal?

Thanksgiving.

Memory?

Thanksgiving break.

Movie?

Too many to name.

Song?

"Runaway" by The National

TV Show?

How I Met Your Mother

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was...

Getting my independent licensure in November and the subsequent celebration we had.

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was...

Health problems I had in January

What did I do for myself this year?

Took better care of my health

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?
1. Beginning to conquer my irrational fear
2. Making myself vulnerable to someone
3. Being open about what I want.


If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?

Continue to be more vocal about what I want.


If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?

Live somewhere that makes me happy.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?
1. I will be a part of National Health Service Corps
2. I will not be in Louisville by the end of the year (wherever NHSC takes me)
3. I will continue to do what makes me happy.


What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?
1. Put myself out there more.
2. Continue to go for what I want.
3. Leave Louisville by the end of the year.

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definitely it would be meeting Ciaran in person...
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Day? A visit with my mom.

Adventure? Camping on Cumberland Island.

Book? Leo Buscaglia's Love Cookbook

Event? Doing makeup for Cirque

Exercise? Zumba

Experience? I was invited to speak at a feminist clinic on self esteem. Lots of tears and laughter with this group. I LOVED IT!!!!

Hobby? Playing piano and hangin' in jacuzzi.

Idea? Decided to let go of my yard peeps to save money. Turned out to be great excercise.

Lesson? Liking someone doesn't necessarily mean they should be a part of my life.

Love? Freedom

Meal? Anything cheesy. Throw some Alfredo on a boot, I'll eat it.

Memory? Great times with my dad even though the Dementia is taking it's toll.

Movie? Let Me In

Song? Not a lot of new stuff I like, but I played the hell out of Voices by Disturbed.

TV Show? Supernatural and True Blood.

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Inviting new friends into my life.

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was... Watching Dementia engulf my dad.

What did I do for myself this year? Sticking to a budget and eating healthier foods.

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway? Cut down on my shopping, caffiene and work load.

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be? Be more patient when dealing with work staff.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be? Spend more time outdoors.

What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011? Won't be so wasteful with money, won't work so hard that I NEVER have time for my loved ones and I won't put of exercising.
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What was my favorite in 2010 .......

Day? When I got my new work visa

Adventure? Moving to L.A.

Book? The Barefoot Running Book

Event? Little Rock Reunion

Exercise? Running in minimalist shoes for 3 months and actually LOVING it

Experience? Being a bachelor for 4 months and realize how much I missed having K beside me

Hobby? Getting my first pipe and finding I enjoy it

Idea? Raw Vegan Diet

Lesson? Let things happen as they will.

Love? Continuing and improving what is already great!

Meal? Christmas Dinner with Family in Montreal

Memory? It's a toss up between Christmas in Montreal and Little Rock

Movie? Hrmm.. toss up between the Swedish version of The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo and Inception

Song? Lily Allen's F*ck You

TV Show? Only one? Doctor Who and The Walking Dead

The best thing that happened to me in 2010 was...

Moving to Los Angeles to be with K again.

The worst thing that happened to me in 2010 was...

Moving across country -- I'm tired of moving


What did I do for myself this year?

Finally arrange for top surgery

What are three things I was reluctant to do, but did them anyway?

Move to LA. (now try and see if I will leave! HA!)
Be without K for 4 months
Start running again

If I could change one thing about myself in 2011, what would it be?

Go back to fully raw vegan. I felt so alive when I did it last year.

If I could change one thing about my life in 2011, what would it be?

Stop my spending so I can finally pay off my credit cards completely. Last year's move added so much to them.


What are three things I WILL change or do differently in 2011?

Reduce spending (avoid credit cards and pay only in cash and if I don't have the cash don't buy it)
Get back into cycling
Start barefoot running and try a half-marathon in the fall


What are three things I was reluctant to do, but want to do in 2011?

Go back to raw vegan
Get my driver's license (FINALLY!)

Get back into buddhist learning
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