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Old 01-01-2018, 12:40 AM   #81
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Why when a femme asks you how she looks in an outfit .. Does she think your lying when you tell her she looks amazing ?
Sorry, I'm a femme answering this at a butch area of the planet.

I honestly believe it's due to low self-esteem. There are many women with self-esteem issues who would react like this, it's because (in my opinion) they truly feel on the inside that they're not deserving of the compliment.

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I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!
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I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!
Jest with me a minute. Maybe all the femmes were good at deception in order to have an easy "icebreaker" to a hot butch. lol

Or you are correct about them believing you, and you did make their day.

OR maybe they were very gullible OR both even!
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Old 02-10-2019, 01:11 PM   #84
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Jest with me a minute. Maybe all the femmes were good at deception in order to have an easy "icebreaker" to a hot butch. lol

Or you are correct about them believing you, and you did make their day.

OR maybe they were very gullible OR both even!
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I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!
I'm in a super good mood today and I plan on complimenting any and all women I run across today.....
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My experience with this topic is that anyone, wether butch, femme, allien, etc, would much rather be complimented before they ask


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I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!

Please excuse me, I'm a noob I know but I loved this quote ^.

And yes I totally agree. I have suffered with low self esteem and apparently am told I'm quite attractive but it definitely means a lot when someone looks you in the eye and you can tell they mean it when they compliment you no matter how small, having spent some time getting ready and trying to look your best I guess it's validation in a way but for me, perhaps it's a femme thing but I love dressing to please or to impress so it's almost like an achievement to get a 'you look nice' as most likely I wanted to impress someone or catch someone's eye in the first place. Hope that makes sense.
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Please excuse me, I'm a noob I know but I loved this quote ^.

And yes I totally agree. I have suffered with low self esteem and apparently am told I'm quite attractive but it definitely means a lot when someone looks you in the eye and you can tell they mean it when they compliment you no matter how small, having spent some time getting ready and trying to look your best I guess it's validation in a way but for me, perhaps it's a femme thing but I love dressing to please or to impress so it's almost like an achievement to get a 'you look nice' as most likely I wanted to impress someone or catch someone's eye in the first place. Hope that makes sense.
I had to look up "noob"....
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I think every femme deserves a complement just for being a femme and taking her time to look her best regardless of her original appearance. Inside is so much more impressive than outside in my opinion. Besides guys there might be a super brain in there and more than likely is. Brains, talent and a good heart far outdoes appearances. If she is good looking that is a bonus.
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