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Old 05-23-2014, 06:20 PM   #41
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not looking me in the eye when talking to me is a big turn off
not having my sense of humor which is pretty dark and twisted
not interested in the world around them
not wanting to take on the status quo

but mostly, in my previous long term relationship and growing up I lived in a world of smoke and mirrors. I need to have someone be direct with me.

someone who doesn't say as I am talking, I'm not done, let me finish
belittling me
being emotionally abusive
If I even have a hint of that...I am out of here

I like to have fun. If someone can't be silly it is a turn off.

at this time in my life we must be sexually compatible. no more lesbian bed death, haha.

if they don't like that I have kids, it is a negatory (is that a word, no but I like it)
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Old 05-23-2014, 06:31 PM   #42
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You scared me for a minute-- I thought you wrote unicorns were a turn off to you, and if that were the case, I'd really have to reevaluate our friendship.
NEVER that. On the contrary--I find unicorns very erotic.
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When she showed up wearing a GPS ankle monitor.

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I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.
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I agree about the toe nails...but that means she is under surveillance. Well that gives you a lot of options regarding leaving the house...does she have to call her
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I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.
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chains and shackles is a look too, good for the bedroom later on, lol
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I was going to say the same thing! It would have taken me a minute to notice the GPS tracking device for those toenails. Dayum!
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Lack of intelligence and wit.
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~ intellectual snobbery (or any kind of snobberies)
~ over-inflated egos
~ materialistic fluff
~ designer labels for sake of showing off
~ keeping up with the jonses
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~ ambiguity, in general
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threads like this are fascinating and make me grateful there's a lid for every pot.
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Lack of integrity
Self-absorption
Know-it-Alls
People speaking for me, or thinking they know me better than I know myself
Lousy drivers
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Cleavage.

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Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.

Low self confidence.

Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!
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