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Update: Well I did get married and my ring is 14k white gold with seven black sapphires inlaid into the ring. In my thinking, perfect for a guy like me. The plain white gold band but with a little flash, aka girly bling. Yes, a solid butch wedding band.
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04-01-2013, 08:38 AM | #22 |
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Regardless of my relationship status, I was always partial to wearing band type rings and only on my left ring finger. The only significance was it helped me distinguish my left from my right. Have had my eye on this one for a couple of years now:
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My wife and I have Saphire wedding rings. Mine is more Femmy, its an offset Saphire with diamonds on the edges, hers is a plain Saphire and diamond eternity band. We do have matching wedding bands, whitegold, except hers is a pipecut and my comfort band because I am a lefty and a flat ring cuts my finger. We wear them on our left ring fingers becuase my pertner is my life partner, and wife.
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I have recently been given a gorgeous engagement ring, which I wear on my left hand - ring finger. I'll wear my wedding band next to it.
Finding a ring that works on my small hands and short fingers has always been a challenge, both from an aesthetic and comfort point of view. When I tried my ring on I knew it was perfect. It is designed by one of my favorite jewelry designers, Anne Sportun. The diamonds are ethically sourced, conflict free Canadian diamonds, set in white gold with a matte finish on the outside, polished on the inside. Purchased from a local jewelers because it is important to us to support local businesses. In natural light, it looks quite graphic; and when the sun or interior light hits it - it lights up and is dazzlingly sparkly! I love it both ways! I LOVE it, full stop. We may have found Hack's wedding ring as well, it is designed by Todd Reed.
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I got My girly a white gold/3 white sapphire engagement ring... when we say I do.. I will opt for a tungsten or titanium band.. and I will get her a white gold band to go with her engagement ring.
We don't need matching rings.. Our hearts match
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I think it's really important, before people give each other rings, that they talk about what it means to them, so their expectations are clear.
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Well I am divorced. Twice. Yeah, not so proud of that. Anyway....
The first time I got married I was young, 22. He gave me a diamond engagement ring that wasn't really my style. But our wedding rings were his paternal grandparents rings and that meant a lot to me because I absolutely adored his grandmother. The marriage ended because he became a heroin addict and would not get treatment. I was really in love with him and often wonder if it would have worked out if he didn't become an addict. I had gotten back in touch with him a few months ago. He has been clean for only 2 years. He was a heroin addict for a good 15 years and I am shocked he is still alive. The second time, I didn't really want to get married. My parents were very upset that I was going to have a child out of wedlock so we just had a civil ceremony in our dining room with a justice of the peace. We had plain gold bands but I really never wore mine. This marriage shouldn't have ever happened and I should not have succumbed to my parents pressure and desire for approval. I would like to get married again someday. I believe in commitment. My favorite style of ring is filigree. It can be new or antique. In the future that is what I would really want. This isn't filigree but still gorgeous...from brillianearth.com http://www.brilliantearth.com/Adorne...tting_tab=true |
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ohhh the ring thing...
So Alicia and I have been discussing the ring thing for a while now.. Neither one of us is butch, and how I am definately the girly girl in the relationship. We were discussing the in's and out's of who should get who what... we have decided we will both get engagement rings... However I get the pretty sparkly one and she just wants a simple sparkly band with our names on it...
psst we went into a jewelry store yesterday and she showed me what she was thinking of getting for me .... *jumps up and down all excited* Its beautiful and its gonna have a green diamond *shreeeekkksss*
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It is thick and heavy, which I really like. I like heavy watches and shoes, as well. I am sure I would get a wide band if TF and I married.
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I was given a ring last year for Christmas from my partner. It's heart shaped gold with diamond baguettes, which is fine by me. I wear it on my left ring finger.
I recently bought her a nice ring, white gold promise ring. She wears it on her left ring finger as well. I never really thought about rings like this till I got with her, but who knows might turn into something more.
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