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Old 04-06-2017, 05:39 PM   #241
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if my husband and I ever break up, I will be the only person I would commit to ever again.....
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Right now my answer is still the same as it was before, but HELL TO THE NO!

Not right now, I am a big, hot mess.
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Old 04-07-2017, 05:34 AM   #243
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I am a pretty solitary person so if I dated myself I would rarely see me and that would be fine for me. (us?)
The sex would be spectacular when we did get together though.
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Old 04-07-2017, 04:38 PM   #244
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Oh hell no!!!

I don't like "sammie" wenches.
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There was a time I would. I'm to old and grumpy now.
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There was a time I would. I'm to old and grumpy now.
the sex would be hard too lol
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Old 04-07-2017, 05:35 PM   #247
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I wouldn't date myself ~ viva l' differance
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Yes absolutely.

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Yup, I'm a pretty decent person. I'd date me
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seriously? no i wouldn't it'll be an hell worse than my dayly struggle
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Yes, I would definitely date myself.
It would feel like winning the lottery.

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This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?
Would I date a butch, sexually dominant version of myself?

No. Because I need someone that *compliments* my strengths and weaknesses, that interlinks with the way I work, no a carbon copy of my personality traits, that wouldn't work. That's like two puzzle pieces of the same shape.

I'm a quiet living extrovert that likes gregarious introverts. It works better than two extroverts. Two extroverts don't ever shut the fuck up.

I like people who have strong points where I suck.

Two people who are very chill about the same things don't ever make decisions, and stubborn about the same things, never make compromises.

Having similar values/needs/wants in a relationship would be great, yes. And similar interests would be fantastic. But that's about the only places I would find it beneficial.

too much similarity - we'd fight too much.
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I'd give it a go, but more with a view to making friends than finding a partner. I'd be concerned that with identical weaknesses, as a couple we'd screw up twice as bad on the things that I screw up on. I think I need that sense of occasional delightful surprise you get from an Other. But at least I'd know I'm completely trustworthy, and affectionate. Plus there'd be little sense of mystery to a relationship. Could be fun to double-date with, we'd likely cause minor havoc now and then with our respective dates!

(this is a fun thread - some of the responses here have had me in stitches!)
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Would be intrigued, but would rather hang out or else with.

Go out on a date, naw ... she's too boisterous and loud. You never know what she's going to say next.
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Yes, I would date myself. I'm kinda fun to date.
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Would definitely depend on the type of activity.
Gambling or Scrabble: yes
Chatterbox type activities: absolutely not - would lose some friends

Movies or any other activity not requiring conversation: absolutely
A party: not on my word
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I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.
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sure...I'm a good kisser and I'm tall enough!

(Not that height really mattered, but it would be nice)
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Brilliant, LOL!!!
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