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Old 02-06-2011, 12:01 AM   #21
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These are the two saddest break-up songs I have ever heard. The incredible angst of loving someone who no longer loves you ...

Sad and lonely Smooches,
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When my much beloved husband died seven years ago, this was the song that most espressed my loss. Seven years later it still tears me up when I hear it. Truly the worst "break up" of my life.
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A year or so later, when my sons had decided to grieve the loss of their Dad by running away and constantly getting in to trouble with the law, I realized I WAS still alive and I had lots of stuff I needed to take care of, so I adopted this as my personal "motto" song. It still motivates me - and it is also a great "recovering from a break-up" song. Good for this particular moment too - I've been sad all night - time to kick myself in the butt and get on up out of the dumps.
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Over the years, various stages. All great songs in their own right!

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After the end of my last relationship some beloved drag queen friends said enough was enough, kidnapped me, dressed me up and took me out. Here are some of the songs from that wild night:







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This song has gotten me through all sorts of things, break ups included. . .

Paul Brady "The World is What You Make it"




Here are the lyrics ...

I knew this African called Hannibal

Rock it roll it send it down the avenue

Went out to see the Roman Empire fall

Uh huh? uh huh?



Two thousand elephants in gold chain-mail

Take it, shake it, make it what you wanna be

Them Roman legionnaires they hit the trail

Uh huh?



The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it



When Cleopatra ruled in Egypt's land

Jump down, turn around, look at what the monkey did

She went to find herself a mighty man

Uh huh? uh huh?



In come Antonio from Italy

Haul it, ball it, drag it up the pyramid,

He never knew how hot a girl could be

Uh huh?



The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it baby

The world is what you make it



Don't start to hit me with your "no can do"

Bluesin', losin', workin' up an attitude

Clean up them windows let the sun shine through

Uh huh? uh huh?

There ain't no happy time without no pain

heartbreak, new date, move on up the alleyway

Pick up them pieces hit the road again

Uh huh?



The world is what you make it

The world is what you make it baby

The world is what you make it
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