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Tips on Avoiding Shady Lesbian Bars
You know the story--you're out of town on a little vacay and you and your lovely traveling companion want to visit a local lesbian bar.
So you Google and get a few hits. You visit the first one, and here are things to look for that might be considered red flags. Please add to the list. 1. The parking lot has oil stains on parking spaces the size of Rhode Island. 2. A sign on the front door says, "Please leave your weapons and drugs in your vehicle." Your thoughts? |
09-14-2018, 05:07 PM | #2 |
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I didn't know there were any lesbian bars left.
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I had the same thought as Martina. All of the lesbian bars I have known about in the past have closed down. I never spent a lot of time in bars but it's sad.
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There are lots of "lesbian" bars. Just go to your local American or Canadian Legion Hall. ... and the beer's cheaper too.
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Our lesbian bar here only posts legal signs of no weapons, etc.
The other glbtqi bars do the same. I haven't really come across anything shady. |
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the lesbian bars that were here happened to have been very nice places ~ a few were mixed w/ our brothers I always find anything ran or owned by woman ( no sexual identity needed ) were fun , clean , well managed establishments.
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I don't think there are many lesbians masquerading as "confirmed bachelorettes" anymore. Maybe a generation or two ago. The old dykes I see in dive bars around here (ruralish) tend to be with their partners.
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