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Old 12-06-2015, 11:37 PM   #161
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Old 09-24-2016, 06:51 PM   #162
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I thought I was romantic. But my SO told me I'm not very romantic Guess I lean more on the silly side.
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Old 05-19-2017, 06:07 PM   #163
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I like the idea of romance but I don't subscribe to notions of romantic endeavors most people consider romantic.

And I guess I will leave it at that for now because I keep things of that nature fairly private, nowadays.

But I do enjoy romance, I really do. : )
I'm still this way. I'm not really interested in the typical notions most people deem as romantic. What's romantic to me is being level headed, slow to anger, sane, being able to carry yourself with diplomacy, having a wicked sense of humor during an exceptionally tense moment in life.. This caliber of personality is what I think is incredibly romantic (and sexy).

Flowers are nice, but what moves me romantically is generally not the flowery stuff in life.
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Oh I'm a romantic Devil!

I am not the kiss and tell type, and I would never post anything on my profile, "not that there is anything wrong with that", Just isn't my style!
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Meh.....Not very.
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Romantic? What is that?

No I am not. My idea of romance is on the practical side the things you can only do if you know someone. Thing that needs to done but they have no time to do it. So I do so Little insignificant things, the laundry done, a favorite meal or a movie I don't love but that's okay, or washing the car. Those are the same things that mean something to me. Flowers are nice in my yard so make sure they can be planted, chocolates no unless you know my brand, Valentines day? Well just no, just don't. I am good with that.

I think it has to be individual for each person, My uncle made sure my Aunt never touched a gas pump from the day they married till the day she died. That was romantic and she damn well knew it. He never had to make a meal, or a snack, she made sure he was as well taken care of as she was. It wasn't expensive or elaborate but always considerate and thoughtful.

The whole of the family made fun of the connection they had but none of them ever had anything that could compare in the lives they lead.
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Romance is indeed very different for everyone. I like to believe I am romantic in many different ways, both traditional and non-traditional.

When we are walking into a building, I open the door for her. If we are stepping off the train I let her go first. I show up at her work on my lunch break just to deliver surprise flowers to her for no reason other than to show her I appreciate her.

I do other things too, I buy her dinner. I buy her surprise random gifts like skirts, video games, and anything else I think she might like. I encourage her, support her and appreciate her.

I think everyone is romantic in some way, it's just a matter of how.
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i've been told i am the least romantic person in the world.

however when i am with the right person, i love gestures that show each other you are appreciated.
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I would like to say I am romantic, but realistically I am not stereotypical romantic - I am more practical.

Instead of flowers I'll offer to buy you dinner from your favorite place beause it's Friday night and we don't want to cook. If I'm at the store on lunch to grab food, I might pick up your favorite drink or candy. If you've had a particularly bad day I will ask if you want to do something after dinner, even if it's just binge watching your favorite show on Netflix. If we are out and you mention something you want, I'm texting it to myself as a reminder to add to your Christmas list as soon as I can.

When I used to pack his lunch, I'd write down how many carbs he had to inject for. I pick all the pepperoni off my pizza and give it to him. Sometimes I order for him when we go out. It's the small things 🙂
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i've been told i am the least romantic person in the world.

however when i am with the right person, i love gestures that show each other you are appreciated.
Yes i think i am a romantic devil now.
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i of course think i am very romantic, but maybe I'm more thoughtful.

I don't have to be in love with someone to be kind and thoughtful.

But when I do love ya.....

Like others have stated, I do little things that show I love you. I do "acts of service" and "quality time".... I would love to do a grand epic scene of 20th Century Cinema... like a Cleopatra type extravaganza.... lol

But I think a pan of epic double chocolate brownies is better, I won't make you share them... Or making your favorite dinner on Sunday ..... massaging your worn out feet after a long hard day.... or any number of kind acts.

or make you stop the truck so I can dance in the middle of the street to our song....

or scrub your back in the shower....

I'm that Girl.
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I am ridiculously, pathetically so. But I'm that way about life in general, as a very passionate person. So guess my relationships are not excluded from that. But, like everyone else, what I find romantic varies. For me, it's things with meaning. A handwritten note, or any kind of note, or taking a walk ... or reading a book together. It's not about the generic mainstream idea of what is romantic to everyone else and girls in general. Knowing specific things, big or small, that I would find touching is being romantic to me. And that is what I enjoy doing for my partner as well. In lots of little ways, regularly. Not just once a year or on their birthday.

~ Journaling together
~ Letters & notes
~ Doing puzzles together
~ Sharing music & other forms of art
~ Admiring nature & other places together
~ Having home-cooked meals together
~ Movie binging
~ Nerding out over stuff together
~ Genuine affection, at random times too
~ Hands on things they need help with

Obviously my love languages are quality time & touch.

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lol I wouldn't say I am romantic... I am just the I like to show them appreciation without the overkill.... I prefer the little simple things that make me go thud & hopefully they are the same...
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I am ridiculously, pathetically so. But I'm that way about life in general, as a very passionate person. So guess my relationships are not excluded from that. But, like everyone else, what I find romantic varies. For me, it's things with meaning. A handwritten note, or any kind of note, or taking a walk ... or reading a book together. It's not about the generic mainstream idea of what is romantic to everyone else and girls in general. Knowing specific things, big or small, that I would find touching is being romantic to me. And that is what I enjoy doing for my partner as well. In lots of little ways, regularly. Not just once a year or on their birthday.

~ Journaling together
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~ Admiring nature & other places together
~ Having home-cooked meals together
~ Movie binging
~ Nerding out over stuff together
~ Genuine affection, at random times too
~ Hands on things they need help with

Obviously my love languages are quality time & touch.

I too am the language of quality time! I think it's essential in getting to know one and another!
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I like to think I am very romantic but you would have to ask Gemme...
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