08-29-2012, 09:05 AM | #21 |
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I've been telling a few friends here on bfp that I want to start doing things for myself - things I've wanted to do for a while and not to think of them as "treats" but things for me ... don't know if that makes sense.
Anyway, tonight I stopped at a small music studio, spoke to the owner and have booked myself in for singing lessons. I've wanted to do this for the longest and now I'm going to do it! Yeah me!
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08-29-2012, 09:23 AM | #22 |
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Hmmmm....well,
I've allowed myself some substantial Planet time today, which I don't usually do or have time for. Kinda glad I did.
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08-29-2012, 09:28 AM | #23 |
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You know, just the usual.
Shower Shaved Shit What more do you people want? It's barely 8am.
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Some downtime tonight..putting the school books away just a bit ago.. Planet catch up...(with His permission) and jumping into Daddy's cozy gym pants & shirt, putting in a movie and watching it all snuggled up in him til i fall asleep!
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Dinner out.
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Didn't get out of my pajamas. Exactly what I needed today.
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Fresh bed linens and a duvet hot from the dryer ... and with any luck ten hours of sleep.
/rough day.
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10-07-2012, 09:41 PM | #28 |
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Today.....nothing...but tomorrow I'm going shopping with my mom and maybe get a hair cut.....its much needed...side bangs gone wild
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Filled out 53 pages and 6 hours worth of documents for my Permanent Residency status. Now that i've been legally working over one year i am eligible.
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Been to an out of town meeting and really enjoyed fellowship with fellow nutters!
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Got 2 pairs of shoes that I loveeed and a pretty top.....and had a much needed quiet day with my honey bear..... <3
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i finally got the hair cut ive been needing.....nothing makes a girl feel quite so brand new as a good hair cut.....
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A special trip to the lake to catch the sunset over the water...
a nice walk on the lake-side beach, water glass still and peaceful
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Checked out the planet!!
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I wish I didn't think of "doing for myself" as a treat, to be squeezed in after everything and everyone else, but as something integrated into my life, like breathing. In fact, many times we don't even breathe properly.
Anyway, today was two consecutive trips to the gym (which I prefer to the small exercise room at my complex), and now I'm YouTubeing my music and messing around on the Planet .
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I went shopping and bought some cool fishing shirts that not only are vented to keep a person cool, they have a SPF 50 rating too; I also bought a couple of pairs of cargo shorts and a pair of Lee Reserve shorts.
I did laundry for myself today, and cooked a good dinner. Then I cut up some old cotton boxers into small squares to make char cloth with and watched bush-crafting episodes on youtube. Fun for me, but not for everyone I'm sure. lol
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I took some time to myself. Meditation and yoga. Working on some soul cleansing today.
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I cooked myself a nice meal, finished going through a spare room, I ran the ultimate bubble bath, did some self care rituals for my emotional well being and I tried to meditate again with some introductory yoga. I still need to get the hang of that.
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I got dressed up for ME and went out to enjoy music and fine dining, despite having worked a lot this week and having almost no time to spend on myself to get ready.
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