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Old 09-25-2010, 04:13 PM   #61
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I really appreciate you all joining me in this. I read your replies and can't help but think how I am grateful for the same things you are posting and I wonder why I didn't think of that myself.

Please keep your gratitudes coming.

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I wonder why I didn't think of things every time, too--and I also love reading what everyone says. Thank you for starting this thread!

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Happiness!

Hard rains (hello, Autumn! yayy!)

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Honey

Harvests (especially tomatoes and peppers)

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Happiness

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Old 09-26-2010, 07:55 AM   #63
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I am grateful for the Internet.

I am grateful for the Intelligent people in my life.

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Today I am greatful for-

I phones. I am missing mine, but they are great!

Inspiration. it keeps me going in the mornings.

Imagination

Immigration activists/awareness/art/education

Indian food

Irish art

Italian language, Italian food

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Old 09-26-2010, 10:18 AM   #65
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Icy winter landscapes.
Imagination.
Intelligence.
Incision scars. apparently that means I'm fixed in those spots. lol.
Infectious laughter.
"Invisible" friends. "I" could see them.
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I am grateful for my Job.

I am grateful for Jalapenos.

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I am grateful for...

my 2 jobs. Although I complain about it from time to time, I actually have it pretty good.

friends with jolly personalities that never fail to make me smile.

jokes ~ corny, funny or dirty... just make me laugh!

candied jalapenos that make a YUMMY dip with cream cheese.

and anyone that knows me, knows that I am grateful for Jagerbombs
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i am grateful for --

~ my job
~ jewelry (certain pieces i hold dear to me)
~ jammiess - so comfy and warm on a cool rainy night
~ joygasms
~ jello rawks!
~ journalling
~ journey (the group as well as my own personal journey)
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Old 09-27-2010, 10:41 PM   #72
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OOoops, I missed a day! Well, yesterday I was grateful for the Internet!

Today I am grateful for...

Jokes

Jelly and Jam

Jellybeans... but NOT coffee ones!
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I am grateful for my honey's Kisses.

I am grateful for Knowledge, mine and others.

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I am greatful for the Kid, he's a good boy.

I am greatful for Kisses hello, and even kisses goodbye, because it means I have someone I adore to give them to me.

I am greatful for kickin' back this week off work.

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Today I am grateful for...

Kisses! Especially the ones with caramel. Oh yeah, and the kind my honey gives me, too.

Kindness

Kitchens

(Gryphs says Kites)

Kringles.... ohhhhh my, those are sooooo good, but then, any pastry recipe that starts with half a pound of butter, you KNOW it's gonna be amazing.

BTW, those jellybeans from yesterday, they are the Kroger brand of Gourmet Jellybeans and coffee is only one of the flavors.
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Kaleidoscopes. both real and metaphorical

Kickboxing. love the workout.

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kids - though i hate calling them kids instead of children lol! but it works!

kafuffled - one of my favorite words to say!

kitty - Gibson! my fluffy ball of insane laughter lol!

korn, ke$ha, kings of leon - ♫

knowledge

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I am grateful for the Love of my honey, my friends and my chosen family.

I am grateful for Lessons Learned.

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the power of LOVE that amazes me everyday.

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