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Old 09-23-2018, 04:19 PM   #1
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Iím sorry if thereís already a thread like this out there, but Iím curious; as a butch or gnc or MoC person, how do you navigate the whole bathroom situation? Do you use the womenís and say f*ck the stares; or do you opt for the menís and avoid stares and weird looks?

Really curious as to how other butch or MoC people do the whole public washroom thing.

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Excellent question.

For me it depends on if I am binding or not.

Binding, mens

Non binding, womens, in the womens I get stares still but I tell them, look I have to go just like you.
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Excellent question.

For me it depends on if I am binding or not.

Binding, mens

Non binding, womens, in the womens I get stares still but I tell them, look I have to go just like you.
Interesting. It just feels like, for me, that whether I'm binding or not, I always get weird looks when I use the women's. Though, I'm still too scared to use an active men's washroom. I'll typically try to find a quieter washroom or a single-stall (unisex) washroom.

There's one gas station that I'll always go to when I'm in the city that I know has single-stall, unisex washrooms. Though, I am finding more unisex washrooms in the city.
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Interesting. It just feels like, for me, that whether I'm binding or not, I always get weird looks when I use the women's. Though, I'm still too scared to use an active men's washroom. I'll typically try to find a quieter washroom or a single-stall (unisex) washroom.

There's one gas station that I'll always go to when I'm in the city that I know has single-stall, unisex washrooms. Though, I am finding more unisex washrooms in the city.
If there aren't enough stalls or its uber busy I find the family bathrooms, they are way bigger and only one stall.
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