Single Butches & Femmes Cafe - Page 14

clay · 02-02-2012, 09:21 PM

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Originally Posted by fever

I can't imagine such a beautiful paradise, Clay! Maybe you need to host a b/f gathering in your part of the world.

Looking forward to meeting you at the Reunion. Please bring pictures!!!!

Sure thing...you can see some in the movie Prince of Tides...just saying. Or come down to visit...door's always open for my BFP buds!
Can't wait to meet all you wonderful peeps as well!
I was going to also say, with your dance card, I doubt you will have much time to look at pics!!! Jus' sayin'

SweetJane · 02-02-2012, 10:54 PM

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Originally Posted by uniquetobeme

Curious...Anyone have any fun ideas for things to do on Valentine's Day? I was feeling kinda bummed about it (being single and all), and dreading the day. I was thinking about hanging out with a friend or two so I wouldn't be alone, but now I'm thinking...(this is going to sound really corny...maybe) I'm thinking about celebrating my relationship with myself, it's taken a long time to get where I am now! I was thinking of buying Starbucks for myself and maybe even making a card for myself. (maybe that is pushing it...LOL) I promise, I don't have MPD.
Maybe I'm making too much out of this Valentine's Day, it will probably be like any other day and I would have worried for nothing! LOL

Uniquetobeme, I think that's a wonderful idea. I think you should go further than just buying yourself a Starbucks. Go treat yourself to a lovely dinner. Allow the server to lavish you with attention. And then go buy yourself some sexy intimates. It doesn't matter that you won't be showing them off. They will make you feel wonderful and remind you of the unique woman you are.

My last two Valentine's Days were the most heartbreaking I ever had. I'll spend this one alone. But, like you Miss Unique, I'll be celebrating ME.

Turtle · 02-03-2012, 12:02 AM

Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

Leigh · 02-03-2012, 12:40 AM

Just came in to say hi to everyone

Licious · 02-03-2012, 01:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Turtle

Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

What a great idea! I have to take myself for a fancy drink at Starbucks, maybe buy myself some pretty underwear! Fun!

Thanks Unique!

OneSweetpea · 02-03-2012, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Turtle

Hi folks, I find the idea of totally communicating with just your face and your body intriguing...at least for one evening ;-)

I could easily communicate with my body, but I'm not sure what my face would be doing...Hopefully, it would be following along appropriately.

SugarFemme · 02-03-2012, 03:18 AM

If I drank, I would get seriously drunk and take advantage of myself LMAO

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Originally Posted by Turtle

Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

fever · 02-03-2012, 03:43 AM

I don't look for cards or flowers, and have gotten used to being single at all holidays. So, I give a bunch of daffodils to friends, mail cards to my grandchildren, even though they live 5 min away, and try to make someone smile.

I am a pretty lucky woman, and celebrate myself by loving others.

But, I might get a pedicure lol ......................

SugarFemme · 02-03-2012, 03:50 AM

My kid summed it up perfectly today. Out of the blue, when we were in the car today, she said "Oh shit, in two weeks the holiday that we feel obligated to celebrate, that was manufactured by a card company, that has caused more aggravation and grief over the years will be sprung on us AGAIN. Makes people feel like losers if they have no one on that day. And is an all around silly day. People should not be told to show their love and give tokens of their love one day a year. It should be something people just naturally do when they feel it. Not when Hallmark tells em to". Gawd I love my daughter.

Mr Nice Guy · 02-03-2012, 05:08 AM

Good morning singles, coffee is on. Hope you all have a great day. Mine started off bad when I found out my mom thru out my W2's. Now I'm freaking out!!!

Wryly · 02-03-2012, 11:23 AM

hey all!

I had a really good night's sleep last night. And I even slept late this morning!
So now it seems I'm a bit behind on my plans for the day but it is all right - not going to bash myself up over it.

My SIL got home from her conference last night and was very happy with the work I did around the house. And she loved the "Birthday Tree" I decorated for her. She leaves her seasonal (Christmas) tree up all year long - - some years, anyway. So while she was gone I took all the Christmas decorations off the tree and put them away. I went to the dollar store and got a bag of balloons, some crepe streamers, some shiny centrepiece thing and noisemakers and decorated the tree. She thought it was lovely. Since both of our birthdays are in early February she said it is our tree. My sister feels so left out now because her birthday is in December.

Just had lunch and now going to do some laundry and other stuff.

see you later!

uniquetobeme · 02-03-2012, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by OneOfAKind

If I drank, I would get seriously drunk and take advantage of myself LMAO

LMAO :-). Too funny :-)

uniquetobeme · 02-03-2012, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Wryly

hey all!

I had a really good night's sleep last night. And I even slept late this morning!
So now it seems I'm a bit behind on my plans for the day but it is all right - not going to bash myself up over it.

My SIL got home from her conference last night and was very happy with the work I did around the house. And she loved the "Birthday Tree" I decorated for her. She leaves her seasonal (Christmas) tree up all year long - - some years, anyway. So while she was gone I took all the Christmas decorations off the tree and put them away. I went to the dollar store and got a bag of balloons, some crepe streamers, some shiny centrepiece thing and noisemakers and decorated the tree. She thought it was lovely. Since both of our birthdays are in early February she said it is our tree. My sister feels so left out now because her birthday is in December.

Just had lunch and now going to do some laundry and other stuff.

see you later!

The Birthday tree...that is so sweet

Mr Nice Guy · 02-03-2012, 02:14 PM

Hey SweetJane, how you feeling? Hopefully better. Ok back to work.

SweetJane · 02-03-2012, 03:00 PM

I'm still sick but getting better.

Mr Nice Guy · 02-03-2012, 04:06 PM

Well that's good. Hopefully you'll feel much much better by tomorrow.

Mr Nice Guy · 02-06-2012, 04:39 AM

Good morning singles, I hope you survived the Super Bowl. Coffee is on!! Enjoy your day.

Countyfem · 02-07-2012, 02:56 AM

Morning singles! Coffee is on! Going to be a long day so extra caffeine is a must have! Hope everyone has a wonderful Tue. Be safe out there!

Mr Nice Guy · 02-07-2012, 04:49 AM

Thanks for the coffee. Hope you and all the singles have a great day.

Licious · 02-07-2012, 04:57 AM

Hello Singles,

Hope you all enjoy your Tuesday...

I am going to do some productive things then hit my favorite taco place with my pals.. Taco Tuesday they call it, killer steak or chicken tacos with lettuce, cabbage, free salsa bar, one dollar. Lot of folks I know will show up in there.

So....

How is everyone doing?

02-03-2012, 12:40 AM	#264
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Just came in to say hi to everyone __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

02-03-2012, 03:43 AM	#268
fever Member How Do You Identify?: stonefemme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: near Vancouver, B.C. Canada Posts: 592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,649 Thanked 1,280 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 17783435	Valentine's Day I don't look for cards or flowers, and have gotten used to being single at all holidays. So, I give a bunch of daffodils to friends, mail cards to my grandchildren, even though they live 5 min away, and try to make someone smile. I am a pretty lucky woman, and celebrate myself by loving others. But, I might get a pedicure lol ......................

02-03-2012, 03:50 AM	#269
SugarFemme Member How Do You Identify?: Fierce Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Southwest Posts: 1,029 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 650 Thanked 4,463 Times in 854 Posts Rep Power*: 21474850	Out of the mouth of babes My kid summed it up perfectly today. Out of the blue, when we were in the car today, she said "Oh shit, in two weeks the holiday that we feel obligated to celebrate, that was manufactured by a card company, that has caused more aggravation and grief over the years will be sprung on us AGAIN. Makes people feel like losers if they have no one on that day. And is an all around silly day. People should not be told to show their love and give tokens of their love one day a year. It should be something people just naturally do when they feel it. Not when Hallmark tells em to". Gawd I love my daughter.

02-07-2012, 02:56 AM	#278
Countyfem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: NC Posts: 244 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 469 Thanked 932 Times in 211 Posts Rep Power: 9455031	Moving day Morning singles! Coffee is on! Going to be a long day so extra caffeine is a must have! Hope everyone has a wonderful Tue. Be safe out there!

02-07-2012, 04:57 AM	#280
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,974 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hello Singles, Hope you all enjoy your Tuesday... I am going to do some productive things then hit my favorite taco place with my pals.. Taco Tuesday they call it, killer steak or chicken tacos with lettuce, cabbage, free salsa bar, one dollar. Lot of folks I know will show up in there. So.... How is everyone doing? __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

02-03-2012, 12:02 AM	#263
Turtle Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A mixity Preferred Pronoun?: whatever Relationship Status: chillin Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: in a really really cute little place Posts: 2,144 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,442 Thanked 4,531 Times in 1,222 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hey Y'all, I think treating one's self well on Valentine's Day is a great idea!! Whatever floats your boat - Starbucks, fancy underwear, making yourself the exactly perfect card you would want - it's all good. WOW!! Congratulations on wonderful youness!! Gotta go figure out what I'm gonna do for myself!

02-03-2012, 05:08 AM	#270
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good morning singles, coffee is on. Hope you all have a great day. Mine started off bad when I found out my mom thru out my W2's. Now I'm freaking out!!!

02-03-2012, 11:23 AM	#271
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094253	hey all! I had a really good night's sleep last night. And I even slept late this morning! So now it seems I'm a bit behind on my plans for the day but it is all right - not going to bash myself up over it. My SIL got home from her conference last night and was very happy with the work I did around the house. And she loved the "Birthday Tree" I decorated for her. She leaves her seasonal (Christmas) tree up all year long - - some years, anyway. So while she was gone I took all the Christmas decorations off the tree and put them away. I went to the dollar store and got a bag of balloons, some crepe streamers, some shiny centrepiece thing and noisemakers and decorated the tree. She thought it was lovely. Since both of our birthdays are in early February she said it is our tree. My sister feels so left out now because her birthday is in December. Just had lunch and now going to do some laundry and other stuff. see you later!

02-03-2012, 02:14 PM	#274
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hey SweetJane, how you feeling? Hopefully better. Ok back to work.

02-03-2012, 03:00 PM	#275
SweetJane Member How Do You Identify?: stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: always solo Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: New Mexico Posts: 368 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 380 Thanked 815 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 4309956	I'm still sick but getting better.

02-03-2012, 04:06 PM	#276
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Well that's good. Hopefully you'll feel much much better by tomorrow.

02-06-2012, 04:39 AM	#277
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good morning singles, I hope you survived the Super Bowl. Coffee is on!! Enjoy your day.

02-07-2012, 04:49 AM	#279
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Thanks for the coffee. Hope you and all the singles have a great day.