What TO DO in a relationship..... - Page 12

Liam · 09-28-2011, 01:25 PM

Take a few moments each day to appreciate and enjoy the love and money you have in your life, and the creativity you express in the world.

girl_dee · 09-28-2011, 07:37 PM

Don't sweat the small stuff, life is just TOO short.

girl_dee · 09-28-2011, 08:09 PM

Only offer sober sex, you really only THINK you perform well when drunk.
Besides, a slip of the tongue in all the wrong way could happen, not to mention it's just not attractive.

Quality time is worth more than parting gifts.. spend time together, and be present with each other.

girl_dee · 09-28-2011, 08:10 PM

Watch funny movies together, laughter together is time well spent.

ruffryder · 09-29-2011, 10:05 AM

"Never force LOVE..nor force or beg someone to love you back..
It's as hard as teaching a FISH to WALK..
love should be given freely...unconditionally...
sometimes we must know how to contradict our feelings so we wont look stupid in the end....
always maintain SELF RESPECT"

LaneyDoll · 09-29-2011, 10:51 AM

Say "thank you" and mean it.

Say "I am sorry" and mean it.

Trust.

Console.

Play together and laugh together.

Spend time apart-missing the other one is nice.

Do little, random things for the other.

Understand that a bad day at work is not a bad day at home.

Dance together-even if only in the living room or on the porch.

Rediscover the places you fell in love with when you fell in love with each other.

girl_dee · 09-29-2011, 05:59 PM

Cook together!.....

Abigail Crabby · 09-29-2011, 06:05 PM

Find a hobby you can share......

girl_dee · 09-29-2011, 06:22 PM

Find out if there are any dealbreakers early on...

Babyangeleyez · 09-29-2011, 07:49 PM

Treat each other as equals. One is neither above nor beneath the other.

girl_dee · 09-30-2011, 07:37 AM

an apology isn't always admitting wrongdoing, sometimes its necessary to save the situation..

girl_dee · 10-17-2011, 05:54 AM

have great wild spontaneous SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sachita · 10-17-2011, 06:51 AM

give each other space and don't smother.
Really like each other

ONLY · 10-17-2011, 06:59 AM

Know how she likes her coffee and have it set to brew just in time for her to enjoy before she heads off to work.......also set YOUR clock to wake at least half hour BEFORE the coffee starts to brew so you have time to.......well.....have time to show her just how much you know her and loooooooooove her and then enjoy coffee in bed. So worth waking up a couple of hours before you have to leave for work

*Anya* · 10-17-2011, 07:49 AM

To risk your heart, your vulnerability, your feelings...

even if it does not work out for you.

No regrets for trying.

girl_dee · 10-17-2011, 01:54 PM

dont get into ruts!!!

ONLY · 10-19-2011, 08:06 PM

Draw her a bath in the evening... her book within reach or the cd player with her favorite cd in it (a choice to what she prefers that evening), candles (a scent she enjoys, I would put lavender for my girl ), a glass of wine (a drink she enjoys, my lady happens to enjoy a glass of wine) and do this just because.........and depending on how things go, you can go and see her after while and just sit beside her by the tub........and have the bed made up with fresh new sheets and more candles and ready for some loooooovemaking

princessbelle · 10-19-2011, 08:08 PM

Be present in the time you have together and make sure the other person knows what they mean to you.

Never forget to tell your partner you appreciate the little things.

girl_dee · 10-19-2011, 08:25 PM

get a puppy!

Starbuck · 10-19-2011, 08:35 PM

Don't forget to play, have fun. It doesn't always have to be serious.

09-28-2011, 01:25 PM	#221
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,909 Times in 1,862 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Take a few moments each day to appreciate and enjoy the love and money you have in your life, and the creativity you express in the world. __________________ <3 Love is weird.

09-29-2011, 10:51 AM	#226
LaneyDoll Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Girly girl femme Preferred Pronoun?: She; Ma'am; Miss ;) Relationship Status: Pitbull protected. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Birmingham, AL Posts: 2,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,892 Thanked 7,689 Times in 1,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Say "thank you" and mean it. Say "I am sorry" and mean it. Trust. Console. Play together and laugh together. Spend time apart-missing the other one is nice. Do little, random things for the other. Understand that a bad day at work is not a bad day at home. Dance together-even if only in the living room or on the porch. Rediscover the places you fell in love with when you fell in love with each other. __________________ There are beauties who stop traffic and then there are beauties who grow obsessively in the hearts of the susceptible.

09-29-2011, 06:05 PM	#228
Abigail Crabby Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Princess Relationship Status: Single, but sociable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mount Airy, NC Posts: 4,226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,554 Thanked 9,667 Times in 2,484 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Find a hobby you can share...... __________________ Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. Marcel Proust Turns whatever happens to you into a positive...

10-17-2011, 06:51 AM	#233
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,249 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	give each other space and don't smother. Really like each other __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

10-17-2011, 06:59 AM	#234
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139963	Know how she likes her coffee and have it set to brew just in time for her to enjoy before she heads off to work.......also set YOUR clock to wake at least half hour BEFORE the coffee starts to brew so you have time to.......well.....have time to show her just how much you know her and loooooooooove her and then enjoy coffee in bed. So worth waking up a couple of hours before you have to leave for work __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

09-28-2011, 07:37 PM	#222
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Don't sweat the small stuff, life is just TOO short.

09-28-2011, 08:09 PM	#223
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Only offer sober sex, you really only THINK you perform well when drunk. Besides, a slip of the tongue in all the wrong way could happen, not to mention it's just not attractive. Quality time is worth more than parting gifts.. spend time together, and be present with each other.

09-28-2011, 08:10 PM	#224
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Watch funny movies together, laughter together is time well spent.

09-29-2011, 10:05 AM	#225
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,678 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	"Never force LOVE..nor force or beg someone to love you back.. It's as hard as teaching a FISH to WALK.. love should be given freely...unconditionally... sometimes we must know how to contradict our feelings so we wont look stupid in the end.... always maintain SELF RESPECT"

09-29-2011, 05:59 PM	#227
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Cook together!.....

09-29-2011, 06:22 PM	#229
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Find out if there are any dealbreakers early on...

09-29-2011, 07:49 PM	#230
Babyangeleyez Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 242 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 152 Thanked 813 Times in 169 Posts Rep Power: 6511028	Treat each other as equals. One is neither above nor beneath the other.

09-30-2011, 07:37 AM	#231
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	an apology isn't always admitting wrongdoing, sometimes its necessary to save the situation..

10-17-2011, 05:54 AM	#232
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	have great wild spontaneous SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!

10-17-2011, 07:49 AM	#235
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,791 Times in 7,290 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Don't be afraid... To risk your heart, your vulnerability, your feelings... even if it does not work out for you. No regrets for trying. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

10-17-2011, 01:54 PM	#236
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	dont get into ruts!!!

10-19-2011, 08:06 PM	#237
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139963	Draw her a bath in the evening... her book within reach or the cd player with her favorite cd in it (a choice to what she prefers that evening), candles (a scent she enjoys, I would put lavender for my girl ), a glass of wine (a drink she enjoys, my lady happens to enjoy a glass of wine) and do this just because.........and depending on how things go, you can go and see her after while and just sit beside her by the tub........and have the bed made up with fresh new sheets and more candles and ready for some loooooovemaking __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

10-19-2011, 08:08 PM	#238
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,503 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Be present in the time you have together and make sure the other person knows what they mean to you. Never forget to tell your partner you appreciate the little things. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

10-19-2011, 08:25 PM	#239
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	get a puppy!

10-19-2011, 08:35 PM	#240
Starbuck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Soft Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Oklahoma City Posts: 2,436 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,378 Thanked 2,148 Times in 756 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Don't forget to play, have fun. It doesn't always have to be serious. __________________ To forgive is to set the prisoner free, And then discover the prisoner was you.