And how are you feeling? - Page 342

JDeere · 05-26-2021, 09:08 AM

Not good!

my mental health is suffering. my finances are a mess after my break up,
not coping well on the breakup, i started a new job doing night security to see if it helps with stuff, im very stressed out..im not coping well at all!

Bèsame* · 05-26-2021, 06:38 PM

all over the bored, depends on the hour..lol

Happy. Excited. Anxious. Stressed. Worried. Calm. In control. Uncontrollable.

Lots of things in the work, that's for sure!

....mystery achievements.....

Blade · 06-06-2021, 12:01 PM

Tired but accomplished. Had a busy morning got a lot done.

Reach *BANNED* · 06-06-2021, 04:10 PM

I am feeling accomplished today Myself. Though the heat has made it a bit slower in the getting things done -but I basically do a bit - and then take a break.

All in all I take my moments of how I am feeling - on an hourly basis now - versus a whole day or even a week. It just seems better that way for right now. So, so since I woke this morning - at which I slept in until 11am

..I am feeling peaceful and hopeful.

I wish everyone else the same - peace and hope.

Gemme · 06-07-2021, 08:24 PM

Tired and not 100%. Hopefully, some sleep will help.

clementinefemme · 06-07-2021, 10:27 PM

Confused. Considering getting back together with an ex who was never able or willing (not sure which) to show up for me/demonstrate care. But doesn't everyone deserve a second chance? I also think mental health struggles were part of the issue, which means it can't be all my ex's fault.

JDeere · 06-08-2021, 12:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by clementinefemme

Confused. Considering getting back together with an ex who was never able or willing (not sure which) to show up for me/demonstrate care. But doesn't everyone deserve a second chance? I also think mental health struggles were part of the issue, which means it can't be all my ex's fault.

Mental health discussion is very important..

My most recent ex has told people Im narcissitic as well as abusive..

I have been checked my numerous mental health professionals and i do NOT have narcisstic personality disorder!! On paper as well!

Now since my ex has done what she has done, she is now facing harassing, stalking charges, terroristic threat charges for putting out our relationship problems on social media to the public...

Dont get me wrong I wasnt the best partner due to my trust issues and communication skills are crap but no maam, im not gonna allow an ex to ruin my life any further because she is mad that I will no longer help her financially nor do i believe anything she says anymore!

Reach *BANNED* · 06-08-2021, 02:23 PM

I feel really grounded. I feel grounded as in the needle to My internal compass is pointed in the direction it should be.

Gemme · 06-08-2021, 08:39 PM

Better than last night but still quite a bit tired. Long day.

FireSignFemme · 06-08-2021, 09:29 PM

In good spirits. A tooth started giving me trouble again but I think I've found a dentist who really knows what he is doing and is very good at what he does. I don't need perfect teeth but I'd like to avoid dentures if possible and he thinks that's a realistic goal. Of course until they get in there and have a closer look, well that could change. So far though, for now things are looking up.

Orema · 06-09-2021, 01:07 AM

Really good. I’m officially a Michigander again. Got my driver’s license, license plate and tag for car, entry pass to state parks, and voter’s registration card.

It’s good being home.

Reach *BANNED* · 06-09-2021, 01:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orema

Really good. I’m officially a Michigander again. Got my driver’s license, license plate and tag for car, entry pass to state parks, and voter’s registration card.

It’s good being home.

I am feeling the love from this post. There is something to be said for feeling at home whether it is where you are originally from or you are a transplant ... there is also something to be said for that feeling of belonging.

Orema · 06-09-2021, 03:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Reach

I am feeling the love from this post. There is something to be said for feeling at home whether it is where you are originally from or you are a transplant ... there is also something to be said for that feeling of belonging.

You get it. It’s all those things and more.

Lucky me.

Stone-Butch · 06-09-2021, 03:43 AM

In this blasted heat I am feeling and that is better than any alternative.

Blade · 06-12-2021, 01:25 PM

Was sluggish this morning. Took a miscle relaxed before bed. Feeling pretty good now

Reach *BANNED* · 06-12-2021, 02:40 PM

I might feel to the bone tired - but I feel the a happiness inside of Me that has not been there in awhile. This is a happiness where a smattering of others have added to My own -- some know that they have and others it has just been random. Here is an example - I logged on just now and a friend of Mine (here on the site) left Me a note that simply said "I bet you are dangerous in B&N" - and why did this add to My happiness? Because it shows Me that the person pays attention - that the person has truly taken the time to get to know Me - to see My authenticity - not other's opinions or views of Me - because we call that gossip - and those that spread it about anyone never really know the person they are talking about - they just want to feel better about themselves for a moment - so it is easiest to do that by saying something negative about that person...rather than trying to get to know them.

Oh and I will add an addendum to this - these are My thoughts and Mine alone and are not related to anyone on this site in any negative context. Those words I just typed are how I feel - about people I have met and those I have not had a chance to meet.

Thank you to everyone who has added to My happiness in these last few months - whether you know it or not - somewhere along that path - you likely saved My life.

Stone-Butch · 06-13-2021, 04:52 AM

I am feeling pretty good as I am rested. Waiting to see what the day brings. Thinking of going to visit my brother but I will have to call him later. IF not, I will probably go to the park.

Reach *BANNED* · 06-13-2021, 06:23 AM

I am feeling exhausted, confused, annoyed, and emotional.

Gemme · 06-13-2021, 06:56 AM

I am feeling that maybe I have my security protocols set too high for my credit card company. 3 times now they've reached out to check and see if I really, really meant to order the ____. Yes, yes I did.

Kätzchen · 06-13-2021, 03:48 PM

Today is my self care day (pedi, mani, trim my hair, long bath, long walk, etc).

I feel good.

05-26-2021, 09:08 AM	#6821
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Not good! my mental health is suffering. my finances are a mess after my break up, not coping well on the breakup, i started a new job doing night security to see if it helps with stuff, im very stressed out..im not coping well at all! __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

05-26-2021, 06:38 PM	#6822
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: ☀️☀️☀️ Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 14,772 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 28,402 Thanked 39,533 Times in 10,206 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	all over the bored, depends on the hour..lol Happy. Excited. Anxious. Stressed. Worried. Calm. In control. Uncontrollable. Lots of things in the work, that's for sure! ....mystery achievements..... __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

06-06-2021, 12:01 PM	#6823
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,850 Thanked 14,400 Times in 4,049 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Tired but accomplished. Had a busy morning got a lot done. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

06-07-2021, 08:24 PM	#6825
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,587 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,179 Thanked 108,772 Times in 25,658 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	Tired and not 100%. Hopefully, some sleep will help. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

06-08-2021, 08:39 PM	#6829
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,587 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,179 Thanked 108,772 Times in 25,658 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	Better than last night but still quite a bit tired. Long day. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

06-06-2021, 04:10 PM	#6824
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am feeling accomplished today Myself. Though the heat has made it a bit slower in the getting things done -but I basically do a bit - and then take a break. All in all I take my moments of how I am feeling - on an hourly basis now - versus a whole day or even a week. It just seems better that way for right now. So, so since I woke this morning - at which I slept in until 11am ..I am feeling peaceful and hopeful. I wish everyone else the same - peace and hope.

06-07-2021, 10:27 PM	#6826
clementinefemme Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Apr 2020 Location: Southwest Posts: 143 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 359 Thanked 458 Times in 117 Posts Rep Power: 7477734	Confused. Considering getting back together with an ex who was never able or willing (not sure which) to show up for me/demonstrate care. But doesn't everyone deserve a second chance? I also think mental health struggles were part of the issue, which means it can't be all my ex's fault.

06-08-2021, 02:23 PM	#6828
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	I feel really grounded. I feel grounded as in the needle to My internal compass is pointed in the direction it should be.

06-08-2021, 09:29 PM	#6830
FireSignFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: N/A Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: WA Posts: 4,434 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37,962 Thanked 10,499 Times in 3,157 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	In good spirits. A tooth started giving me trouble again but I think I've found a dentist who really knows what he is doing and is very good at what he does. I don't need perfect teeth but I'd like to avoid dentures if possible and he thinks that's a realistic goal. Of course until they get in there and have a closer look, well that could change. So far though, for now things are looking up.

06-09-2021, 01:07 AM	#6831
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her, shawty Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,026 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,075 Thanked 34,093 Times in 8,591 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Really good. I’m officially a Michigander again. Got my driver’s license, license plate and tag for car, entry pass to state parks, and voter’s registration card. It’s good being home.

06-09-2021, 03:43 AM	#6834
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,202 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,182 Thanked 8,467 Times in 2,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	How are you feeling In this blasted heat I am feeling and that is better than any alternative.

06-12-2021, 01:25 PM	#6835
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,492 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,850 Thanked 14,400 Times in 4,049 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Was sluggish this morning. Took a miscle relaxed before bed. Feeling pretty good now __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

06-12-2021, 02:40 PM	#6836
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	I might feel to the bone tired - but I feel the a happiness inside of Me that has not been there in awhile. This is a happiness where a smattering of others have added to My own -- some know that they have and others it has just been random. Here is an example - I logged on just now and a friend of Mine (here on the site) left Me a note that simply said "I bet you are dangerous in B&N" - and why did this add to My happiness? Because it shows Me that the person pays attention - that the person has truly taken the time to get to know Me - to see My authenticity - not other's opinions or views of Me - because we call that gossip - and those that spread it about anyone never really know the person they are talking about - they just want to feel better about themselves for a moment - so it is easiest to do that by saying something negative about that person...rather than trying to get to know them. Oh and I will add an addendum to this - these are My thoughts and Mine alone and are not related to anyone on this site in any negative context. Those words I just typed are how I feel - about people I have met and those I have not had a chance to meet. Thank you to everyone who has added to My happiness in these last few months - whether you know it or not - somewhere along that path - you likely saved My life.

06-13-2021, 04:52 AM	#6837
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,202 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,182 Thanked 8,467 Times in 2,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Feeling I am feeling pretty good as I am rested. Waiting to see what the day brings. Thinking of going to visit my brother but I will have to call him later. IF not, I will probably go to the park.

06-13-2021, 06:23 AM	#6838
Reach BANNED Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: Scammer. Preferred Pronoun?: Hy Relationship Status: Moratorium Join Date: Apr 2018 Location: Where the horses roam.. Posts: 1,369 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,019 Thanked 3,275 Times in 1,018 Posts Rep Power: 0	I am feeling exhausted, confused, annoyed, and emotional.

06-13-2021, 06:56 AM	#6839
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,587 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,179 Thanked 108,772 Times in 25,658 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I am feeling that maybe I have my security protocols set too high for my credit card company. 3 times now they've reached out to check and see if I really, really meant to order the ____. Yes, yes I did. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

06-13-2021, 03:48 PM	#6840
Kätzchen Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Monogamously Attached to my boyfriend and future husband. Join Date: May 2010 Location: He’s usually with me unless I am with Him. Posts: 15,084 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 35,991 Thanked 31,994 Times in 9,939 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Today is my self care day (pedi, mani, trim my hair, long bath, long walk, etc). I feel good. __________________ Kätzchen _____ ______