What is on your mind

[Chad]

Originally Posted by Chad

Tomorrow, I have two doctors appointments and three medical tests. All yearly checkups plus PT for me and PT for mom. I will be running from appointment to appointment.

I expect the usual good results.

I passed all my tests with flying colors. Yay!
Where is my gold star?

[JDeere]

To buy or not to buy! That is the question.

I wanna buy this watch for myself Lol

[C0LLETTE]

Originally Posted by Stone-Butch

I am thinking of signing up for POF. See if there are any lonely femmes out there. I dont go to bars and the local clubs are closed so, what is a butch to do?

Are there really no women's gay bars/clubs left in Toronto? Wow!

[homoe]

Originally Posted by JDeere

To buy or not to buy! That is the question.

I wanna buy this watch for myself Lol

I vote buy!

Life is short and just as a precaution I'm eating my dessert first..

[JDeere]

Originally Posted by C0LLETTE

Are there really no women's gay bars/clubs left in Toronto? Wow!

Idk about up there but here there aren't many women only bars, clubs. It's all mixed now. Alot of use seek love online, I am in quite a few Facebook groups and am meeting ladies, ones who have some of the same interests as me etc.

Pof is known for alot of computerized bots and catfishing. Facebook has it too but is easier to weed them out via video chat on messenger.

[Stone-Butch]

Collette, I use to go mainly to Cambridge or 519 but they are long done with their music. Toronto has a couple clubs but it is all young people with very poor taste in music for any dancing I can do, so I just gave up.

[cathexis]

Originally Posted by C0LLETTE

Are there really no women's gay bars/clubs left in Toronto? Wow!

Originally Posted by JDeere

Idk about up there but here there aren't many women only bars, clubs. It's all mixed now. Alot of use seek love online, I am in quite a few Facebook groups and am meeting ladies, ones who have some of the same interests as me etc.

Pof is known for alot of computerized bots and catfishing. Facebook has it too but is easier to weed them out via video chat on messenger.

Over the past 15-20 years or so here ln the US, I have noticed the disappearance of "Womyn's bars." My view as to why this is occurring is the same as the disappearance of Womyn's Bookstores, womyn's music concerts, and other separatists/womon's only events will cause many here come down on me, but it is my view that Radical Feminism has waned.

We put a tremendous amount of energy into womyn's issues such as pro-choice, womyn's work rights, Gay and Lesbian rights, AIDS work, lesbian press, anti-war work, on and on until many womyn just burned out on community activity.

This is what I've noticed since joining the Womyn's Movement in 1974-76. The mood was energetic, but as the years went on, the energy level began to fall. An example would be as a Mich-fest worker from the beginning of the fest to it's culmination, womyn's attitudes and cooperation started to level off. During that time, I lived in Chicago and Ft. Lauderdale noticing the amount of womyn's bars becoming fewer and womyn's coffeehouses became non-existent.

It's sad, and I can't think of any ways to reverse this trend.

[Stone-Butch]

cathexis, this is all so true but you cant think of a way to change things because you would have to change the way many of todays gay youths think. I remember getting into fights just going to a bar or club and this is with straight guys LOL. We fought like hell to get clubs and bars that we could safely go to but today it is there for the taking except in many places where straights still think they run the show. The club I use to go to out of town was the best. An hour away but worth every mile. Nice owners, good clubbers and good music. She gave up the club when her partner passed away. Too bad they had a nice club and were both loved by all. Times they are changing and we can only think back on how it use to be. Kickin and grinnin LOL. We had a good time.

[~ocean]

Originally Posted by Stone-Butch

cathexis, this is all so true but you cant think of a way to change things because you would have to change the way many of todays gay youths think. I remember getting into fights just going to a bar or club and this is with straight guys LOL. We fought like hell to get clubs and bars that we could safely go to but today it is there for the taking except in many places where straights still think they run the show. The club I use to go to out of town was the best. An hour away but worth every mile. Nice owners, good clubbers and good music. She gave up the club when her partner passed away. Too bad they had a nice club and were both loved by all. Times they are changing and we can only think back on how it use to be. Kickin and grinnin LOL. We had a good time.

[JDeere]

Originally Posted by cathexis

Over the past 15-20 years or so here ln the US, I have noticed the disappearance of "Womyn's bars." My view as to why this is occurring is the same as the disappearance of Womyn's Bookstores, womyn's music concerts, and other separatists/womon's only events will cause many here come down on me, but it is my view that Radical Feminism has waned.

We put a tremendous amount of energy into womyn's issues such as pro-choice, womyn's work rights, Gay and Lesbian rights, AIDS work, lesbian press, anti-war work, on and on until many womyn just burned out on community activity.

This is what I've noticed since joining the Womyn's Movement in 1974-76. The mood was energetic, but as the years went on, the energy level began to fall. An example would be as a Mich-fest worker from the beginning of the fest to it's culmination, womyn's attitudes and cooperation started to level off. During that time, I lived in Chicago and Ft. Lauderdale noticing the amount of womyn's bars becoming fewer and womyn's coffeehouses became non-existent.

It's sad, and I can't think of any ways to reverse this trend.

Times have changed and sadly things move on with change.

[WolfyOne]

I haven't spent much time here, and miss a whole bunch of y'all.
I moved again and I'm in MN for the second time
I do peek in from time to time to read posts
Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving

[Bèsame*]

George Michael. I sure do miss that voice and gorgeous hunk of a gay man.

He came across my FB timeline, and I've been listening to him since Christmas. He died three years ago. His music was the soundtrack of my 20's.

Tonight, I read his sister died on Christmas. On the 3 year anniversary of his.😪

[cathexis]

Originally Posted by Bèsame*

George Michael. I sure do miss that voice and gorgeous hunk of a gay man.

He came across my FB timeline, and I've been listening to him since Christmas. He died three years ago. His music was the soundtrack of my 20's.

Tonight, I read his sister died on Christmas. On the 3 year anniversary of his.😪

Father Figure grabs me, throws me against the wall knocking the wind out of me, proverbially. I gasp when it comes on the radio, but I won't own it because I don't want to dull that response.

[Bèsame*]

Never knowing you can be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

I was just inside the bank and a man walks in asking for security. Everyone in the bank, stopped and listened to what this man had to say. Some kind of confrontation outside. But it was a moment of total awareness of what you were doing.

[JDeere]

Moving forward in life without people who aren't helping me better things in my life.

Its a relief to be rid of some people. Less stress less drama.

Oh and more peaceful.

[JustLovelyJenn]

At what point is it acceptable to throw your hands up and just let the children float or sink on their own?

Somehow, everything I have tried to teach them for the past 17 or so years has made no difference in all and they still believe they should have zero responsibility or accountability in this world...

*mama bear growl* I am tired of being the maid/taxi/alarmclock/atm/personalchef.... I want some of my life and day to be about me.

[Orema]

A butch I flirted with in Costco. She’s a floor manager who was showing me an item I was looking for. I took her by surprise. She’s married and it was very innocent, but it put a big smile on her face and that made it worth the effort.

[Bèsame*]

Tonight at 8:20 and 20 seconds, it will be

20:20:20 2020

It will never happen again in our lifetime!




And all of April will be 4/20

[homoe]

Originally Posted by Bèsame*

Tonight at 8:20 and 20 seconds, it will be

20:20:20 2020

It will never happen again in our lifetime!




And all of April will be 4/20

Oh Military time correct?

[JustLovelyJenn]

Right now... I don't wanna... thats whats on my mind.