Butches: How do you like to be romanced? - Page 4

Mister Bent · 01-26-2012, 09:50 AM

It really gets my engine racing when she tips her hat at me.

bkisbutchenuff · 04-07-2012, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by xxzalciaiomenxx

I love when I miss a call from my girl, not because I didn't want to talk to her, but because 9 times out of 10 she will leave me a loving, adoring message that lights up my heart...and I save all of these messages until my carrier will delete them...sometimes she sings to me on the messages and no matter what my mood, how I am feeling I can't help but feel all warm and mushy inside when I hear her sexy voice singing just for me. I love when she writes me little notes and gives them to me. I love the way she just tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, etc. She is the only woman to have ever given me flowers. On my Birthday this past year I got called to the front office and there was a vase full of flowers and a big ol Happy Birthday Balloon! She sends me text messages telling me how she misses me, or is thinking of me. Everymorning I get a message from her when she first wakes up...usually saying "good morning" "I love you" or "I miss you".

This past summer, she was on vacation, and everyday she sent me a post card telling me her feelings for me. It was the sweetest thing ever.

I love when she plays with my hair, or brushes up against me just to feel me next to her. The way she takes my fingers in her own when we are walking, even if for just a second. I love the way she holds me when I am sad, the way she cradles my head in her arms and kisses me lightly on the forehead, just to say "I'm here"

I have never been treated more kindly by a woman before, no one before her has taken the time to make me feel loved, and everything that she does for me is romantic. I truly am blessed to have this amazingly perfect woman in my lifer!!!

I love it...awesome. You have a keeper!

Julien · 04-07-2012, 06:28 PM

I love it when my Lady shows me her romantic side. I appreciate and admire what she does for herself, the hair, the make-up, the nails, the clothes, and her erotic perfume. I'd like to think she does these things for me as well. I can feel her grab my hand and squeeze. Touch is so important to me and the look in her eyes when she looks at me. The way she looks at me, oh how I love it. It tells me so much about her. To romance me is to show me her confidence in herself and how she feels about us. I fall for her all over again.

Ginger · 04-07-2012, 07:16 PM

It makes me happy to read this thread. In many different ways, the posts seem to be about communication—people are saying, Here is my language. Do you know it?

When I focus on a person, they feel bathed in a warm light. The butch women I've loved, felt truly seen; not exposed, but gently observed. I don't think about it, it just happens, if someone interests me. And I don't presume to think I understand a person after just a short time, but in the process of honoring their boundaries and what is unspoken, I've seen the most amazing people emerge.

apretty · 04-07-2012, 07:31 PM

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Originally Posted by CockyDude

I read all these posts. Very nice. But being the shallow ass I am I can easily be had with;
Blondes, beer, bikes, good music.
Seeing a pattern here? Lol

It's super weird that you're single.

bkisbutchenuff · 05-09-2012, 03:12 AM

A little attention...a little TLC....does it every time!

BK

ruffryder · 05-09-2012, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by bkisbutchenuff

A little attention...a little TLC....does it every time!

BK

agreed!

rande · 05-11-2012, 09:14 AM

Yep....all of the above....

I like it when a femme looks me in the eye and lets me know I'm wanted.
Like you, sometimes I can't tell the signals. The old adage "treat folks like you want to be treated" doesn't always work here. Romance is its own universe.

A femme cooking for me is apt to turn me on, but yes...I'm ok at taking no for an answer. Getting to that point is fun, too. lol!

I love holding hands, holding one another in public....I love it when my darling touches my cheek, or pulls me close by a belt loop, or looks at me from across the room like there's nobody else in the world.

Kissing....making out 'til we can't stand it any longer.....

When a femme dresses in one of my shirts....when she takes hours and looks absolutely stunning and I know she did it for me....when she wakes up next to me, with love in her eyes....when we're sitting next to each other, and she pecks my cheek.

and when she accepts me as I am, without trying to turn me into something I can never be.

What can I say? Now that's what turns me on!

homoe · 07-31-2016, 06:01 AM

BUMP BUMP BUMP

flapdoodle · 07-31-2016, 08:07 AM

food
good cooked food

JRM · 07-31-2016, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by flapdoodle

food
good cooked food

Poor J probably would like to have good cooked food instead of looking at rusty pots and pans lol

Martina · 07-31-2016, 11:36 AM

JRM's mating call: "Hand me the remote!"

femmeandstrong · 07-31-2016, 12:05 PM

Just exactly as it is happening 😊

femmeandstrong · 07-31-2016, 12:08 PM

[quote=femmeandstrong;1079412]Just exactly as it is happening for hym

femmeandstrong · 07-31-2016, 12:09 PM

I think someone likes it the way it is unfolding

JRM · 07-31-2016, 12:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Martina

JRM's mating call: "Hand me the remote!"

Lol it don't even take that

Chad · 07-31-2016, 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by femmeandstrong

Just exactly as it is happening 😊

You have that right.Haha

JDeere · 07-31-2016, 02:12 PM

I really don't like to be romanticized, I would rather do the romanticising.

homoe · 07-31-2016, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

I really don't like to be romanticized, I would rather do the romanticising.

Yes, I'm old school! I'd much rather do the romanticising as well

JDeere · 08-06-2016, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

Yes, I'm old school! I'd much rather do the romanticising as well

It just doesn't feel right to me, to be romanced by my girl, makes me feel uncomfortable actually.

01-26-2012, 09:50 AM	#61
Mister Bent Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 2,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,151 Thanked 5,831 Times in 1,721 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	My femme has the moves. It really gets my engine racing when she tips her hat at me. __________________ Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken

04-07-2012, 06:28 PM	#63
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,701 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I love it when my Lady shows me her romantic side. I appreciate and admire what she does for herself, the hair, the make-up, the nails, the clothes, and her erotic perfume. I'd like to think she does these things for me as well. I can feel her grab my hand and squeeze. Touch is so important to me and the look in her eyes when she looks at me. The way she looks at me, oh how I love it. It tells me so much about her. To romance me is to show me her confidence in herself and how she feels about us. I fall for her all over again. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

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Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,367 Times in 4,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	JRM's mating call: "Hand me the remote!" __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

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femmeandstrong Member How Do You Identify?: just me...imperfect but warm-hearted me Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: I am alright and still smiling - keeping my eyes on what lasts and matters Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: New England Posts: 325 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 352 Thanked 1,040 Times in 279 Posts Rep Power: 8187132	[quote=femmeandstrong;1079412]Just exactly as it is happening for hym Last edited by femmeandstrong; 07-31-2016 at 12:11 PM. Reason: Autocorrect

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04-07-2012, 07:16 PM	#64
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,310 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	It makes me happy to read this thread. In many different ways, the posts seem to be about communication—people are saying, Here is my language. Do you know it? When I focus on a person, they feel bathed in a warm light. The butch women I've loved, felt truly seen; not exposed, but gently observed. I don't think about it, it just happens, if someone interests me. And I don't presume to think I understand a person after just a short time, but in the process of honoring their boundaries and what is unspoken, I've seen the most amazing people emerge.

05-09-2012, 03:12 AM	#66
bkisbutchenuff PPoA - Southern Gentle Butch How Do You Identify?: BOI/Butch/Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, he, him, handsome, Daddy Relationship Status: Single. 😉 Join Date: May 2011 Location: GA Posts: 2,398 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,071 Thanked 10,845 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	A little attention...a little TLC....does it every time! BK

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rande Junior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: May 2012 Location: san francisco Posts: 9 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 111 Times in 9 Posts Rep Power: 0	Yep....all of the above.... I like it when a femme looks me in the eye and lets me know I'm wanted. Like you, sometimes I can't tell the signals. The old adage "treat folks like you want to be treated" doesn't always work here. Romance is its own universe. A femme cooking for me is apt to turn me on, but yes...I'm ok at taking no for an answer. Getting to that point is fun, too. lol! I love holding hands, holding one another in public....I love it when my darling touches my cheek, or pulls me close by a belt loop, or looks at me from across the room like there's nobody else in the world. Kissing....making out 'til we can't stand it any longer..... When a femme dresses in one of my shirts....when she takes hours and looks absolutely stunning and I know she did it for me....when she wakes up next to me, with love in her eyes....when we're sitting next to each other, and she pecks my cheek. and when she accepts me as I am, without trying to turn me into something I can never be. What can I say? Now that's what turns me on!

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femmeandstrong Member How Do You Identify?: just me...imperfect but warm-hearted me Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: I am alright and still smiling - keeping my eyes on what lasts and matters Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: New England Posts: 325 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 352 Thanked 1,040 Times in 279 Posts Rep Power: 8187132	Just exactly as it is happening 😊

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femmeandstrong Member How Do You Identify?: just me...imperfect but warm-hearted me Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: I am alright and still smiling - keeping my eyes on what lasts and matters Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: New England Posts: 325 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 352 Thanked 1,040 Times in 279 Posts Rep Power: 8187132	I think someone likes it the way it is unfolding

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