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05-20-2014, 10:47 PM | #1 |
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Instant Turn-Offs
Since my Instant Turn-Ons thread seems to still be running along happily, I thought I would start one about instant turn-offs as well.
You see hym/her across a crowded room. You strike up a conversation. There's a spark and then...BAM...something ruins the mood so quickly you can't even believe you thought you were attracted to this person. Is it their breath? A rude comment to the waiter? What are your instant turn-offs?
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I would have to say a huge turn off is negativity ~ I can't handle ppl w/ constant negativity , moody , unsatisfied behavior .
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poor hygiene, rudeness, ignorance, rudeness and lacking compassion and rudeness
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So rudeness, not a real problem for you then?
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Dirty nails gross me out. I even notice if someone on a TV show has dirty nails.
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No matter how good someone looks, if they belittle someone else FOR NO REASON, it's a done deal. Not only will you be unattractive, I will also instantly dislike you as a person...and trip you when you walk by....just kidding. 😃
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Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.
Low self confidence. Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!
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My 4 instant turn offs -
And for me, these apply to anyone; friends, colleagues, acquaintances, dates, whomever....
The sound of forced laughter is an all-out auditory assault; if you don't find something funny, you really don't have to laugh. In fact, I beg you to please just stop unless it's genuine. Obviously fake smiles; if you're gonna fake it, you had better make that performance count! Put some effort into it, for crying out loud, lol. Limp handshakes; just ugh all the way around. I will always prefer an overly-enthusiastic hand pumper (lol, is that the correct term? - I don't know how else to describe it) to shaking hands with a overused dishrag. How do these people get jobs, anyway? Halfhearted hugs. Either mean it; or just get offa me already, lol. I can cope with pretty much anything else. |
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turn off
most things everyone has covered ...
just like to add pity party ppl. poor me ..stuff. (suck it up.. move on we all have stories) Be well |
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Even calling me drunk or high is unacceptable to me. Bleh.
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Hygiene is a huge one - Dirty fingernails, teeth, hair, feet, or clothing is a huge turn off.
Name-dropping Hypochondria No sense of humor or having a stick up your ass Mean-spirited bullshit or rudeness Not being able to hold a conversation about current events or politics on even a small level Interrupting Not listening Racism/Sexism Owning an emu (LOL! I'm phobic!!)
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