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Old 05-20-2014, 10:47 PM   #1
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Since my Instant Turn-Ons thread seems to still be running along happily, I thought I would start one about instant turn-offs as well.

You see hym/her across a crowded room. You strike up a conversation. There's a spark and then...BAM...something ruins the mood so quickly you can't even believe you thought you were attracted to this person.

Is it their breath? A rude comment to the waiter?

What are your instant turn-offs?
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Since my Instant Turn-Ons thread seems to still be running along happily, I thought I would start one about instant turn-offs as well.

You see hym/her across a crowded room. You strike up a conversation. There's a spark and then...BAM...something ruins the mood so quickly you can't even believe you thought you were attracted to this person.

Is it their breath? A rude comment to the waiter?

What are your instant turn-offs?
~This is a Good Thread as well, Girl.

I would have to say a huge turn off is negativity ~ I can't handle ppl w/ constant negativity , moody , unsatisfied behavior .
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poor hygiene, rudeness, ignorance, rudeness and lacking compassion and rudeness
So rudeness, not a real problem for you then?
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No matter how good someone looks, if they belittle someone else FOR NO REASON, it's a done deal. Not only will you be unattractive, I will also instantly dislike you as a person...and trip you when you walk by....just kidding. 😃
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People speaking for me, or thinking they know me better than I know myself
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Dirty hygiene
not supportive
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complaining all of the time
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Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.

Low self confidence.

Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!
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Default My 4 instant turn offs -

And for me, these apply to anyone; friends, colleagues, acquaintances, dates, whomever....


The sound of forced laughter is an all-out auditory assault; if you don't find something funny, you really don't have to laugh. In fact, I beg you to please just stop unless it's genuine.

Obviously fake smiles; if you're gonna fake it, you had better make that performance count! Put some effort into it, for crying out loud, lol.

Limp handshakes; just ugh all the way around. I will always prefer an overly-enthusiastic hand pumper (lol, is that the correct term? - I don't know how else to describe it) to shaking hands with a overused dishrag. How do these people get jobs, anyway?

Halfhearted hugs. Either mean it; or just get offa me already, lol.

I can cope with pretty much anything else.
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most things everyone has covered ...

just like to add pity party ppl.
poor me ..stuff.

(suck it up.. move on we all have stories)

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Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.

Low self confidence.

Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!
Even calling me drunk or high is unacceptable to me. Bleh.
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Hygiene is a huge one - Dirty fingernails, teeth, hair, feet, or clothing is a huge turn off.

Name-dropping

Hypochondria

No sense of humor or having a stick up your ass

Mean-spirited bullshit or rudeness

Not being able to hold a conversation about current events or politics on even a small level

Interrupting

Not listening

Racism/Sexism

Owning an emu (LOL! I'm phobic!!)
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