10-13-2017, 02:31 PM | #4501 |
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Embracing the 50's!
i am having a better time at 50 than i did at 40 or 30, and i don't remember 20 but i am pretty sure it was not fun.
i've been responsible for others since i can remember and it sure feels good to let go and only worry about myself now. i am FREE! i am also enjoying embracing my kinky side, something i have hidden for a long time. i do wish i had my old body back, this one works but things aren't exactly where they used to be |
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10-13-2017, 03:15 PM | #4502 | |
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10-13-2017, 08:12 PM | #4503 |
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Definitely had more fun and was more productive in my 30s/40s. Had a lucrative job, owned a townhouse outside of Ft. Lauderdale, my self esteem was high. Had a good group of equally wild friends. We would jet off several times a year to Intl. Ms. Leather, Living in Leather, Michfest, even Intl. Mr. Leather, and wherever else we wanted to. I had full leathers that were given or earned. Drove around in a Saab.
Went on a nursing travel assignment, my leathers were stolen, I was raped and the asshole stole my collection of irreplaceable whip and quirts as well as all my turquoise jewelry. I was put in jail pending court which I pled Nolo contender cause I could risk a felony. Had not done what they charged me with, but it was the only way out. Had my custom made wedding ring stolen. Yeah, sure the rapist went to prison...for 2 years! Have been homeless twice panhandling for food and a place for the night. Lost my companion animals 1) a wolf hybrid had to be placed up for adoption and 2) a sweet pitbull who was a one family dog had to be put down. My 3 cats just wandered off. My Partner's sister paid for our travel from Albuquerque and refused the animals. Once in the NE, we were housed with Her brother whose wife hated us. Both of us became disabled, but I was the only one whose SSDI was approved. We live in a small village up near Canada. Saving money to move to a city, probably Albany. See those 30s and 40s were truly better. I feel like I'm just biding time. My depression and OCD are much worse. Have become agoraphobic. Rarely leave the apartment which is a whole other mess.
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10-14-2017, 04:52 AM | #4504 |
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Good morning ..
Cath i am so sorry to hear about your hard times. i am waiting to go to work, i am not a fan of these short days! |
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10-26-2017, 06:34 PM | #4506 | |
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10-26-2017, 07:17 PM | #4508 | |
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Here in the south, Texas ... not sure where you're at... The Sir and Ma'am def flow regularly from younger to older BUT... at least in the workplace it does flow the other direction too... if only as a courtesy.
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Is anybody in here?!
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Nope!?!?!?!?!?!? what.... that nobody is here....or not that I can't be included in this thread?! I promise I have my birth certificate to show Im older than 21. Note: I also count with some wrinkles and, after my last haircut I noticed that I even have a few white hairs!! |
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Double that 21 and you're in like Flynn.
I meant nope in response to your 'is anybody in here' question. The exclamation points were for the 10 letter minimum. lol |
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I am here!
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I definitely qualify for this group! LOL... Hello everyone!
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Hello Lofters...Happy Sunday!
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Hello!!! Howdy!!!!!!
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Helloooo!! Peeking in again. I am officially in my 40's now so I guess I belong here!
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Welcome! How does it feel to be a member of the club?
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Howdy Lofters, I hope that everyone is having a happy weekend. I am home and happy to be here with the kitties.
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Weird!!! I'll admit it. I still feel young inside but 41 is officially in your 40's.
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