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Old 11-09-2009, 08:10 PM   #21
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Somebody rep this.

Stat.

ETA: it was edited. Hmp.

I was being super hostess-ey and repping everyone for saying anything and so can't rep it right now.

You are right e about the edit! Our super fast quoting action caught it on tape!
Mr/Ms. Her, I like the "needy, clingy" version much better.

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Old 11-09-2009, 08:13 PM   #22
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I was being super hostess-ey and repping everyone for saying anything and so can't rep it right now.
You are so loose.

I mean. It's no problem. I like my ladypeople that way, if you should know.
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Old 11-09-2009, 08:16 PM   #23
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You are so loose.

I mean. It's no problem. I like my ladypeople that way, if you should know.
I am kind of new at hostess-ing threads. I think I am whoring out my rep in order to make people like my thread! Must get ahold of myself, I want you all to respect me in the morning.
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Old 11-09-2009, 08:20 PM   #24
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I am kind of new at hostess-ing threads. I think I am whoring out my rep in order to make people like my thread! Must get ahold of myself, I want you all to respect me in the morning.
I promise to subscribe, and to come in and confess any future womances.

Does that help?

Do you feel you can rest now? Save yourself for that new crush of yours?

Side note: I am waiting for DETAILS on that, damn it.
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Old 11-09-2009, 08:29 PM   #25
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I'm in a relationship with two hot hot cerebral envied femmes.

Call will be over in the corner with a certain someone else and an extra pair of night vision goggles.
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I promise to subscribe, and to come in and confess any future womances.

Does that help?

Do you feel you can rest now? Save yourself for that new crush of yours?

Side note: I am waiting for DETAILS on that, damn it.
Yes, laughin, it helps. You sweet e!

Side note to the side note: bonne has left the land of nomance, and is getting much momance, it is neither bro, wo or fro mance, you might just call it bonnemance, she has been Romeo-manced.
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Old 11-09-2009, 08:39 PM   #28
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I'm in a relationship with two hot hot cerebral envied femmes.

Call will be over in the corner with a certain someone else and an extra pair of night vision goggles.
We should paint over the lenses of the goggles with something to keep em busy, and then chat, have some tea or wine, and laugh at the goons.
Gotta love em, of course.
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Perchance, and fun in the pance.

What say you of womance? Mz. PrittyPrance?
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I have been thinking of the strong attraction that many butches have to the term "bromance," and the strong (obsessed?), unique (querky?) friendships that butches have that fall under this heading.

Girls/women/females/ladypeople are known for their friendships with other Girls/women/females/ladypeople of course, but I haven't heard a term equivalent to "bromance" referring to the strong (obsessed?), unique (querky?) friendships between femmes.

Because I love words, I started playing around with possibilities...starting with the combined ideas of "sister" and "romance" as lateral to the ideas of "brother" and "romance" embedded in the term bromance. I came up with
1) sistahmance
2) sistomance
3) sismance
4) stromance (kinda a stretch)
5) sistmance

I basically thought, "blech," about these choices. None of them flow off the tongue like bromance. So then I thought about fromance, "F" for femme, plus the romance.....It flows.

Well then, beyond a simple word....do we have "fromances?" How are they similar or different from bromances? How is a fromance different from a girl-friendship with a girl/woman/female/ladyperson who is not a femme? How do fromances nurture us? Are fromances ever difficult? Painful?

Just curious about you all, no right or wrongs...what say you???

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I wonder if she knows it's now called..."Girl Crush?
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