What is on your mind - Page 112

Kenna · 04-23-2010, 06:01 AM

this morning....

between 6am and 7:10am...

Ldyluck88 · 04-23-2010, 11:07 AM

I recently posted a comment that a few people thought was offensive or racist. I did not intend to sound like it did, and thus apologized for my comment. But, it seems that a few more people have joined the bandwagon, and have to depict and degrade me even more, regardless of my apology. I have only been a member a few weeks, and I am disheartened to know that this community is not as forgiving as I thought they would be. No one really knows me, my race, my background and yet they refuse to let it die and forgive me of a statement I regret making. I thought of all people, my community of gay commrades would see I am truly sorry for that statement and let it die. But NO, this site is like highschool, in that they have clicks, one makes a statement, and they all come to the rescue to support their fellow bashers. I picketed for gay rights, prop 8 etc. and now I am fighting for the same people who are so desperately unforgiving, bashing me for my one statement, and refusing to move on! And the sad part, is that others "Thank" them for the post!! I know what it is like to be a minority, the discrimination, etc. and I refuse to tolerate that in a website of supposedly "family". Yes, you win(and you know who you are), but the battle is not with me, it is within yourself! If you cannot be forgiving here, I can only imagine what you are like in your day to day life and feel sorry for you. I believe in God, and I can forgive someone, because we all make mistakes. It is sad, that we reach out to be around fellow gay people for support and help, and they are the ones who turn their back on you, and are the first to judge and be non-forgiving. I choose not to be a part of this website anymore, as it is the "choosen few" who destroy the content/meaning of a gay supposedly friendly website. Thank you for showing me no tolerance. Thank you for being so opinionated that you fail to find your human side. Thank you for showing me, that it does not matter whether you are gay or straight, human kindness does not flow through your veins. I made my apologies, I've said my piece, and now I choose to no longer to be a member of this site. So, THANK YOU very much for showing me the true meaning of discrimination and tolerance!! May the karma you bestow on others, reap it's benefits upon you.
For the few people who did show their kindness, thank you from the bottom of my heart, and I wish you good health, good luck and tons of happiness.

JustBeingMe · 04-23-2010, 12:29 PM

TOO MUCH IS ON MY MIND !!! DAMN I WISH I COULD STOP THE BRAIN FROM

Soon · 04-23-2010, 12:37 PM

Vulnerable

Lillie · 04-23-2010, 01:00 PM

right now its this amazing turkey and havarti cheese sammich I made for lunch..dayum its good..lol ok..but

a trip..its whats on my mind..I want to go..but I know the moment I hit "purchase this flight" it will forever change me..and I wondering If I am really prepared for that..believing and doing....im always about "showing" and "doing" I live by that..but this has me shying away....I am a strong good woman..I deserve this!..dayum this sammich is fabulous..whoa..ok..that wasnt suppose to happen..but its whats on my mind!

I wonder if Audre Lorde ever had this sort of trouble..help me out sista!.. lol

Lillie

Rook · 04-23-2010, 01:02 PM

tryin to figure a way to tell lysalysa that Larry King tonight is going to Discuss
"Can u be both Gay & Christian"...
hmm....

Hack · 04-23-2010, 06:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Thinking about how Hack can bite me.

Just say when and where, darling.

Mister Bent · 04-23-2010, 07:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

Just say when and where, darling.

Such a flirt.

Hack · 04-23-2010, 07:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Such a flirt.

We need to keep this up. If my rep comments are genuine, girls think this is hot.

Mister Bent · 04-23-2010, 07:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

We need to keep this up. If my rep comments are genuine, girls think this is hot.

Sick lot, all of them.

Clearly.

Maybe it's your hair?

Signed,
Love Muffin

Hack · 04-23-2010, 08:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Sick lot, all of them.

Clearly.

Maybe it's your hair?

Signed,
Love Muffin

You have the better hair, dumpling.

Though chicks do dig the grey.

Signed,
Pookie Bear

P.S. Is Ez going to want to kick my ass now?

Mister Bent · 04-23-2010, 08:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

You have the better hair, dumpling.

Though chicks do dig the grey.

Signed,
Pookie Bear

P.S. Is Ez going to want to kick my ass now?

PB,

Ezee is my brother. If we flirted, well, that would just be gross.

LM

moxie · 04-23-2010, 08:06 PM

I think I am going to vomit moonbeams and rainbows.
Damn Facebook.

Hack · 04-23-2010, 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

PB,

Ezee is my brother. If we flirted, well, that would just be gross.

LM

Hey, that means I could score with the both of you.

Mister Bent · 04-23-2010, 08:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

Hey, that means I could score with the both of you.

Like a twins porn.

Diva · 04-23-2010, 09:37 PM

Alrighty.....Austin is under a tornado watch....

until 6 am.......

WEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!

Nat · 04-23-2010, 10:47 PM

What's on my mind tonight?

Sometimes I feel emotionally a bit like that fish at the end of the faith no more video.

But it's better to feel something than nothing, and I've learned how to feel calm even when there is anguish. The calm will last, the anguish won't.

Somebody told me recently that I embarrass myself and it's hard to watch. Maybe I do. Certainly I have. I don't always keep a lid on the things I should keep a lid on. I'm not always so discreet or modest or grown-up. I make a lot of mistakes. I have made a whole lot of them.

But life goes on, and I am aiming for something greater.

In the words of Charlie "Nuwanda" Dalton from Dead Poets Society -

Laughing, crying
tumbling, mumbling.
Gotta do more.
Gotta be more.

Chaos screaming
chaos dreaming.
Gotta do more!
Gotta be more!

JustLovelyJenn · 04-24-2010, 08:54 AM

Dear Hack and Bent,

This is the banter I miss from friendships I have lost. You two gave me a wonderful gift today. A smile that will remain no matter what else happens, because all day I am gonna be hearing Love Muffin and Pookie Bear attached to what everyone says.

Yours,
Elated Easedropper

Hack · 04-24-2010, 10:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

Dear Hack and Bent,

This is the banter I miss from friendships I have lost. You two gave me a wonderful gift today. A smile that will remain no matter what else happens, because all day I am gonna be hearing Love Muffin and Pookie Bear attached to what everyone says.

Yours,
Elated Easedropper

See, Love Muffin? I told you. Chicks think this is hot.

Signed,
Pookie Bear

Mister Bent · 04-24-2010, 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

See, Love Muffin? I told you. Chicks think this is hot.

Signed,
Pookie Bear

Pookie,

I am not convinced.

I fear references to lube, "pitcher" and "catcher" may soon follow.

Clenchingly yours,

LM

04-23-2010, 12:29 PM	#2223
JustBeingMe Senior Member How Do You Identify?: as ME Relationship Status: I don't need no stinking status. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: somewhere you're not..... Posts: 1,808 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,961 Thanked 1,691 Times in 694 Posts Rep Power: 12813868	ARRRRRGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH TOO MUCH IS ON MY MIND !!! DAMN I WISH I COULD STOP THE BRAIN FROM __________________ Nothing more, Nothing less, I'm Just Being Me

04-23-2010, 12:37 PM	#2224
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04-23-2010, 01:00 PM	#2225
Lillie Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: babygirl,princess,her, that girl, she! but mostly just "babygirl" Relationship Status: single Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In the land of milk and honey!.. Posts: 358 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 406 Thanked 474 Times in 182 Posts Rep Power: 454631	right now its this amazing turkey and havarti cheese sammich I made for lunch..dayum its good..lol ok..but a trip..its whats on my mind..I want to go..but I know the moment I hit "purchase this flight" it will forever change me..and I wondering If I am really prepared for that..believing and doing....im always about "showing" and "doing" I live by that..but this has me shying away....I am a strong good woman..I deserve this!..dayum this sammich is fabulous..whoa..ok..that wasnt suppose to happen..but its whats on my mind! I wonder if Audre Lorde ever had this sort of trouble..help me out sista!.. lol Lillie __________________ *Lillie* *The most expensive jewels I ever wore around my neck was my child's arms* http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z...orizontal3.jpg http://s338.photobucket.com/albums/n...sexy/00033.gif

04-23-2010, 01:02 PM	#2226
Rook Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A.G - Stone Butch - GenderFuck Preferred Pronoun?: Hym, Hyz...or, just b respectable, it's not that hard.. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Columbus Posts: 2,280 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,227 Thanked 3,183 Times in 1,287 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	tryin to figure a way to tell lysalysa that Larry King tonight is going to Discuss "Can u be both Gay & Christian"... hmm.... __________________

04-23-2010, 08:06 PM	#2233
moxie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a cynical princess wannabe Preferred Pronoun?: lipgloss junkie Relationship Status: yep Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: the ville Posts: 3,027 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,544 Thanked 6,770 Times in 1,847 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I think I am going to vomit moonbeams and rainbows. Damn Facebook. __________________ "Accept what people offer. Drink their milkshakes. Take their love." - Wally Lamb

04-23-2010, 06:01 AM	#2221
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,784 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,613 Thanked 12,107 Times in 3,757 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	this morning.... between 6am and 7:10am...

04-23-2010, 11:07 AM	#2222
Ldyluck88 Member How Do You Identify?: Me Relationship Status: not here Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 161 Thanked 117 Times in 67 Posts Rep Power: 22	I recently posted a comment that a few people thought was offensive or racist. I did not intend to sound like it did, and thus apologized for my comment. But, it seems that a few more people have joined the bandwagon, and have to depict and degrade me even more, regardless of my apology. I have only been a member a few weeks, and I am disheartened to know that this community is not as forgiving as I thought they would be. No one really knows me, my race, my background and yet they refuse to let it die and forgive me of a statement I regret making. I thought of all people, my community of gay commrades would see I am truly sorry for that statement and let it die. But NO, this site is like highschool, in that they have clicks, one makes a statement, and they all come to the rescue to support their fellow bashers. I picketed for gay rights, prop 8 etc. and now I am fighting for the same people who are so desperately unforgiving, bashing me for my one statement, and refusing to move on! And the sad part, is that others "Thank" them for the post!! I know what it is like to be a minority, the discrimination, etc. and I refuse to tolerate that in a website of supposedly "family". Yes, you win(and you know who you are), but the battle is not with me, it is within yourself! If you cannot be forgiving here, I can only imagine what you are like in your day to day life and feel sorry for you. I believe in God, and I can forgive someone, because we all make mistakes. It is sad, that we reach out to be around fellow gay people for support and help, and they are the ones who turn their back on you, and are the first to judge and be non-forgiving. I choose not to be a part of this website anymore, as it is the "choosen few" who destroy the content/meaning of a gay supposedly friendly website. Thank you for showing me no tolerance. Thank you for being so opinionated that you fail to find your human side. Thank you for showing me, that it does not matter whether you are gay or straight, human kindness does not flow through your veins. I made my apologies, I've said my piece, and now I choose to no longer to be a member of this site. So, THANK YOU very much for showing me the true meaning of discrimination and tolerance!! May the karma you bestow on others, reap it's benefits upon you. For the few people who did show their kindness, thank you from the bottom of my heart, and I wish you good health, good luck and tons of happiness.

04-23-2010, 09:37 PM	#2236
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,180 Times in 5,238 Posts Rep Power: 0	Alrighty.....Austin is under a tornado watch.... until 6 am....... WEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!

04-23-2010, 10:47 PM	#2237
Nat Senior Member How Do You Identify?: bigender Preferred Pronoun?: whatevs Relationship Status: in a relationship Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Tx Posts: 3,535 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,042 Thanked 13,992 Times in 2,595 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	What's on my mind tonight? Sometimes I feel emotionally a bit like that fish at the end of the faith no more video. But it's better to feel something than nothing, and I've learned how to feel calm even when there is anguish. The calm will last, the anguish won't. Somebody told me recently that I embarrass myself and it's hard to watch. Maybe I do. Certainly I have. I don't always keep a lid on the things I should keep a lid on. I'm not always so discreet or modest or grown-up. I make a lot of mistakes. I have made a whole lot of them. But life goes on, and I am aiming for something greater. In the words of Charlie "Nuwanda" Dalton from Dead Poets Society - Laughing, crying tumbling, mumbling. Gotta do more. Gotta be more. Chaos screaming chaos dreaming. Gotta do more! Gotta be more! __________________ I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl. - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning. -Viktor Frankl

04-24-2010, 08:54 AM	#2238
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,995 Times in 3,685 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Dear Hack and Bent, This is the banter I miss from friendships I have lost. You two gave me a wonderful gift today. A smile that will remain no matter what else happens, because all day I am gonna be hearing Love Muffin and Pookie Bear attached to what everyone says. Yours, Elated Easedropper __________________ --Jenn