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If she's into you, she'll find a way to make it known.
I'm the shy type. But after I met B, my sweetie today. I took some initiative, found out her name, stalked her on facebook until we exchanged emails. Took her to dinner and plied her with beer until she agreed to take me home (OK, maybe I didn't have to push her to hard to take me home -- I'm cute dammit.) But you get the picture? Even us shy ones, if we see what we want, we'll find a way to make sure you know it. |
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I wouldn't know if someone was into me unless she said something.
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I just assume she's not. I'm almost always right. Bah, humbug.
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I totally agree though. If she's into you, you'll know it. If you don't know it, then she probably isn't.
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I may be into you, but I may be too shy to say anything...then what?
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If you text when me after I just left the room, I'd think you were into me
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After everything I said I've realised that I am rubbish the other way round - meaning - at knowing if someone likes me!
I think I am a bit autistic in the world of dating! I tend to rely on hearing the words.. literally.. but then I have been messed around and lied to so much (as everyone experiences thoughout life) that I tend to leave it all up to them now, and am sceptical. So although I tend to attract shy girls too, things don't really get off the ground!!! Have to work on this! Any tips??? Fx |
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Eight months later - I pursued someone else, fell in love, broken up.... and now, the girl that started it all is back in my life.
Only, now she has a girlfriend. But she's a classy broad and I have morals, so nothing's going to happen between us. But, at least I have validation from unbiased bystanders, that she's still into me O.o |
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I had what may have been a successful date just before I left for a week long trip, and now I have no idea whether this chick is into me or not. Yikes! I feel better knowing I'm not alone in this regard!
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So, I had a casual dinner with ambulance girl on the 12th. I was out of town from the 13th through the 17th. When I got back I asked if she wanted to hang out, she said it was her birthday that week so she was booked, but we would definitely get together the following week. She started a second job and plans never materialized. I asked her this past Thursday if she wanted to see a movie with me, she agreed to Wednesday. I did all the research for theaters and show times. She responds to texts for a couple minutes, then just disappears.
I think this girl is awesome, but lately I'm starting to get the feeling that if she was into me, she would make time to hang out with me or answer my texts. Am I barking up the wrong tree, here?
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I think ageism has hit the rockin house hold,or I dont have enough $$ or my disablity gets in the way or the only place to maybe meet someone is in gay bars that I dont hardly see anyone over 30.I gess the dateable women have either found someone or gone to high ground.I sometimes wonder if I just missed the boat somehow..BUT if some one was to become intresd in me dont stop trying to get thrue to my thick head cause over the years its gotten sorta dense.
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As we age, we do not just run into them at nightclubs or the grocery store any more, we have to put ourselves out there. I had a date with an ex-nun this past Saturday and another date with someone else this coming weekend (not an ex-nun this time). I even heard from a woman that got out of federal prison-yeah me!! (No, no date there for me). I figure I have nothing to lose and may meet "the one" one of these dates!
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