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Poly-friendly mingling/flirting thread
i felt a bit awkward posting in the singles forums as i'm not single, but i am available/open to possibilities. so i thought it might be fun to have a thread for folks who are poly and available, or who are interested in dating poly people (you don't have to be polyamorous yourself) to come and chat, flirt, get to know each other, etc.
 
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Cool thread
I am poly myself, but am currently "single".. Though I do have a close and deal friend/playmate that has been in my life for over 3 years and will continue to be part of my life.I do have a comment regarding the "don't have to be poly yourself".. I have found that dating folks that are not poly usually leads to hurt feelings on all sides.. Mainly because the "non-poly" may try to be "ok" with it but in reality may think that if he or she works hard enough, eventually the poly person with choose to be monogamous.. This is just my thought and experience.. Saying that I think that this is a great thread and I look forward to seeing where it goes -Tony
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05-02-2012, 04:19 PM
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yay! i'm glad you're here, tony.
i've dated a few monogamous people - one of my current partners feels very strongly about being monogamous because that's just who he is, but he's very accepting of the fact that i'm poly. and i've mostly had good experiences. i tend to be pretty open to dating anyone as long as they're accepting of the fact that i'm poly...i don't care if they choose to be or not. but i agree that for some people it can definitely be an issue. thankfully i've been lucky in that regard
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Hi y'all.
I'm poly simply because I know I can't be monogamous. Regretably a lesson I had to learn while hurting some very dear, wonderful, people. Right now I'm single, in a holding pattern. I'm up for flirting at ALL times. 
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05-02-2012, 09:05 PM
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flirting is fun! it's odd...i haven't really ever flirted or dated that much, so i'm kind of a newbie. most of my relationships have been with people i was friends with for a long time before. there are definitely perks to that, but i think it would be fun to date and flirt more
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05-02-2012, 09:33 PM
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For a number of reasons, I think being polyamorous makes sense. So many horrible things happen in our lives under the excuse of jealousy and its accepted.
I do love to flirt!
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Hello!
I am going to join in on this thread, where has it been all my life!??  I am recently out of a 11 year poly/open relationship. It ended mostly because we grew apart, our needs ,wants desires changed, well hers more then mine I suppose. Anyway i am single but have a play partner, and am dating. I am a big ole flirt! So how you doin MisterB Quote:
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05-03-2012, 09:26 PM
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I think it's gonna be a long hot Summer!
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I'm non-monogamous, but not ecactly poly. I mean, I'll always reserve the right to play around outside of a primary relationship, but I don't think I can have more than one fully developed romantic relationship at a time.
Can I still play in this sandbox?
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yes! at least...i'm totally okay with all folks who are interested in consensual non-monogamy playing here.
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How is everyone this fine Friday!
Welcome to aishah's Lair. Mingle * Flirt
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It's morning? Gah... I need more sleep :P Maybe a cuddle or something..
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lol.. all this flirting going on.. I'll be honest, in person, I find it really hard to flirt, mainly because I don't want to "offend" people.. So I usually just awkwardly ask them out for coffee or to play and then flirt once they say yes, lol. Maybe it's a safety buffer thing for me.. I know that "rejection" is always part of the game, but I still tend to be on the safe side.. But getting MUCH better at "grabbing up my balls" and just asking people out
Apoc, I have had an eye on you for a while, hon.. Smart, funny, and sexy.. Some good qualities there, my friend Have enjoyed reading the thread so far, look forward to more.. Oh, and Linus.. How you doin'?
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Well Hello Beautiful!
Handsome Devil?! has a good ring to it!! LOL the devil part def, true!! I have been far far away in a strange and peculiar place for many years, but now I am back!!YA MisterB Quote:
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thanks apoc! & others
i'm really glad folks are enjoying this thread.also, i baked today. *offers cookies* i've been told that baking is the sincerest form of flirting. or at least one of the forms. and besides, COOKIES. how are you enjoying being back in the states, misterb? i've only been to the uk once (outside of manchester for a few weeks and london for a couple days) but i reallllly loved it there and want to go back someday for me, i could probably do monogamy. i've done it in the past. i just...don't understand why i should. i like being polyamorous i love people and i love expressing love towards people in different ways. i love not having to be everything to everyone and not expecting everyone to be everything to me. i love feeling connected in different ways. i love not having to hide the fact that i love people a lot, or not having to channel it into certain kinds of platonic relationships for the sake of...monogamous respectability or whatever.
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Zone 3. I loved our flat and the school I worked at was right down the road, HOWEVER it was very, ummm un queer,, straight folks, so felt a bit out of my eliment At least in Lincoln I know all the queers or most of them and a pretty large group of FtM guys so its all good! Where in the world are you? Quote:
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