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Old 08-21-2016, 06:30 PM   #1
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Question Butches..What makes you feel sexy?

It's a mystery to femmes, (at least to some of us). Please enlighten. Are there rules to sex or sexy? Please enlighten, we all want to know. No rules, just be nice
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Old 08-21-2016, 06:51 PM   #2
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Taking a long hot shower after working out or working in the yard, drying off and putting on a crisp long sleeved shirt with a pair of Levis button down jeans.

SHE is waiting for me outside the door ready with the cologne she enjoys me wearing, a spray here a spray there. She reaches behind me and starts to put on my tie and whispers "oh baby you smell so good."

She makes me feel sexy, with all she says and all she does.
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- Getting a good haircut

- Working out (especially weight lifting)
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This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.
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This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.
I think butches can feel sexy. Sexy does not discriminate.


I can feel sexy just by the way she looks at me.
Working construction, building things.
Good smelling cologne
Nice clothes

These are just a few
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This is interesting, though not surprising, to find the "What makes you feel sexy?" in the Femme zone has 111 replies in 48 hours but in this Butch version there are just four in 24 hours.

Does that mean we don't generally feel sexy? Or does that mean "sexy" is not quite the right word for Butches? I'm not sure myself.
For me sexy isn't the right word.
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Arrow guys..

sexy means anything you think it means- when you are "in the groove", "in the mood", in charge, attractive, exciting, seductive, raunchy, bad ass, guapo, gato, rico...
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Words.....

Let's try some on....

" I feel ____________ when......_______________"

wanted................................ she puts her arm in mine...

desired ............................... her nostrils flare

hella hot .............................. she strokes my bicep


any of those work?
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For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!
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For some reason I really like it when a femme grabs my hand to hold instead of vice versa!
Homoe has gone mushy on me

J/k!
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I agree... I associate "sexy" more with the femme. That's not quite the right word in my head... but definitely butches can be sexy too!

I raised the question because I thought it curious that we butches didn't weren't commenting as much or as quickly as the equivalent femme question. Perhaps it's because there are more femmes here than butches? I don't know the reason but I'm curious!
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I prefer Handsome but nothing makes me feel handsome, I just am, according to my girlfriend.
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Doh! My bad... yet again! I didn't realize how much older the femme thread was....looked at the wrong date!! *insert forehead whacking emoticon here*

Is clueless sexy???
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when she slowly rubs my stomach ... gets me feeling sexy (actually horny is an even closer definition)
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Is clueless sexy???
It kind of can be.

Depends on the circumstances.
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It kind of can be. Depends on the circumstances.
I won't ask if this happens to be one of those!
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