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luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 10:16 AM

Dreams now there isnt a thing wrong with that

Violette · 07-30-2011, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

im enjoying your responses, im thinking shyness might have a lil to do with it what do you all think?

Yes, I think it does. I am shy when it comes to pursuing/being pursued. Professionally, not shy at all.

I too, wonder if the shyness around romance is socialized in me as well. Or maybe not being out for very long has something to do with my shyness. Don't know, seems the older I get the more shy I am. Oddly, though, the older I get the more confident I am as a person. Okay, I don't have a clue (or, perhaps too many).

I appreciate it when someone shows interest. I try to show some interest by making direct eye contact and smiling. If the person doesn't show any interest back (maybe playing it cool, or just not interested, or doesn't know I am gay) then I back the heck off.

I don't know, how does a femme let someone know they are gay? Do we even register on the gaydar??

weatherboi · 07-30-2011, 10:27 AM

i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!!

bigbutchmistie · 07-30-2011, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

Yes, its because I am shy that I dont pursue...

The_Lady_Snow · 07-30-2011, 10:32 AM

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

tiggs · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

I am definitely the prey, I wouldn't have it any other way. If I am interested in someone I will let them know with coy flirting, smiles and the like but I will not initiate at all, guess I am old fashioned that way. That and the dominant, alpha personality thing is so dang sexy *fans self*. lol

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Violette

Yes, I think it does. I am shy when it comes to pursuing/being pursued. Professionally, not shy at all.

I too, wonder if the shyness around romance is socialized in me as well. Or maybe not being out for very long has something to do with my shyness. Don't know, seems the older I get the more shy I am. Oddly, though, the older I get the more confident I am as a person. Okay, I don't have a clue (or, perhaps too many).

I appreciate it when someone shows interest. I try to show some interest by making direct eye contact and smiling. If the person doesn't show any interest back (maybe playing it cool, or just not interested, or doesn't know I am gay) then I back the heck off.

I don't know, how does a femme let someone know they are gay? Do we even register on the gaydar??

hmmm good point,yeah if you try and they play it cool or just dont notice which is what happens with me TBH lol I dont keep trying
Femmes show up on my gaydar just sayin

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Originally Posted by weatherboi

i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!!

you know that is what happens to me..and usually it feels like its outta the blue

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

Im only competitive in life not in romance at all..but I do find I am not shy in the least.
I do find its a natural ability to me as well...it just happens to be I am good at a lot of things I try

Rockinonahigh · 07-30-2011, 11:12 AM

First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.

Leigh · 07-30-2011, 12:11 PM

I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long

Gemme · 07-30-2011, 10:49 PM

I am the prey, until I am not.

I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation.

moxie · 07-30-2011, 11:13 PM

I tend to start out being the persuer but I have gotten off that train and have decided to wait on someone to woo me. I deserve it. Looks like I'll be waiting a while.

MysticOceansFL · 08-15-2011, 09:19 PM

I'm a hunter

sweetfemme247 · 08-15-2011, 09:21 PM

Im shy and dont go after people, especially since I do like older people then me, and not alot of them give me the time of day.

kannon · 08-15-2011, 09:31 PM

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dixie · 08-15-2011, 09:34 PM

Usually, I am the hunter. Although I will pretend to be the prey.

Leigh · 08-15-2011, 10:11 PM

Even though I posted a little above, I think I will always be shy and therefore somehow will always be the prey!

luv2luvgirls · 08-16-2011, 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by dixielady

Usually, I am the hunter. Although I will pretend to be the prey.

I think that is alot of femmes style...all coy on a butch make us think its our idea huh

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Originally Posted by Matthew

Even though I posted a little above, I think I will always be shy and therefore somehow will always be the prey!

Matt you make me laugh,that smiley and your comment thanks

Starbuck · 08-16-2011, 11:14 AM

I like being the prey, but there are times I also like being the hunter. A friend of mine once described me this way: femme in the streets, butch in the sheets...LOL, I am more flexible than that but it's pretty darn close. I do so like to hunt. But at the same time, I enjoy playing coy and making eye contact and smiling making you come to me. So you figure me out, I don't know...

luv2luvgirls · 08-16-2011, 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Starbuck

I like being the prey, but there are times I also like being the hunter. A friend of mine once described me this way: femme in the streets, butch in the sheets...LOL, I am more flexible than that but it's pretty darn close. I do so like to hunt. But at the same time, I enjoy playing coy and making eye contact and smiling making you come to me. So you figure me out, I don't know...

so you get the best of both sides then. eye contact and a lil aloofness or coy lol,is also a way to hunt...just sayin

weatherboi · 08-17-2011, 07:14 AM

being that i am prey sometimes i feel very baitish...today is one of those days!!!

07-30-2011, 10:27 AM	#23
weatherboi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Owned boy Preferred Pronoun?: Hey boy!!! Relationship Status: counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: i have 2 sets of geographic coordinates!!! Posts: 6,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,797 Thanked 12,559 Times in 2,993 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!! __________________

07-30-2011, 10:32 AM	#25
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,119 Times in 15,678 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is.. __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

07-30-2011, 10:49 AM	#26
tiggs Member How Do You Identify?: femme submissive Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: married and collared to Converse Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 359 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,456 Thanked 726 Times in 247 Posts Rep Power: 2288327	I am definitely the prey, I wouldn't have it any other way. If I am interested in someone I will let them know with coy flirting, smiles and the like but I will not initiate at all, guess I am old fashioned that way. That and the dominant, alpha personality thing is so dang sexy fans self. lol __________________ “The world is not a dangerous place because of those who do evil, but because of those that look on and do nothing" - Albert Einstein

07-30-2011, 12:11 PM	#29
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

07-30-2011, 10:49 PM	#30
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,585 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,168 Thanked 108,771 Times in 25,657 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I am the prey, until I am not. I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

07-30-2011, 10:16 AM	#21
luv2luvgirls Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Asshole Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kentucky/Austin/Wherever Posts: 2,310 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,387 Thanked 5,470 Times in 1,827 Posts Rep Power: 0	Dreams now there isnt a thing wrong with that

07-30-2011, 11:12 AM	#28
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.

07-30-2011, 11:13 PM	#31
moxie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a cynical princess wannabe Preferred Pronoun?: lipgloss junkie Relationship Status: yep Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: the ville Posts: 3,027 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,544 Thanked 6,770 Times in 1,847 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I tend to start out being the persuer but I have gotten off that train and have decided to wait on someone to woo me. I deserve it. Looks like I'll be waiting a while. __________________ "Accept what people offer. Drink their milkshakes. Take their love." - Wally Lamb

08-15-2011, 09:19 PM	#32
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I'm a hunter __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

08-15-2011, 09:21 PM	#33
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115670	Im shy and dont go after people, especially since I do like older people then me, and not alot of them give me the time of day. __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

08-15-2011, 09:31 PM	#34
kannon Member How Do You Identify?: bloke Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Happy is the heart that believes in angels Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Land of Milk and Honey Posts: 884 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,920 Thanked 2,067 Times in 584 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	This is how I roll. Throw down my credentials. Represent. [IMG][/IMG]

08-15-2011, 09:34 PM	#35
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,385 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Usually, I am the hunter. Although I will pretend to be the prey.

08-15-2011, 10:11 PM	#36
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	*Even though I posted a little above, I think I will always be shy and therefore somehow will always be the prey!* __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

08-16-2011, 11:14 AM	#38
Starbuck Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Soft Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Oklahoma City Posts: 2,436 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,378 Thanked 2,148 Times in 756 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I like being the prey, but there are times I also like being the hunter. A friend of mine once described me this way: femme in the streets, butch in the sheets...LOL, I am more flexible than that but it's pretty darn close. I do so like to hunt. But at the same time, I enjoy playing coy and making eye contact and smiling making you come to me. So you figure me out, I don't know... __________________ To forgive is to set the prisoner free, And then discover the prisoner was you.

08-17-2011, 07:14 AM	#40
weatherboi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Owned boy Preferred Pronoun?: Hey boy!!! Relationship Status: counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: i have 2 sets of geographic coordinates!!! Posts: 6,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,797 Thanked 12,559 Times in 2,993 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	being that i am prey sometimes i feel very baitish...today is one of those days!!! __________________