View Full Version : WHO is on your Mind ... Why?
MissItalianDiva
05-08-2013, 11:48 PM
Who Me??????
Glad you got good stuff goin on!
YES!! You are absolutely fabulous darlin....
wahya
05-27-2013, 03:58 PM
Me..for once.
LoyalWolfsBlade
05-27-2013, 04:21 PM
My ex L*** is on my mind simply because I miss the friendship I shared with her and how she just got me.....
girl_dee
06-02-2013, 06:06 AM
Lil Peno Pants.....
Bèsame*
06-02-2013, 08:11 AM
my father...he has been my hero in the last couple,of weeks :)
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~baby~doll~
06-02-2013, 11:16 AM
a friend and sometimes lover named Sarah who passed away two months ago. i miss her
LukeCian
06-02-2013, 11:32 AM
Someone with an 80's dance card ;)
~baby~doll~
06-02-2013, 11:36 AM
Someone with an 80's dance card ;)
did we still get our dance cards filled in during the 80's or did we just begin to sway to the music in our hearts?
LukeCian
06-02-2013, 11:42 AM
Well that is a good question. As I remember it I think there was a lot of swaying going on. But recently I have found the dance card thing to have Me feeling some type of way. :)
did we still get our dance cards filled in during the 80's or did we just begin to sway to the music in our hearts?
GraffitiBoi
06-02-2013, 11:45 AM
I'm thinking about a couple of people. My cousin Kim is one. Hard to believe she's been gone 2 1/2 years now. I'm also thinking about... Someone else... Who I wish would come give me a massage. My body hurts.
Princess
06-02-2013, 12:45 PM
There are several people on my mind today, most of which are my fantastic friends. Its nice to wake up to a room full of them and it brought a huge smile to my face. I am so thankful for them!
Dominique
06-02-2013, 12:59 PM
I'm thinking about Amy Winehouse. I've spent the last two hours watching U tube video's of her. Much like Janis Joplin, the addiction was stronger than intelligence. Sad.
This one is my favorite, before the drugs began to ruin her. ~Valerie, with Mark Ronson~
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Wrang1er
06-02-2013, 01:03 PM
My cousin is on my mind. I have been having conversations lately that bring thoughts of her. I miss her very much.
~baby~doll~
06-02-2013, 01:13 PM
someone who may not know how much i am her friend
Miss Scarlett
06-28-2013, 08:28 PM
Friends who live in the counties to the north and east of me...severe storms in their respective areas, some of the worst this summer...
Wryly
06-29-2013, 11:13 AM
I'm thinking of friends that I won't be able to hang out at Pride with - - working this weekend and, after payin bills, I am too poor to party.
I'm thinking of someone I should be returning a PM to - I don't want her to think I've forgotten or am not interested! I swear I need better time management skills!
Am thinking about my Aunt Vicky. She died last night. She was 92.
It is sad but a blessing. Is very difficult to watch the people you love slowly lose their memory. It is difficult to see them in a nursing home when their behavior makes it difficult to manage them at home. It is difficult when they kind of remember which part of the family you belong to but cant recall exactly who you are.
But, I will always remember her as one of the strong, independent, vocal women in my family. I will remember how she dressed impeccably well into her 80's, easily being seen as a hetero femme extraordinaire. I will remember how she matched her brothers in volume, tone, facts, and fist pounding on the table as she defended those less fortunate (guess where I got it from) during the family holidays around the table discussions - aka the informal Italian summit to solve the worlds problems.
I will also remember how she made sure I had stuffed artichokes every Easter. :) It truly is the little things.
RIP Auntie. You will be fondly remembered and deeply missed.
MsBluem
06-30-2013, 07:05 PM
Someone who I fell in love with all over again this weekend. We have the best, most perfect (for us at least) friendship I could ask for. I really needed this weekend.
girl_dee
11-02-2013, 06:50 AM
my mother, and for a bazillion reasons..........
girl_dee
11-02-2013, 08:24 PM
Breakfast with Pajama!
Tommi
11-03-2013, 11:21 PM
My lady love who stayed besied me, and the ones who journey with us, and one hell of a medical team. Three months of radiation treatments are over, and I am alive and well. (f)
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cinnamongrrl
05-05-2014, 06:15 PM
someone I love dearly...they have a sick parent... and all I can do is give hugs and my love.....
WildHorses
05-05-2014, 06:44 PM
My mom, grandma, aunties and my daughter. It is almost Mother's Day.
starryeyes
05-05-2014, 10:17 PM
Someone who's name starts with a P and ends with an A. She has been a great friend, even though she makes me crazy sometimes. :)
MysticOceansFL
05-06-2014, 12:54 AM
All my friends and family
Bèsame*
05-06-2014, 07:09 AM
Thinking about my little brother...
Fire fighter in 100 temps fighting wild fires in Oklahoma . Be safe:)
My nephew, he graduated college at the top of his class and we are so proud of him.
Kimpooh
05-06-2014, 05:49 PM
Papa.... Because I miss her so so much
RockOn
05-06-2014, 05:49 PM
a girl
because I really like her
MsTinkerbelly
05-06-2014, 07:16 PM
I think of my Mom every day, but more so in May.
She held on long enough to be here for my birthday and mother's day, and then passed on May 22nd, 4 years ago.
During my lifetime I only missed one Mother's day with her, because i was stupid and in love, and just had to be with him instead.
SirenManda
05-07-2014, 12:09 AM
I think about my dad everyday. There's not a moment of happiness since he passed away that I haven't thought how amazing it would have been just to have him around. There's nothing I wouldn't do to have him back again, cherish those around you. Cancer ruins many lives, not just the direct person.
SnackTime
05-10-2014, 09:27 PM
Mom...
Tomorrow is Mother's Day
Bèsame*
05-10-2014, 11:27 PM
All the Mother's that are no longer with us...
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SnackTime
06-10-2014, 05:32 AM
The ParentalUnit...
He will be placing roses in the vases for their 49th wedding anniversary.
cinnamongrrl
06-10-2014, 09:00 AM
my memere.....
yesterday was her birthday....
seems unfair that I have the rest of eternity to miss her....she was part of my life for 25 years....I know I should be happy with that....
I always think of her when I see roses.... <3
Bèsame*
06-11-2014, 11:07 AM
my Dad.
Waiting for my Mom to call with news.
I addressed his Father's Day card, praying, I can send more.
Kätzchen
06-17-2014, 01:38 PM
My youngest son, who moved out two weeks ago and is living life on his own terms. It's awfully quiet around the house nowadays but I don't mind. I worry some about him because I know him so well - his strengths and weaknesses and blind spots. But he's fully capable on his own. There is probably no better way to show my love for him than to let him stretch his wings and soar.
<<<------ *mama bird*
: )
Im going to stretch my own wings and do a little soaring, too. ♡
homoe
07-29-2015, 05:32 PM
Most all of the Republican candidates but especially Marco Rubio and Mike Hucabee ":|
Can you say open mouth insert foot:seeingstars:
JDeere
07-29-2015, 07:16 PM
My girlfriend, she is working alot and I know she is tired, sad part is I am not there to help because I am in my own world dealing with family stuff.
Gayandgray
08-29-2016, 07:06 PM
My stepdaughter, because I'm worried about how her addiction is endangering her life and I know her Mother wants to get her some help.
I am thinking about my best friend Phill. If he was still alive life for everyone in our family would be so much better. I miss him. He was such a loving and super mushy guy. He was a great caregiver. He was such a gift to my life and the lives of so many people.
I wish he was still here.
My daughter who has adult autism is going through a difficult time & struggles to express why... I wish sometimes I could see into her mind so I know how to make it all feel better.... :blink:
JDeere
06-25-2017, 04:22 PM
My ex, still is almost always on my mind. Friends yes but I'm still in love with her and it's going to take a long while to get over this break up.
girl_dee
06-25-2017, 04:27 PM
The girl i danced with in the bar last night. She had a wicked black eye and i can't stop thinking about her.
Sweet Bliss
06-25-2017, 07:03 PM
my friend, he has turned into a control freak... gonna have to let him go. Everyone loves the Nanna, doesn't mean you get to have her. Time to let go.
candy_coated_bitch
06-25-2017, 10:03 PM
A lost friend, because I miss him.
Gayandgray
06-26-2017, 01:36 PM
My best friend. Because her kids and grandkids use her just like my spouse's kids & grandkids used to do. I hate to see her set herself up to be hurt but I'm minding my business and keeping my mouth shut.
FireSignFemme
06-26-2017, 04:19 PM
MysticOceansFL, because she recently had dental work done. She says everything went well and she's doing fine, but well you know, still you worry.
girl_dee
06-27-2017, 04:29 AM
A certain someone who has my attention.... :wine:
Chained Daisy
06-27-2017, 07:53 AM
The anniversary of a past love. Though in truth it had been over long before either of us dared or cared to admit it and I am right where I need to be now, in my heart I will always honor and treasure the memory of some the happiest moments of my life that we shared together and the feeling of true unconditional love.
girl_dee
06-27-2017, 02:51 PM
George! ......... :tease:
My friend of 30 years. When we visit she always asks me the same questions...am I in a relationship and am I happy. The last visit she asked me are you in a relationship and I said no. Next she asked me are you happy and I said yes. She said that was good because my happiness came from within in me.
:cowboy:
girl_dee
07-01-2017, 04:55 PM
The Boos! they look like they are having a great time!
girl_dee
07-02-2017, 10:54 AM
The Boos! they look like they are having a great time!
and a repeat for today !!!
Kätzchen
07-02-2017, 12:35 PM
My mom..... she's been really stressed out lately, for good reason and I worry for her safety and peace of mind.
girl_dee
07-03-2017, 03:42 AM
that one that i can't get out of my mind.........
Gemme
07-03-2017, 05:10 AM
He is, because He's amazing and makes me smile.
AmazonDC
07-03-2017, 02:35 PM
My babygrl...
Her voice... when she says Daddy in that certain tone...gets Me every time
candy_coated_bitch
07-03-2017, 03:56 PM
A friend of a friend who might have brain cancer.
hopelessromantic69
07-03-2017, 05:47 PM
Want...to...say...but must wait!!! She knows....
Scuba
07-03-2017, 06:47 PM
The Boos! they look like they are having a great time!
I read "The Boobs" and thought how can you tell if they're having fun? Really? How?
:doh:
pajama
07-03-2017, 07:03 PM
HoneyChile....because Always
FireSignFemme
07-03-2017, 10:13 PM
My oldest son. He he was one of 800 to apply for a job. Of the 800, 350 were given a chance to test. I'm not sure how many of those who tested were granted an interview. I only know, though he seems to think the interview went well, competition is fierce. They are only hiring 20, and some of the applicants already have experience. All I can do is be as encouraging as I can without instilling unwarranted hope. As a parent it's a thin line, tight rope to walk. Well, at least they're being merciful. They said those who are selected will hear back within a week, those who aren't will receive notice by the end of the month. I don't especially want my son to work out there, it's hard work, full of risk. Yet at the same time I do hope he succeeds, as it seems to mean so much to him.
Bèsame*
07-03-2017, 10:14 PM
My Dad.
We lost him 2 years ago tonight. He has been heavy on my mind all day. I'm glad I'm home to be surrounded by the things that mean the world to me.
I miss you ...xoxo
candy_coated_bitch
07-03-2017, 11:23 PM
A friend of a friend who might have brain cancer.
It looks like he doesn't, it was just a scare!! :)
girl_dee
07-04-2017, 12:09 PM
a femme friend who i reconnected with after too long of a break!
AmazonDC
07-04-2017, 03:59 PM
My amazing gf.. Missing her a bunch
girl_dee
07-04-2017, 05:31 PM
my mom.... she's in a really hard place.
Wrang1er
07-04-2017, 08:29 PM
My cousin. She would have been 51 tomorrow. This was always a big weekend for us. Six years ago this weekend was the last time we camped. Tonight, I'm sitting in front of a fire and she's very much in the forefront of my mind.
JDeere
07-04-2017, 09:02 PM
Same person, different reason!
:|
Chained Daisy
07-05-2017, 03:55 AM
My daughter
BullDog
07-05-2017, 04:57 PM
My Mom. I really should go visit her. She isn't getting any younger. I'm not either.
girl_dee
07-06-2017, 03:11 PM
Mrs Nina..... i heard the name somewhere and i was suddenly seeing her in her diner over some very delicious food and yummy company :blush:
hopelessromantic69
07-06-2017, 06:57 PM
My mom, her sister is dying of cancer and she will not get the chance to see her one last time :(
My Aunt Andrea is the best!
girl_dee
07-07-2017, 03:48 PM
this sweet young couple that i am going to see get married shortly!
Orema
07-07-2017, 04:17 PM
Camilla. She's not feeling well and she's the mother of one of my buddies.
Camilla is in rehab after having fluid in her lungs after surgery. She's feisty and wants to go home, but she's got to make it through Rehab before getting home. She's 96 years old and is one of my role models.
She dyes her own hair and drives a car. That's very fly in my book for a 96-year old and it's what I aim to do at that age, providing I don't have a chauffeur and hairdresser.
She's a matriarch who's had eight children and maintained a farm while working as a teacher for the Catholic Church. She retired when she was 82.
She's had some health issues over the last couple years and she's on my mind. Hoping she's better soon.
firegal
07-07-2017, 10:49 PM
someone .....who lives over there........>>>>>>>> who i saw a month ago...
the clock ticks slowly sometimes
girl_dee
07-08-2017, 02:53 PM
a 7 year old....
She was very talkative (NOTHING like me at her age) and told me she is married to God.
WHO they hell is raising this kid! ?
CherryWine
07-08-2017, 03:23 PM
The same person who has been on my mind daily for the past year. And from this distance, I squeeze him tightly and wish him here with me.
SleepyButch
07-09-2017, 12:43 AM
A couple of people from this site have been on my mind.. Why? Because I haven't been here much in a long time and now I see they haven't either lol.. oh well
girl_dee
08-09-2017, 03:57 AM
a certain someone because she has consumed my mind
AmazonDC
08-09-2017, 05:17 AM
My babygrl always...
Same one who has been for many years......
stonebutchjack
08-09-2017, 08:37 AM
My girlfriend cause I miss her. We are in a LDR and I really want to cuddle her and kiss her and just hold her in my arms.
kittygrrl
08-09-2017, 09:10 AM
My mom, miss her so much
gotoseagrl
08-09-2017, 01:07 PM
My constant.
Bèsame*
08-09-2017, 01:13 PM
That guy who holds my hand as we watch movies on the couch.
Esme nha Maire
08-09-2017, 03:49 PM
My Renunciate sisters. I was more or less the last one using the emai group that had been going for many years. The few that still kept contact are on social media, and I am not. So I made a last post, thanked them, and 'switched off the lights and left my key at the desk' so to speak (We considered ourselves a virtual Guildhouse) and said goodbye to the old place. Can't help crying, they helped me through some bad times, but I'm much healthier and happier and ready to cope properly with the world now. There's a big world out there, and somewhere there's someone I can share laughs, life, and love with. I just have to go find her, and finally - I'm ready to do just that.
My friend....I miss seeing her face walk in my door everyday with her huge warm smile that she always had no matter what her struggles were.....I miss being able to talk with her about anything & everything..... The world was definitely a brighter place with her in it... :vigil:
Stronghealer
08-10-2017, 08:28 PM
Missing my mom...
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Gemme
08-11-2017, 05:35 AM
He is. With every day that passes, He becomes more and more a part of me. I am really and truly so blessed.
~SweetCheeks~
08-11-2017, 07:47 AM
She is every day....
My elderly neighbour who was taken by ambulance tonight.... Hoping everything is okay for her....
girl_dee
08-16-2017, 04:12 AM
All these people, including kids who will be staring at the eclipse using the imitation protective eyewear that is being sold by the thousands.
My brother who passed away 17 years ago today!
You are NEVER out of my thoughts & heart bubba!
hopelessromantic69
08-17-2017, 09:39 PM
My roommate, one of my best friends and yes my ex, Lori. Her nephew was in a horrible car accident Tuesday night in Monterey, CA. He was burned over 90% of his body. He is young and strong so I'm praying for him. This will not be the first time he was given only 5% chance to live. It hits home for me as a parent of two boys, my oldest is 24 years old and the same age as Joey.
Please send healing energy and prayers his way. The whole family is there in support.
Blade
02-10-2019, 07:53 PM
A friend in Florida, haven't heard from her in a while.
Also A friend I haven't heard from in 14 yrs. Don't know where she is or even if she is still living.
JDeere
02-10-2019, 09:22 PM
Some friends who are having personal issues. I know what they are going through but all i can do is pray for them.
homoe
02-11-2019, 10:32 AM
...
Oh, a certain little someone in the Midwest because I'm looking forward to spending time with them very soon!
FireSignFemme
02-11-2019, 01:25 PM
My maternal grandmother, I'm not sure why. It's not her birthday, any major holiday, anniversary, it's not like this season/time of the year stirs up any especially fond memories of her. Just out of the blue, for no particular reason I'm finding myself thinking of her a lot these past couple months.
JDeere
02-11-2019, 05:07 PM
My ex and how things have and have not changed.
My old puppy, how she is getting older and I have a feeling she may be in a bit of pain so it's time for meds.
Myself and how bad I fucking hurt. The doc said i would be sore but this is bullshit! No pain meds either.
kittygrrl
02-11-2019, 07:31 PM
my sister..so i called:rrose:
RebelDyke
07-26-2019, 05:36 PM
People ask me why I work so many hours.... this is why
HER... she is constantly on my mind. and she knows she is..to the point it is hard to breathe.
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homoe
07-28-2019, 08:10 AM
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Who: Kobi
Why: because I just read where the 2019 Little League World Series will begin on Thursday, August 15 and ends on Sunday, August 25
Amulette
07-28-2019, 08:26 AM
I really like the family that lives next door to me. Our Master baths share a wall. The Dad of the family is really a character. Right now he is singing at the top of his lungs in the shower. He does this every morning. It makes me giggle. Can't help but have him on my mind......
Takes another sip of Chai while being entertained.
Tuff Stuff
08-01-2019, 11:14 AM
Me
The old me and the new...:hangloose: buddy.
FireSignFemme
08-16-2019, 05:02 PM
Myself. I wish I had something more noble and altruistic to report, but the fact of the matter is today I'm just very much focused on myself. My needs, my wants, my issues, my thoughts, my feelings... yeah like that.
candy_coated_bitch
08-16-2019, 05:25 PM
My sister. Because I get to see her tomorrow and it will be very special sister time before the baby comes.
Stone-Butch
08-16-2019, 10:51 PM
My sister passed a year ago and I dont think I will ever get over it. I envy those who still have family as there are only two of us and my brother is much older than me . I think of them all almost every day.
cathexis
08-17-2019, 03:50 AM
My sister passed a year ago and I dont think I will ever get over it. I envy those who still have family as there are only two of us and my brother is much older than me . I think of them all almost every day.
You are not alone. Lost my mom in '85, dad in 1991, and older, estranged brother in 2001. That's the end of a branch of our family tree ( no other siblings, one lost niece).
Your pain may never completely leave, but I wish for you my course. May your daily thoughts about family gone before, turn to memories of the good times had together. Sadness to thankfulness of the good times. Pain turns to nostalgia. Nostalgia wanes to thoughts of life's gifts. That you had time to cultivate memories to help shield from the pain of having them gone.
Orema
09-04-2019, 09:33 AM
Those to whom I didn't give it up.
Not sure why this is on my mind, but I think about this every now and then.
kittygrrl
09-04-2019, 06:45 PM
my mom and dad..i like to imagine they are having the best kind of visit
Tuff Stuff
09-05-2019, 10:19 AM
Me.
This is going to be one long ass journey. Like the song from talking heads "once in a lifetime",that's the only way I can explain it to myself. I've lost all my family but she hasn't and she'll be fine. Okay, now I'm thinking about my wife.
:popcorn:
EmJay
09-08-2019, 11:10 AM
My “friend”.. she’s been on my mind every day. I think we may have reached the point that our friendship expired and I can accept that because lately it feels like it brings more negativity than positivity into our lives. I just hope she knows how much she has meant to me and that she is my favourite person I have ever known. She gave me light when the rest of my world went dark and I will be grateful to her for the rest of my life. I want nothing but the best for her and I’m always here if she needs to talk, but I see that I am not what she needs or wants in her life right now. I am sending her nothing but love and happiness in her life xo
CherylNYC
09-08-2019, 01:07 PM
I'm thinking of the woman who raised me. She died in 1992, but my sadness stays with me. She was elderly, and she allowed me to care for her while she was dying. Her passing was expected, but I spent a year in deep grief none the less. That sadness becomes a part of your life once it ceases to be your whole life, but it doesn't ever leave.
JDeere
09-08-2019, 01:09 PM
My gf...
Im awaiting news to see if shes staying in the hospital or not.
Bronchitis, strep and high fever.
Bad part is I cant do anything to help out and I feel like total shit.
Princess
09-08-2019, 03:41 PM
Today Abby is on my mind. I had a phone call from a good friend that i have known since I was 16. We got to talking about people from our past and she mentioned Abby. Abby is the person I would consider my first love. We dated for a long time and she was in the closet and unsure of herself. My friend told me today that she has come out and figured out all about herself and she is even married!
I can't help but smile for her. So awesome to know that she figured it out and even flourished in her life.
girl_dee
09-08-2019, 10:43 PM
our dear friend who is chosen family who will be there THIS weekend !!!
My friend Gecko and I chatted all day. She is an artist and a dear friend of 38 years. She decorated my current house 15 years ago. She agreed to help me design my Maine home, yay!
Anyone from NYC, Gecko was a famous profomance artist in lower Manhattan.
I am thrilled.
I forgot to mention that we performed together a few times in Drag shows. She is truly the talent. Haha!
My physical therapist, he is filling in for my main guy but I like him so much better. He only touches my shoulder and I can feel that he is a natural healer. He is sweet, kind, and he laughs at my jokes.
My main guy comes back next week but I want to keep the guy mentioned above. The main guy is rough, way too touchy, always grabbing my body, and he feels like a bear on top of me. He is so different from my sweet healer.
I think there is going to be an awkward conversation next week when I request to stay with my healer.
Stone-Butch
09-29-2019, 12:35 PM
My sweet sister. Yesterday I received so many nice things , cards and wishes but not from my sister . She has been gone for two years now and she always made my birthday special, an email, a snail card and a phone call. We always did on our birthdays but not yesterday. I think of her every day but yesterday hit me super hard. Love you Shirley and think of you often,.
Wrang1er
09-30-2019, 08:23 PM
My cousin Karen (a.k.a. Pete). Today makes eight years since she's been gone. I still miss her terribly. My life would be better if she were here to talk to.
My physical therapist, he is filling in for my main guy but I like him so much better. He only touches my shoulder and I can feel that he is a natural healer. He is sweet, kind, and he laughs at my jokes.
My main guy comes back next week but I want to keep the guy mentioned above. The main guy is rough, way too touchy, always grabbing my body, and he feels like a bear on top of me. He is so different from my sweet healer.
I think there is going to be an awkward conversation next week when I request to stay with my healer.
I talked to my natural healer at PT today and he said that he will stay with me until I don't need physical therapy anymore. I am so happy!
:cowboy:
homoe
10-21-2019, 07:59 AM
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Who: My Chicago traveling companion! WHY: We just got off the phone...:phonegab:
JDeere
10-21-2019, 03:18 PM
Myself for once...
Im sick and I really need to take time/care of myself for a change.
GeorgiaMa'am
10-22-2019, 09:40 AM
Who: one of my exes from long ago, in my early 20s
Why: I have no idea
She and I were so similar in the way we grew up. We could talk about things like home canning, gardening, cooking, and holiday traditions. I broke up with her because she drove me crazy as a girlfriend, and I was young and didn't have those coping skills yet. However, she was a great friend. We grew farther apart when she met her girlfriend of 20 years, who was a total biatch, to the extent that she kept us apart. Now her ex is gone, and she has a new love. I keep up with her occasionally through FB, but we're not close at all. I think of her at the oddest times, like when I'm shelling peas, or making chicken soup, or taking out the Christmas ornaments. I still remember conversations we had over these things. I guess I still miss her a bit.
hagster
10-22-2019, 10:08 AM
Jimmy Carter. He fell at home again and I'm nervous.
homoe
10-22-2019, 04:18 PM
Who: one of my exes from long ago, in my early 20s
Why: I have no idea
She and I were so similar in the way we grew up. We could talk about things like home canning, gardening, cooking, and holiday traditions. I broke up with her because she drove me crazy as a girlfriend, and I was young and didn't have those coping skills yet. However, she was a great friend. We grew farther apart when she met her girlfriend of 20 years, who was a total biatch, to the extent that she kept us apart. Now her ex is gone, and she has a new love. I keep up with her occasionally through FB, but we're not close at all. I think of her at the oddest times, like when I'm shelling peas, or making chicken soup, or taking out the Christmas ornaments. I still remember conversations we had over these things. I guess I still miss her a bit.
I so enjoy reading posts about fond memories of ex's.....
homoe
10-25-2019, 05:02 AM
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WHO: My friend in Chicago........
WHY: She completely forgot about the time changed and called a tad to early!!!
RebelDyke
10-25-2019, 06:03 AM
My friend in Texas.
We reconnected again, and it is HIGHLARIOUS as fu@&. good times....good times :hangloose:
homoe
10-25-2019, 08:57 AM
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WHO: My friend in Chicago........
WHY: She completely forgot about the time changed and called a tad to early!!!
Personally I don't think she really forgot about the time change......:giggle:
RebelDyke
10-25-2019, 09:20 AM
My boss
she keeps begging me to stay and i keep telling her to move with me! :eyebrow:
RebelDyke
10-25-2019, 10:09 AM
She knows who she is. no need to introduce her
_7uryK_Mb68
kittygrrl
10-25-2019, 01:24 PM
my friends..
FireSignFemme
10-25-2019, 08:16 PM
My youngest son, he's not returning my texts and I'm not sure why.
cathexis
10-26-2019, 01:48 AM
President Jimmy Carter Age 95, was discharged from the hospital on Friday. So glad he's okay after the latest injury - a fractured pelvis.
Broke his hip during this past Turkey hunting season. His biggest complaint was that he had not gotten his bag limit. He asked The Georgia Dept. of Fish and Game if he could add that deficit to the next season...at age 94!
They turned down his request, but I'll bet it was tongue in cheek.
This President is my ultimate hero. He's done more to advance international relations. In fact, with his Habitat for Humanity and other volunteer work, he has made a huge impact here and overseas.
Anytime I need a little inspiration to perform a mitzvah or volunteer to help someone get over a bump, I think of President Carter and his life of service.
RebelDyke
10-26-2019, 06:39 PM
well, someone I had unfriended on FB....mmm... about 4 years ago (maybe even longer)... recently sent me a friend request. :sunglass: why?? i'm not sure I want to really ask them why. I just know that if i go to the extent of unfriending or blocking someone...it usually means .....forever. I kinda get that a lot...people from my past coming back around.
So, for a fleeting moment of curiosity I was going to message them.. nah. not worth my time. moving on!
homoe
10-26-2019, 06:57 PM
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Who: My Chicago traveling companion! WHY: We just got off the phone...:phonegab:
We just hung up again.....
RebelDyke
10-26-2019, 07:07 PM
well, someone I had unfriended on FB....mmm... about 4 years ago (maybe even longer)... recently sent me a friend request. :sunglass: why?? i'm not sure I want to really ask them why. I just know that if i go to the extent of unfriending or blocking someone...it usually means .....forever. I kinda get that a lot...people from my past coming back around.
So, for a fleeting moment of curiosity I was going to message them.. nah. not worth my time. moving on!
wow ..another one out of the blue just now... wth.. looking at the calendar and stars to see just what is going on!
Orema
10-28-2019, 12:32 PM
Robert Evans, Hollywood actor and producer, who passed away this weekend.
He produced Mario Puzo's The Godfather (aka Godfather I). He kicked Coppola out of the editing room because Coppola didn't want to edit the film the way the story was told in the book. Evans wasn't having it and booted him from the editing room. Later on, Coppola came out with a director's cut that was edited chronologically. I thought it was a disaster. The film and book opened with the wedding scene and rightly so because it set the stage for everything that happened afterwards. Thank goodness for Robert Evans and here's hoping he RIP.
That's who's on my mind right now.
RebelDyke
10-28-2019, 03:17 PM
texas (the mouse not the state, or my friend in) He got caught yesterday at some point. sigh I think i grew too attached. and with little sleep and under stress. I wonder what/who it is I hear within the walls now. :vigil:
JDeere
10-28-2019, 04:52 PM
texas (the mouse not the state, or my friend in) He got caught yesterday at some point. sigh I think i grew too attached. and with little sleep and under stress. I wonder what/who it is I hear within the walls now. :vigil:
His family 😆lmao
RebelDyke
10-28-2019, 04:58 PM
His family 😆lmao
hush yo mouth JD!!! I was already thinkin' "what if Texas was a she" :cigar2: sigh. only time will tell. :canoworms: :closetopic:
JDeere
10-28-2019, 06:52 PM
hush yo mouth JD!!! I was already thinkin' "what if Texas was a she" :cigar2: sigh. only time will tell. :canoworms: :closetopic:
The her family HAHAHAHAHA :goodluck:
RebelDyke
10-28-2019, 06:58 PM
The her family HAHAHAHAHA :goodluck:
:readfineprint::fastdraq::huhlaugh::sunglass: you'd best be helping me get rid of them if they are.. the house felt like the game mouse trap with how the exterminator set up the traps and boxes and blocked exits..:blink::praying:.shoot
JDeere
10-28-2019, 07:10 PM
:readfineprint::fastdraq::huhlaugh::sunglass: you'd best be helping me get rid of them if they are.. the house felt like the game mouse trap with how the exterminator set up the traps and boxes and blocked exits..:blink::praying:.shoot
HAHAHAHAH thats funny, when u set traps they have to come back out and take the empty or non empty traps out.
RebelDyke
10-28-2019, 08:45 PM
HAHAHAHAH thats funny, when u set traps they have to come back out and take the empty or non empty traps out.
That is IT...ALL of you (both public and nonpublic) who are sayin its family, maybe Texas had a brother...blah blah blah insinuatin' that there are more...
I'm coming for you! (lmao) And I'll play the pied piper and BRING them all to you! (thumbin' thru the phone book lookin for ya'lls addresses)
mumbles shoot
Imma be like Oprah: YOU get a mouse, and YOU get a mouse, and E'ERYBODY'S GETTIN' A DAMN MOUSE!
JDeere
10-29-2019, 12:07 PM
That is IT...ALL of you (both public and nonpublic) who are sayin its family, maybe Texas had a brother...blah blah blah insinuatin' that there are more...
I'm coming for you! (lmao) And I'll play the pied piper and BRING them all to you! (thumbin' thru the phone book lookin for ya'lls addresses)
mumbles shoot
Imma be like Oprah: YOU get a mouse, and YOU get a mouse, and E'ERYBODY'S GETTIN' A DAMN MOUSE!
😆😆we already have em...who u think changes the traps?
Tuff Stuff
11-12-2019, 12:16 PM
All that salmon...jeezus!!!
:linecook:
kittygrrl
11-12-2019, 02:20 PM
it's not who..it's a what...Meyer Lemons-wish i had a few
homoe
11-12-2019, 02:47 PM
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Pie perhaps?:awww:
kittygrrl
11-12-2019, 02:53 PM
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Pie perhaps?:awww:
H, definitely
https://www.gimmesomeoven.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Lemon-Meringue-Pie-11.jpgLemon Meringue..
i would love to use Meyer Lemons..sigh
homoe
11-15-2019, 04:04 PM
Roger Stone because he was just found guilty!
Boy what a different Roger Stone we saw today exiting the court house! Unlike flashing the piece sign like a cheap imitation of Nixon, pleads of being
innocent, and grandstanding by holding an impromptu news conference on the day he was charged and released, this Stone appeared subdued and certainly not in any mood to answer questions as he scurried off like a timid little mouse to his waiting vehicle!
JDeere
11-15-2019, 09:32 PM
My ex...
She has been way too quiet lately and hasn't said much to me.
kittygrrl
11-16-2019, 12:28 AM
dancing w friends ..the music
JDeere
11-16-2019, 12:41 AM
These people on this tv show
They gotta be outta they minds to do what they do
kittygrrl
11-16-2019, 02:58 PM
best friend coming over w pizza:scarytv: not sure i'm ready for it:coffee:
RockOn
11-16-2019, 04:44 PM
A missing college student, Aniah Blanchard from Auburn Alabama. It has been a little over a month since she has been heard from. I keep hoping to read good news about her ... you know ... that she has been found and she is safe now. I cannot imagine how her family is coping ... feel so much for them.
GeorgiaMa'am
11-16-2019, 07:45 PM
My mom. It's been about six weeks since I have seen her (except for her visiting me for a few hours in the hospital with my sister). When I spoke to her on the phone yesterday, she seemed more cloudy and out of it than usual. She also sounded pretty worried about me. I don't know how to calm her on that account - I'm worried about my health too.
Several faces fill my thoughts at this time of year. Those of family and friends who are lost to the past are there not to make me grieve but rather to make me remember that I was blessed to share some time with them. My fur babies now beyond the bridge warm my heart with the generosity of unconditional love that they left here.
But all these cherished memories are blighted by the memory of the cold gaze of a particularly deceitful creature who wormed her way into our home a couple of years ago taking advantage of a family that sought to provide comfort to a stranger for Thanksgiving and delayed the stay with sob stories and con games for 45 days virtually holding us hostage and leaving only after draining my 85 year old mother’s bank account (unknown to me until the thug had moved out of the state) and “borrowed” several hundred dollars from me to make the move. The destruction of and theft of property, elder abuse - psychological, emotional and physical made the loss of a few thousand dollars a bargain to have this person vacate the property. Unfortunately the memory of that time has dimmed what was once a bright season for our family.
My beloved Galahad has worked minor miracles in helping all of us heal. She is a singular beacon of integrity, honesty, and honor and this year is lighter and brighter than the last and last year was a lifting of a veil.
So many faces ... angels some once human and some furry, one poison thorn, one perfect knight, friends, family, neighbors. I am blessed even with the thorn for it taught me to see more clearly.
My physical therapist, he has me at 70 % post surgery. I was thinking of a gift for him when we reach 100%. What to get a natural healer is a hard decision.
Our goals are that I can bowl again, work my land, climb a latter, and ride my bicycle again.
The bike is a throwback from my knee replacement but I really miss it.
Blade
11-28-2019, 02:08 AM
My cousin, he died this weekend 3 yrs ago.
I was watching TV and a Charlie Brown Thanksgiving came on. It made me think of him and how he loved Charlie Brown when we were growning up. Wish I could have helped ya buddy but you couldn't/wouldn't help your self.
candy_coated_bitch
11-28-2019, 10:25 AM
My niece because I can't wait to see her!!!!
GeorgiaMa'am
11-28-2019, 04:44 PM
An ex of mine, who I am _certain_ has all of my missing Christmas tree ornaments.
Tuff Stuff
01-12-2020, 02:30 PM
I think it's safe to say..Me,again.
I'm finding peace of course in not only me but the whole f***ing world. Odd?,for my own sanity, yes.
Next..
JDeere
01-12-2020, 05:42 PM
My hunny..
Shes uber sick and I can't do anything to help seeing as its an ldr and I can't get up to see her yet.
GeorgiaMa'am
01-12-2020, 06:38 PM
My bitch of an aunt. I had a dream about her last night - she had decided to raise cows in her basement, and for some reason I had to clean it all up. I've never had to clean her house and she has never raised cows, but for some weird reason this dream has kept popping up in my mind all day.
Friends, life with humans is interesting. Sometimes with friends you spend everyday together and then things change. Folks get married or have kids and life gets busy but you never stop loving each other and when the "pause" lets up there you are back together.
Interesting for sure.
Orema
02-19-2020, 02:13 PM
Dagmar Turner has been on my mind. Have been thinking about her after reading about her online.
Woman plays violin mid-surgery to ensure doctors hadn't damaged brain (https://www.10news.com/news/national/woman-plays-violin-mid-surgery-to-ensure-doctors-hadnt-damaged-brain)
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LONDON, England – It’s like a scene straight out of “Grey’s Anatomy” – a patient at King’s College Hospital in London played the violin while surgeons removed a tumor from her brain.
The hospital says the unusual approach was taken to make sure that areas of Dagmar Turner’s brain that control delicate hand movement and coordination were not inadvertently damaged during the precise procedure.
The 53-year-old violinist was diagnosed in 2013 with a large, slow growing glioma after suffering a seizure during a symphony, according to the hospital.
Turner, who plays in Isle of Wight Symphony Orchestra and various choral societies, underwent biopsy and then radiotherapy with her local specialist to keep the tumor at bay, but the hospital says it became apparent in the fall that the mass had grown, and it needed to be removed.
“Dagmar’s tumor was located in the right frontal lobe of her brain, close to an area that controls the fine movement of her left hand,” wrote the hospital in a release. “Precise and skilled use of this hand is essential for playing the violin as the fingers regulate the length of the strings by holding them against the fingerboard, producing different pitches.”
A consultant neurosurgeon at the hospital, Professor Keyoumars Ashkan, discussed Turner’s options and the two ended up bonding over their mutual passion for music. After Turner explained concerns she had over losing the ability to play the violin, Ashkan and the neurosurgical team devised a plan.
Prior to the operation, they spent two hours carefully mapping her brain to identify areas that were active when she played the violin and those responsible for controlling language and movement. They also decided that they would wake Turner mid- procedure so she could play, ensuring the surgeons didn’t damage any crucial areas of the brain.
During the operation, the team performed a craniotomy and then took Turner off anesthetic, so she could play the violin while her tumor was removed. Meanwhile, she was closely monitored by the anesthetists and a therapist.
After the surgery, Ashkan said his team performs about 400 tumor removals each year at the hospital, but this was the first time he’s had a patient play the instrument during a procedure.
“We knew how important the violin is to Dagmar so it was vital that we preserved function in the delicate areas of her brain that allowed her to play,” said Ashkan. “We managed to remove over 90 percent of the tumor, including all the areas suspicious of aggressive activity, while retaining full function in her left hand.”
Turner later thanked the team for their work.
“The violin is my passion; I’ve been playing since I was 10 years old. The thought of losing my ability to play was heart-breaking but, being a musician himself, Prof Ashkan understood my concerns,” said Turner. “He and the team at King’s went out of their way to plan the operation – from mapping my brain to planning the position I needed to be in to play. Thanks to them I’m hoping to be back with my orchestra very soon.”
Three days after the procedure, the hospital says Turner was well enough to go home to her husband and 13-year-old son.
GeorgiaMa'am
02-19-2020, 06:31 PM
My mom. When we spoke on the phone, she sounded more relaxed and happy than usual. I think it's because she's currently in her own home and not at my sister's house. She loves my sister and her family, and she has her own suite there, but there are four other adults in that house. She prefers to keep more to herself most of the time. Also, my sister has cats - which are not allowed in my mom's suite - but my mom was a farm girl and has never quite been able to resign herself to the idea of animals in the house.
homoe
03-31-2020, 04:03 PM
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Newscaster Brian Williams WHY because this guy could screw up reporting on a one car funeral!
The first sentence out of his mouth after yesterday's briefing was misinformation and IF he'd pay attention and watched he'd know that in fact we heard from BOTH of the doctors not just Fauci!
Instead of listening, watching, and paying attention to the briefing, I can just picture this little weasel face counting the seconds till they cut back to him so he could blather, expound, and pontificate!!
Piss-ant!!!!!
homoe
04-01-2020, 08:24 AM
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Newscaster Brian Williams WHY because this guy could screw up reporting on a one car funeral!
The first sentence out of his mouth after yesterday's briefing was misinformation and IF he'd pay attention and watched he'd know that in fact we heard from BOTH of the doctors not just Fauci!
Instead of listening, watching, and paying attention to the briefing, I can just picture this little weasel face counting the seconds till they cut back to him so he could blather, expound, and pontificate!!
Piss-ant!!!!!
I'm thinking perhaps I need to take a break from watching MSNBC...:scarytv:
easygoingfemme
04-04-2020, 07:01 AM
My brother, my family. On Monday it will be one full year since he passed. Due to Covid, our family can't even be together for the day. I still feel completely shell shocked that he is gone. I hate that I can't be with his children right now. I hate that I can't go be with my parents who lost their son. We talked about going to the cemetery and making sure we stand far apart from each other but we thought that would hurt even more.
FireSignFemme
04-04-2020, 01:28 PM
My next door neighbor. It's been unusually quiet at her place.
nhplowboi
04-04-2020, 04:19 PM
Trump....why is it when he is not running his mouth at the podium and others are speaking, he looks like a frigging bulldog (oh those jowls) who is hearing some kind of weird screeching noise. You know, tilting his head from side to side while occasionally watching the person who is speaking and squinting his eyes.
LOL I just read this to Bevi and she said that is because he is listening to the voices in his head that we can't hear.
FireSignFemme
04-07-2020, 06:53 PM
What my neighbor is doing. She was so quite the past couple of days I started to wonder if maybe she was dead. Well she's alive and very much kicking. Today it sounds like a couple of sumo wrestlers are going at it in there.
Stone-Butch
04-07-2020, 10:15 PM
She knows who she is and although I can't see her I can feel her presence at times.
On my mind is the many families and people who are going through so much during this virus time. Too many sick people and way too many passing away. I am glad my mom and dad are not here to go through this. I saw my sister suffer to her death with a lung disease and it is not a fitting thing to have to go through or watch a loved one go through.
kittygrrl
04-08-2020, 02:34 AM
dreaming at my middle school..wandering through the halls looking for something i'd lost, very upset.......................................dreami ng..no fun
RebelDyke
04-26-2020, 12:24 PM
My mom. In a few days it will be a reminder of her death. While she has been gone for a hot minute... (under 10 years). It still hurts like it was yesterday.
I really wish she were here to see me graduate
:rrose:
Baby_Yoda
04-26-2020, 12:50 PM
My mom. In a few days it will be a reminder of her death. While she has been gone for a hot minute... (under 10 years). It still hurts like it was yesterday.
I really wish she were here to see me graduate
:rrose:
I believe she will be watching and extremely proud of you.
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