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			Both my Dad and brother had September birthdays. So, guess that is why they both are on my mind so much lately. I really them both. Honorable people, they were. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My sister is. She is the most gracious woman I know. I was face booking with her a little earlier. I told her that I didnt get all the bushes I wanted next door because when they pulled down the roof (its a de-construction job) it collapsed on them and broke them beyond repair. She asked me what kinds and I told her. Well, she is going out tomorrow and getting me all those bushes! I was amazed!  These are luxuries and what I still need at this time, is help with my necessities. But she knows how much I love my gardening and is contributing to this purposeful joy.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I am so excited about her gifts...not because of what type of bushes they are...but because my sister loves me and wants to do things to make me happy, not just get through this period of my life. I wish everyone has a person in their life like my sister.... 
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			As I was driving thru the pines today on the way to work - I was overcome with missing her - she would have loved living back on the east coast again.... 
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			Not so much today, but the other day at breakfast at IHOP.  An older couple came in rolling an older gentleman in a wheelchair.  The way they pushed him to the table and positioned him, made me remember my Dad.  We used to take him and Mom to IHOP for her bday.  It hit me quick and hard and I had to leave the table 'cause I started tearing up. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My ex and dear friend.  She found out earlier today that she has breast cancer @ 36 yrs old.  Her poor mother also has a sister that is fighting HARD against breast cancer and the battle isn't looking favorably for her  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			I'm doing better this week, but I had a hard time before, during and after September 5th, which was the birthday of my very troubled junior high / early high school boyfriend who died in a car accident this last May.  Every September 5th since I was 15 years old, I've worried about him and wondered how he was and hoped he was doing okay.  This year it was like a freight train - but for the first time ever it wasn't worry that I felt - just grief.  I'm very glad that after a 7 year gap, we did get to talk again around march of this year.  I'm just comforted to have gotten to get the update on his life, to give him the update on mine and just get some perspective on those kids we once were.  I know his friends are mourning a Josh I never really knew, and I'm mourning the kid he once was and the kid he never got to be.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Spirit Dancer and her Syr. I wish that I lived closer and didn't have a bad back. I wish there was more that I could do besides call and nag her to take care. The material does have importantance.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			my pregnant niece who passed a kidney stone today bigger than the stone in her engagement ring, about the size of a kernel of corn 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My "Pa"...cuz I've been smelling his Winston ciggy smoke for 3 days.  Ummmm he's been dead since 1982.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			my best friend...he is currently in the hospital battling depression. i am happy that he asked for help. i know he will be ok...he is too strong not to be.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Tammy is on my mind, she is my lovely wife.  We was at the heart doctor yesterday and he keeps telling her if she does not stop smoking she cutting her life short.  I understand that smoking is a hard habit but would not life be worth it.  I told her i would not nag at her so with prayers we will see if she quits smoking
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			MISTYBLUE is on my mind. talked to that lovely lady a few days ago.  love that Scottish accent~  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() Happy to hear after a 22 month court battle MistyBlue gets to visit with her grandaughter Katie finally and the visiting periods are being extended. Misty is on my mind because she has been away for so long and I miss her avatars and sexy humor and light heart. Misty has not been feeling well but she is getting stronger. She is on my mind because she asked that I extend a heart felt "Hello"! to all that know her. Misty will be back soon but til then she is on my mind  
		
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			Laura... a long time family friend. She is in the end of life stages of her courageous battle with breast cancer. She is like a favorite Aunt to my sister's 3 adult children and their children. They are having a hard time losing her. A HS friend of my brother-in-law. He has Alzheimer's and for the first time since his diagnosis, I am thankful that he really doesn't know what Laura has and is going through. Please, may she soon have peace.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			lots of people have been on my mind lately...old friends from high school, friends from different cities i've lived in and friends that made moves themselves... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			over a year ago, i made the commitment to myself, and to these friends really, that if people were on my mind, that i was going to contact them...not just let the thoughts pass away... it's been working....this morning i just got back three replies from ol' friends...each one has made my heart glad that i know them.....and it's been good for me too as they all were happy to hear how i was doing.... about a year and a half ago, an especially old dear friend and i began looking for eachother around the same time....we found eachother and still are like old pals... so, yes, it's friends who are on my mind....a whole lot of the time... 
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			lil r is on my mind... cuz i have been so sick i havent talked to her in forever... another form of DTs...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm thinking of my ex-girlfriend tonight. We broke up recently and I saw her tonight at a social event. I still love her so it feels awkward and hard to talk to her sometimes. That girl broke my heart pretty hard. Yessirree.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			i live in a smallish town and tonight was proof once again that teenagers are not invinceable..i hope drinking of the driver was not involved..two 16yr olds lost there lives..i hope this sticks in teenagers heads up here for a long while.. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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