Would you date yourself?

[Kobi]

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

[bigbutchmistie]

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Abso frieking LUTELY :) I would. I am awesome, extremely faithful, highly romantic, affectionate. Love to laugh, make others laugh. Im a huge teddybear with a big giving heart. Ive been told a great lover, and a great friend... And Im hella sexy ;) Just for starters. Im so much more. Im not perfect. I have my flaws... :) I never require in a femme what I dont already possess... Just sayin..

[katsarecool]

I would without a doubt. I am a good catch. Kind, compassionate, well read and yes attractive to boot. :seeingstars:

[Strappie]

I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...

[Gaige]

I'd date myself, I just made dinner for me and I and gotta say.. I'm pretty damn good to me in bed too! *smirk* Sometimes I have a headache or me is too tired...

lol...and you have a great sense of humor

[Corkey]

No, cause I'm married, and I don't fool around on my wife.:seeingstars:

[moxie]

I would have to lean towards no.

Don't get me wrong, I have lots of qualities I like about myself. That's not it.

I am looking for someone who complements me, not someone who is exactly like me. If they are exactly like me and like ALL the same things that I do and has all the same exact opinions that I do then I will not be challenged. There have to be some commonalities but not everything.

[Strappie]

Well I know "Strappie" would love me but I'm not so sure I would love "Strappie" The heat seeking moisture missile is a lot to handle.

Ohhh I went there......

[Kobi]

Yes, I admire me for my awesome cooking and mad sexual skillz too. I would definitely send myself some flowers and ask for a second, or even third date.



Kobi knew there was a reason June was on the women to lust after from afar list. :)

[Gayla]

No. I'm really not my type. Way too old, cranky and set in my ways.

[Strappie]

Me and I are non committal, we won't talk about Strappie.... :)

[Strappie]

Me and I are going to bed before we get Strappie in trouble... G'night!

[betenoire]

Yeah, I think I'd date me.

I know that I can be trusted to give myself a lot of space, and I like my space. I wouldn't get my feelings hurt when I don't return my phonecall, because I would have forgotten that I had called myself to begin with. That sounds good.

Plus I wouldn't have to argue with myself over what radio station to listen to, and I would never begrudge myself a True Blood Marathon Saturday. I wouldn't criticize myself for drinking several pots of coffee a day, because I'd be drinking that much too. I'd never pressure myself to quit smoking. I wouldn't want me to change anything about myself.

If I moved in with myself I wouldn't have to compromise with myself on things like what colour to paint the bathroom, because me and myself have the same taste.

[Jesse]

I don't know that I would have enough patience to date me.

[Diva]

I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......

[Kenna]

No. I'm too stubborn, headstrong, sassy, fiercely independent and I make terrible squish fritters!

[dixie]

Personally I think the pros outweigh the cons...lol

PROS
- loving
- caring
- passionate
- quirky
- always in the mood (*wink wink*)
- mad bedroom skills (*teehee*)
- pretty darn good cook (mad baking skills too)
- intelligent
- easily amused
- tenacious
- patient and loyal (most of the time)
- optimistic
- impeccible manners (unless we're just chillin' by ourselves, then I will prop my feet on the coffee table...but only if it's our coffee table)
- enjoys vacuuming, dusting and doing windows
- thoughtful (when not being forgetful)
- compassionate
- attractive
- fun to do things with/travel with
- good with animals...and some humans lol
- yada yada yada

CONS
- jealous
- attracted to shiny objects
- somewhat of a packrat/hoarder
- sometimes absent-minded
- crazy cat lady in training
- sometimes too silly
- picky eater
- sometimes too horny
- cuss like a muthaf'ing sailor (but never around family, children or others that would be offended, I do show respect...although idiots in stores and road rage do set it off sometimes)
- some days too cocky/some days too self-conscious
- devious (which can also be a good thing in the bedroom lol)
- sometimes annoyingly over-optimistic and/or cheery and/or perky
- coldhearted vicious ice queen bitch if disprespected

[Medusa]

I would definitely want to date me but would probably be a little intimidated by how little I sleep and how many projects I always have going on. Oh, and I might think the relationship with the big orange dog was unhealthy.

[Blade]

yep I'd date me

[Starbuck]

Heck yea, I'd date me! I'm very affectionate, very giving (I have a huge heart), love helping others, I can cook fairly decent, LOVE to make people laugh, not hung up on myself, I don't keep track of who's done what to whom, disappointed when others do, honest to a fault, and I love blonds!

The down side? We all have to honest right? Well, I have trouble saying "no" to others sometimes and get overextended easily, & I can't take a fish off a hook w/o help :fishingboot:.

[Kobi]

I'm still not sure if I would date myself.

One the one hand, I would like the responsibleness, organization, adherence to routine and ritual, get it done approach to life with someone who doesnt drink or do illicit substances.

I would also like the appreciation of simplicity, the need for peace, quiet, and lots of space, the love of electronic toys, and nature and the sea.

I would adore not having to explain how I can eat the same thing morning, noon and night for a week, why IF the toilet paper MUST be on the holder, it will be under not over, why I sing the theme songs to old tv shows in the shower, why the tv show Big Bang Theory is funny, or a sardonic sense of humor.

On the other hand, I don't know if I would want to deal with an intense, serious, curmudgeony, aloof, pain in the ass. Plus, I would find myself to be high maintenance cuz I would have to hire a cook, housekeeper, laundress, handyperson, and decorator.

Hm. I must ponder more.

[Guy]

okay sure, but our first kiss would be a lil awkward.

[betenoire]

Big Bang Theory is currently the ONLY funny show on television.

If Leonard was a real person and not a character on a teevee show I would divorce my lawfully wedded wedded person and pursue Leonard wholeheartedly. I would even be willing to put up with Wolowitz if I could have Leonard.

Oh sorry. I forgot that this isn't the "would you date that person who doesn't actually exist" thread. My bad.

[nicetgurl_30]

Yes, but I thought that was what being single meant!

[Nightshade]

Yeah, I think I would fasten my seatbelt and go for this ride. But then I've always felt that passion was the best motivator in life.

Plus, I know all the secrets to bringing out the best in me. :heartbeat:

[Diva]

I guess I'm the only one who would, since I've not been asked for a date in forever......







And just for the record, I'm really ok with this.......I can't settle for someone who can't deal.

[Martina]

Yes. We'd have great sex and terrible fights. i wonder if the conversation would be interesting or too predictable. The bdsm would be a problem since i don't switch. i think it would have to be an open relationship.

[Arwen]

Me? In a New York minute, I would. I like my company. I think I'm very funny. I like to do all the things I like to do so it's easy to plan a date.

I will go out to eat alone.
I will go out to the movies too.

I sometimes have to force myself because so-called society thinks it's weird, but there ya are.

I'm officially weird.

I just get annoyed when I double book myself and stand me up.

[weatherboi]

i would but after much thought there would have to be limits when dating myself. we would also need a safe word for a timeout on those days we just can't deal with me anymore!!! ohhhh and i would have to like using vampire gloves on me, that is important.:mohawk:

[NJFemmie]

I think I would, but then again, I'm already with someone who is very much like myself - which is quite spooky at times - but other times - very comforting. Being on the same wave length, thinking the same things at the same time, sharing a lot of the same experiences, qualities, etc...

On the other side of that, we do have our differences and I think that is the key to what makes me a better person.

[Daktari]

Good God no! I'm not my type, far too grumpy and impatient.

[The_Lady_Snow]

Oh yeah I would!!! It would have to be polyamorous though, and the other me COULD NOT own a goat damn BEAGLE!!!

[MsDemeanor]

I'd probably be too frustrated by how little time that I would have to spend with me right now. Maybe in another year or so, when things have settled down a bit.

Even then, though, there will be the issue of always wanting to kick me out of the kitchen so that I can cook.

[JustJo]

Not only would I date me...I'd move me in and be in a committed relationship pronto! :)

Just think...someone who cooks the way I like it, bakes, makes the coffee, wants to go to the beach all the time, plays like a big goofy kid at Disney, has a job with lots of freedom, and gets things done around the house...awesome!

On the down side...it's hard enough to get me to go for a walk or to my doctor appointments now. If I had me giving myself more slack...that could be an issue.

Sexually...ummm....not going there :winky:

[scootebaby]

not even if you paid me..ALOT!!! i am cranky,moody,forgetful,grumpy,relunctant to see any other way than my own,forgetful(did i say that already?) a smart ass,an asshole at times,take things for granted,expect things/ppl to be a certain way,defensive about the smallest things---the list could go on,but then Jo may start wondering why she is still with me :|

[cinderella]

Based on looks alone...no. I'm not into feminine-looking women.

[dark_crystal]

HAYull-to-the-NAW
i know better than to buy that cute and innocent act

(and that girl is CRAZY)

[dixie]

- coldhearted vicious ice queen bitch if disprespected

It was brought to my attention by my fabulous gf that "disprespected" may or may not be a word. So....let me add to my list that PRO: while I am normally excellent at spelling (elementary school spelling bee champ, oh yeah), CON: I do tend to suck at typing, especially when trying to get a lot of thoughts out...LOL

[Julie]

I would date Diva before I would date ME...
Therefore...
NO I would not date me - I would run for the hills.
But I would date Diva...
If she would butch up (quite) a bit.

[Diva]

I would date Diva before I would date ME...
Therefore...
NO I would not date me - I would run for the hills.
But I would date Diva...
If she would butch up (quite) a bit.




I have a circular saw, a nail gun and a chain saw.....does that help?

I have a baseball cap, too, but it says "wineaux" in bling, so that might not count.....:eyebat:

I mean....:fastdraq:

[Gemme]

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Are you MAD???? :seeingstars:

Absolutely, unequivocally NOT!!!

I'm demanding, bitchy (heinously so), anal retentive, extremely particular (on my better days), and (on my worst days) passive-aggressively manipulative.

I like things the way I like them when I like them. Now, to be fair to myself, my way is usually the better way if one would look at all the aspects objectively but not everyone believes in doing things logically or the right way. For example, some people believe in sweeping and mopping the floors FIRST when cleaning the apartment. :blink:

Top to bottom, people! Top to bottom!

I would, however, date Ebon. He's kinda cute and seems real sweet and laid back and like he might be able to handle my uptightedness.

Maybe.
:eyebat:

[Julie]

I have a circular saw, a nail gun and a chain saw.....does that help?

I have a baseball cap, too, but it says "wineaux" in bling, so that might not count.....:eyebat:

I mean....:fastdraq:




As long as you are not me...
I would date you - so it all counts.
Now we have derailed this *actually* very good topic.
Personally... I would not answer this honestly - because then... Well, the whole world would know I am really simply a mess and that is why I would not date me. I don't date messes!

Kisses You!
(no tongue so put it away)

[Ebon]

Are you MAD???? :seeingstars:

Absolutely, unequivocally NOT!!!

I'm demanding, bitchy (heinously so), anal retentive, extremely particular (on my better days), and (on my worst days) passive-aggressively manipulative.

I like things the way I like them when I like them. Now, to be fair to myself, my way is usually the better way if one would look at all the aspects objectively but not everyone believes in doing things logically or the right way. For example, some people believe in sweeping and mopping the floors FIRST when cleaning the apartment. :blink:

Top to bottom, people! Top to bottom!

I would, however, date Ebon. He's kinda cute and seems real sweet and laid back and like he might be able to handle my uptightedness.

Maybe.
:eyebat:

I would date you in a heartbeat! Oh wait I already am. :|

[Diva]

Are you MAD???? :seeingstars:

Absolutely, unequivocally NOT!!!

I'm demanding, bitchy (heinously so), anal retentive, extremely particular (on my better days), and (on my worst days) passive-aggressively manipulative.

I like things the way I like them when I like them. Now, to be fair to myself, my way is usually the better way if one would look at all the aspects objectively but not everyone believes in doing things logically or the right way. For example, some people believe in sweeping and mopping the floors FIRST when cleaning the apartment. :blink:

Top to bottom, people! Top to bottom!

I would, however, date Ebon. He's kinda cute and seems real sweet and laid back and like he might be able to handle my uptightedness.

Maybe.
:eyebat:


I would date you for no other reason than I'm bigger than you, could hold you down & duct tape you up and sit you in a corner, while making you watch me eat something crumbly, letting the crumbs drop to the floor....I can almost hear you gasp through the tape.

<evil giggle>

[Greco]

yes, I do all the time

fun thread

Greco

[sharkchomp]

uhhhh no no no no. I'm attracted to femmes. I'm butch. Now if I was attracted to butches yes yes yes yes. I'd be my own best fishing bud, and isn't that all that matters? lol

~~~shark~~~~~~~

[betenoire]

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

OPFTMFW! :whoop:

[Gemme]

I would date you in a heartbeat! Oh wait I already am. :|

Worse. You're living with me. :blink:

I would date you for no other reason than I'm bigger than you, could hold you down & duct tape you up and sit you in a corner, while making you watch me eat something crumbly, letting the crumbs drop to the floor....I can almost hear you gasp through the tape.

<evil giggle>


That. Is. Hawt.

When shall I be ready?

:eyebat:

[Passionaria]

Would I date me? Yes, but I'd polish my seduction skills and arrive with my dancing shoes on, prepared to Tango. And I mean that metaphorically.............

0B4JP6bX7fo

[scootebaby]

I would date you for no other reason than I'm bigger than you, could hold you down & duct tape you up and sit you in a corner, while making you watch me eat something crumbly, letting the crumbs drop to the floor....I can almost hear you gasp through the tape.

<evil giggle>


could this possibly be videotaped AND shared???

[Strappie]

So when I went to bed last night I had a good conversation with me and myself. Me, Myself and I all thought we didn't think it was a good idea to have any sorta relations, other than being fuck buddies. Me and Myself were rather taken back by the thought of I not wanting to date. I is a bit afraid of commitment and well me is just afraid of trusting someone again and well myself well I'm ready but afraid of it all.

So I guess Me, Myself and I are just going to have too look else where!

[atomiczombie]

This is a really mind-numbing question for me. I know that I would befriend someone like me. I think I am a good friend and basically a good person. But date? :|

[JAGG]

Wow what a good question. Never really thought about it. But... HELL YES I WOULD!!!!!! In a heart beat. I have alot to offer. I would feel like I hit the lottery.

[StillettoDoll]

I would do me. :blink:. I once saw a shirt that said that . actually my ex use to wear it.

[JAGG]

I would date Diva before I would date ME...
Therefore...
NO I would not date me - I would run for the hills.
But I would date Diva...
If she would butch up (quite) a bit.


You peeps are too funny!!!!! Thanks for the laugh Infinite.

[Julie]

You peeps are too funny!!!!! Thanks for the laugh Infinite.

No, I am serious about it!
I would date DIVA - she cooks!
I do not.

[Scorp]

Hmmm, I actually had to sit back for a SECOND and think about that and had a moment of an out of body experience.

The verdict is (If I must say so myself):

FUCK yes I would date me. I'm the best of both worlds <wigglin' eyebrows> and I too have a lot (and will be offering) to someone (which unfortunately all, I am quite taken and soon to be married). I know, I know, <sigh> I'm sorry to disappoint all you lovely ladies, but, the Stinger is finally settling down with my beautiful, intelligent woman. And before some of you ask, why the hell I waited so long, no clue, I just did and am ready now for all the right reasons in this crazy ass world.

P.S. Now try not to puke all over yourselves reading this "mushy" post. :canadian:

[dark_crystal]

it's like Gemme is psychic! Cuz when i said this:
HAYull-to-the-NAW
i know better than to buy that cute and innocent act

(and that girl is CRAZY)

i TOTALLY meant this: I like things the way I like them when I like them. Now, to be fair to myself, my way is usually the better way if one would look at all the aspects objectively but not everyone believes in doing things logically or the right way.

:bolt:

[JAGG]

No, I am serious about it!
I would date DIVA - she cooks!
I do not.

Well I can cook for myself, I don't need that. I mean ...ah ...okay define cook? I heat stuff up real good. I wouldn't say I like cooking but I do like eating so, there ya have it.

[EnderD_503]

Probably not. I'd probably realise that I wasn't in a good place to be in a relationship at this point, or that I might just not be the relationship type. As long as both me's realised it, I guess it'd be alright lol Of course it would depend on the type of person "other me" is, since me me is not really the be-with-each-other-every-waking-hour type. I need my space...but if I am identical to myself, I guess I'd be good for me. And now I feel kind of insane:p

[asphaltcowboi]

no!!! im way to butch for me!

[dykeumentary]

I'd date me, there surely would never be a dull moment. Probably wouldn't last long though, because I'd never get a word in.

[Julie]

Well I can cook for myself, I don't need that. I mean ...ah ...okay define cook? I heat stuff up real good. I wouldn't say I like cooking but I do like eating so, there ya have it.

Define Cooking...
Preparing delicious meals from scratch (scratch me out)

Seriously -- Why would anybody want to date someone just like themselves?
Where would be the fun?
Where would be the allure?
Where would be the mystery?
Where would be the debate?

And what about sex?
What if you are a TOP - would you constantly Top yourself?
If you are bottom - MY GOD... talk about suffering.
And if you are a switch - well... Who goes first?

Why would anybody want to date someone just like them?

[The_Lady_Snow]

Define Cooking...
Preparing delicious meals from scratch (scratch me out)

Seriously -- Why would anybody want to date someone just like themselves?
Where would be the fun?
Where would be the allure?
Where would be the mystery?
Where would be the debate?

And what about sex?
What if you are a TOP - would you constantly Top yourself?
If you are bottom - MY GOD... talk about suffering.
And if you are a switch - well... Who goes first?

Why would anybody want to date someone just like them?


Cause Kobi wanted to know????

[DapperButch]

No.

Now there is good stuff about me - integrity, honestly, good communicator, good listener and emotional supporter, loyal, kind, great in a crisis....but...

I like someone who is more gentle in nature and is a different kind/type of nurturer than I tend to be (no, I can't describe it..but it is a different way of nurturing...the way I nurture wouldn't meet my needs).

In terms of values and general approach to life, I seek someone similar to me.

[Ryobi]

My first reaction was no. But, upon further review, Me, Myself and I already have a good relationship going, I'm a good guy, have a big heart, and don't take much for granted. So, my answer is yes. Yes, I would date Myself. :hangloose:

[shadows papa]

Would I date me? I will say yes,but with a caveat; I am fairly intelligent and can hold a good convo, attentive,funny,loyal, and though I am steady as a rock, I can be spontaneous and unpredictable. I think those are good traits for being dateable. (is dateable a word??) On the caveat emptor side... I don't like crowds and will usually be one of the first to leave if an event goes much past 11 pm. I live for working out, ANYTHING to do with bikes, triathlons, etc. so much of my time, at times, will be tied up with getting ready for some type of event.

I tend to live inside my own head a LOT, so if silence bothered a potential date, that would be an issue. I am a "quantum leaper" in my thought process and will spew forth a soliloquy that may start with how strong ants are for their size and end with why Greek, Doric, French Provincial architecture intriques me, stopping along the way at dogs,bikes, and the price of gas, etc. Luckily I have found my perfect counterpart and she actually LIKES these things about me... so YES I would date me, but it's a moot point!!

[Soft*Silver]

well, my impish first thought was to be funny and say that ever since I strapped on, my dating pool got smaller, so dating myself might be my only option but....thats not true at all...funny but not true...

At the moment I wouldnt date me because I am emotionally not available. I am not damaged goods. I just am not emotionally willing to participate in a romantic relationship. So, no, I wouldnt put myself in that position.

If I was emotionally available? No. I am bullheaded and two bullheaded people in a relationship does not work. Locked horns do not end up in stalemate. It oftens ends up in a blood bath. I am also the worst possible combination of being bullheaded AND sensitive...so imagine bloodbath and tears when I am with someone like myself..or someone deft and clumsy at relationships. My best companion tends to be someone who helps me lighten up and makes me laugh. Its like I sit around in a bathtub full of sorrow sometimes and they have to pull that damn plug so we can fill the tub with bubbles. I respond really really well to that!

[princessbelle]

No way!!!!! I am wayyyy too much of a girl for my personal taste in dating. I couldn't wait over an hour for me to get ready to go out on a date. I don't have enough patience to put up with me. :|

[cuddlyfemme]

Not at all.....i'm way to femme

[Dutch Leonard]

I've never looked in the mirror and said "I'd hit that!"

I'm not my type. And if I did, I'd dump myself for the first femme that smiled and flashed some cleavage at me.

[Nat]

I do date myself. :) I take myself to the movies, take myself to museums and cafes and trips. I sleep with myself. I don't even mind myself snoring. I even buy myself flowers sometimes.

[Dutch Leonard]

I do date myself. :)

*snicker* me too, but I'd still dump myself for the first femme that came along. ;)

[Glenn]

When I was dating myself it worked out so well that I married myself. I cheated on myself a couple of times, but in time I forgave myself, and now I'm more together than ever!

[RockOn]

I would not and could not date myself. It would scare the pure hell out of me to see me coming at me with my strap on ... I would run for the hills.

I am attracted to the girly (femme) types.

Your posts are hilarious ... fun reading them!

:)

[Soft*Silver]

did I misunderstand the original post? Didnt it state not to worry about the butch-femme part of ourselves. For heavens sakes, thats a given in our polarized world. I wouldnt date a femme.

(Oh..wait...maybe I would...but she would have to be a submissive.)

[Arwen]

After tonight's dinner, not only would I date myself, I would marry me and give me a very large pink diamond set in platinum.

http://www.asiaone.com/A1MEDIA/justwomen/08Aug08/20080821.181121_pink_diamond.jpg

That's tacky.
Give me it.
I'll date you.

[Arwen]

Only if I get to be The Daddy.

You are my only DaddyJune.

[Arwen]

Excellent! I can't wait till you fondle my *bits* just be sure you don't cut me with that rock, girl.


This is what's called "Negotiation". I hope everyone is taking note of how fast The Arwen is now running away smoothly this is going.

I hear my other Daddy calling. I'll be right back. No really....:blueheels:

[theoddz]

Of *course* I would date myself. :twitch:

One doesn't run across someone like me just every day, you know. :winky:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

[PumaJ]

Thanks for the many giggles, everyone.

Yes, I would date myself, I think."Wait...a date? What is that? Have I ever done that?"

"What?"

"Date, you know!"

"I do?"

"Yeah, yeah. Remember? You've been out on a few dates? You know, you get the call, or you make the call, then a few days later you get in your car, drive somewhere to meet up with the Butch you are interested in for a movie, dinner. You know that kind of thing."

"Oh, is that what those activities were a long time ago? Well, I never really went on many of those. Maybe a couple, once or twice, maybe... Yes, okay I admit it, I did a few times. Remember what usually happened? I'd go out on one or two of those date deals, then the third time, maybe actually the second time, the date was in the bed, or sofa, on the floor, you know.. forget dinner or a movie, we'd just skip to the sex:-) There would be a few of those kind of dates, then we'd move in together."

"Hmm, actually, I think there is supposed to be something about dating that I skipped. Like maybe actually dating, you know not getting into the sex stuff so soon. I haven't done anything like that for a very long time."

"Well, not with another person, dear. You've gone out with yourself, several times. How was that?

"Very fun. But you know, I hadn't even taken myself on a date before I jumped into the sack with myself."

"You hussy! I don't think its supposed to work that way when you date someone else, you know."

"Well, it didn't, I did wait until the second or third date when I dated someone else."

"Kayso, I've established that not only would I date myself, but I do date myself."

"Yes, dear, you have. Do you date anyone else?"

"Um, no."

"Do you want to?"

"Um...well...I don't know. Maybe...but, then maybe not. I don't think I really understand about dating."

Well, there you have it. I think my Gemini brain is done having a conversation with itself on the topic of the question. :seeingstars:

[AtLast]

Yes, I would. I'm intelligent, honest, polite and a good dancer.... ;?)...

:byebye:

[DapperButch]

I can't remember if I posted in this thread already or not, but I am too lazy to look.

No, I would not date me. My core self, my values, yes, I would.

But, I can be too self absorbed at times, I think. No one I have dated has actually called me that, but I think it is accurate. I can get in my own head and focused on my own stuff, I think.

Also, I can become a bit emtionally distant and unaccessible, at times. Just because of the above, I think (not b/c I am "distancing", per se). I can be brought back, but personally, I like a more attentive partner! I HAVE gotten WAY better over time, though!

[MrSunshine]

fabulously

[Jaques]

I would date me for the super dinners i give - at least I'd get a good meal outa me :jester:

[Julie]

fabulously

You would say that!
Me on the other hand...
I know I have said it before!
No F*G* Way.

[BullDog]

I think I already am. Except she never takes me anywhere. She's always working.

[proximitywithoutintimacy]

Would I date myself?

No.

But... would I sleep with myself?

Absolutely ;)

[PumaJ]

I am still only dating myself, these days. But..I have started having conversations with others about what dating is in regard to dating another person. I can't believe I am so ignorant in this area! But, within a year or so of coming out, the Feminist "movement" hit the San Francisco area and dating between lesbians seemed to get pushed out the window along with Butch & Femme.

In high school I didn't date because I wasn't interested in guys. I did hang out with my girlfriends, a lot. But they were as femme as I was and not latent lesbians, anyway. Plus, back then, even the "free love" attitude of the hippies in San Francisco did not include owning oneself as "gay" in the high schools of the city.

I think I've actually been practicing dating on myself the past few years and I'm a pretty good date, now;-) Maybe, someday I'll get good enough at it that I will actually date someone else! What a concept:-)

[Quintease]

Date myself? Oh no. For starters, neither of us would be able to decide where to go, I'd probably take offence at myself then be offended that I was offended, I'd have an opinion which went against everything that I believed, and I'd wanna be on top and so would I, so neither of us would be happy.

I much prefer dating other people thanks.

[Kaison]

I think I would if I were less hairy and had boobs and no muscles.

[Abigail Crabby]

Why yes I would

I'm cute
I'm funny
I'm true blue
I'm sweet
I'm adorable

And I'll do my best to beat you at any and all video games ;) :byebye::blueheels:

[Heart]

I'd totally date me. I'm a great conversationalist.

[julieisafemme]

I would not date me. Nothing personal. I am already spoken for.

[violaine]

yes. fork yeah! i appreciate: space, motorbikes, animals, multidimensionality, insects, twisted humour, differences, being activist/advocating - for The Good Fight, baked goods, getting lost, and nature [as a language also]. the big turn on>> crazy dancing in the kitchen, talking about art, an ability to see all the way round something, and maintain a reservoir of abundant bounce-back if holding on tight for the long run. right buttons pushed, please.

[hpychick]

Oh Hell No.

Although, I am totally cute and funny and an excellent cook and a good hearted woman who'd like be loving a good hearted man, er woman :| (however IDed?) .

But, alas, I digress; the answer - more vehemently and with passion: Oh. Hell. No.

[MissPriss]

Absolutely...not. I am quite a handful, it takes a certain kind of person to handle me. Im not that person I would most likely kill me lol

[Ciaran]

I am moody, vain, sometimes petulant and can be a bit of a prima donna .... therefore, I probably would date myself but this would be a bad thing as the "relationship" would break-up with acrimony after a few dates. :hrmph:

[Deborah]

From a me place yes I probably would because I know me and get me....

From an 'other' place I would WANT to because I think I have a lot to offer...I love spoiling someone and being affectionate,Im funny, not too smart but can carry a conversation, I'm an excelllent cook, love critters, love chillin on the porch listening to the frogs (my special time is 7pm), I'm a home body and am very home oriented but I can be taken out in public without embarrassing you....

BUT I expect back what I give, attention, conversation, sex, understanding, same standard of living, similar levels of energy, I will make you the center of my world but it is a requirement that I be the center of yours....it can be all about you as long as you make me think its all about me :)

To me all that is pretty simple but again thats from a 'me place' and I get me most of the time....hmmm I wonder if I am available Friday night...lol

[Janny]

Nah...I'm just not my type. :p

[Diva]

Oh hellz yeah.....I would date me, I would eat my cooking, I would take me to heaven and back and show me how a Rubenesque redheaded wickedlyinnocentwildwoman should be treated and make me thank me later. Then I would kiss me deeply and ask me to marry me. I might do that in Belize, but shhhhhh....don't tell me that part.

[redrose]

date myself? why not? but enter into a relationship, i have to think a million times...

- physically speaking, you can't put me on display
- change moods easily
- nagger
- freakin jealous type, (as in paranoid)
- you'll be walking on eggshell
- not easy to handle
- you can never ever go out of the relationship

oh what was the question again,,,
would you date yourself?
YES, why not :)

[1QuirkyKiwi]

....Bump! :D

I date myself sometimes - I enjoy being with people, but, I don’t need constant social interaction and I also enjoy my alone time, allowing me to process my thoughts, feelings, to do my hobbies, to feel the Ocean bubbles gently kissing my feet or whatever I feel like doing.

Would I date me as a person? …….Ummm……..yes and no! LOL! I’ve been told I can be a handful (minds out of the gutters! LOL!). I’m an offbeat person with a somewhat demented sense of humour - having been told I often have people laughing in stitches and sometimes gob-smacked (although you may wonder just how my mind works! LOL!) I appreciate not everyone will understand me as a person and some have tried to tame me! I’m free-spirited, determined, most definitely unique and a little rebellious (within the law, lol!) at times. I refuse to conform to any ‘label’ that could possibly be given to me.

I have an abundance of thoughtfulness, love, affection, resourcefulness, sensuality, intuition, instinct, loyalty, devotion and kindness. These traits I’d DEFINITELY date me for and the sense of humour! As for being a handful, I’m not sure I could cope with that to be honest! LOL! I would have to have a loving and tolorent, yet, disciplined nature – one that is firm, but, not aggressive. Also, I’d need an amazing amount of energy to keep up with me! LOL!

[Gemme]

I've decided I would if it were an open relationship.

[Slowpurr]

Yes, because I am a caring, decent individual who tries deeply to be as honest as possible.

...and No because I can be rigid and selfish in my needs.

[Morgan]

Hell No....too butch, would be like dating my best buddy. Not that I don't have all the good qualities I am looking for in someone though, lol.

[Daktari]

Nope...I don't date numpties!

[apretty]

yes and often!

[Queerasfck]

yes and often!

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

[apretty]

She would also tell herself never to call again, tell herself to **** off, and then hang up.
But it would all work out in the end.

i would NOT! MYSELF would have to common sense to stop calling. xoxo

[MissItalianDiva]

LOL....hell no! I think I am pretty wonderful and a great catch but I don't have the ability or patience to deal with me sometimes

[ButchEire]

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

[apretty]

Nope,

I'm just not attracted to blue eyes. True story.

me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.

[tazz]

yes i would. i'm a fantastic catch!

[Honey]

me too! thankfully E's are green but I usually prefer brown--brown soulful terrier eyes.

YES !! Not only would I date me I'd fuck me too !!

[starryeyes]

Haha.... Yes!! Of course! I am fabulous! Lol :-D

[*Anya*]

No, I would not, not because I am not terrific (lol) but because:

1. I am not butch

2. I am attracted to traits in a butch that I may not have and that complement my own traits

3. I believe opposites do attract as long as the same core values match

[StrongButch]

Yes Yes Yes

[chai~]

I would date me for some of my characteristics.
I'm not sexually attracted to femmes, but I do make a great femme bff!
I prefer masculine energy sexually.

As others have said about themselves, I can also be a handful, sometimes moody, forgetful, distracted, aloof, disinterested, crabby, emotional, and messy.

I would make a better best friend to myself!


.

[Metro]

yes and no. most often i find myself gravitating toward those with a similar low-key personality. i am the strong silent type but by no means shy. creativity and shared values also set a good foundation for the types of relationships in which i thrive, see myself and feel most comfortable. and, while i salute other butches, i am physically attracted only to those of the femme persuasion.

[Bad_boi]

It might be fun for a while but we would be too similar. We would make good friends but not good lovers since constant contact with someone so similar would probably get annoying.

[deedarino]

I would definitely date myself. I would love that I was a good, honest, passionate person, intelligent and hilarious at the most appropriate moments. In laws wouldn't be soo bad and I would love my taste in music. Not to mention I am damn good kisser...AND a liberal! Oh yeah.

Eventually though, I would get on my nerves cause I can't cook worth a damn, I leave dishes in the sink, can never make up my mind, often want to stay home, and I would talk my own head off...then when I was in a quiet mood, I would be constantly be asking myself what I was thinking and we all know how irritating that is...

On second thought...

[aishah]

i prefer to date people who complement me rather than people who are exactly like me, but i look for similar qualities that i like about myself in other people...for example, joy, gratitude, satisfaction with life, someone who cares about social justice, has a good sense of humor, likes to cuddle, etc. :) so i guess i'd date myself (or someone who had similar quirks, values, outlook on life, and direction in life). i think i'm pretty fucking spectacular.

[aishah]

also, one of my favorite poems ever :)

UFhFaRKVpTY

[WomenMoveMe]

Oh, Good Lord, no!

[Silverseastar]

Hell yeah.

I'm well (self) employed, I'm creative, I'm hot, I'm smart, I'm funny (once I get to know you), I have a high sex drive, I'm always learning and growing as a person, I value family and community and friends, and I like doing all sorts of fun adventures (like going to IMsL soon, woohoo!).

But really it's all about the sex. It's the only reason I'm in this relationship with myself...hehe.

[Just_G]

Absolutely!!

-sense of humor....check
-loves KU basketball...check
-not a cheater.....check
-likes to go out when I do...check
-doesn't mind sequin tube top nights :winky:...check
-loves to dance....check
-loves to spend time with friends...check
-employed....check
-loves my dogs....check
-loves the beach....check
-loves to travel.....check
........the possibilities are ENDless! :clap:

If I had a femme clone, yeah, I'd be all over her! :cigar2:

[girl_dee]

i HAVE dated myself! i broke up with me but maintained a relationship

[Random]

Oh, Good Lord, no!

This was my EXACT thought when I saw the title of this thread...


well, I also added that I would probably strangle myself in my sleep...

While I do thing I am fine company and enjoy myself I may be a TAD high strung and moody at times...


just a tad...

[justkim]

Yes I would... well, except when I am grumpy... :blink:

[Dude]

but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly
you would always know exactly what you were in the mood for
it doesnt sound like a bad gig to me

[princessbelle]

I have dated myself but never got past first base.

Oh wait....i take that back

[Random]

but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly
you would always know exactly what you were in the mood for
it doesnt sound like a bad gig to me


But what if you are grumpy cause you haven't done something to someone in a while, but what you enjoy doing to someone else you DO NOT enjoy being done to you???

huh.. huh?

What then?

[justkim]

but you would know why you were grumpy so you could fix it promptly
you would always know exactly what you were in the mood for
it doesnt sound like a bad gig to me


Grumpy usually means I am tired and I need to take a NAP! So there is always a remedy...

[Dude]

But what if you are grumpy cause you haven't done something to someone in a while, but what you enjoy doing to someone else you DO NOT enjoy being done to you???

huh.. huh?

What then?

go poly
with someone who's also With themself(f)

[Random]

go poly
with someone who's also With themself(f)


hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah

[mustangjeano]

hahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahah

Hell No. I don't have the patience to deal with me.

[~ocean]

at least it would be real !!!! lol

[genghisfawn]

No, but there's a good reason...

I always say that if I dated someone who used my curling iron, lipstick, etc. it would end badly. So if I dated myself, all it would take would be me or me seeing my or my lipstick on myself or myself and the resulting breakup would be such a material and temporal conundrum that the consequences could be dastardly.

So maybe that's not a good idea.

[The Oopster]

i'm single so I sort of do date myself! :|

I give myself treats! I take myself to my favorite places! When I'm down I do something special for me! I spend time with me! I try to treat myself nicely! I cook for me! I do the chores for me! I'm taking me on vacation! I try to tell myself nice self about myself! I try to be honest with myself!

i think I do date me! :|

[laruss]

I would date myself in a minute and I do. I am fantastic, loyal, honest and fun.
And I know exactly what I like in bed so that is a bonus.

The only down fall would be the arguments. I don't like anyone touching my stuff, my art supplies especially.

But, at least I know I wouldn't wreak my books, I'm careful like that.

[pinkgeek]

the combined shoe collection would be worth it..........how do I love thee....let me count thy pairs........ :seeingstars:

[Prudence]

YES.....:dance2:

[cane]

Absolutely not! I mean don't get me wrong, I'm a nice person, but I don't think I could stand myself in the long run, I have no idea how my wife does it. I know I'm a handful, just to keep me and my ADD on the right track is almost a full time job.

Amazing woman...

[Ginger]

I would marry me.

[LaneyDoll]

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?

Hell yes I would!!!

Not only do I know how to woo me, make me weak in the knees etc, I know everything I like in bed ;)

Honestly though, I may not. My life is pretty fast-paced and I really need someone to rein me in when I commit to too much. Since I move at the speed of sound, I do better with someone who reminds me why the quiet days/nights at home are so much fun and therapeutic.

:sparklyheart:

[Jett]

LOL... yes and actually I'd marry myself immediately before I got away... xD

I'm not perfect but I'm trustworthy, kind, loyal as hell and I already crack myself up all the time why not? I may be the only one who can truely handle and understand me... I deserve that...

lmao

[clay]

No I wouldn't because I am Butch and I only want to date femme...grins...
Not that I am not date worthy...I am a cool human being...I just am BUTCH...too butch for me...lol

[Dude]

I thought the thread was about who we are as people
not how we present or id.
A deeper delve but much more interesting.

I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night.
swoon
Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!

[Sachita]

I would marry me.


this is exactly how I feel about me

[Queerasfck]

I thought the thread was about who we are as people
not how we present or id.
A deeper delve but much more interesting.

I took myself to the movies ,then dinner last night.
swoon
Later I'm gonna buy me some expensive, new socks!


Sounds like you'll be able to at least get to 3rd base with yourself, and soon!

[Medusa]

Expensive new socks = The Butch Aphrodisiac.

[BoDy*ShOt]

yes, I would date myself today..

1..2 years ago - not so much.. I'd most likely love me and leave me.

[TimilDeeps]

I would soooooooo date me. I'm fucking awesome!

And I recently got some new socks, man THAT was a great night!

[funkyfemme]

Actually I AM dating myself right now! :|

[Mr Nice Guy]

Yes in a second. ;)

[CherylNYC]

Oh, no. I mean, HELL no! My dating criteria includes a stipulation that she be less crazy than me. And better at washing up the dishes after dinner. Plus if I were to date myself, I would be furious that I couldn't get a word in edgewise.

If I were to go against my better judgement and go out on a date with me, I might be impressed by my honesty and my predilection for multi-syllable words, but my excitable nature would stress me out. I would conclude that I need to date a calmer person, and the relationship would be over before it started. Then I would go home alone and, uh, date myself.

[Sassy]

Sure! I'm cute, smart, a pretty good cook, spontaneous, adventurous, generally up-beat, kinky in bed with great taste in shoes, books and movies. Actually, I sound kinda great. Hmmm, I like this idea. Yes, if I should find myself single, I think I'll just date myself for quite some long time. Ha! :D

[Ginger]

I would marry me.

At least, I would want me to want to marry me, whether I wanted to marry me or not.

Here's a less flip answer. I would adore me. I would feel happy, when I walked in the door. I would feel happy, making my home, our home. I would miss me during the day, and if I got an email or phone call from me, I would answer with joy. I would watch out for me, take me into consideration as I planned my life. I would love me.

[TimilDeeps]

Oh, no. I mean, HELL no! My dating criteria includes a stipulation that she be less crazy than me. And better at washing up the dishes after dinner. Plus if I were to date myself, I would be furious that I couldn't get a word in edgewise.

If I were to go against my better judgement and go out on a date with me, I might be impressed by my honesty and my predilection for multi-syllable words, but my excitable nature would stress me out. I would conclude that I need to date a calmer person, and the relationship would be over before it started. Then I would go home alone and, uh, date myself.

singing . . . .it's the circle, the circle of liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiffffffffeeeeeeeee

[honeyb]

No...it would never go anywhere since I'm typically not the one to initiate things. Also I don't know what i want/need half the time.

[Lazy Daze]

The only part of me I would want to date is the chef and the laundry lady... otherwise, I am too damn high maintenance for me!

[Licious]

I used to think so. Sort of. Now I think it would be better to date someone different. Plus I wouldn't be butch enough. But could I hang with me? Gawd yes, we would be close friends!

[firegal]

Um would that mean one of me would have to be BOTTOM!

HELL NO! :jester:

[NorCalStud]

Um Ick. Nightmare.

[apretty]

I would. But I would make sure I got the upper hand immediately, otherwise, I will be quite a handful.

yes, this.

[girl_dee]

Um would that mean one of me would have to be BOTTOM!

HELL NO! :jester:

in my case i was thinking that it would be one helluva fight for bottom!

Even though i KNOW i would win!

:slapfight:

[ReDo]

If I had seen this question 4 years ago I would say not a chance in HELL... Lordy I was not a nice person. I was bitchy, can't cook, lazy, and dependant on someone else.

Today I can say I have worked hard and hell yeah I would date me. I take care of my partner and do not rely on anyone but myself, I am honest, funny, still bitchy at times but hey its so not my fault and I think the argument between me and myself could be amusing to some. So today yeah I would date myself but Panama might get a little jealous so I better not.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Hmmmm

I would date myself...I'm only marginally crazy, and I'm a decent cook. After teaching my daughter to drive I know I have nerves of steel (the same can be said of anyone that drives with me and my lead foot), which means I'm up for pretty much anything, and I am not afraid to pick up dog poo.

Yep, if I was single I'd date me!

[thedivahrrrself]

If I were a butch, I'd totally date me. I have good manners, I know how to treat a lady, I'm relatively chivalrous, and I'm good conversation. Also, I give really awesome gifts. I'd know exactly what kind of jewelry I like.

Me and myself would go see operas, and I'd hold me when Mimi sings her final aria, because I'd know that part always makes me cry. We'd go to the zoo, and I would never mind that I spent so much time watching the otters play with the 50 cent piece I smuggled in just for them.

I'd take myself to museum after museum, and we'd watch every show in the planetarium. We'd travel all kinds of places, and walk everywhere. We love public transportation, and we're not afraid to read a bus map, even in another language.

We'd be a power couple, me and myself. We'd both have our careers and spend a lot of time volunteering. Everyone would remark how nice it must be to have someone with so many similar interests. We'd raise smart, well-rounded children with big hearts.

We would be awesome.

[~ocean]

having strong beliefs .. in ones character would be the only similarity i would look for in someone, as i try to live up to in myself.. other than that NO .. i like the diversity of someones else's mind ..

[stonewalldog]

Occasionally I have an interlude with Rosey Palm and her five sisters...does that count? LOL!

Of course I would date myself. I think I am perfect!

[GreeneyedMe]

I would for a few reasons...< hot, amazing, and blistering in the bedroom> but mostly no because I don't have the "Butch Yummies" that are required for me!

[SleepyButch]

I would not date myself as I know myself too well.... sex.. now that's another story.

[cara]

Are you kidding me??? Of course I would date myself! i've been doing it for a few years now and have found out I'm pretty awesome. :)

[thedivahrrrself]

If I date myself AND somebody else, am I cheating on me?

[SleepyButch]

If I date myself AND somebody else, am I cheating on me?

Not as long as everyone gives consent...

[Bella~Vita]

I would not date myself as I know myself too well.... sex.. now that's another story.

Ha Ha Only you SB ...

[BstlMyhart]

I'd be my friend...I already am! But I'd rather have a femme ying to this butch yang...know what I mean??

[thedivahrrrself]

I would not date myself as I know myself too well.... sex.. now that's another story.

So, basically, what you're saying is you'd casually date yourself?

[SleepyButch]

So, basically, what you're saying is you'd casually date yourself?

Every chance I get... I'm easy that way.

[homoe]

Nope, no way! I'm to set in my ways:fastdraq:

[Bèsame*]

Hardly, I couldn't challenge myself. I'd be matched up with my own witty self?

[JDeere]

Are you nuts, no I would not date myself.

[Sweet Bliss]

Are you nuts, no I would not date myself.

lol, What makes you datable?

[Sweet Bliss]

I would follow me to the ends of the earth.... just to touch me

[JDeere]

lol, What makes you datable?

Ahahaha not much. I'm a huge asshole. But my gf would tell you different.

[Sweet Bliss]

What makes you datable Homoe?

[homoe]

What makes you datable Homoe?

Well I am generous (to a fault at times), I'm very considerate, I give compliments rather than criticism, I'll break my neck finding you something I know you'll like, and last but not least, I keep my word! IF I say I'll call unless I'm dead or in a hospital, I'll call!!

[vixenagogo]

not date. but i would definitely brush my hair and have a pillow fight.

[BullDog]

I don't date butches, so no. However, a platonic friendship would work. We could split a beer or something.

[Onebutch]

I don't date butches, so no. However, a platonic friendship would work. We could split a beer or something.

Put this down for my answer too.

[Onebutch]

Well I am generous (to a fault at times), I'm very considerate, I give compliments rather than criticism, I'll break my neck finding you something I know you'll like, and last but not least, I keep my word! IF I say I'll call unless I'm dead or in a hospital, I'll call!!

This wasn't directed to me but this is me too.

[homoe]

This wasn't directed to me but this is me too.

Hey bud perhaps we were separated at birth?

[Onebutch]

Hey bud perhaps we were separated at birth?

I think that's possible. I went to what makes you feel sexy thread and wanted to copy your answer there too! Haha

[homoe]

I think that's possible. I went to what makes you feel sexy thread and wanted to copy your answer there too! Haha

Feel Free............:giggle:

[Wrang1er]

Oh Hell no!

[candy_coated_bitch]

In a word.....no. I could never put up with myself! I'm too bossy and moody and messy.

[C0LLETTE]

Not only would I date myself, but I'd find several of me and go "poly"...

* Please be aware, this is a light-hearted response with no offense intended.

[TL1]

Oh Hell no!

Lmao!!!!!

Ahem...


My answer is also no

[cinnamongrrl]

Hell to the fuck no.

I tell everyone I'm nobody's dream girl. I don't get Me and I don't expect anyone else to either.

[Gemme]

In a word.....no. I could never put up with myself! I'm too bossy and moody and messy.

Word, except the messy part. Well, depending on how you mean, maybe.

:thinking:

Not only would I date myself, but I'd find several of me and go "poly"...

* Please be aware, this is a light-hearted response with no offense intended.

I'd pay good money to see a Collette collective.

[TL1]

Hell to the fuck no.

I tell everyone I'm nobody's dream girl. I don't get Me and I don't expect anyone else to either.

Well at least everyone is being brutally honest. Lol

[kittygrrl]

yes, just as long as I wasn't in charge:blush:wait a darn minute, two cats circling each other trying to decide who wasn't going to rule?!!!?...wow, this could be good!:eatinghersheybar:

[CherryWine]

I'd pay good money to see a Collette collective.

I want tickets, too! Sure to be good for a few good belly laughs. ;)


And, no, I would not date myself....I get on my own nerves enough as it is already.

[Rugged]

I'm freaking awesome!!

[homoe]

I'm freaking awesome!!

OH and SO modest...LOL

[MsTinkerbelly]

I'm in my own head too much, I'd have nothing to say to me!

[JDeere]

Lol, I love how this has taken off, I love these answers.

[Rugged]

OH and SO modest...LOL

If I don't love me, who else will

[homoe]

Lol, I love how this has taken off, I love these answers.

JD I've never been so glad to have bumped a thread..LMAO

[JDeere]

JD I've never been so glad to have bumped a thread..LMAO

LOL I bet so!

[nycfem]

Before BB I did try dating someone who was a bit of a carbon copy of me but in butch form, and it was a disaster.

[Violette]

Actually, I would. Well, me in a more masculine presentation. I kinda dig myself. And the sex is not bad either... :batman:

[RockOn]

No, not attracted in the least to my type.

[JDeere]

Actually, I would. Well, me in a more masculine presentation. I kinda dig myself. And the sex is not bad either... :batman:

Oh my goodness, I am digging your sense of humor!

[homoe]

Actually, I would. Well, me in a more masculine presentation. I kinda dig myself. And the sex is not bad either... :batman:

This cracked me up!

[dark_crystal]

HAYull-to-the-NAW
i know better than to buy that cute and innocent act

(and that girl is CRAZY)

No updates lol

[MitchM42]

Hell no! I like femme chics.....and love to see my girls in sexy heels. I can't walk in those damn things!

[homoe]

Hell no! I like femme chics.....and love to see my girls in sexy heels. I can't walk in those damn things!


HA HA HA HA

[legally_b10nde]

Yes, I see me dating myself and would make a bestie. On the other hand, I don't see me dating myself because I like a tall, dark, leather boots wearing, & rough around edges kind of butches. Clean cut, militant looks is good too!

[Lyte]

What a cool question! Self-reflection is a good thing though ... for me a "yes" feels a bit egocentric. Even so... yeah, I think I would date a femme version of me.

Strengths... smart and funny ... honest... generous... level headed ... have a good job... good home... down to earth... animal lover.

Opportunities (aka weaknesses :p ) ... impatient... easily bored... still a bit jaded from the last one... procrastinator ... I'm sure there are a few more in there but... that's all I've got for now. :glasses:

[CherryWine]

PB4Nby2Ai-g

:lol2:

[catlady]

No. I am too difficult to handle haha... I do like myself though, but I'm also not attracted to feminine types like me.

[not2shygrrl]

Why yes I would date myself! If it became serious tho....I would wait for the other me to say she loves me first!!!:byebye:

[girl_dee]

I don't get out much but I did take myself out on a first date, I am thinking of asking myself for a second!

[tantalizingfemme]

Why yes! We are currently in a long-term relationship,

[Gemme]

I guess that means I'm in a poly relationship with me, myself and I.

:blink:

[girl_dee]

I guess that means I'm in a poly relationship with me, myself and I.

:blink:

Poly didn't work out for me, although I had a GREAT time, I think I am going to try monogamy this time.

I hope I don't cheat though, that would break my heart.

[Ascot]

I like this question. About myself though, I think I'd have to say nah, I'm too much of a hard case. I wouldn't want to have to meet my own standards, lol.

[homoe]

Hell no! I like femme chics.....and love to see my girls in sexy heels. I can't walk in those damn things!


What butch can.........:giggle:

[WolfyOne]

A femme version of me, kind of...fishing, dancing and the great outdoors is required. Other than that, a lazy day at home every now and again. I can handle me better than anyone I've ever been with :|

[girl_dee]

I don't get out much but I did take myself out on a first date, I am thinking of asking myself for a second!

Looks like I may be going on a 3rd date!!!:blueheels:

[Soft*Silver]

if my husband and I ever break up, I will be the only person I would commit to ever again.....

[JDeere]

Right now my answer is still the same as it was before, but HELL TO THE NO!

Not right now, I am a big, hot mess.

[Venus007]

I am a pretty solitary person so if I dated myself I would rarely see me and that would be fine for me. (us?)
The sex would be spectacular when we did get together though.

[cathexis]

Oh hell no!!!

I don't like "sammie" wenches.

[MrSunshine]

There was a time I would. I'm to old and grumpy now.

[~ocean]

There was a time I would. I'm to old and grumpy now.

the sex would be hard too lol

[~ocean]

I wouldn't date myself ~ viva l' differance

[Deborah*]

Yes absolutely.

Deborah

[Blade]

Yup, I'm a pretty decent person. I'd date me

[akiza]

seriously? no i wouldn't it'll be an hell worse than my dayly struggle

[Tuff Stuff]

Yes, I would definitely date myself.
It would feel like winning the lottery.

:daddy:

[imperfect_cupcake]

This was the topic of conversation at dinner tonight.

This has nothing to do with the labels you use i.e. I am a guy and I dont date guys or I am butch and dont date butches.

It is about you as a person. So take a look at your strengths, weaknesses, quirks/quirkiness, where you are in life, where you plan on going in life, how you prefer to live your life etc.

And decide....would you date you? Why? Why not?
Would I date a butch, sexually dominant version of myself?

No. Because I need someone that *compliments* my strengths and weaknesses, that interlinks with the way I work, no a carbon copy of my personality traits, that wouldn't work. That's like two puzzle pieces of the same shape.

I'm a quiet living extrovert that likes gregarious introverts. It works better than two extroverts. Two extroverts don't ever shut the fuck up.

I like people who have strong points where I suck.

Two people who are very chill about the same things don't ever make decisions, and stubborn about the same things, never make compromises.

Having similar values/needs/wants in a relationship would be great, yes. And similar interests would be fantastic. But that's about the only places I would find it beneficial.

too much similarity - we'd fight too much.

[Esme nha Maire]

I'd give it a go, but more with a view to making friends than finding a partner. I'd be concerned that with identical weaknesses, as a couple we'd screw up twice as bad on the things that I screw up on. I think I need that sense of occasional delightful surprise you get from an Other. But at least I'd know I'm completely trustworthy, and affectionate. Plus there'd be little sense of mystery to a relationship. Could be fun to double-date with, we'd likely cause minor havoc now and then with our respective dates!

(this is a fun thread - some of the responses here have had me in stitches!)

[cathexis]

Would be intrigued, but would rather hang out or else with.

Go out on a date, naw ... she's too boisterous and loud. You never know what she's going to say next.

[Lovely]

Yes, I would date myself. I'm kinda fun to date. ;)

[cathexis]

Would definitely depend on the type of activity.
Gambling or Scrabble: yes
Chatterbox type activities: absolutely not - would lose some friends

Movies or any other activity not requiring conversation: absolutely
A party: not on my word

[firecat242]

I had been dating myself...but had to break it off because I was in it just for the sex.