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As many of you know SweetCali has been fighting cancer for the last 2 plus years. She is a fighter! We have been with hospice since Jan of 2010.
Right now shes needs your postive energy to help her make the transiton to her next adventure.
She had/ has big love for everyone here and has missed not interacting as of late, but trust me when I say she still has that sense of humor and a nail file to blop you with.
thanks
Mike
WolfyOne
03-12-2011, 04:42 PM
Words can't express how to help her make that next transition or her next happy adventure
For all the pain and suffering she has been doing,
there has to be something better over the horizon
I certainly know as loved as she is around here, she'll be loved even more where she goes
My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours in this time of pain and sorrow
Keep all those memories in your heart and your head will have a whole lot of stories to tell
Peace be with you, always
Selenay
03-12-2011, 04:43 PM
SweetCali, Mike, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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The_Lady_Snow
03-12-2011, 04:47 PM
K,
I've had the honor to know you, share meals with you, and road trip with you. You are the kindest of souls and your love means a lot. You are laughter wit, and one of the best human beings I know. It's gonna be ok, by this time next year I'll be driving Worm to some kind of basketball event or the beach hell even both.
It's time to go lil momma, we love you.
Snow
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Chancie
03-12-2011, 04:49 PM
Bop her back, if you dare.
I have been wondering about Ms. Cali.
Please give her a bite of some really yummy chocolate,
And send her some zombie love.
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sweetcali....all the best to you and yours.
Rope--
Julie
03-12-2011, 04:56 PM
Mike and Sweet Cali...
Sending you all the love I have inside of me - You are not alone and loved by so many.
It is an honor to know you and to have shared time with both of you.
May your journey be peaceful and filled with great love.
I Love You!
Julie
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Corkey
03-12-2011, 05:01 PM
May the rest of her journey be filled with the love you share and all the peace you both can hold.
Blessings to you both.
K,
I will always remember meeting You & Mike in Oakland......
My understanding is, that Your next big adventure is crazy wild! Melody's there, waiting for You......she has chocolate and an organizational list for You!
I am honored to have farmed with You...... :heartbeat:
~Your Diva
Medusa
03-12-2011, 05:08 PM
I knew the first time I laid eyes on her she was something special. I bet you did too, Mike :)
Sweet,
You are an amazing soul, a kind heart, and a generous spirit. We love you and are thankful to call you a friend. Our very best love to you and a wish for peaceful days ahead.
xo.
nycfem
03-12-2011, 05:29 PM
Sending love and light to Sweet Cali and to Mike...
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princessbelle
03-12-2011, 05:31 PM
Peace, light and love sent to you and your precious Lady.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
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Isadora
03-12-2011, 05:34 PM
Peace.....
Strappie
03-12-2011, 05:35 PM
Mike & Callieeeeeeeeeeeeeee
I will have you in my prayers. I still dream of the day when she will "really bop me over the head with that damn Nile file and then steal my Choc. truffles"
You both have been such a huge part of the community I wish you well in the next journey for both of you and the heathens!!
I miss you Callie *smooches*
Signed,
The little shit! *smile*
Spirit Dancer
03-12-2011, 05:36 PM
Sending love and light
to Sweet Cali and Mike
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Soft*Silver
03-12-2011, 05:53 PM
sweet love to you Cali and Mike as a new journey phases into you lives..our arms stretch around you and continue to embrace you and send you our greatest strength as a community.... unity. You never stop being part of us...even when you are quiet.... lots of chocolate flavored thoughts to send your way....
I have missed both of you, ever since I left Oakland. I treasure those memories, as I do all of the chat memories. Sweetness, I don't think you know how deeply you touched me. Thank you for all of the bops with the glass nail file, and the truffles shared, but most of all, thank you for your love. Max sends his best too.
Sending many prayers and much love your way..:rrose:
always2late
03-12-2011, 06:27 PM
Sweet...when I first started coming to these sites...you were one of the first people to welcome me and make me feel at "home". Through the years, your kindness and generosity of spirit was a consistent presence. You are an amazing woman and I know you will begin your new journey with your ever-present strength and wit and nail file :). Sending you all the love and positive light I have (and a truckload of truffles)
Stronghealer
03-12-2011, 06:28 PM
lots and lots...
(((((((((sweet,Mike,and the girls)))))))
SnackTime
03-12-2011, 06:29 PM
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers
TickledPink
03-12-2011, 06:44 PM
Shad and I send our love and light to a wonderful soul!
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blackboot
03-12-2011, 06:47 PM
Aloha Sweet,
The Sun, Sea Turtles and a soft warm breeze await you my dear friend. Sending you Peace and Light. Much love to you, Mike.
boot
musicman
03-12-2011, 07:18 PM
I never had the pleasure or honor to meet sweet. I know Mike (feels strange calling you this;) through chat and my thoughts are with you Mike, Sweet and your children.
Musicman
Tommi
03-12-2011, 07:19 PM
Aloha sweetcali. you touched me with your gentle smile and ways and I know it is time to say so long.
As we watch the sunset, we know you will be at rest ,and journey peacefully in the sunrise of life and love that has no end.
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Peach
03-12-2011, 07:39 PM
I am so glad I got to meet you Cali. I know a spirit as strong as yours will never truly be gone. Peace and light on your journey, and here's to never ending boxes of truffles!
SFFemmePrincess
03-12-2011, 07:41 PM
My heart goes out to you and yours Sweet and Mike. Sending lots of love and light as you make your next journey. May it be peaceful...
Outlaw
03-12-2011, 07:50 PM
Wrapping you both in warmth and love.
Dreamer
03-12-2011, 08:03 PM
To my Dear Friends,
It has been an amazing priviledge to have met you and shared your food, your love and your friendship. I am truly blessed to have met you both.
Ms. Cali I know you will be bopping me with your nail file continuously and I hope you know you will forever live on in our hearts and our minds. I know the next journey you take will be a miraculous one and that you will carry us all with you.
I love you all very much...
DJ
Logicaly
03-12-2011, 08:04 PM
Sending lots of love and warm energy to you both. You have both always carried good energy, and shared it with others.
Strappie
03-12-2011, 09:40 PM
PS - This is some heinous fucking, fucked up fuckery that takes you from the world so young. Amen.
......... .........................Amen! ...... ...... .....
betenoire
03-12-2011, 09:44 PM
Hiya Calico. Me and Nick are thinking of you. :) As are our (my) cats.
I'm wishing you some lindt intense pear dark chocolate, okay?
- potty and oneye
faymie
03-12-2011, 09:55 PM
Oh dear Mike,
FR just called me with this recent news. You and Cali and the girls have been in my thoughts, prayers, sendings to to universe every day for so long.
Now, I am thinking of Cali's wiry strength and wishing that she, you, her kids, and all her friends and family can have that kind of strength to hold on to her dearness in all of our hearts as she prepares to leave us.
With fond affection,
Faymie Talie
faymie
03-12-2011, 10:41 PM
Oh dear Mike,
FR just called me with this recent news. You and Cali and the girls have been in my thoughts, prayers, sendings to to universe every day for so long.
Now, I am thinking of Cali's wiry strength and wishing that she, you, her kids, and all her friends and family can have that kind of strength to hold on to her dearness in all of our hearts as she prepares to leave us.
With fond affection,
Faymie Talie
--- My thoughts are with you and mike and the heathens at this point in time as they have been with you always.
My heart has felt your pain as of lately. forgive me for not being a good friend lately and have been wrapped up in my own bullshit. i think of your laughter at my jokes and being my friend despite me being a old billy goat. I am thankful for your friendship. when i like someone its forever despite anything. i had to laff at your truffles, nailfile(that hit me often it seems) and when u said your hair looked like a (gasp) "lesbian granola dyke".
i want you in this world but if you do have to go sarafemme, Lady Blackheart and my cat fergie will greet you. and will always know when you are around.Much love always to you Sweet-FR
DomnNC
03-12-2011, 11:43 PM
Wishing you, your family, your children and cali much love, peace and solace during this difficult time. Please know cali will forever be a part of you and will live on in your heart and mind. Tho I really don't know either of you I can tell you both are good loving people from the testaments offered here by others that did indeed know you. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Arwen
03-12-2011, 11:44 PM
K, we never met but we played well in chat. You were unfailingly kind when you weren't being a sarcastic, hysterically funny woman. I'm sad for never having met you.
Candles lit to light your way to the next stage of your journey. You are someone I will remember with joy.:rrose:
Mike, words fail me. A candle is lit for you and yours as well.
Leigh
03-12-2011, 11:49 PM
Sending good thoughts, love and light to Sweet and Mike and their entire family ............ My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time
Goofy
03-13-2011, 12:02 AM
Sweet, sweetcali...I remember meeting you in Oakland. Every time I think of you, I think of that infectious smile of yours. I hope this next journey for you goes peacefully. June is right...this is some fucked up heinous fuckery.
Mike, you are in our thoughts also. May you find peace as well.
CherryFemme
03-13-2011, 01:30 AM
Dear Booboo,
We have known each other a long time. Remember when you schooled me in 199 (fill in the blank) on how to chat? Later, it was my pleasure being your night chat room monitor when the only butch-femme chat was yours.
Thank you for trusting me with the "Golden Hammer"...it was my pleasure. ;)
I wish you well on your journey, dear friend. You and Mike + the family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Big Hug,
Leadblue (CF)
Medusa
03-14-2011, 04:17 AM
I had the most wonderful dream last night about Sweet.
Sending love to the entire family.
xo
christie
03-14-2011, 09:42 AM
Dearest Cali -
Thank you so very much for being unfailingly kind and patient to me when I first found the dash site. I have always been grateful that you "showed me the ropes" so to speak so I didn't blunder too badly with all the labels and definitions.
You touched my life.
Sending light and love as you move to your next adventure. I am certain its full of lovely truffles.
Mike & the heathens - know you are in our thoughts.
Much love,
Christie & Jess
Daywalker
03-14-2011, 10:13 AM
We will always be grateful for the Thanksgiving dinner and other such fuckery
festivities with which we have had the pleasure of your Company Sweet.
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And grateful I never had to face a Bop o' da Nail File.
:cheesy:
:angel:
We Love You
:rrose:
:gimmehug:
:daywalker:
PinkieLee
03-14-2011, 10:26 AM
Dearest Sweetcali,
What an amazing, loving, beautiful soul you are. You have touched the lives of so many people, and we are lucky to have experienced the joy of your friendship.
We all continue to lift you up in prayer and positive energy in hopes that your transition to your next big adventure is a peaceful one.
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((((MIKE & family))))
May peace & comfort surround you during this difficult time. Sending love & light you way.
Ms. Tabitha
03-14-2011, 11:16 AM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May peace and comfort fill your hearts at this time of need.
:praying:
:rrose:
I remember your kindness and humour in chat on the dash site. Thank you.
May your journey continue safely knowing you are loved by so many.
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oneye
03-14-2011, 12:26 PM
((((sweetchocodiva)))) & mike
it is so very difficult for us to send you on your way to the next, big, chocolate-laden chapter. though we never met face-to-face, i enjoyed so much chat time with you and being bopped with the big ol' nail file. i still have lumps on my head. *grin* since you must depart for other things and other adventures, i hope that in that time you find peace of body, of mind, of spirit. oh...and find that the godiva factory is your neighbor! *grin* may your incredible strength guide you through this transition and beyond.
mike...you all are in my and potty's thoughts right now. your dedication and strength are incredible. remember to attend to yourself during this time. you are in a phase of transition as well.
sending chocolate hugs to sweet and a strong hand to mike--
nick
Andrew, Jr.
03-14-2011, 12:49 PM
Mike and Family,
I am lifting you up in prayers. I wish you all peace.
My deepest sympathies,
Andrew
julieisafemme
03-14-2011, 02:11 PM
Peace and light to you Sweetcali. Strength to you Mike and your children.
vixenagogo
03-14-2011, 02:40 PM
sweet and Mike...
you are all in our thoughts and prayers...
:chocolate:
vixenagogo and DaddyClyde.
Greyson
03-14-2011, 02:53 PM
Sweet and Mike. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sweet, you were exactly what I needed when I fell into chat six years ago. I was a broken mess and your kindness, realness and patience helped me. Thank you.
Mister Bent
03-14-2011, 03:19 PM
I never had the pleasure to get to know Sweetcali, or Mike, but I know that life is about transitions.
I believe there is peace to be found in embracing and celebrating our innate condition of impermanence. And so I offer only this:
No coming, no going
No after, no before
I hold you close to me
I release you to be so free
Because I am in you, and you are in me
Because I am in you, and you are in me
***
There are no real goodbyes
There are no real endings
Because I am in you
and you are in me
Peace to you both, and your family,
From me and mine.
Queerasfck
03-14-2011, 07:28 PM
A peaceful journey to someplace better Sweetcali. You are remembered with fondness and love by many.
Peace and love to you and Mike.
:candle:
I'm wondering about You now, sweet Kristin.....and holding You in my heart.....
:rrose:
citybutch
03-14-2011, 08:29 PM
Lifting you all up in thought and prayer... Sweet... you are a beautiful woman... My prayers are with you during this transformative time.
Mike... I hold you in my prayers...
turasultana
03-14-2011, 09:14 PM
Sweet - you were always the best in chat, giving me advice and keeping us all in line. I'm glad i got to meet you at your house a few years back and deliver your chocolate covered strawberries to the B/F picnic.
Go in peace. Mike our thoughts are with you.
Tura & Stray
Tommi
03-14-2011, 11:49 PM
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I wanted to thank all of you for your thoughts , prayers, and guiding light. Like I said Sweet is a fighter. On Saturday, hospice, and I thought we were at the end of this life as we know it. The nurse was here, Sweet was unresponsive as she had been mostly the 2 or 3 days before. We left it at that. Sunday morning at around 7 Sweet woke me up to tell me she wanted a bath. We made this happen. (Actually we had 6 baths on Sunday.) We got back in bed and dozed off. Around 8 30 the hospice nurse came back and guess who answered the door. Sweet did! The nurse was in shock. this couldnt be the person she had visited on Saturday who didnt even know she was there.
When Sweet couldnt swallow the pills they where giving her we had to stop trying that and just rely on liquid pain meds to help her. They think she was having a reaction to one of the pills and it took that long for her body to rid itself of that medication.
She's been up, and very lucid on and off since then. She has started eating again, and altho tired, manages to be awake for the girls for short periods of time. WE know the end is somewhere out there, her will to be there for her girls is amazing to say the least.
Again thank you everyone for all your kind thoughs, she hasnt been able to read this yet, but I have been telling her about the amazing community we have and all of you.
Mike
The_Lady_Snow
03-15-2011, 03:08 PM
She's a fighter and bopped Santa Muerte in the head with hrer glass nail file.
Corkey
03-15-2011, 03:09 PM
Simply amazing.
Medusa
03-15-2011, 03:10 PM
The joy of a bath!!
That's my girl! Luxiouriating!
I am glad she is having some time with her babies and with you - That's all that really matters in the big picture is that she feels the love that people have for her.
We all love her and are thinking of her every day. Thank you, Mike, for taking the time to update us!
<3
julieisafemme
03-15-2011, 03:21 PM
You know this is amazing but seems to be in keeping of the tiny bit I know about her. The first and only time I met her she was so gorgeous in her full length dress with the jeweled collar and so much fun and full of life that I could not believe she was so ill.
I am glad she has more time to spend with her babies and you Mike.
lyric
03-15-2011, 04:37 PM
Mike, you are all - you, Sweet, and your family - in my thoughts. She sure does sound like a fighter! What a beautiful example of love, loyalty, and perseverence she sets for so many. I haven't seen Sweet in a long time, but please tell her lyric sends her love. I send it to you, too. *hugs to you both*
oneye
03-15-2011, 04:54 PM
*sheepishly admitting* i believe a good bath has that much allure, too.
keeping you all in my thoughts...
nick
Gemme
03-15-2011, 09:59 PM
Sending love and light your way. :bunchflowers:
Turtle
03-16-2011, 01:42 AM
Wishing y'all a wonderfully relaxing time -
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with some beautiful flowers -
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and a pretty sky -
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Blessings to you!
t.
diamondrose
03-16-2011, 03:59 AM
Wishing ya'll all the best!!
Arwen
03-17-2011, 10:12 AM
Reminding you that you are loved.
christie
03-17-2011, 10:16 AM
Reminding you that you are loved.
...ditto! :gimmehug::flowers:
T4Texas
03-19-2011, 10:50 PM
Yes there are miracles sometimes in this life. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Sweet is a great lady, deserving of the very best.
I feel that I should up date this but, I am really at a loss for words. Sweet has been steady going downhill the past week. She's resting, for the most part without to much pain. She's asked that her girls not be in the room. It's hard on them. Her brother and sister both have come and gone home. My hope is that everyone has said the things they need to say to her and her to them and that everyone has found some peace. I am collecting pictures of her, if anyone took any at a bash or a social event please send them to me at beyond_male@yahoo.com. All we can do at this point is make sure she knows shes loved, treat her with respect and let her go when shes ready.
My thnaks to all of you for all your kind words.
Mike
Turtle
03-22-2011, 12:14 AM
Please know that you both are being held and loved my many.
I continue in my prayers for Sweet,the kids and you ..pass along a hug to her for me will ya..God Bless.
Chancie
03-22-2011, 02:52 AM
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blackboot
03-22-2011, 03:15 AM
You are both in our thoughts.
Much Love,
CherryFemme & blackboot
Hey Mike hope you're hanging in there. I'm sending both of you positive energy, and my prayers.
Always JAGG
musicman
03-22-2011, 05:22 AM
Hi Mike, thanks for the update on your Sweets. I will speak for myself and say I've wanted to inquire how she is doing when I see you in chat but refrain from overwhelming you with questions.
Please know that you, Sweets and the girls are in my thoughts everyday. That you are all loved.
Safe and peaceful journey Sweet.
Love
Musicman
shadows papa
03-22-2011, 05:51 AM
Mike,
Miss Sweet, you, and the heathens are in our thoughts and prayers.
The_Lady_Snow
03-22-2011, 07:26 AM
It's time to rest lil' mama. I love you.
DomnNC
03-22-2011, 07:38 AM
I'm sorry to hear this Mike. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. It's rough buddy, I know, been there myself. If you ever need to just vent hit me up. Much peace to you all.
Tommi
03-22-2011, 07:40 AM
Goodbye sweetcali.
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To You, sweet Sweet......what a lovely Journey awaits You!
I hear heaven is amazing....please hug Melody Claire for me....she knows to look out for You. (f)(f)
PinkieLee
03-22-2011, 08:47 AM
Dearest Sweet,
You have many friends and family that continue to lift you up in prayer, love & light. May this journey be a peaceful one and please know you are beyond loved.
Blessings to you my gorgeous friend. (f)
((((((((MIKE and family))))))))))) may comfort, peace & love surround you during this time.
Medusa
03-22-2011, 09:02 AM
A pink calico ribbon for a very pink lady. Rest well, sweetheart.
Spirit Dancer
03-22-2011, 09:33 AM
O/our thoughts and prayers
remain with you Mike, Cali and your children.:vigil:
Julie
03-22-2011, 09:52 AM
Sending you Love and Light...
*Truffle* May your journey be filled with love.
Mike ~ Always sending you great support and love from where I am. I am here if you need me, always.
With deep love..
Julie
Native American Tradition
Let Me Walk In Beauty
O Great Spirit,
whose voice I hear in the winds
and whose breath gives life to all the world,
hear me.
I am small and weak.
I need your strength and wisdom.
Let me walk in beauty
and let my eyes ever behold the red and purple sunset.
Make my hands respect the things you have made
and my ears grow sharp to hear your voice.
Make me wise so that I may understand the things
you have taught my people.
Let me learn the lessons you have hidden
in every leaf and rock.
I seek strength not to be greater than my brother or sister
but to fight my greatest enemy, myself.
Make me always ready
to come to you with clean hands and straight eyes
So when life fades as the fading sunset
my spirit may come to you without shame.
Great Spirit of love, come to me with the power of the North.
Make me courageous when the cold winds of life fall upon me.
Give me strength and endurance for everything
that is harsh, everything that hurts,
everything that makes me squint.
Make me move through life ready to take what comes from the North.
Spirit who comes out of the East,
come to me with the power of the rising sun.
Let there be light in my word.
Let there be light on the path that I walk.
Let me remember always that you give the gift of a new day.
Never let me be burdened with sorrow by not
starting over.
Great Spirit of creation,
send me the warm and soothing winds from the South.
Comfort me and caress me when I am tired and cold.
Enfold me as your gentle breezes enfold your leaves on the trees.
And as you give to all the earth your warm, moving wind,
Give to me so that I may grow close to you in warmth.
Great life-giving Spirit,
I face the West,
the direction of the sundown.
Let me remember every day that the moment will come
when my sun will go down.
Never let me forget that I must fade into you.
Give me beautiful color.
Give me a great sky for setting,
and when it is time to meet you,
I come with glory.
And Giver of all life, I pray to you from the earth,
help me to remember as I touch the earth
that I am little and need your pity.
Help me to be thankful for the gift of the earth
and never to walk hurtfully on the world.
Bless to love what comes from mother earth
and teach me how to love your gifts.
Great Spirit of the heavens,
lift me up to you
that my heart may worship you
and come to you in glory.
Hold in my memory that you are my Creator,
greater than I,
eager for my good life.
Let everything that is in the world
lift my mind,
and my heart,
and my life to you
so that we may come always to you
in truth and in heart.
MUCH love to Kristin, Mike, the Heathens, and the entire family!!!!
Feeling very teary at the moment..... (f) (f) (f)
Corkey
03-22-2011, 01:18 PM
It's hard to say goodbye to someone we've never met. Though seeing her words here when she could was always inspiring.
SweetCali, Mike and the family, may you all find peace and know that we are all with you.
ruthie14
03-22-2011, 01:32 PM
Only last week did I hear of sweetcali's condition... I am praying for peace for all of you! :praying:
Blessings,
Ruthie
blackboot
03-22-2011, 04:49 PM
I hope you find comfort and peace in these words as I have many times.
You would know the secret of death.
But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life?
The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light.
If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life.
For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one.
In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond;
And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring.
Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.
Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour.
Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king?
Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling?
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun?
And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered?
Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance.
~Kahlil Gibran~
Jesse
03-22-2011, 04:55 PM
Blessings to you both :rrose:
Medusa
03-22-2011, 05:16 PM
Hey Folks - Had a couple of folks ask to use the pink calico ribbon in support of Kristen's journey - PLEASE DO!!!
Pink ribbons for all!
YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dreamer
03-22-2011, 05:26 PM
Sending much love to you all. Please pass my love to Cali, and Mike stay strong my friend I know this is so hard. Love to you and the heathens.
DJ
miss entycing
03-22-2011, 05:32 PM
Blessings, Peace, Light and Hope be with all of you.
:rose:
Heart
03-22-2011, 06:46 PM
Mike,
My thoughts go to you and Cali and her girls. May you all find peace and healing during this hard journey. Much love.
Heart
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mike, Cali, and kids}}}}}}}}}}}}}} May peace and comfort be yours.
citybutch
03-22-2011, 09:44 PM
Thoughts and prayers with you both as you all experience this transition.
oneye
03-22-2011, 10:15 PM
mike--
brandy and i continue to keep you, sweet and the girls in our thoughts. i know this must be an incredibly difficult time for all of you. we wish you as much peace as possible during this transition that you are all experiencing in one form or another.
nick
Just_G
03-22-2011, 11:04 PM
I am just reading this thread for the first time today. Mike, you and Sweet and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers. May she make a peaceful transition to her next journey.
Lots of love and prayer,
G
Tommi
03-22-2011, 11:36 PM
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Warmth for Cali, and light for the girls who may fear the darkness
BullDog
03-23-2011, 12:05 AM
Peace to you Sweetcali & Mike
Peace, my heart, let the time for the parting be sweet.
Let it not be a death but completeness.
Let love melt into memory and pain into songs.
Let the flight through the sky end in the folding of the wings over the nest.
Let the last touch of your hands be gentle like the flower of the night.
Stand still, O Beautiful End, for a moment, and say your last words in silence.
I bow to you and hold up my lamp to light you on your way.
~Rabindranath Tagore
Tommi
03-23-2011, 08:36 PM
Fly peacefully away sweetcali.
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Pixie
03-23-2011, 09:19 PM
Sending love coated with peace.:candle:
Soft*Silver
03-23-2011, 10:07 PM
sending songs of prayers...
Ciaran
03-23-2011, 11:08 PM
Keeping Sweet and all those who love her in my thoughts and prayers.
iamkeri1
03-24-2011, 12:27 AM
My heart goes out to all of you.
Peace and strength be with you.
Keri
Turtle
03-24-2011, 12:45 AM
Sending care and blessings to all of you.
Jesse
03-24-2011, 12:47 AM
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diamondrose
03-24-2011, 06:30 AM
Thoughts and Prayers to you Mike, to Sweet, and all of your family and friends!
Holding You close....
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theoddz
03-24-2011, 07:34 AM
Mike, you and Sweet and the family continue to be in my and L's thoughts and prayers. :bouquet:
Theo :bouquet:
Arwen
03-24-2011, 07:43 AM
I've got y'all in my heart. Much love.
Gemme
03-24-2011, 08:49 AM
((((((((((Mike, Sweetcali and family))))))))))
SFFemmePrincess
03-25-2011, 06:25 PM
Thinking of Sweetcali, Mike and Family today and everyday....
To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die. -Thomas Campbell
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princessbelle
03-25-2011, 06:29 PM
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Peace for Cali
Peace for Mike
Peace for the family
My thoughts and prayers. (f)
durrrrrrrr
03-25-2011, 08:09 PM
my thoughts and prayers are with you all
The_Lady_Snow
03-25-2011, 08:22 PM
Keeping you in our thoughts Mike & girls...
Spirit flyin' Home.........
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Isadora
03-25-2011, 10:11 PM
May the fairies lead you into Avalon. May they dance beneath the falling apple blossoms welcoming you to paradise. May sweet choirs of pixies sing sweetly though your walk and may the heart of hearts, your spouse and children, be held strongly in the arms of friends and family.
iamkeri1
03-25-2011, 10:47 PM
Thinking of you today.
Light,
Keri
Spirit Dancer
03-25-2011, 11:05 PM
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Sending prayers to Mike, Cali and the children.
Turtle
03-27-2011, 01:24 AM
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sending prayers
The_Lady_Snow
03-27-2011, 06:40 AM
After a strong fight, sweetcalico has left us and passed on. Her memory will forever burn in our hearts.
Please keep Mike & the girls in your thoughts during this difficult transition...
Selenay
03-27-2011, 06:44 AM
I am so very saddened to hear this awful news.
I am glad that her suffering has ended, and she can finally be at peace, but am devastated that the bright light of one as lovely as she had to be snuffed far too soon.
Mike--you and the girls are in my thoughts, as are all of her dearest friends.
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She lives on.......
TickledPink
03-27-2011, 07:37 AM
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Light, love and prayers.
Jesse
03-27-2011, 07:49 AM
Offering my deepest sympathy. May you find strength, in the love of family,
and in the warm embrace, of friends.
diamondrose
03-27-2011, 07:49 AM
Mike,Sending my prayers and support to you and your family
SnackTime
03-27-2011, 08:15 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the kids
Goofy
03-27-2011, 08:33 AM
We are deeply saddened to hear this news. Mike, you and the girls are in our thoughts and prayers. May you all find both strength and peace during this time.
With much love from the both of us.
Just_G
03-27-2011, 08:34 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with Mike and the girls, and to all of you that knew her. She will be keeping an eye on all of you....how wonderful to have such an amazing angel!!
Share your love with those around you today! What better way to honor Sweet.
Peace,
G
Arwen
03-27-2011, 08:35 AM
Blessings on this, your new journey, Sweetcali. May the strawberries be plentiful and the chocolate never-ending. You have a new home now. Merry meet. Merry part. Merry meet again. :rrose:
Random
03-27-2011, 08:40 AM
You fought a good fight sweet lady...You will be sorely missed by all that loved you...
WolfyOne
03-27-2011, 08:49 AM
Able to float on the clouds, pain free for the first time in a long time
As much as you'll miss your family and friends, we'll all miss you, too
Sympathy in abundance as the reflections begin
Sadly, we can rejoice with memories held near and dear
We look up as you look down and smile
One day we shall all meet again
Until that day we'll carry on
Peace be with you Mike and the girls
Love never dies, it stays in our hearts forever
citybutch
03-27-2011, 08:52 AM
Thoughts and prayers to the family of sweet.... Mike, I know you are strong but there is a lot of love and support surrounding you right now... and I know it will continue to surround you as you move through this transition...
*hugs*
Ms. Tabitha
03-27-2011, 09:04 AM
Theo and I are deeply saddened to hear this news. Mike, you and the girls are in our thoughts and prayers.
:rrose:
violaine
03-27-2011, 09:30 AM
Sweetcali has good vibes. her little messages of warmth and positivity / humour made me smile upon finding them in reputation space. she is going on to The Next Step, and will be busy it seems! :chocolate: Mike, may you, your family, friends, and support systems take care during this step in a new journey for everyone.
Daywalker
03-27-2011, 09:50 AM
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:rose:
♥ Sweet*Kristin ♥ ~ you touched my Groovy heart right from the start ~ ♥
Blessed are the roads you've traveled, golden are the paths
you've crossed ~ gracious you are for crossing ours
:rose:
♥ We'll see ya later, n we'll bring Truffles n stuff ♥
♥ Stay Gold Soda Pop ♥ Love n Koolaid for Always ♥
:koolaid:
:daywalker:
I'm very sorry for your loss, Mike.
I will be thinking of you and your family and am sending you strength during this difficult time.
Peace to you, SweetCali.
princessbelle
03-27-2011, 10:02 AM
Thoughts and prayers and deepest sympathy sent to you Mike and the girls.
theoddz
03-27-2011, 10:09 AM
I'll sure miss that Lady who can run in stilettos (now *that* takes GAME!!)!! I'll never forget how kind and sweet she always was to me in chat, even though she never met me in person. I'll always remember her fondly and one of these days, I hope to get a {{{hug}}} from her in Heaven. (f)
May she forever be surrounded by love, chocolates and strawberries!!! :heartbeat:
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My deepest condolences to Mike and Sweet's girls, and I hope that the love and support of this wonderful community will be a strong arm around you all in this time of sadness and loss. (f)
~Theo~ :bouquet:
Everyone, thanks so much and I will post later but would everyone please refrain from posting on Kristis's Facebook page utill I make a post there. WE havent been able to tell all the girls yet as one is on an airplane and we are waiting until she arrives at her aunts house to tell the youngest. The wonders of the internet
thanks much, Mike
DomnNC
03-27-2011, 11:01 AM
My deepest sympathy and condolences to you Mike, your girls and your family. I've been where you are, just close your eyes, listen with your heart and she's forever with you. Take care of yourself.
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Much love and comfort to you Mike and also to SweetCali on the other side of the veil. <3
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little_ms_sunshyne
03-27-2011, 11:19 AM
May you find peace and comfort through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
All my love and thoughts to you, Mike. Please know we are all here supporting you and wishing you the peace and love you need. Rest in peace, Sweetcali. :stillheart:
MsTinkerbelly
03-27-2011, 12:43 PM
Many blessings are wished to you and your family for comfort and peace. I am so very sorry for your loss.:bunchflowers:
Corkey
03-27-2011, 01:16 PM
Our deepest condolences Mike and the kids. You all are in our thoughts Sweet is at rest now, may you all find peace knowing she is in no more pain. A light has left the world today, let us all remember and pass it on. :bouquet:
WickedFemme
03-27-2011, 01:40 PM
my condolences to you and your family Mike. I was saddened to hear of her passing, she will be missed. If you need anything, you have my number..
Tommi
03-27-2011, 01:50 PM
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my thought and prayers go out to Mike and the girl..RIP Sweet. May your angels wings fly high as you soar into the heavens,
oneye
03-27-2011, 01:57 PM
sweet calico...we are saddened by your passing but hope that you have found a very soothing peace...and maybe a chocolate waterfall! ;) this is from me sweet...'cause i'm the one who always called you this: (((((sweetchocodiva)))))
mike and family...you and the girls are in our thoughts and will continue to be. it is so very difficult for those of us who remain when it comes time for someone so loved to depart. find time for yourselves...to mourn an unthinkable loss but also to then begin cultivating and enjoying all the memories that will keep her with you in all the steps you take from this day forward. she'll be there.
our condolences--
potty and oneye
(Brandy and nick)
Julie
03-27-2011, 02:00 PM
When the sun sets... I will see you.
When the sun rises... I will see you.
You have touched so many, Sweet Cali - with your goodness and kindness. May the journey you are on, be filled with so much light and love. I love you Truffle.
Mike ~ You are never alone.
You are surrounded by the love in which you have given.
I am standing with you.
Love to the girls... May their healing begin.
Love,
Julie
Blade
03-27-2011, 02:19 PM
Mike and "the girls"
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Take care of yourself Mike and when you feel you can't, know that there are others sending you love, light, energy and prayers to sustain you.
faymie
03-27-2011, 02:27 PM
Please listen, my dear friends:
My dear Kristen—our Sweet Calico: you have been a huge influence in my life over not enough years! You taught me so much about how to live with sweetness and kindness in a context of ambiguity and even of parody!! How you made me laugh! For instance, when you didn’t accept your “short-hair” look!!
Folks at my church have been praying for you—for Mike, the girls, the grandparents, and the wonderful good friends—for a long time. We will not stop.
My dear Sweet—we watched the jellyfish together. And you taught me how to love and live across barriers that once were boundaries. I honor your life and feel deeply in my heart your presence among us. Good-bye, dear friend.
Heart’s outpourings to all who love her!
Faymie [talie]
faymie
03-27-2011, 02:29 PM
thanks for the wonderful photograph!
SFFemmePrincess
03-27-2011, 02:40 PM
Sending love and light to you Mike and your family during this difficult time...
Sweet, thank you for your warmth and kindness. You will never be forgotten as you have touched so many lives and will live on in hearts of those who love you.
Medusa
03-27-2011, 03:09 PM
I didn't get to officially "meet" Sweet until the Dash Bash in Oakland. This was a year after the Dallas event where I pawed through some clothing swap items, trying to find some suitable things to send home with Mike for her.
I remember when I met her how she warmly took both of my hands and we embraced like old friends. What a kind and wonderful person. What a sparkly spirit.
Although we are sad that she has moved on without us, how wonderful for all of us to have known her. To have had just a small glimpse of her life and her love for Mike and her children. Even in leaving us, Sweet has reminded us to be thankful for one another and to put a little Pink Princess Power out into the world.
Mike - Our love and thanks to you for caring for her during her transition and our deepest condolences in your sorrow. We are here for you, buddy.
xo
Words
03-27-2011, 03:17 PM
Mike,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and all who loved her.
God bless...
Words
JackSpade
03-27-2011, 03:20 PM
Goldilocks...
You were the first person on my first day in chat to greet me. We had much fun arguing over limes, chocolate and back child support. You were Golden, with a Golden heart. damn.. I wanted you to live.
Nature's first green is gold
Her hardest hue to hold.
Her early leaf's a flower;
But only so an hour.
Then leaf subsides to leaf.
So Eden sank to grief,
So dawn goes down to day.
Nothing gold can stay.
Robert Frost
Mike & the Heathens, my deepest sorrow is extended to you. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Curley
03-27-2011, 03:21 PM
(((Mike))))) I am sorry to hear her journey here is done here, but her love and sparkle for life shall remain with all of us who knew her . How fortunate we were to have known this beautiful woman in whatever context that may have been
My condolences to you and the girls HUGGGGGGGGGGS
Scorp
03-27-2011, 03:29 PM
Mike,
We're very sorry to hear about Sweet's passing.
Please know that all of you are in our thoughts.
Sweet Calico, may you rest in peace and watch over those who love you.
Our sincere sympathy,
Scorp & Ladi
Spirit Dancer
03-27-2011, 04:10 PM
Mike sending you and the girls our condolences,
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shadows papa
03-27-2011, 05:30 PM
Mike,
TickledPink and I extend our deepest condolences to you and the girls. Miss Cali is free of the pain and the boundaries of this earth and on to her next great adventure. May it be filled with lots of light and her favorite truffles. She will be missed.
durrrrrrrr
03-27-2011, 05:51 PM
Sweet
you will remain in our hearts forever
Turtle
03-27-2011, 06:02 PM
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Dreamer
03-27-2011, 06:18 PM
Kristin aka *Sweetcali* has touched the lives of so many people, whether it was with words, with a smile or with love. Whilst she may have physically left us she will always remain in our memories.
Kristin, thank you for being a part of my life, you and Snow took me shopping, (I dont think good vibrations will ever be the same) you gave me the femme perspective and I will never forget the laughs we had doing it. You and Mike welcomed me into your home when I was far from mine, for me the memories will never be erased.
Mike she is free from pain now, and whilst you now have yours, you have so many friends that will support you and the heathens so use them when you need, do not ever feel alone.
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Kenna
03-27-2011, 06:26 PM
May you and your cherished family find peace surrounded by our love, strength and support...
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My thoughts are with you, Mike, in your time of loss.
Jake
iamkeri1
03-27-2011, 07:20 PM
Mike and Family,
I am so so sorry that you are all on this journey that you did not want to take. My thoughts are with you. Let people take care of you for awhile.
Try to eat a little.
Light and strength to you and the girls,
Keri
Greyson
03-27-2011, 07:37 PM
Mike, my sincere condolances to you and the girls. My thoughts have been and are with you. Sweet will be remembered and missed.
Grey
miss entycing
03-27-2011, 07:54 PM
So very sorry to hear this, keeping you in my prayers.
Sleep with the angles sweet one.
:rose:
justpjhere
03-27-2011, 08:13 PM
my deepest sympathy.....
Gemme
03-27-2011, 08:39 PM
My condolences to the family. (w)
musicman
03-27-2011, 08:50 PM
Hi Mike, i'm soooo sorry to hear of Sweets passing. My thoughts are with you and the girls at this time.
She is now at peace and without pain Mike.
Love
Musicman
Stronghealer
03-27-2011, 09:03 PM
Much sympathy and love...
Sweet-say hi to my mom...
.
Linus
03-27-2011, 09:23 PM
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Mike, and your family. (w)
Peach
03-27-2011, 09:32 PM
Angels will hold you all in their arms now Mike. The sweetest of all is Kristin
sweet,,,you will be missed. We talked for a couple of years before meeting and then it was as if we'd always been sitting next to each other chatting "in real time and in person".
Mike---I know the pain of such a loss. Know that you're in our thoughts through this hard time.
Rope--
Bella~Vita
03-27-2011, 09:51 PM
May you fly with the Angels ..RIP
1PlayfulFemme
03-27-2011, 10:02 PM
My thoughts are with you & your family. May she fly with the angels, and may you rest in the comfort of her love.
Warm thoughts during this difficult time.
Be free of pain and let peace fill that hole. Your babies are safe. Rest well.
with love
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MissItalianDiva
03-28-2011, 12:10 AM
Be free of pain and let peace fill that hole. Your babies are safe. Rest well.
with love
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Thats beautiful.....I can never seem to find the words for an event like this. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish you all nothing but peace.
Daywalker
03-28-2011, 12:16 AM
Be free of pain and let peace fill that hole. Your babies are safe. Rest well.
with love
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She's all Glamorous n purty n stuff.
:rose:
:blueheels:With wings on her shoes to match the Gold of her heart.:blueheels:
:heartbeat:
:chocolate:
:daywalker:
nowandthen
03-28-2011, 12:27 AM
and condolences to you Mike for your loss :praying:
Kristin went on her next big adventure on March 27, 2011 @ 4am, she told me at midnight she was ready to go. She, I and the girls really appreciated all the support all of you have shown us during this time. I did my best to convey all of the post to her. I am sure she’s reading them now and about to fuss at me because I forgot to say so and so said this or that. Even I have been thumped with a nail file or two. No one was safe.
I think the strength, love and support that everyone showed her (us) helped her make the transition to where ever she might be going. She was peaceful and at home. My thanks to all of you for the support you have shown. What an amazing community we are, when we all agree on something! If her girls have half the strength she had they will do amazing things in life. I trust they will. Please help to keep an eye on her babies. She loved them beyond love.
She will not be forgotten. Even though it was hard to see her go, we know she has a mind of her own and her work here was done. I have no doubt she’s somewhere doing something wonderful. I think a pair of stilettos are missing. Plus I thought I smelled choclate somewhere.
Kristin donated her body to UCSF there will be no funeral, in a few days the girls and I will figure out when to have a Celebration of Kristin’s life, right now they just need to be held and loved. I will let folks know when that will be.
Again, much thanks to all of you,
Mike
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CherryFemme
03-28-2011, 12:40 AM
I love you, Sweet.
You were always so kind to cheer us on through all of our big dramas... like our flood, your fire, our multiple tsunamis', your multiple girls, our move out of Cali, your move out of Salinas (yeah, remember that?!) and of course our daily chats to keep caught up on corsets, shoe-talk and the power of being femme.
You will not be forgotten. You left your mark on many of us here, in many different ways.
It my pleasure knowing you as I did, Sweet.
I ate a Godiva truffle in your honor today.
It was sweet.
Until we meet again, because somehow I feel like we will...
XXOO, ~CF (and bb)
CrankyOldGuy
03-28-2011, 05:18 AM
Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
PinkieLee
03-28-2011, 07:29 AM
Rest in peace beautiful lady. You have many friends and family that love you and will keep your wonderful memory alive in their hearts.
Holding Sweet's loved ones close at heart today and sending loving light their way.
Don't tell me there are no angels.....I just shared this with Mike.....now with Y'all.............
So last month was my birthday.....and JanStevie sent me a present, but it never arrived and we just believed it to be lost in the mail...........<sigh>
I checked the mail today and the package was there!!! Guess what it was?
CHOCOLATES!
Thanks, Kristin....... :heartbeat: :angel:
Tommi
03-28-2011, 02:22 PM
Mike,
Thanks for keeping us posted, even during the times I know it must have been extremely difficult to just get out.
I believer everyone at The Planet walked along beside her, then surrounded and supported her in an invisible hammock of our energy and love.
My last time with her near was in Oakland after we performed and I was a bit green from unbeknownst to me at the time, was gallbladder attack on stage. She offered me her chair, and to get me a ginger ale, she just smiled, and I felt better..
Blessings to the children who are hurting, and to you as well.
Tommi
Rockinonahigh
03-28-2011, 04:07 PM
Mike
So sorry for your loss,the best to your family ,sending prayers and blessing to all.
always2late
03-28-2011, 05:55 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with you Mike, and the girls. My deepest sympathy for your loss.
"Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality." ~Emily Dickinson
bubblinsugare
03-28-2011, 06:22 PM
Chino and I send our love! Thank you for listening to this bossy femme last night and eating and allowing us to take care of you if even for a short time! I know that Kristen would have done the same for us!!
Know that we are thinking of you and will stay in contact!
Sweet! Wear those heels girl!!!!! And rock that nailpolish!! Fly sweet angel!!!
Chino and bubblinsugare
ruthie14
03-28-2011, 06:46 PM
Sweetcali... you were the first one to welcome me in chat when I first came to know of this community we love and I was just "coming out". You helped me figure myself out and cheered me up with chocolate! You even shared your nailfile so I could bop a butch who was being naughty with it! I pray you will find a painfree, peaceful place to sit and rest a while. I will miss you greatly! :candle:
Mike.. you and the girls are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for the peace and the strength that you all will need. Hugs to all of you!
Ruthie
Logicaly
03-28-2011, 10:29 PM
My sympathy to you and the girls Mike, she was a wonderful woman, and though I did not have the chance to say hello face to face she was always so full of happiness and love and acceptance. She has touched a lot of people who will always remember her.
Diavolo
03-28-2011, 10:54 PM
Mike, I'm very sorry for your loss.
Delish
03-29-2011, 02:09 AM
Mike~ My deepest condolences go to you and the family. {{Mike}}
Butterbean
03-29-2011, 02:24 PM
The late football player, Walter Payton, once said, "Tomorrow is not promised to anyone." And, for quite some time it certainly was not to be promised for Kristin.
In her typical fashion, she energetically set about a series of final acts she considered essential to her peace of mind. She wanted nothing else except to take care of the people in her life she loved, and she courageously accomplished that.
During her own trial enduring chemotherapy, she managed cheerful phone calls to others facing their own challenges. When she made her decision to not endure yet another series of chemotherapy, her manner of communicating this was as graceful as I have ever heard.
She loved Mike. She loved her daughters. She loved this site. She loved many people here.
She was a wonderful friend to me and I love her and I will miss her.
Blue_Daddy-O
03-29-2011, 08:13 PM
Mike
I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful love. I wish you much peaceful comfort and may you be surrounded by so much love to carry you through this pain.
My deepest sympathy,
Blue
Mike & the girls....
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redrose
03-30-2011, 08:43 AM
Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
Peace, prayers and blessings.
(f)
Admin
03-31-2011, 11:24 PM
Someone donated $100 in Kristin's name to the site.
We just wanted to thank that person, whoever they are, for their kindness and generosity in remembering such a wonderful person. Kristin enjoyed chatting and posting (and slapping folks with her nail file) and your donation helps support the space she loved.
We are in the process of working on a memorial for Kristin and will have that ready soon. She is already missed in such huge ways but the mark she left in this world remains bright and sparkly so that we all can feel just a tiny bit of her presence.
Much love to Kristin's family; Mike and her girls and to all of her friends and beloveds.
xo
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firegal
04-07-2011, 12:15 AM
Mike,
Hugs my brother, Thank you for putting her on the phone the last time i called, her quiet laugh made me smile. I cherish that moment. You are not alone Mike, all of us that love sweet wont let that happen. Im gratefull she touched my life. Rest in peace- Sweet
{{{{{{Mike & the girls}}}}}}
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We have been busy with school and other things, the girls are not all in the same location at this time. We apologize for not getting back to everyone and figuring out a memorial time, I think we all needed to heal some and then of course there was school that we still had to deal with.
I wanted to share this with all of you because I know how proud Sweet would be and was for her girls.
Tonight was the awards dinner for the high school which the oldest will graduate on June 10 then off to UCSC.
The following is a list of awards she received. I said Sweet raised some strong girls. This is just an example of their determination and will to make their Mother proud.
I am very proud of her and know that she will continue to make her Mother proud.
California Scholarship Federation Life Member
English Department Award
Science Department Electrical Engineering Award
Science Department Physics Award
J S High School Fine Arts Plaque
I was looking at my photos a while ago and saw your posts on them. Damn I miss you sometimes!!!
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RIP Kristin. Jan. 18 1958-Marh 27, 2011
I miis you.
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firegal
03-27-2012, 02:02 AM
She is missed,the time I spent with you both at bashes and your house are memories I cherish.
she was always "booping" someone with her finger nail file ,
Hugs to you my brother,
Your friend Terry
The_Lady_Snow
03-27-2012, 06:45 AM
Still Missing You
They say there is a reason
They say that time will heal
But neither time nor reason
Will change the way we feel.
For no one knows the heartache
that lies behind our smiles,
No one knows how many times
we have broken down and cried.
We want to tell you something
so there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of
but so hard to be without.
We cannot bring the old days back,
when we were all together
The family chain is broken now,
but memories live forever.
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