What Do You Miss?

[LaneyDoll]

I was chatting with a friend today and asked her "what do you miss most about being with someone?"

I think that, for me anyway, I miss having someone to go home to, to go to bed with (and wake up beside)-to just share a life with.

I had an ex once who would rub lotion on my feet, knees and elbows while we watched a movie together. I miss that little gesture-I am bad to forget to "lotion." lol

It is the little things that I find myself missing.

So, I wanted to ask the same question here...

What things do you miss about being in a relationship?

[Pixie]

For me I miss...

Coming home to find notes written on the mirror
Showering with someone....my back is never cleaner!!! :D
Being able to be with them and not even leave the house

I miss that heat during the night that makes you kick off the covers just so you don't have to unsnuggle

[pajama]

Because I'm really shallow....I miss the great sex whenever. This may be enhanced at the moment since I have not had sex, good or bad, in quite a while.....for me.

And then with this one partner, I miss our love of foods. Often our vacations were built around restaurants. I haven't had a partner that shares my love of food for many years. I am lucky though that The Boy has it, so at least I can share. It's just not the same as with a partner obviously.

That's about it.....yep....I'm pretty shallow. :blink:

A

[Kobi]

I miss:

~ having someone to share the events of the day with
~ having someone to bounce decisions off of
~ having someone to call when I will be late
~ having someone who remembers all the things I forget

[tapu]

Cooked food.

[Miss Scarlett]

Being held in strong arms with my head on his chest or shoulder and falling asleep that way...

[tapu]

Matched socks.

[hpychick]

I miss being woken up in the middle of the night by my partner, making love and falling back asleep, fully sated.

[dixie]

I miss... cute little cards and random romantic gestures....and great sex. Can't forget great sex. :giggle:

[tapu]

Morning coffee. Just the way I like it.

[gotoseagrl]

my vd D ... badly.

[DoReMiFemme]

Aimless philosophical conversations that last until the small hours of the morning.

Morning breath.

Someone to make the bed for.

[Hack]

Watching her sleep.

The way she cocks her head and grins when she senses me sneaking up behind her in the kitchen, opening up her neck for a kiss.

Lying in bed on a Sunday with no plans.

[tapu]

Opening everything.

(?Now what all could that mean?)

[Tommi]

My old Sony, evern though the MacBook is faster.
Cool whip, cocoa? and banana'a

Witty zippy "isms."

Aural ping pong

photoshop creating

I miss my Mom too.

[tapu]

Having two dogs.

[tapu]

Having two cars.

[tapu]

Having two mama's around.

[tapu]

Ah. And having two incomes.

[avec_amore]

Someone to cook for
Inside jokes
Spooning with someone (instead of the couch cushions : /)
Having a date to concerts (i'm going to Peter Gabriel alone next week...)
The smell of "hym" and "hys" things with my things in the closet and bath
*sigh*

[Starrynightaw]

That few moments before going to sleep when I was at complete relaxation and felt arms around me. Now it's a million pillows surrounding me like a fort. Still missing something...

[wolfbittenpoet]

Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat.
Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control.
Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies.
Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere.

[foxyshaman]

My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene.

[swan]

I miss having someone to go places with. And someone to call and say "hey, I forgot the *blank* for dinner. Can you swing by and grab some on the way over?" I don't know that I miss it enough to have a partner right now though. But sometimes I do miss being part of an us instead of just me.

[AtLast]

I miss a trusted mind to make tough decisions with. I miss taking pride in our home together and sharing dreams.

I miss the serenity I found "knowing" we would age together sharing silly songs, fur-kids, good and bad cooking, road trips, making up after disagreeing. Hell, I miss diagreement.

I miss the heat of our passion and knowing we would accept each other's ways of aging with kindness.

I miss feeling whole and knowing the gifts of interdependence.

I know, however, that all that I miss is not worth travel down a path with the wrong person.

[little_ms_sunshyne]

I miss THE CITY and everything that comes with it...friends, family, noise, restaurants, and shopping!

[swan]

I was getting into the shower tonight and realized that I really miss having someone to brush my hair for me. Maybe that could be a fundraiser at the Reunion. Some nice Butch could raffle themselves off to brush someone's hair for a while.... I'd bid on that.

[*Anya*]

Coffee ready when I wake up; warm cup of soup when I am ill; sex whenever and always (although I have learned a lot about my own sexual pleasure than I did when coupled for so long); the strong arms to hold me to give me inner strength when times are hard; when I see a funny movie or laugh at The Big Bang Theory but I am laughing alone-oh gosh getting maudlin here. I do not want to remain single forever but am not desperate or needy. I am comfortable in my skin with myself but want to have someone to share my skin.

[*Anya*]

Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..

[tapu]

small talk about big stuff

[ScandalAndy]

being held until i fall asleep

cooking an amazing brunch and having someone to sit outside with me and enjoy it

[swan]

Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..



True! Very true... I'm laughing at myself because the weather's turned HOT and the humidity is rising so I've got mad curls again. I was just thinking to myself (again) "That's it, THIS is the summer I'm going to shave my head!"

I say that every summer around this time of year.(w)

[Delish]

I miss................................


basically part of everything listed. Too bad I am NOT willing to compromise!

[Daktari]

...waking up with her

...that first mug of tea brought to me in the morning with a smile

...having my chicken peeled and anchovies skinned

[luv2luvgirls]

I miss everything about it
I miss laying side by side entwined legs and arms talking and just feeling
I miss the way she would love me with her words and gestures
most of all I miss how happy she would get when I said hi

[always2late]

Coming home to a not empty house (well...the house is never REALLY empty thanks to the fur kids...but you know what I mean).

[tapu]

Making sure we're not dressed too much alike. Or that our hair doesn't match.

[cinderella]

I don't quite know where to post this...but I'm asking a question...how can I start a new thread - I tried, but did not get the proper questions to ask...please let me know what the apprppriate steps are? Thank you so much.

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[luv2luvgirls]

I don't quite know where to post this...but I'm asking a question...how can I start a new thread - I tried, but did not get the proper questions to ask...please let me know what the apprppriate steps are? Thank you so much.

qxB42cjHTGg

Hey Im new but I believe you just click the new thread button on the upper left of the page...like when in a thread it says post reply there :) I hope that helps

[Hack]

Being necessary to someone other than my boss.

My green sweatshirt.

Walking down the street and feeling her hand slip in to mine.

Popping one eye open while lying in bed just in time to see her walk across my line of sight wearing nothing but a towel after her bath.

[Mister Bent]

My stainless steel fish bottle opener, it's just not beer without it.

Stella, my orange iPod shuffle. Though for some dumb reason she left the charger base.

[LaneyDoll]

Being necessary to someone.

Beautifully stated.

:sparklyheart:

[tapu]

Going to bed together every night, for years.

(Plus that cooked food thing still. That's looming pretty large in my life, today.)

[AtLast]

Missing family- the brother and sister I lost and my parents. I accept that both my parents had a pretty good stretch, but my sister and brother did not and they were the two siblings I was closest to. I am family oriented, a homebody too- I like more intimate and small gatherings of friends and the family I used to have. Having a BBQ, listening to what the people I care about are experiencing, feeling human closeness. Taking walks and talking with each other.

Although, I love the Bay Area, it is a busy and noisey place and I do miss the country surroundings I shared so many years with family and long time friends with and the two women in my life that I shared love with. I do miss being with a partner and have no problem saying so. I'm relational, always have been. Yet, need time to myself.

I find this area to be superficial in many ways- people just passing by... Sure it is great to be in a place where there are many queers and queer organizations as well as all of the arts I enjoy. But, I miss country hospitality and warmth and a slower pace.

[Hack]

Spooning. I liked feeling that I was protecting someone.

Text messages from someone anxious to call me.

Driving and stealing glances at the pretty girl in the passenger seat.

"You're watching sports right now, aren't you?"

Text messages from Mister Bent that don't involve shrubbery in my yard. ;)

[Inked_Trinity]

Reaching out in the middle of the night, feeling that special someone next to you..

[Mister Bent]

My favorite pair of flip flops that were eaten by the dog.

[Okiebug61]

I miss the simplicity of life. I so want to go back to the 70's where smoking a joint was just that, a release from the everyday freaking Bull S&*T.

[proximitywithoutintimacy]

I miss the sound of her voice.

I miss being held.

[Strappie]

CUSTOMER SERVICE... you know, the old fashion kind!! Straight up kindness and doing people right!

[clay]

I miss "belonging" to someone!!! I miss the fact that I mattered!!
I miss having coffee in the mornings! I miss the spooning, girl skin on girl skin! I miss the waking up to watch her breathe...sleep washed over her, the sliver of silvery moonlight, illuminating her body, assuring me she is still there!!! I miss the weekends stolen away...just US weekend!!! I miss being two!!!

[ruffryder]

her cute little mannerisms. the way we fit together. cuddling. going to sleep and waking up with her. hanging out. her cute giggle. cooking together. mowing our lawn. the way she looked at me. the way she wanted me. the way she made me feel.

[rubygirl]

HER. I miss her. I miss gazing into her eyes, the tough of her hands, her shoulders, her spooning me, her watching me as I apply make up. I miss being in her arms as she gave me a bear hug. I miss the texts, especialy when they said she loves me. I miss her scent. I miss so much about her. But what I miss most is her telling me the truth.

[ScandalAndy]

I miss that freaking uniform and the naughty wink that accompanied it.
I miss hys regulation boots at the foot of the bed.
I miss being the only girl for hym.

[*Anya*]

I miss sharing:

Laughs
Tears
Acceptance of all parts of me (my good & not so good)
Comfort when sad
Loving sex, hot sex, exploration sex; with total openness and feelings of safety
Sitting quietly without needing to say a word
Intellectually stimulating conversation about politics, books, movies- any time of day or night

I miss feeling total, absolute trust with another

[msW8ing]

CUSTOMER SERVICE... you know, the old fashion kind!! Straight up kindness and doing people right!

AHAHAHAHA Strappie plz plz don't ever change. I sooooooooo needed this belly laugh today. Dude your so twisted in a good way.

[bigbutchmistie]

I Miss :

Hearing a cute femme's laugh

The sparkle in her eye when she looks at me

The smile on her face just because

Holding her in my arms

Protecting her

Being silly with her

Watching that special femme sleep in the moonlight

Putting my hand on the small of her back as we walk side by side

Talking and laughing and sharing secrets and dreams

Stealing kisses at the red light or anywhere just because I cant get enough of her

Her hand on my leg as I drive

Buying/Picking flowers just because I know she isnt expecting it

Leaving little love notes in unexpected places for her to find.

Passion filled love making

Just watching tv together

Walking up behind her in the kitchen while she cooks and wrapping her up in my arms from behind.... :)

Sweet phone calls/texts throughout the day

[Queerasfck]

The NFL!!!

[Julie]

I miss my Daddy!
I miss his Voice!
I miss his Touch!
I miss the way he would grab my face and kiss me on the lips!

http://i374.photobucket.com/albums/oo187/sheisdesign/daddy.jpg?t=1311263619

This face of this man... I miss this face, the face that was the perfect face to see, for any little girl.

[Deborah]

I miss my Daddy!
I miss his Voice!
I miss his Touch!
I miss the way he would grab my face and kiss me on the lips!

http://i374.photobucket.com/albums/oo187/sheisdesign/daddy.jpg?t=1311263619

This face of this man... I miss this face, the face that was the perfect face to see, for any little girl.

Who wouldn't love a Daddy that would wear hair clips on his face....love it!

[Hack]

I miss skipping class and going to the beach.
I miss swimming off the black rocks at Presque Isle Park in Marquette.
I miss having a deep tan and lighter (not grey!) hair in the summer.
I miss wearing sunglasses and watching girls at the beach.
I miss having a little beach fire with my college friends and getting ridiculously drunk. Ok, I don't miss the drunk part.
I miss making out in the dark on the beach.

[Spikester]

Miss having that special someone

[Hack]

Tonight I miss a little dog.
Tonight I miss that fleeting feeling of not being alone when you stir awake when the girl in bed next to you changes sleep positions.
Tonight I miss the ritual of going to bed.
Tonight I miss my bed.

[atomiczombie]

I try not to entertain thoughts about things like this, because if I don't think about them, then I don't miss them so much. So I put it all out of my mind as much as I can. I gotta just live in today and not dwell on what I don't have. I will drive myself nuts and make myself even more lonely if I dwell on it.

[Scrappy L'il Southpaw]

I miss that sense of feeling important to someone. That someone I desire is looking for me and wanting to be with me...

I miss those moments when I fiercely want to share something exciting, something sad, something funny, something frightening... having that someone to call or go to and share it with.

Cooking together.
Riding together.
Showering together.
Laying together.

The touch in the night...
The hand on my back while I walk.
The kiss at night...
The kiss in the morning...

The special desire to make her smile.
The special desire to make her quiver.
Holding her in my arms until she settles.
Being held in her arms until I settle.

Gawd, I miss all that and more.

Atomiczombie, I should have followed your example...

[J. Mason]

In all honesty, I just miss sex.

[bigbutchmistie]

I Miss :

Having someone special

Simon.

My Mom

[Babyangeleyez]

I miss my son.
I miss not having a best friend.
I miss not having someone to come home to.
I miss sharing my bed with someone special.
I miss the person I used to be.
I miss a friend who was killed in a car accident in 2003.

[*Anya*]

In all honesty, I just miss sex.

I hear you my brother..

[Abigail Crabby]

I miss my best friend - RIP Vikki

I miss the West Coast

I miss Skyping with Poppi - damn that job ;)

[SnackTime]

I miss my...

Godfather (seven years ago yesterday)

Buddy (five weeks ago yesterday)

[sanee66]

simple things
1 reaching over and caressing hys thigh when driving around with nowhere to go
2 watching tv with hys head in my lap while i stroke hys hair
3 sticking my foot over to the other side of the bed just to touch him when it is too damn hot to spoon
4 someone to depend on every day fo whatever help i may need lol
5 just talking, laughing, with the one who understands me best
6 coming home because he is there and not just because it is where i live

lots of things, and no , j, sex and boobs are not top of the list lmao

[J. Mason]

I hear you my brother..

I am glad I am not alone on this!

I miss...

my godmother

living alone

[tapu]

Taking care of her when she's sick.

[kissinfemme]

Having a Daddi...
Kissing....
The sound of her filing the roughness off her hands...
Making her laugh....
Being so well known & still loved, inside/out...
Riding on the back of the bike...
Holding hands...
Sigh.

[Rockinonahigh]

I miss just haveing people to hang out with that are like minded.
I miss being able to hookup and go to a horse show and all that goes with it.
I miss the closeness of someone special.
I miss being 100% healthy.
I miss hearing running water,bird song and the soft sounds of laughter.
Just to name a fue.

[clay]

I miss : the softness and warmth of her in my bed...
having that cup of steaming hot coffee with her in the mornings..sitting on the patio, watching the Egret leave their rookery for the day.
her soft blue eyes....smiling always..at me.
the best friend I had in her.
the kisses stolen...anyplace...anytime...the feel of her hand on my thigh
those quiet intimate moments just after making love or going to sleep when all you could hear was our breathing and feel the warmth
going to Cracker Barrel for Thanksgiving Dinner each year
lugging our huge stockings together up on the bed Christmas Eve..when no one else in the world existed but us
her sense of humor...her gentleness...her laughter
sharing a plate of sushi
sitting side by side in matching recliners..holding hands...watching TV
the weekend forays into the mountains of western NC...gem mining...hiding away in the cabins nestled at the foot of the Blue Ridge Mountains
most of all I miss her...my Wife...our life....and her undying love and devotion...RIP baby!!! (f)

[kissinfemme]

A gazillion things about her & will for a long time.

What I don't miss..... is my every moment of waking/thought/thinking/emotion trying to be controlled. And fighting to keep myself... myself.

What I'm looking forward to, as soon as I'm ready....
Flirting...
Kissing...
Riding on the back of a new hot butch's bike...
First dates....
And second dates....
Laughter...
First time awkard sex...
And second time breathless sex...
Joy...

[Kelt]

Having someone to feel protective about
Day trippin' around the area and finding really great picnic spots
I do this anyway, just saying it would be nice to share with someone
Early mornings with more than my cat for company
Someone to grow old with. Uh oh, too late!

[1QuirkyKiwi]

I miss...

My beautiful , sweet, precious Daughter - she is no longer in pain and is at peace now.

My beautiful cat who was my companion for 18 years - again, she is no longer in pain and is at peace now.

That special someone to build a life with - it would be lovely to have, yet, I'm happy as I am.

The cool of a 'real' northern hemisphere Autumn......I can't believe I've just said that! LOL!

Christmas being in the Summer with fake snow on the trees and plastic snowmen on the lawns! ......It just doesn't work in the same way! LOL! Growing up, I always wanted to experience Christmas in Winter......I like them, but, prefer the Sun, lol!

[girl_dee]

July ...........

[Kenna]

I miss my two best, best friends...there's too many miles between us and too many difficult life events that makes days turn into weeks before we catch up.
I miss my "Panera Buddy" and my "Cookout Buddy".
I miss Gramma D.
I miss slow times and autumn in the Shenandoah Valley.
I miss REAL farmer's markets.
I miss my Lil Gma.

[Trey339]

well,,, after being (2yrs) single from a very ltr,,,I can honestly say I miss the closeness and intimacy of sleeping with my lady the most,,,

[Trey339]

and yes,,,a million other things,,,

[Silverseastar]

I miss....

being touched. Falling asleep spooned from behind with her fist in my hair. Laughing and being silly with someone you also can be deeply intimate with. Feeling like I matter deeply to one important person. Having someone to do those special things for and with that define your special relationship.

This thread makes me misty eyed!

[Okiebug61]

I miss the simplicity of being a lesbian. Our culture has become way to complicated with too many rules, too many wannabes, to many part timers and to many games.

[DomnNC]

My wife's smile.

[ButchKnight]

miss talking about the little stuff
really miss romance

[jac]

I miss knowing that I'm hers. To be claimed as her one and only. Yeh, that's definitely what I miss... :phonegab:

[Library_girl]

I miss.....

Amazing, heart-stopping kisses.........as many as I want
Holding hands
Slow dancing
Feeling protected and safe
The sensation of my heart flip-flopping at the sound of hys voice
Soft touches, out of the blue
Resting my head on hys chest
Laughing until tears are rolling down our faces
Knowing that someone really "gets me"

But most of all, I miss knowing that the most amazing, handsome, wonderful, incredible person in the world, thinks that *I* am the most amazing, beautiful, wonderful, incredible person in the world.

[clay]

slow, long, deep kisses...the ones that melt you into a puddle
lying naked, close, and the feel of soft, silky skin and her scent
watching the gentle rise and fall of her breathing as she slept
spooning so close, dancing horizontally as we held one another
the softness and curve of her bottom as I spooned into her and wrapped my arm around the slope of her belly
waking all tangled...arms and legs entwined
camping trips....
beach trips
sleeping in late most days..and esp. Sundays...lazy mornings, coffee in bed....coffee on patio watching egrets leave the rookery for the day
driving nowhere, catching sight of the blue and green herons or anhingus
hearing that, soft, sexy, waking up voice say "good morning, baby"
R.I.P. Baby!!! I miss YOU! :bunchflowers:

[sara-bera]

Summertime, green grass, heat and humidity, and wearing just one layer of clothing.

[AtLast]

At the moment..... dark chocolate!

:blink:

[JAGG]

Steamed clams

[Okiebug61]

I miss my friends who are no longer here with us.

[VintageFemme]

❆ ❆ ❆ s n o w ❆ ❆ ❆

[uniquetobeme]

I miss my step son.
I miss family diners.
I miss feeling safe and protected.
I miss cuddling.
I miss sex comas and falling asleep every which way.
I miss being read to.
I miss the family camping trips.
I miss gem mining.
I miss sharing my life.
I miss feeling connected so closely.
I miss being brought coffee and lunch at work.
I miss the moments the blended family actually felt like a complete family.
I miss watching the kids play sports together.
I miss stealing kisses in public.
I miss doing the laundry and putting it away.
I miss making dinners with the kids.
I miss being a wife.

[chai~]

I miss that "special person" actually looking at me instead of the computer screen when I talk.

I miss getting that "look" of, "I can't wait to get you home!"
The look that immediately makes my cheeks blush!

I miss fresh coffee brought to me in bed.

I miss the swoony~ness of one soft kiss.

I miss having a best friend.

I miss being completely effervescent about life.


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[luv2luvgirls]

Everything that she gave me.. all she was to me and for me. I miss the way she looked at me
I miss the way she loved me

[Kenna]

I miss sitting on the dunes watching the water, being the only one around for miles, chilly from the crisp cool air, thrilled as I watched every second of the sunrise while I felt my lover being protective, watching over me from the balcony of our room.

I miss breakfast with Gramma.

I miss camping trips on warm spring days or cool autumn weekends where I could cuddle in my sleeping bag as the morning light starts to wake the birdies...

I miss my sons.

I miss my body not hurting so much and being more physically active.

I miss the mountains.

I miss listening to Gramma's stories .....

I miss affection. And several friends across the miles.

[Hack]

A hand on my neck and fingers running up into my hair.

Arms around my neck when I hold her and kiss her.

The secret language of intimacy a great couple can have in crowded places, yet they feel there is no one around them.

[SweetJane]

I miss kissing.....I really do....

I miss a strong hand on my waist (I have one now!)

I miss dancing with someone who is a strong lead.

I miss long, deep conversations about everything...

[Kenna]

Sleeping in ...
Family members...
Boiling Springs and the swans...
fresh blackberries ...
fishing trips with my son...

[deeperstill]

burying my cold nose in hys warm neck

[Mtn]

Sweetness, playtimes, cooking dinner together, walks, laughing, cuddling in the big chair, goodnews though, she will be here in 36 days, and then I can not miss those things for awhile anyway :)

[GPS]

i miss the smell of spring, warm temps and of course the ocean

[ScandalAndy]

I miss the way my heart beat faster when they would unexpectedly twine their fingers in mine and hold my hand as we walked.

[Leigh]

I just miss that feeling of knowing that someone truly loves me

[clay]

I miss the stolen weekends...when there was "just us" in the world!

[Skittlesluver]

I miss missing her....

[msW8ing]

I miss having someone to spoil and dote on.

[Morgan]

I miss the intimacy and the laughter....curling up in each others arms and kissing her sweet lips.....and most of all I miss making her feel safe, secure and protected. I am sure I will find it again, this time with the one I was meant to be with.

[Greyson]

I miss 9/80 workday schedule with 3 day weekend, every other week.

[Blade]

taters, bread and rice.....but this too shall pass...

[Random]

Not single, but...


I find that occassionally I miss someone saying..

"I'm either going to kiss you or kick your ass."

Ya.. Sometimes I miss being the brat...

[Mr Nice Guy]

The look a woman gets when she loves you.

[Leigh]

Holding someone's hand in mine, stealing kisses anytime of the day, and just being with someone who gets me.

[chai~]

I miss the sultry heat of Hawaii, and how wearing only a sarong is a perfectly acceptable outfit for going out to dinner!

I miss mad raging thunderstorms that make my heart pound, and giggling like a fool while yelling, "Did you hear that!??"

I miss endless coffee dates with high school friends where we solved the problems of the world.

I miss drive in movies and necking in the back seat. ;)



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[Firedance]

I'm sick. The kind of sick where you are shaky, and weak as a kitten.

I miss having a lap I can lay my head on.
I miss cool fingers gently brushing hair back from my brow.
I miss... A wish, I only had once, and that was years ago now.

[girl_dee]

i miss crawfish! SOON THOUGH!

[Blade]

Crappie Fishing.......nothing like reeling in a big ole slab Crappie

[~ocean]

what is crappie . blade . no pun intended lol

[Blade]

while having a phone conversation this morning about the smell of coffe. It brought me back to a time when I would wake up on Saturday morning on a "pallet" on my Gigi's livingroom floor, to the smell of coffee and the sound of it percolating and know it wouldn't be long before breakfast was ready. So today I miss Gigi and Papa and all the mornings I woke up at their house.

[girl_dee]

what is crappie . blade . no pun intended lol

i'm not blade but i LOVE Crappie.... pronounced *croppee*

it's a perch like lil fish that's fun as heck to catch and fried up taste like a million bucks !

[Okiebug61]

I miss the sound of my Radio DJ friend who decided drinking herself to death was better than living. We were great friends and though I tried, there was nothing that was going to stop her from ending her life with a bottle of booze. My only regret is that I got mad because she kept drunk calling me and I erased her last voice mail where she was actually sober. Rest in peace my friend Lisa M.

[sierragirrl]

i miss my other half
i miss road trips
i miss the big dogs
i miss the ocean

[Girl Friday]

I miss the 5:30 am walk to the bakery

I miss that sound you make when a kiss is about to become something else

I miss the morning coffee moment

I miss the cats

I miss feeling useful

I miss the way you smell

I miss the way things were on the train

I miss the way things were before they weren't that way anymore

[LadyRieinAL]

I miss playing slots with my mom.

I miss watching football with my dad

I miss hearing my father's supportive voice saying "That's right, Baby, that's right."

I miss knowing that my mom is only a phone call away.

I miss hearing "I love You" from my mom and dad

I miss my mom's cornbread and peas

I miss sitting quietly with my dad on his favorite cement bench in front of the Black Warrior River.

I miss hearing my mom say "I know you can do it."

I miss seeing, hearing, and feeling the love between my parents.

[Rockinonahigh]

That last shot in the corner packet that wobbled but didn fall in the pocket.That onery ball cost me team the chanch to play in the city pool league championships,I replayed the shot a zillion times,I know I couldnt have done anymore to make it.
But,next Thursday the last game for the ladies teams we play for the right to
play in the city tourney..one more game.I'm told its only game but as I see it lots of people get really hot about the game winning and loseing can be quite a statement.

[firegal]

I miss seeing my lil sis having fun.

I miss her being physically able to do life.

I miss seeing her have things to look forward to.

I miss having to watch her animals cuz she is going on vacation.

But i cherish my time with her.

[luv2luvgirls]

Catching a wave
the beach
deep sea fishing
drift boat fishing
skim boarding the wake at the beach
latenight bonfires
Sun Fest and the concerts
sometimes I miss Fla

[prettyboyreg]

The smell of a femmes neck as I pull her close...

[chai~]

I miss....

~floating in a lake or river, in a tire tube, bum down in the water, sun tan lotion, and a nice drink in my hand!

~going to a quiet resteraunt, there are too many people in this city, and no matter how fine or expensive the place, it is always so damn noisy. sssshhhhh, whisper in this dim and delicious ambiance, take it down a notch or 7!

~saucy text messages

~first date butterflies

~first kiss shivers


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[shiagirl]

I miss being told I am loved
I miss being held
I miss someone telling me how beautiful and desirable i am
I miss someone making love to me and most of all I miss what I have never had, a forever kind of love

[MickMan]

I miss the little things. The looks, the hugs, the cup of coffee out of the blue while writing my papers.

[Mr Nice Guy]

Being called Honey, Sweety or Babe.

[Teddybear]

What I miss.......


The twinkle in her eyes
The sound of her laughing at my jokes
The feel of her hand in mine as we walk
The closeness of being in the same place

Waking in the middle of the nite just to move closet to her to tell her I love her
The way she kisses me
The way she smells after a shower
Seeing her smile when nothing is happening but us just talking

I miss her more and more by the minute
But knowing she will b here soon helps me thru

[Kenna]

Time

That sensual feeling as someone special is standing behind me, just inches away.. .hearing and feeling the care in their voice...I could close my eyes and not touch them, but feel their presence ...

My son's laughter and jokes and beautiful blue eyes...

Daffodils

Random romance (that I intentionally no longer allow myself)

And...Skyline Drive

[Mr Nice Guy]

I miss the Femme attention.
I miss flirting.
I miss being with a Femme.

[~ocean]

i miss my favorite nail file .. has anyone seen it ? ~~

[Bella~Vita]

i miss my favorite nail file .. has anyone seen it ? ~~

Only you .... lmao ... you're my kind of gal ... luva you sister friend:wine:

[Bella~Vita]

I miss my Mom and my Aunt . Family is so important . I know sometimes we get irritated when they tell us what to do ... but I miss that now .

Can't say I miss someone to love , I've never had it, it was always what I could do for someone , so now I'm concentrating on me! I miss me !!

[alexri]

Is it ok to post something I've never had and have wanted/wished for?

I'd love someday for someone to be waiting for me, excited, when I finish a marathon, ready to hug me and congratulate me.

[KayCee]

I miss So.California. The palm trees, the ocean and esp. the beaches. It has a special 'flair' I also miss so much!..waaaaahhhh, I want to go home!

[LadyHilary]

being a crazy Femme Top who loves and lives in the world of D/s and 24/7 service I really really love making my person feel adored and cared for in my home... so I miss

cooking something with them in mind
changing my sheets just to know they will smell of our sex soon
waking him up with my mouth
putting him to sleep with my mouth

[Hollylane]

I miss getting up before dawn just to make sure I get my spot on the bank at Hagg Lake. I miss seeing the tip of my fishing pole do that quick dip that tells me I've got a trout on my line. Next weekend, I'm there.

[Beloved]

I miss living close to the shore. The sandy beaches, the smell of the ocean air, the gentle breeze, the boardwalk, caramel apples....ahhhh.

[2qt]

I miss the voice calming me through the storms of life & the arms holding me as I drift into sleep

[fever]

I miss spontaneous road trips, especially fun weekends in Seattle. I miss watching my butch dress, slowly zipping up those jeans and watching hym put hys belt on. (what goes on has to come off, yum). I miss smelling AXE waft off of hys body. sigh I miss a strong arm around me as we snuggle and watch tv. I miss a sly smile and nod of hys head as it is time for bed.

[jac]

I miss going to the beach and wa lking the boardwalk in the evening sunset twilight hours. Feeling the breeze ad smelling the salt water air. I miss enjoying an ice-cream cone while on this summertime adventure. :sigh:

[Tangle]

waking up gently with no alarm, having a hand run up and down from my thigh to hip to waist to breast, and back again. being pushed onto my back and having my thighs opened for a sleepy morning's dose of lovemaking. the smell of warm covers and mid-morning sun mixing with last night's cologne or perfume and sex. tasting salty skin before a shower. seeing the goofy half-smile that says "good morning. we look like a mess, and i still love you more." knowing each other so well that not a single word needs to be spoken. hearing morning whimpers and feeling wrapped-up, knowing i'm safe and being watched over.

[Okiebug61]

Red is gone for another week! I miss her.

[cinnamongrrl]

I miss my dog Matty....hiking just isnt the same without her... :(

[The_Lady_Snow]

I miss being able to grab him and throwing him around whooping on his ass at anytime I feel like it...

*twitch*

[jac]

What do I miss??

Right now I am missing a good hardcore thump session with someone that can give it and take it till there's nothing left in either of us to give or take just so I could release all this infuriating energy!!
:training:

[ruthie14]

I have celiac, soooooo

I miss a cheese steak
hoagies
real pizza
hot biscuits and gravy
pasta
lasagna
pb & J on wonder bread
smores
pringles
Nacho cheese doritos
I could go on, but I am making myself hungry!!!!! lolol

[JistMe]

Lying in the dark with "her" on warm summer nights like tonight... her breast cool against my cheek... while she ran her fingers softly through my hair.

[Licious]

I miss having a femme friend to talk with on the phone about makeup and butches n. stuff.

[Jesse]

I miss having a buddy to fish with, and crazy friends to go camping with.

I miss being partnered.

[Kenna]

I miss the beach in February ..feeling the awe and loving every minute I spent there.

.... back rubs
.... picking up seashells
...taking pictures of the sunrise and sunset

[Miss Scarlett]

i miss...

my Mom...she was the glue that held my family together...

Spending hours dolphin spotting with Clay...

Home as in OUR Island...

Sitting on the veranda with Clay, sipping coffee, talking...or not, listening to OUR Island wake up and watching the gentle sway of the Spanish moss in the breeze...

Seductive sapphire blue eyes and that bright smile...

[Nomad]

i miss the walk for a danish

[Jesse]

I miss being visible to my community.

[~ocean]

peeks around Jesse's corner .. peek - a - boo I see u lol.. send imvites to the LGBT community for a BBQ @ Jesse's hola Jesse ~~

[Mr Nice Guy]

I miss the Gallery.

[Hollylane]

My young friend, and ex-coworker Alexandra...so, I'm going to meet her for coffee...Right now :)

[Daktari]

Oblivion and avoidance of difficult feelers.

[WolfyOne]

I miss having someone to hang out and do things with on a regular basis

[thedivahrrrself]

The gentle squeezing of my hand to guide me while walking along a crowded street.

[starryeyes]

Having my nails done right. My nail lady left my usual nail salon, and it's been downhill ever since. I am extremely overly picky and sensitive about them, which makes it harder, but still.

[GreeneyedMe]

I miss having someone to hang out and do things with on a regular basis


I miss that as well....and holding hands and snuggles too.

[lusciouskiwi]

having someone to cuddle to sleep with. My Malaysia ex cuddled her bolster to sleep. Every night. I never got cuddled in bed. My American ex and I cuddled to sleep every night and she was the FIRST lover I ever let sleep facing my back. I miss having her arm around my waist.

I miss waking up and that first smile and hello and kiss and do we have time to ...

[Jett]

-Pitching a little tent on the banks of the Whitewater river and fishing for trout for a weekend... cooking it up for supper in a cast iron fryer on the fire, and sharing little bits with my pup, think I'm going to have to pack up my Daisy girl and do that again soon.

-During times that suck my Mom being there to say "It's going to be ok kid..."

-Portland! (though I like it where I am now)

-Formal gatherings... it's been awhile and my tux is gathering dust... blah.

[Julien]

I miss sleeping the entire 8 hours through or even 5 hours through the night. This waking up every couple of hours or so is getting old quick. I am so tired throughout the day. Yawn. I think I should go to bed now. Good night Planet. Sleep well.

[Cowboi]

My Mother....

[Lady Pamela]

Just noticed this thread...definately one I will respond to when I am not so tired.

Just wanted to say ..GREAT THREAD though...smile


Will be back to add my 2cents shortly...lol

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

I miss feeling sure of myself.

I miss not caring what others think of me.

[NJFemmie]

My mom. My sister has been doing some landscaping at her grave site and has been sending me pictures. It only reinforces how much I really miss that wonderful woman.

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[lusciouskiwi]

the hamburgers mum used to make on a Friday night when we were kids:

* STEAMED buns
* lettuce, tomato, onion, shredded cabbage, tomato sauce
* poached egg
* beetroot

YUMMY :p Sometimes when I'm flying out of NZ, I'll have a Kiwiburger at McDs (hmmm probably shouldn't admit to McDs...)

[Canela]

I miss my children being little enough to plan get togethers and celebrate their accomplishments...its been a while but today I'm at it again! My daughters Bf is
graduating from school and SHE is throwing him a dinner in his honor...and guess who gets to cook? Moi. Wish me luck. Its been some time since i throw down some Enchiladas and all the fixings, pico de Gallo etc...i might have lost touch....just in case, I threw on some Shalia Durcal to get me back in the groove....

I miss being able to do this like i breathe, which used to be the case
I miss being the hands on mama i was...(empty nest syndrome here)...
I miss the energy i had to do all this with...lol

[ruffryder]

Being able to go to the beach whenever, walks as the sun is rising, and nights with my thoughts.. Ahh the beach.

[Hollylane]

Darn that Novelafemme....Tucson cravings...

Quart size, half lemon, and half strawberry:

http://www.eegees.com/wp-content/themes/eegees/images/flavors/0111_flavors_bottom.jpg

The Eegee's Meatball Grinder...

and places to work it all off...

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[jac]

I miss my sweetheart!! Working extra hours to make the bucks has me not only not with her but not with her on the phone as much as i would like to be.

One more night babygirl and we can at least go back to our ear whispers again!! :givingarose::wine:

[Kenna]

Having that chemistry ...that spark... the wildly intense feeling of desire that consumes my thoughts of how much I want to please them in every way... that feeling of "I can't wait till they get home "...the excitement and tenderness when they reached over to hold my hand... that twinge of hope at eventually becoming a sincere, recognized member of their family as their accepted and recognized partner ....chemistry so intense that I would melt at the sound of their voice dropping even deeper when they were seducing me... I miss the incredibly passionate, "I WANT YOU, I NEED YOU..DAMN YOUR HOT!!" look on their face that very first moment while on top that I switched positions so they could watch and they could lay back and enjoy while still being in control, at that moment how their grip on my hips and thighs grasped harder telling me I hit my mark and they wanted more, realizing that was the first moment they had ever felt pleasure that intensely, striking me to "torture them with pleasure" for as long as I could hold out, I miss doing that for them and because it was ALL FOR them with the intent to totally and fully pleasure and give to them (thank goodness I was that flexible then)... I miss how they held me after that, arms wrapped tightly around me, face buried in my neck or under my chin, cooing softly of how much they enjoyed me... I miss discovering new things, "practicing " and exploring (growing together over months of discovery) ....I miss submitting to them all I am, and them later telling me "you're in control now"... I miss tenderness and connection ...

I miss the chemistry I had never felt before them and how alive I felt... how damn good it felt to be a Giver and receiver... too bad all that was thrown away because we didn't understand each other.

I miss all that because I know I will never feel that intensity again .. I am dedicated to shutting myself off completely so I never again.....feel that chemistry or that twinge of hope at becoming accepted by their family as an acknowledged partner and the openness of that acknowledgment.

[Hollylane]

The sounds of the late night traffic that floats up from Mason street, while I am lying in a comfy King George Hotel bed, and watching the filmy white curtains billow into the room on a breeze.

Baby, will you meet me in San Francisco?

[Kenna]

it looks similar to this...
http://thumbs3.ebaystatic.com/m/mFeYC63zW12Dlx4a4vLw--w/140.jpg
I miss it cuz it seems I lost it some time ago, but only noticed it missing recently.. time and location of last seen not disclosed, to protect the bashful and innocent :police:
I miss the shocked, excited look on their face when they discovered it was "there"... and the passion that ensued...
I hope it didn't get tossed out when I replaced the Route 66 box...
Time to make another trip to Adam & Eve :blink: :blink:

[Hollylane]

Breathing the same air, inhaling her cologne, her smile that goes right to her eyes, her skin, her laughter, those strong arms wrapped around me, and my face on her chest listening to her heart beating...I miss you Baby.

[Breathless]

I miss the midnight drives to go get coffee, or what ever we were wanting. I miss coming home to the occasional dinner ready, that I didn't have to cook. Or coming home from working all day together and jumping in the tub and him following me in and sitting on the seat of the toilet so we could talk some more.

[Spikester]

Miss having a femme to do things with

[lusciouskiwi]

A good mate of mine from home has finally put her photo on fb and I suddenly find myself missing her, Auckland, and her ... we had some many laughs, hugs, sometimes cry, wine ... so many good times. Wow.


Going to look for some tissues.

[Mr Nice Guy]

I miss my dog.

[~ocean]

I miss hot sex from a long work week on friday nights ...

[bkisbutchenuff]

I miss having someone to come home to or someone coming home to me after a long day at work...

[Amber2010]

I miss getting a text saying "Just thinking about you" or "Hi Baby"

[SleepyButch]

I miss affection, the love, and the caring about someone that much. I miss the sex, the making love, and just holding each other. I miss knowing that there is someone who loves me as much as I love them. I miss not being able to tell someone about my day or asking them about theirs.

[Kenna]

I've been recently told that my post below was disrespectful and a gross violation of privacy. That was never my intent at all. (I rarely share online about who I date and when I'm dating, to protect their privacy and to not come over as immature and childishly infatuated.)

My intent was to describe the beautiful connection and chemistry I shared with someone and why I miss it. It was also my way of saying that being differently abled physically now, is preventing me from enjoying certain things/positions with a partner. I feel my physical health has robbed me of certain enjoyments... it's very hard to adjust to.

I am also missing the mental space I had to be in to enjoy sex with any kind of penetration involved. Several years ago, I could never get to "that space" and penetration would trigger me into awful memories. Penetration with cock of any kind would send me into a very dark place filled with despair and ugly feelings about myself...then add to these feelings with my naive confusion of sex with a female who used cock, I had much inner turmoil for a long time.

When I was with the partner described in the post below, it initially came natural to be totally connected to that mind space and our enjoyment of each other. I felt ALIVE for the first time ever! Not because of cock penetration, but because of the chemistry and connection. For over a year, I could "get there" to that mental space...then I lost that ability and developed a mind block... which is (my feeling and opinion) a reason why we didn't work out and why they no longer found me desirable. I have serious questions about that - having the mental place/mind fuck then loosing it and struggling to get it back - that I want to pose in open forum... but I can't. I miss being open and finding answers. I miss being open and free about sexuality and being able to explore what makes me an ALIVE and vibrant woman. I miss feeling unashamed about enjoying and exploring my sexuality, what turns me on and who I'm attracted to. I miss being "out of the closet" and permitted to be openly proud of who I am and proud of my gender and sexuality. Growing up like I did, I was always ashamed of these things and women where "made to feel sinful and disgusting" for enjoying themselves... then becoming a victim of many acts of violence, I lived ashamed of myself for years and years.... for a while, I felt unashamed and free... now I'm feeling forced back into a box/closet for several reasons, one being to protect those that don't share my feelings.

Instead, I will refrain so I can prevent violating someone's privacy or their personal beliefs about sexuality. I sincerely did not mean to offend.

Having that chemistry ...that spark... the wildly intense feeling of desire that consumes my thoughts of how much I want to please them in every way... that feeling of "I can't wait till they get home "...the excitement and tenderness when they reached over to hold my hand... that twinge of hope at eventually becoming a sincere, recognized member of their family as their accepted and recognized partner ....chemistry so intense that I would melt at the sound of their voice dropping even deeper when they were seducing me... I miss the incredibly passionate, "I WANT YOU, I NEED YOU..DAMN YOUR HOT!!" look on their face that very first moment while on top that I switched positions so they could watch and they could lay back and enjoy while still being in control, at that moment how their grip on my hips and thighs grasped harder telling me I hit my mark and they wanted more, realizing that was the first moment they had ever felt pleasure that intensely, striking me to "torture them with pleasure" for as long as I could hold out, I miss doing that for them and because it was ALL FOR them with the intent to totally and fully pleasure and give to them (thank goodness I was that flexible then)... I miss how they held me after that, arms wrapped tightly around me, face buried in my neck or under my chin, cooing softly of how much they enjoyed me... I miss discovering new things, "practicing " and exploring (growing together over months of discovery) ....I miss submitting to them all I am, and them later telling me "you're in control now"... I miss tenderness and connection ...

I miss the chemistry I had never felt before them and how alive I felt... how damn good it felt to be a Giver and receiver... too bad all that was thrown away because we didn't understand each other.

I miss all that because I know I will never feel that intensity again .. I am dedicated to shutting myself off completely so I never again.....feel that chemistry or that twinge of hope at becoming accepted by their family as an acknowledged partner and the openness of that acknowledgment.

[macele]

we all miss pretty much the same things. we need the same things. love does that to us. you know, i told myself once (after falling in love) that i could not ask for more. if i die, i have experienced the art of making love to its fullest, i was satisfied. well i'm not LOL.

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

I miss many things. I miss my mom. I miss my best friend of 23 years all because her current girlfriend put an end to our friendship earlier this month. I miss my dog Hollywood. I miss my old cat Spunky that shared 17 years with me. I miss being flirted with, funny how when someone has your attention the flirting slow downs. I miss the confidence I once had in many things like my school. I miss my I don't care what you think of me because I love me attitude I seemed to have misplaced back in Feb. of this year. So many things that I am actually missing and dd not even realize it until recently.

[jac]

What do I miss...

My brother who's been gone from this Earth plane for over 26yrs. Love ya big guy in the sky!! :sunglass:

[Breathless]

Not mentioning all the R rated things that are missed *winks* I miss Christmas morning, when we told all our family we had to work on the 26th and we pushed the couches together and watched movies all night, with munchies galore, spent the entire night laughing our damn asses off.. then had Christmas breaky of fruit and chocolate.. and went to the theater. I love my kids, seriously but this was the best ever!

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

I miss being understood of being able to communicate my thoughts and feelings clear enough that there is no doubt behind the intent and meaning. So that means I miss the old way of communicating and can not wait until I miss this 21st Century text based society.

[JustJo]

As soon as my son gets home....not a freaking thing! :cheesy:

[jac]

What I miss...

Saturday morning cartoons while mom makes breakfast... The old classic cartoons. Bugs Bunny, Tom and Jerry, Porky Pig... oh and watching the old school Mickey Mouse Club!! I miss Leave it to Beaver, Gilligan's Island, and I could go on for days but I think you get the idea... I miss my carefree childhood weekends. I miss making the neighborhhood club and having election day and since I was always the youngest I never got to be President or Vice President... I was either Secretary or Treasurer. Hmmmm, maybe I don't miss that so much. I miss visits to the local public pool with friends... but I sure as heck don't miss those gawd-awful sun burns where mom would have to call the burn unit. I miss the swamp cooler pointing down on my bed (cause I slept on the top bunk) in those hot Arizona nights. I miss playing in dust storms and tumble weed chasing... and I miss flagging down Albert the ice-cream man (Fat Albert as he was referred to) and I miss the produce truck and milk man swinging through the neoghbirhood. Hell, I miss watching the cartoon/show Fat Albert and the Cosby Kids. I miss riding bikes till time for baths... and playing jacks with my three older sibblings while we each took a turn getting our showers. I miss sitting around the TV with bags of homemade popcorn and watching Almost Anything Goes... THAT was a fun show!! I miss the Love Boat and Fantasy Island too..........

Yeh, I miss my youth, my three older siblings, my mom making sure we always had even though we were dirt poor and all the simple fun times we made into super grand memories!! :)

[Mr Nice Guy]

I really miss kissing. Apparently kissing is on my mind. Damn that tv show!! :)

[Rockinonahigh]

Sitting on the back porch while my gramps told stories of the old country(Italy) the customs along with the history behind them.Cold watermellon at the pick nick we would have as a family thing.Hearing my grams voice,smelling her rose water perfume...cant even find it anymore.

[Blade]

praying together

[Mr Nice Guy]

The happiness that comes when someone really loves you. :)

[tazz]

i miss...

...being in a relationship
...enabling myself to fall in love again

[gotoseagrl]

good dreams
cotton candy
library
seashells
realness you can touch

[KayCee]

...home. That's all.

[Canela]

What do I miss?


I miss how when a butch/TG/FtM partner wanted you, knew you were the one, there was nothing he wouldn't do to make it happen.

I miss being loved in a love that says, "she's mine and I'm hers and that's all there is to it"...ironclad.

I miss the kind of guy (butch/TG/FtM) that thinks and acts that way.


That's what I miss...


(Am I asking for too much?)

[rockstar lover]

What do I miss?


I miss how when a butch/TG/FtM partner wanted you, knew you were the one, there was nothing he wouldn't do to make it happen.

I miss being loved in a love that says, "she's mine and I'm hers and that's all there is to it"...ironclad.

I miss the kind of guy (butch/TG/FtM) that thinks and acts that way.


That's what I miss...


(Am I asking for too much?)



No you're not asking for too much. I miss those same things too (but with a femme). That's how it should be like and we should never settle for anything less than we deserve.

[Canela]

No you're not asking for too much. I miss those same things too (but with a femme). That's how it should be like and we should never settle for anything less than we deserve.

Thank you RockStar Lover, I just wasn't sure anymore...I crave the boldness in that dynamic.

[rockstar lover]

Thank you RockStar Lover, I just wasn't sure anymore...I crave the boldness in that dynamic.


Me too! I've only felt it a couple times in my life. And I want to feel that again. I'm kind of a hopeless (or hopefull) romantic :)

[~ocean]

I MISS MY POOL :((((((((( hasnt been pool weather in several days ~

[Syr]

I miss my sanity..........I think.

[girl_dee]

I miss my sanity..........I think.

i miss your sanity too. i think. Sorry about the potholes in the driveway when i was peeling out in your new truck. :blink:

[Canela]

Me too! I've only felt it a couple times in my life. And I want to feel that again. I'm kind of a hopeless (or hopefull) romantic :)

I sure wish you all the very best in finding that special femme that meets that for you!

[rockstar lover]

I sure wish you all the very best in finding that special femme that meets that for you!

Thank you. I hope you find your special one as well :)

[Canela]

Thank you. I hope you find your special one as well :)

I thought I had, but I was wrong. Maybe one day....I will not lose hope...that's for sure.

[rockstar lover]

I thought I had, but I was wrong. Maybe one day....I will not lose hope...that's for sure.


Good...don`t lose hope. Stay a hopefull romantic :)

[clay]

my lady.....:(!

[RockOn]

Simple kindness and respect from someone who honestly cares for me and is not running their menagerie of games on me.

Oh my, the different personalities of an active alcoholic makes me dizzy. Easy to spot because I did the same things before I got into recovery. After a while, even the innocents caught on to my patterns, my need to dodge and run. And I thought I had everyone fooled but the joke was on me. Thankful I made the decision to get the help I needed. I do not miss those old days. :)

[Semantics]

Someone to read aloud to me.


It's been a long time.

[SleepyButch]

her voice...

[honeynroses]

Comfort and cuddling.

[lusciouskiwi]

skin

having someone to spoil and be spoilt in return

[mplsgrrl]

I miss.... her.

[Mar]

Being called Daddy and knowing it came from a place deep inside that only I could reach.

Seeing my future and knowing it would all make sense soon.

Having the chance to actually get there.

Being understood.

This one is random...cookies..craving alert :cookielove:

[SugarFemme]

I miss my life being Status Quo. There are so many things in a state of flux in my life right now. I miss the security of Status Quo. But sometimes, only in chaos can there be change.

[Soft*Silver]

I miss being able to eat a huge meal....anything more than a palm size portion still brings me misery

I miss seeing kids be innocent, and not pornographic and not rude and not self absorbed toxically

I miss my daughter..long story...but maybe I miss what I thought it would be like to have a daughter

I miss my newfs that have passed on

I miss surprises in the mail

I miss my insomnia...lol...NOT

[jac]

The routines we start falling into, like...

ice-cream in the park while the General plays
Cuddles and laughter till we drift off to sleep
Mealtime around the table... (that breakfast was great!)

[*Anya*]

It's almost 3:00 AM. Have been awake since 1:30. Work in a few hours.

I miss...

everything.

[ruby_woo]

I miss knowing that someone cares about me and thinks about me during the day.

I miss the giddy excitement you feel when beginning a new relationship, wanting to take in as much of this person as you can.

I miss touching.

And because I live in expensive as hell Vancouver, I miss splitting the rent with someone. Over $1000/month for a one bedroom sucks for one person lol.

[clay]

I miss.......riding... carefree...wind in my hair...exploring new places with the Women On Wheels (r) group....our group..Lowcountry B.R.A.T.S. (Babes Riding Around the South)....:).
R.I.P. Cathy! I love you!!!...:candle:

[Metro]

The "grace notes" that accompany the melody of a longterm relationship.

[jac]

What do I miss...

Having my kids young and at home. I really do miss cooking, cleaning and doing laundry for them all, and doing the mom thing... fun fun fun...

[cinnamongrrl]

I miss......hiking.....it feels like its been forever.....

I miss.....my dog....and shes been gone nearly 3 years now......

I miss.....my girls being little and needing to hold my hand to walk down the street.....

I miss....having a grandmother....they are really gods gift to children....

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

My confidence...

My energy.....

My routine...

My words that express the true Me.....

[gotoseagrl]

fall weather. 104+ degrees every day of the week with no breaks not even into the night time isn't cutting it.
the 80s. a time when i didn't have to keep up with cell phones, text messages, unknown number calls, dying batteries, computers, facebook, and so many times, dates, deadlines & numbers. :seeingstars: less is definitely more.

[Prudence]

Clackers...

[clay]

camping out on the beach...listening to the pounding surf.....cooking out on the break wall....scavenging with my metal detector...

[LeftWriteFemme]

The Poodle

[firegal]

I miss my mom so much...watching my lil sis get weaker..

I want to call her so horribly....she was always there for me when life was.....life.

[*Anya*]

Everything

[The_Lady_Snow]

my head on my pillow, the cool breeze on my skin from the fan, the feel of the sheets, and the ever so slight touch of warm flesh.

[Miss Scarlett]

This month is particularly hollow for me. It begins with Labor Day and ends with my birthday...i miss my family when we were a family...before Mom died...when we'd gather for family dinners/cookouts for holidays, birthdays, special events or just for the heck of it...Mom loved having everyone over, it was so important to her and it felt so wonderful to be together ...i really miss the way that feels...she was the glue that held us together (after she passed Dad tried but he's too detached)...and i am sad that things will never be the same and that feeling of closeness, belonging and family seems to be gone forever...

[lettertodaddy]

I miss having "my person" - someone who gets me, who knows me well enough to get past and through the barriers, a friend as well as a lover (though I sometimes think I miss the friend part most of all). I miss having an activity partner, someone to talk over the events of our day with. Someone to plan adventures with.

[little_ms_sunshyne]

I miss having my Abuelita's tortillas!!!!

[CharmingButch25]

I miss the way she knew me better than anyone
I miss how safe i felt letting her break my walls down
I miss the love she used to feel ffor me
I miss having my rock
But most of all i miss my best friend