Seeking Sexy Birthday Party Tips

[foxyshaman]

I am in serious need of some help. :help: I have taken on the task of hosting a :birthday: for two incredibly wonderful butch friends. One suggested I :birthdaycake:, a request I gracefully declined. Especially when it was suggested I wear my corset and heels. After my polite, but firm, refusal it was suggested that I incorporate games.:shocking: I am going to sound like a total curmudgeon, I don't usually play games. At least not those kind.

So the first game I have I inherited from my kids, called Snakes and Shots. It comes with shot glasses, dice and a glass playing board (I believe it is anticipated you will spill a drink on it) It actually looks kinda fun. However I am a two shot sinker so I don't know how many rounds I could go!! But there are truth and dare squares. It has been suggested that one of the birthday girls gets to pick a question out of the pile to ask. I am responsible for the pile.

The other game that was thrown into the mix is "Spin the Bottle". Well when that was put out there I roared with laughter:superfunny:...no seriously. We are all in our mid + forties and I don't think any of us have played that for decades!! *I can admit that I may be wrong on that*. I need cards for that game for the girls who do not want to kiss. One of my friends is a bit uptight, the other one...I don't know her well enough to guess. The two..."instead of kissing" cards I have so far are:

Say "make my coffee extra strong (see I do suck)" in your sexiest bedroom voice.

Another one suggested by one of the birthday gals of course is... show me your sexiest come on move. Now if I did have said shot or two mine would be moving slowly up the legs, biting at the crotch of her jeans, and undoing her belt with my teeth. So, ideas like that/

So. I believe the nature of the evening is to:

laugh
get sexy :stiletto:
laugh
get tipsy
laugh
get outside the box (metaphorical box of course):giggle:

Any and all help will be greatly appreciated!!!

:dots:

[DapperButch]

Twister


After drinks:

Naked Twister

[Dreams]

how many will be attending?
will most be single?

[weatherboi]

Strip pin the tail on the donkey!!!

[foxyshaman]

Twister


After drinks:

Naked Twister

That made me laugh... cause it was suggested. Maybe I should hit up Amazon and see if they still exist. Naked twister.. ahhh now that would be a fun tipsy sight/event!!!

[foxyshaman]

how many will be attending?
will most be single?

It is a small event only 10 - 14.

[foxyshaman]

Strip pin the tail on the donkey!!!

:giggle:

Soooo, how does this game work?

[Dreams]

It is a small event only 10 - 14.

ok..just my thought people..

start it with a strip club everyone included..no it isnt masochistic they do work for a living..many by their own choice

it has been my experience that the Femme's have more fun then we do.

then Finnish with fun and games at home..give it some flavor..

[DapperButch]

That made me laugh... cause it was suggested. Maybe I should hit up Amazon and see if they still exist. Naked twister.. ahhh now that would be a fun tipsy sight/event!!!

They do.

Seriously, though...it is cheap and you may want to consider having one around. With the age group you describe, everyone would have played it as a kid.

[deb_U_taunt]

butch birthday?

a pinada with cigars and dental dams and what ever else comes to mind?

[LaneyDoll]

Hmmm, what about turning the place into a old school Gentleman's Club? Offer cigars, liquor and poker? You could even dress as a sexy waitress. *think Playboy Club back in its heyday*

:sparklyheart:

[tapu]

I think I'd have at least one activity that involved blindfolding.

[foxyshaman]

ok..just my thought people..

start it with a strip club everyone included..no it isnt masochistic they do work for a living..many by their own choice

it has been my experience that the Femme's have more fun then we do.

then Finnish with fun and games at home..give it some flavor..

Never even considered that. <insert fun raised eyebrow> Shall run it by the gals tomorrow....

[foxyshaman]

I think I'd have at least one activity that involved blindfolding.

Blindfolds.. <pleasant shudder> now that is something I will happily incorporate!!

[foxyshaman]

Hmmm, what about turning the place into a old school Gentleman's Club? Offer cigars, liquor and poker? You could even dress as a sexy waitress. *think Playboy Club back in its heyday*

:sparklyheart:

Laneydoll just wait till you hear my outfit!! I am so with you sister!! I am going to wear a beautifully fine cut man's blue dress shirt, that hangs to mid thigh (helps to be a whopping 5')...with arm bands. A beautiful purple tie. Leggings and five inch blue leather peek a boo toe drive you crazy kinda shoe... underneath a most gracious beautiful red corset. Not showing of course, one must be a lady. :toast:

Oh and I love the gentleman attire... I don't think that will be a hard sell at all!!

[foxyshaman]

butch birthday?

a pinada with cigars and dental dams and what ever else comes to mind?

:thumbsup: :giggle:

[foxyshaman]

They do.

Seriously, though...it is cheap and you may want to consider having one around. With the age group you describe, everyone would have played it as a kid.

SOLD. I am going to Zellers tommorow.

[foxyshaman]

Okay so...

one of the questions was are party goers single or couples. The majority of them are in couples. I am not sure if I am going to be the only single woman there. Soooooo.... mmmmmwwwwuuuuaaaahahahahahahahahahaha

I thought this idea might be fun for "spin the bottle no kissing" gal who didn't want to kiss. I bought a set of love dice. I am going to change the tops. one dice to lick, nibble, kiss, squeeze.. etc.. the next dice... lips, arm, hand, foot, thigh...etc. <Insert evil laugh> There may be some substitution rules allowed, but who knows what a fox will think is fun at the time?

The blindfold could be for a tasting game. Mind is working.

The blindfold might be good for twister... help a sister get where she is going?? Touch and turn the body to the right position. This can be reserved for the birthday gals?

[deb_U_taunt]

slumber party
or
pool party...kiddie pool, margaritas, BBQ, swimsuit competition and umbrellas

[Soft*Silver]

a food party...desserts especially...made on bodies, eaten off bodies, hangs behind their backs and blindfolded....both the person eating and the person offered as a serving platter....

[Sachita]

host a costume theme party.

Indiana Jones - Must dress like characters in the movie. Have a large basket of water pistols filled with 151 Rum. Get some props such as rope, a truth whip, etc. The rest will just unfold as they shoot that 151 into each others mouths and confess whilst wrapped in the truth whip.

[foxyshaman]

slumber party
or
pool party...kiddie pool, margaritas, BBQ, swimsuit competition and umbrellas


Well... there may be some sleeping over. I do offer an extra wide amazingly comfortable couch.

Pool party would be a good idea, but right now it is 12C out and there are about 1,000,000 Mosquitoes per sq inch. Oh joy. So... and outdoor event is a possibility, but one butch is so tiny she just might get carried away by our overgrown oversized northern mosquitoes... I just don't know how I would explain that to her girlfriend.

But I do love your attitude and your enthusiasm to help me!! :cheer:

[foxyshaman]

host a costume theme party.

Indiana Jones - Must dress like characters in the movie. Have a large basket of water pistols filled with 151 Rum. Get some props such as rope, a truth whip, etc. The rest will just unfold as they shoot that 151 into each others mouths and confess whilst wrapped in the truth whip.

I think that would be fun personally. I love costumes, but being a storyteller does that to a gal.

[tapu]

I'm trying to think of something with the blindfolding that would be close to top/bottom play. With commands or.... You said they're mostly couples, right? With couples you could go pretty far with that.

When you said tasting and blindfolds, do you mean á lá 9-1/2 weeks? I think that could be fun.

[Chancie]

Are you meant to be throwing a play party?

My experience is that drinking a lot is usually discouraged.

I know I might sound like a priss, but

I wouldn't have fun at a party with a lot of drinking and public sex play in front of my friends.

This is just my preference, of course, but

It is possible that I am not the only person who might feel that way.

I love the idea of a sexy costume party, or a theme party.

I had my fiftieth birthday party at a Korean restaurant where

I reserved a karaoke room, and it was a blast.

[foxyshaman]

I'm trying to think of something with the blindfolding that would be close to top/bottom play. With commands or.... You said they're mostly couples, right? With couples you could go pretty far with that.

When you said tasting and blindfolds, do you mean á lá 9-1/2 weeks? I think that could be fun.

I am hoping it is all fun. I don't know many of the women coming, so there is a part of me that is a wee bit nervous. However I am an open minded woman with a good sense of humor, hoping my party guests are as well:tease:.

[foxyshaman]

This is just my preference, of course, but

It is possible that I am not the only person who might feel that way.

I love the idea of a sexy costume party, or a theme party.

I had my fiftieth birthday party at a Korean restaurant where

I reserved a karaoke room, and it was a blast.

Chancie I can understand what you are saying. I am a drummer and the only parties I have thrown in the last few years involve a room of friends, drinks, pop, and lots of food. Then the 15 - 20 of us gather in one room or another and go round after round of freestyle drumming. We eat, drink, laugh between rounds. We make sure everyone gets home safe. For my last birthday party I had over 40 ppl come and we drummed until 6 am.

I have not thrown a party like this before. I don't know many of the women coming. Only some of them drink, none smoke and I am not sure where on the "fun" spectrum they fall.

But what the hell, we are all adults with the ability to establish boundaries and speak up.

[Chancie]

I totally understand that you want the party you throw to be fun and sexy.

You know what I've been thinking about as I read this thread?

When I'm single, I want to be flirty and send out I'm fun, no, really, signals, but

I don't want to send out I'll do anything to get you to like me signals. and

I almost always get it wrong.

My more staid friends think I'm a wild thing, and

My drinky party friends think I am d-u-l dull, because

I don't really drink and

I don't usually dirty dance except with my beaus.