What have you learned?

[kittygrrl]

This can be anything...that's changed your mind, your routine, your ethics,..everything here is worthy of listening to, so don't be shy :readrules: Thanks

[kittygrrl]

learning about living forever..and a term that interested me "Omega Point"
This theory was developed by a French Jesuit which postulates that the omega point which in his view caused the universe to grow in complexity and consciousness..it is part of a bigger theory which in a nut shell proposes that the universe will never throw anything away and it will eventually recycle us in a somewhat revised consciousness (you can call that whatever you want) ..this is something I've always believed and hearing it approached in this way blew my mind..

[Gemme]

I was going to be a smartass and say 'not a damn thing' but then I realized I did learn something today.

I learned that Alberta, Canada is having a problem with rampant bunnies. Some will be trapped but the rest will be euthanized and that makes me sad. They're going to kill Thumper!

:bigcry:

[foxyshaman]

I learnt that Eros is a really complicated Greek Being. I learnt more about Love, Complete Love, not just carnal Love that I ever thought I would.

I learnt that I cannot always pick a Being to work with, nope this time Eros tapped me on the shoulder and said - Sit down I got a tale for you - So, if you are encountering a Primordial Being - sit down, hush, follow the lead, and figure it out.

Primordial – generally when we think of that word, most of us follow it with ooze. Well, I beg of you not to think of ooze when I mention Primordial.
The word "parthenogenesis" comes from the Greek parthenos, meaning "virgin", and genesis, meaning "birth".

Hesiod, Aristophanes and the Orphica are the oldest written references to Eros. It is difficult to find even glimpses of the Primordial Beings because written history came so long after our ancestors who told stories about them.

ristophanes, Birds 685 ff (trans. O'Neill) (Greek comedy C5th to 4th B.C.) :
"At the beginning there was only Khaos (Air), Nyx (Night), dark Erebos (Darkness), and deep Tartaros (Lower World) Firstly, black-winged Nyx (Night) laid a germless egg in the bosom of the infinite deeps of Erebos (Darkness), and from this, after the revolution of long ages, sprang the graceful Eros with his glittering golden wings, swift as the whirlwinds of the tempest. He mated [or fertilised] in deep Tartaros with dark Khaos (Air), winged like himself, and thus hatched forth our race, which was the first to see the light. That of the Immortals did not exist until Eros had brought together all the ingredients of the world… Thus our origin is very much older than that of the dwellers in Olympos. We are the offspring of Eros; there are a thousand proofs to show it. "

Now I want to stop and tell you that Eros was a two faced Being. Orphica, Argonautica 6TH Cen “ two-sexed, two-faced, glorious Eros”. Eros is portrayed as a beautiful golden-winged hermaphroditic deity wrapped in a serpent's coils. When we reconsider what Aristophanes said “He mated in deep Tartaros (the lower world) with dark Khaos (Air), winged like himself, and thus hatched forth our race”... Of course Eros could - Hermaphroditic Beings can.

Our Beginnings do come from Union. Not separation.

Anyway... :canadian:

[kittygrrl]

I learnt that Eros is a really complicated Greek Being. I learnt more about Love, Complete Love, not just carnal Love that I ever thought I would.

I learnt that I cannot always pick a Being to work with, nope this time Eros tapped me on the shoulder and said - Sit down I got a tale for you - So, if you are encountering a Primordial Being - sit down, hush, follow the lead, and figure it out.

Primordial – generally when we think of that word, most of us follow it with ooze. Well, I beg of you not to think of ooze when I mention Primordial.
The word "parthenogenesis" comes from the Greek parthenos, meaning "virgin", and genesis, meaning "birth".

Hesiod, Aristophanes and the Orphica are the oldest written references to Eros. It is difficult to find even glimpses of the Primordial Beings because written history came so long after our ancestors who told stories about them.

ristophanes, Birds 685 ff (trans. O'Neill) (Greek comedy C5th to 4th B.C.) :
"At the beginning there was only Khaos (Air), Nyx (Night), dark Erebos (Darkness), and deep Tartaros (Lower World) Firstly, black-winged Nyx (Night) laid a germless egg in the bosom of the infinite deeps of Erebos (Darkness), and from this, after the revolution of long ages, sprang the graceful Eros with his glittering golden wings, swift as the whirlwinds of the tempest. He mated [or fertilised] in deep Tartaros with dark Khaos (Air), winged like himself, and thus hatched forth our race, which was the first to see the light. That of the Immortals did not exist until Eros had brought together all the ingredients of the world… Thus our origin is very much older than that of the dwellers in Olympos. We are the offspring of Eros; there are a thousand proofs to show it. "

Now I want to stop and tell you that Eros was a two faced Being. Orphica, Argonautica 6TH Cen “ two-sexed, two-faced, glorious Eros”. Eros is portrayed as a beautiful golden-winged hermaphroditic deity wrapped in a serpent's coils. When we reconsider what Aristophanes said “He mated in deep Tartaros (the lower world) with dark Khaos (Air), winged like himself, and thus hatched forth our race”... Of course Eros could - Hermaphroditic Beings can.

Our Beginnings do come from Union. Not separation.

Anyway... :canadian:


I am assuming your understanding came first..but what makes it marvelous is that you could apply it to something tangible in your life..this happens to all of us but loving everything greek, this speaks to me..I'm going to have to read it a few times to digest it ..

[kittygrrl]

I was going to be a smartass and say 'not a damn thing' but then I realized I did learn something today.

I learned that Alberta, Canada is having a problem with rampant bunnies. Some will be trapped but the rest will be euthanized and that makes me sad. They're going to kill Thumper!

:bigcry:

Gemme I'm just don't get why evolved beings still believe its ok to kill another living thing, just because it's expedient..I keep hoping we are going to really get it (at some point):confused:

[Starbuck]

This is from personal use and interaction with marijuana.

I used to be so against any and all kinds of drugs when I was growing up, that's what I was taught. But when my PTSD flared up, I looked to pot to sooth my anger and depression. Come to find out, it works for me! It makes me very mellow and occasionally I'll laugh, but generally just very laid back. Because of this, I think marijuana should now be legalized in all 50 states, and not for just glaucoma either!

How do I suggest the government get their grubby little fingers in the pie? Farmers could grow it, subsidized by the government, sell it to smoke shops who then sell it highly taxed to the public. SURELY I'm not the only person in America to think of this!

One thing I have learned is that I'm awful truthful when I'm high on pot :p

[Soft*Silver]

I learned my dog wont eat raw carrots but will eat cooked ones

I learned I will eat both

I learned that when you measure a package to mail and give the measurements to the PO worker, they will measure it themselves and find its something different

I have learned you cannot spray paint outside very well in the winter

I have learned that the chances of a cat gacking on plastic is nill but 100% sure it will gack on your white antique couch

I have learned if I dont take my medicines I am worse than a woman PMSing on salt overload

I have learned to this day, my 27 year old dotter mimicks me, both good and bad

I have learned my mother really was so very mean to me when i was a child. So very very mean to me.

I have learned people dont get over childhood traumas. they more or less grow up around them and function the best they can once out of harm's way

I have learned that no matter how many times you play with the jack in the box, you will still jump when he pops out

I have learned not to make appts in my planner in ink

[kittygrrl]

This is from personal use and interaction with marijuana.

I used to be so against any and all kinds of drugs when I was growing up, that's what I was taught. But when my PTSD flared up, I looked to pot to sooth my anger and depression. Come to find out, it works for me! It makes me very mellow and occasionally I'll laugh, but generally just very laid back. Because of this, I think marijuana should now be legalized in all 50 states, and not for just glaucoma either!

How do I suggest the government get their grubby little fingers in the pie? Farmers could grow it, subsidized by the government, sell it to smoke shops who then sell it highly taxed to the public. SURELY I'm not the only person in America to think of this!

One thing I have learned is that I'm awful truthful when I'm high on pot :p


i don't think words could express how very deeply i agree with you..we live in a nutty world, there isnt much fair about it :readfineprint:

[kittygrrl]

all kinds of love (in this world) but you have to love yourself first otherwise you risk loving things that can't love you back (the way you deserve to be)

[kittygrrl]

when there is a disagreement, its better to just shut the f*** up and be thought a fool then to open your mouth and remove all doubt

[kittygrrl]

lying to yourself is the worse kind of lie

[macele]

Miss Tia, your dog may be allergic to raw carrots. i am lol ... seriously.
they make my ears itch LOL. crazy itching!

kitty, my momma always says, what's worse than doing wrong, ...
to know it's wrong and still do it. a little on the same line as lying to yourself.

i've learned that the space between the stars can be mine if i work hard enough to get there. and if i don't, i'll forget there's space to be had in a universe that holds more than one kind of heaven.

[kittygrrl]

what is a true friend? Plenty of people think they have tons of people who truly love them and will stand by them..if they do they are blessed..to me a true friend is someone who's knows you inside and out and still loves you no matter what..who will face death with you and count themselves lucky to have been a part of your life..i haven't been lucky like that yet, every "friend" i've ever had has in one way or another betrayed me (this maybe karma) but I digress. I let very few people in my life close to me, but if I consider you a friend, yes i will face death with you and if i have to give up mine to save yours..that's friendship (at least the only kind that counts)

[kittygrrl]

i've learned that the space between the stars can be mine if i work hard enough to get there. and if i don't, i'll forget there's space to be had in a universe that holds more than one kind of heaven.

I love this, it's an ultimate truth

[Soft*Silver]

I have learned that eating salted sunflower seeds makes my tongue mummified

[Honey]

I have learned that you really can't drive when someone is breathing in your ear.....................

[weatherboi]

wihl is that it doesn't matter how many times people are given the benefit of the doubt. they usually screw it up with the original nefarious intent. trust my gut!!!

[Glenn]

No matter what or how long...I've learned to never tell anyone where I keep my buried treasure:pirate-steer:.

[kannon]

I have learned that what I want isn't necessarily what I need.

I have learned that in order to receive anything (love, tolerance, patience, acceptance) I have to give it as well.

[Truly Scrumptious]

I've learned that it's a lot easier to ride the horse in the direction it's going.

[Inked_Trinity]

I learned that if you forget to put the water in the little instant noodle thingys...... They WILL burst into flames! :fireman:

[1QuirkyKiwi]

That some people have no taste buds!

[tazz]

not to get my hopes up high about anybody. i've been let down too many times that i care to even describe.

:vigil:

[UofMfan]

I have learned that I have the will to say no.

That it is healthy to take a break.

That I dislike being smothered and feel suffocated.

That I love myself too much to settle.

And that I never stop learning.

[msW8ing]

WIHL...no matter how old my kids get..no matter how successful they are in their jobs and lives they will always need/want my guidance and help. And no matter what I will always be there for them. A mothers/grandmothers unconditional love.

[Julien]

I've learned nothing is set in stone and changes do occur. We must learn to roll with it no matter how bumpy it gets.
I also learned I do have true friends for which I am very lucky.

[1ladyface]

I've learned that honoring my need for quiet alone time makes me a better human when I do interact with others.

[spritzerJ]

I am putting this out there in all honesty... I have learned I will make some dumb/impulsive/seemed like a very good idea at the time mistakes and I may just have to limit to which areas of my life I make them. Right now I am pondering if.... maybe just maybe I could limit them to errors in judgement to involving sex. With safer sex practices in mind, I maybe I can afford to be a bit loosey goosey. I'd rather make better choices financially, at work, with my parenting and health. Save the stupid shit for sex.

I am just saying...

[tazz]

when i put my mind to something... i do it. i have failed at many attempts in my life... however, when i dust myself off i take another look at things from a different perspective.

i have 3 goals for 2012, #1 is passing the exam to earn my personal training certificate. i am confident with my studies; i know i need to step it up; do some online testing; then some hands on practicals.

i Can and will do this!

[greeneyedgrrl]

i have learned that expectations are premeditated resentments.. and that when i can keep myself from getting wrapped up in them, i am MUCH muchier happier. :)

[greeneyedgrrl]

i have learned it's a really bad idea to look at clothes when i'm sposed to be shopping for shoes. :|

[apretty]

I just wished aloud for a shroud (out of some mock desire for a little privacy which I don't really need) and E, while building me a gorgeous bookcase asks, 'a Shroud of Turin?'

It's so sexy dating a lapsed Catholic! (I learned)

[greeneyedgrrl]

i have learned that expectations are premeditated resentments.. and that when i can keep myself from getting wrapped up in them, i am MUCH muchier happier. :)

...and i'm less likely to be disappointed. it's a win-win... now if i could just remember to do it.... :|

[Kenna]

What I learned (this week)....not to leave a box of mini cheesecakes in the house when mom is visiting....she knows they are loaded with a bunch of stuff that makes her very sick....but half the box is gone anyway. And I learned not to automatically think the car might be beyond fixing when it took less than $4.00 to solve.... I learned to be humble ... :

[Gemme]

What I learned (this week)....not to leave a box of mini cheesecakes in the house when mom is visiting....she knows they are loaded with a bunch of stuff that makes her very sick....but half the box is gone anyway. And I learned not to automatically think the car might be beyond fixing when it took less than $4.00 to solve.... I learned to be humble ... :

Those are my favorite kind of repairs....the ones I can easily afford.

Today, I learned that my kooky, goofy new coworker is more insightful than she appears.

[Passionaria]

As a culture we mark the New Year as a chance for new beginnings. We do this once a year, and it's important to see that opportunity and grasp it. But in reality we have that opportunity every day, every moment, and with each breath we take. The chance to recreate our lives, and make life more beautiful and true to ourselves. I had to get slapped really hard to get this one. Maybe, someday, I will be able to say thank you. For now, breathe and recreate is the best I can do........

Ojos de Brujo (http://www.youtube.com/artist/Ojos_De_Brujo?feature=watch_video_title) feat Bebe- Nueva Vida


aaKAYGxHaVM

Nueva vida, rayos de luz por mi ventana brisa de otro dia, tengo una caricia...como angelito de la guardia de la cada esquina no imagine que algo tan bello y tan autentico iba a pasar me desperte oliendo a menta sobre arena mojada y sal, run run que alegra mi canto y una vida que viene y otra se va...mira la dulce que acuna con calma, oye susurra cuentos sin fantasmas...
Quien me iba a decir que un amor tan profundo me iba ami a latir en lo mas hondo de mi corazon... este misterio y el perfume y amanecer es nuevo..
Viene y va pero este amor que siento por dentro siempre permanecera..viene y va.. aunque se paren los cuatro vientos que se dejen llevar, aunque este mundo se vuelva loco...te quiero..viene y va...
uuuu de tu mano huelo la felicidad, devoros de instantes sin pensar cancion de amor que llenan mi habitacion repleta...de porque no y sensaciones nuevas....
Viene y va pero este amor que siento por dentro siempre permanecera, aunque se paren los cuatro vientos..viene y va, aunque este mundo se vuelva loco...viene y vaa..viene y vaa...aunque se paren los cuatro vientos......viene y va.....
Nueva vida rayos de luz por mi ventana brisa de otro dia, tengo una caricia como angelito de la guardia de la cada esquina run run que alegra mi canto y una vida que viene y otra se va...viene y va ,pero este amor que siento por dentro siempre permanecera,viene y va aunque se paren los cuatro vientos,viene y va....aunque este mundo se vuelva loco..te quiero...viene y va.....

[scootebaby]

things i have learned....

you cant ignore that little voice

you cant compromise who you are.

that i need to widen my circle of friends

that i am better off than a lot of other people--meaning i am lucky to have food,shelter,and people who love and care about me.

some things/people just cant change no matter how hard you try or will them to.

[Jett]

To move to the beat of my own heart, to be as forgiving of myself as I would for another, that unlearning is as important as learning...

[princessbelle]

To take chances. That was a real hard one for me to do.

Also who to listen to.....listen to your heart and feel with your brain. Not the opposite. If your brain is saying naw, while your heart is saying yeah, don't go there. Or reversed, if your brain is saying, yeah it fits but the heart is saying no: Don't go there. They have to be agreeable and in agreement and talking to each other. Not a 50/50 thing either. A 110%/110% thing.

Oh and i learned how to balance on one foot and hold my other foot up to tie my shoe. I may start leaning over a little, by the end of the "tieing", but i can now make it to the final bow.

I've always wanted to learn that.

[BoiJen]

I've learned that my son is the one person I share the most with emotionally, and his memory, on things even I forget, is excellent. He has
taught me to believe in "magic", especially the kind I tell him of, when my belief in it was not there at first.
I've also learned that people who push you away are the ones who need you the most, but they won't tell you until they hit a breaking point.
One last thing I learned is that people who say they will never leave, always do, and if they say they will be there, never are.... Until proven.

[spritzerJ]

I've learned that my son is the one person I share the most with emotionally, and his memory, on things even I forget, is excellent. He has
taught me to believe in "magic", especially the kind I tell him of, when my belief in it was not there at first.
I've also learned that people who push you away are the ones who need you the most, but they won't tell you until they hit a breaking point.
One last thing I learned is that people who say they will never leave, always do, and if they say they will be there, never are.... Until proven.

I understand the emotional connection with your kiddo, it is amazing. As is there memory for what we forget. OMG, I never imagined how much brain power I've lost over the years but she reminds me daily. :seeingstars:

[Julien]

I've learned that I can withstand the difficult times in my life if I give myself a chance to experience the events without struggle or negativity.

[Sassy]

I've learned I just might not be ready to let go of those dreams I had when I was 20-something.

[msW8ing]

i have learned that sometimes..through no fault of either party..relationships just don't work out..there isn't always hatred or blame or cheating or lieing or mud slinging..sometimes it just doesn't work. And everyone who comes into our lives for no matter the length of time or reason why..have a purpose..have something to teach us if we are just willing to learn.

[spritzerJ]

i have learned that sometimes..through no fault of either party..relationships just don't work out..there isn't always hatred or blame or cheating or lieing or mud slinging..sometimes it just doesn't work. And everyone who comes into our lives for no matter the length of time or reason why..have a purpose..have something to teach us if we are just willing to learn.

Oh so learned that one this week. I really wanted to make 'em suffer but I was lucky that my sister reminded me to let go and let go fast so there was room for a peaceful resolution. Because it was what we really needed a peaceful resolution. And peace is being found.

[1ladyface]

I've learned (or am trying to learn) to be patient with my body. Recovering from this cold takes time, getting more flexible takes time, getting stronger takes time.

I was talking with a friend today about how I overdid it this weekend and exercised too much and re-aggravated that pesky cough I developed over Christmas. He's in a similar place so we each came up with a mantra to remind ourselves to slow down this week. Mine was initially "my body is still healing" but then I realized that made me angry and impatient so I changed it to "my magical body is healing itself" which feels good.

(though slow) :waitinggirl:

[kittygrrl]

true kindness is perhaps greater than love

[genghisfawn]

Some things are impossible.

[mariamma]

Patience is a virtue and I am not a virtuous woman.

[Glenn]

The most attractive packages contain the most artificial ingredients

[Ginger]

I've learned that things really do seem better in the morning—when my energy is at its best, and the sun is shining.

[girl_dee]

How wonderful life is when it is really happening, the challenges and learning is part of the big ole wonderful picture of reality. Talking about the hard stuff and being safe to do so without becoming the bad guy is an amazing thing.

That i am worthy of a nice home, safe place to live (Thank you Syr!) where i have freedoms, without landlords telling me what to do or not to do.

that sugar coating the truth is not a good idea, that only comes to bite you in the butt. i'm also learning to recognize saccharin when i see it.

[Amber2010]

I have learned that I make my own happiness and not the people in my life.

[girl_dee]

i've learned that i can't fix/save others, they have to figure it out on their own

[scootebaby]

I have learned...

Everything happens for a reason

Karma does exist,she is just quiet sometimes

Never assume...regardless what it is

[Just_G]

When people tell you who they really are; listen. When they tell you what they are looking for and you are NOT it; walk away.

I have a tendancy to think people change. They don't. If that is who they say they are; I need to start listening and walk away.

I once had a woman tell me, "I am going to do nothing but hurt you." (emotionally) Apparently I took that as a challenge to try to prove to her that she wouldn't. How STUPID of me to do that! I let her hurt me....I gave her that power when I didn't walk away....when I didn't listen to her TELLING me what she was going to do.

Ancora mi imparno!! (I am still learning!)

[Just_G]

i've learned that i can't fix/save others, they have to figure it out on their own

Amen to that!! :clap:

[Just_G]

i have learned that sometimes..through no fault of either party..relationships just don't work out..there isn't always hatred or blame or cheating or lieing or mud slinging..sometimes it just doesn't work. And everyone who comes into our lives for no matter the length of time or reason why..have a purpose..have something to teach us if we are just willing to learn.

This is so absolutely true!! They are there for a reason, season, or a lifetime!

[girl_dee]

>snip<

I have a tendancy to think people change. They don't. </snip>

Amen to THIS.

[Just_G]

Amen to THIS.

And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?

(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)

[girl_dee]

And I didn't mean that in a bad way....I have simply found that when people say they are "X", then they are always going to be "X"....they might change their ways for a while, but they always end up going back to "X". Does that make sense?

(and this is just MY personal experience I am speaking of)



i knew exactly what you meant, and i agree and that is my experience too :)

[firegal]

Well it time for me to learn about me AGAIN.

rediscover thine self! I have been so self absorbed in things that just were putting me in a place of emptyness and pain.

So its not so much about what ive learned but looking forward to the process of me LEARNING!


Terry :fireman:

[Corkey]

I have learned when the time comes and I stop learning I will be ashes.

[Okiebug61]

I've learned that loving someone is not only something in the opened eyed present but in the blind future. Thankfully she loves the same way.

[kittygrrl]

I've learned, I don't miss coffee, a healthy smoothie gives me tons more energy..coffee is a drug:|

[Ginger]

Today I learned how satisfying it is to sleep, what a beautiful place sleep can be.

[kittygrrl]

... there is no such thing as forever..or should i amend that with forever can have very different contexts depending on who is using it..people will lie to you, and lie to themselves..make sure you are clear & honest if you decide to use that term in your relationships to avoid disappointment altogether don't use it at all (imo)here & now is where your focus should be, evaluate & make sure it's what you need not want you wish it to be

[girl_dee]

i've learned that you can become colder more jaded each time something hits you right in the face. Sometimes i wish i could learn never to let anything hurt me, ever again, then i could say i learned to shut off my hurt.

[Martina]

i've learned that people don't mean half the shit they say.

[scootebaby]

I have learned...


there has to be ugly in the world to help us appreciate the beauty more

some ppl need to try to run you down to make themselves look/feel better.

that people who really wanna know you will take the time to do so

i want to be a better person.

[girl_dee]

i've learned that life is just not all puffy clouds and rainbows. Those things are part of it, but living the reality of daily life, not a fantasy, is what i need in my life. i've learned i don't do well with not having a future laid out, goals, budgets, and a plan to meet those goals. i won't go through life coasting and not knowing, i need concrete plans and the action behind the plan. i've learned i need someone in my life who leads by example, not just empty words, i've learned i lose faith in people when they say one thing and do another, i've learned i need people in my life who make life happen for themselves, not let life happen to them. i have learned that i thrive with someone who gets all of this, wants to live a real life with me, and not play in a virtual bubble of playing house.

[~ocean]

i have learned always to trust my own instincts :))))

[bkisbutchenuff]

I have learned ... people do not present themsleves honestly - but as they want you to believe they are...
Also - I have learned that so many people are selfish and self centered...
I refuse to be that way or to give up hope!

[ruffryder]

Never make someone your priority, if you're only their option.

[Okiebug61]

I have learned that my patience is actually getting better as I get older. :-)

[girl_dee]

i am learning that i self impose stress and then don't handle it well :(

[Metro]

"Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide."

@thecoolhunter on Twitter

[sara-bera]

Take nothing for granted. Ever.

[MrSunshine]

Life really is short. It's over in the blink of an eye.

[MissItalianDiva]

If I threw all my problems in a pile with everyone else's I surely would be willing to take mine back

[sara-bera]

The expression, "you never really know what you have till it's gone," isn't really true. We always knew what we had. We just never expected it to leave.

[sylvie]

i have learned (just this week) -

- that they may be my parents, but they aren't positive influencs in my life, and they definitey do not like the positive changes i am making and the fact i am building strength and self-confidence.. But i'm growing okay with that, and determined to keep moving forward, because what matters is how the changes are making *me* feel..

- that i *can* be easy on myself - and for the first time in my life, today, made a decision that allowed me to feel like a load was lifted off my shoulders rather then obsess and be hard on myself for it and set myself unrealistic expectations that would set me up and *know & wait* for the downspiral to happen.. i was able to choose what was a priority to do, set some things aside, and get rid of the rest that was unnecessary to task myself with... Wow, now that is real progress for me..

- that the teenage girl is definitely playing her part in trying to turn her mother gray.. And if she succeeds, i'll accept every one of those gray hairs - as i'll have earned them with worry, pacing floors and sometimes frustration, but *still* believe that parenting is the best decision i've made in life.. While our days can be full of challenges lately - i'm blessed to be a mother of two teenagers, and having such morals and always parenting with such love...i DO love the beings they are becoming, (even if they don't see it themselves yet) Momma does..♥..& is proud.

[~ocean]

i learned along time ago .when to walk away ..this is me walking away ...>

[Okiebug61]

Sometimes you just want to go off!

Hey! If any of you are looking for any last-minute gift ideas for me, I have one. I'd like (Deleted by Mod), my boss, right here tonight. I want him brought from his happy holiday slumber over there on (Deleted by Mod) Lane with all the other rich people and I want him brought right here, with a big ribbon on his head, and I want to look him straight in the eye and I want to tell him what a cheap, lying, no-good, rotten, four-flushing, low-life, snake-licking, dirt-eating, inbred, overstuffed, ignorant, blood-sucking, dog-kissing, brainless, dickless, hopeless, heartless, (Deleted by Mod), bug-eyed, stiff-legged, spotty-lipped, worm-headed sack of monkey shit he is! Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the Tylenol?

[boobookitty]

what is a true friend? Plenty of people think they have tons of people who truly love them and will stand by them..if they do they are blessed..to me a true friend is someone who's knows you inside and out and still loves you no matter what..who will face death with you and count themselves lucky to have been a part of your life..i haven't been lucky like that yet, every "friend" i've ever had has in one way or another betrayed me (this maybe karma) but I digress. I let very few people in my life close to me, but if I consider you a friend, yes i will face death with you and if i have to give up mine to save yours..that's friendship (at least the only kind that counts)

I have learned that I have two "true" friends in my life, :hangloose:

... and that people who lack the maturity to have adult conversations are an endless source of amusement.

[sylvie]

i have learned:

- there will always be mean-spirited people, and the best way to respond to that is to kill them with kindness..
- that the outdoors, & enjoying nature is my prescription to a positive day!
- that being a gentle being, doesn't mean i lay down and take it.. i'm strong and independent, even if i walk in a gentle way on this planet , and THIS planet too, lol..
- that Daddy, ALWAYS has my back..

[Ginger]

I learn and forget and painfully relearn the same message over and over: I am no one's priority. But I am my own priority. I am the one who must put things in place to ensure I will be taken care of it in my later years. This doesn't have to be a bad thing or a sad thing. This can be an exciting and liberating thing. I have a lot of resources and choices at my fingertips, and I can make something beautiful out of it to look forward to.

I am looking for a financial planner to consult with. I am fantasizing about my long-term peace and happiness.

[Lady_Di]

Love is.

Love can never die.

Love is Eternal.

[NorCalStud]

Even if you know they will anyway? Give consent ever for troopers to search your vehicle. Your resistance to "the man's" pressure will be video taped and while your shit or money will be taken; your case in court will be dismissed or reduced. Police are currently breaking probable cause laws and regularly violating our fourth ammendment rights. Check out vipr units supposedly used by tsa who has been hired to find terrorists on our interstate hiways and oh yeah might as well do drug interdiction too. I leave you with this statistic...10 x's more often the troopers cars are pointed toward east traffic going west...why? That money is coming home and they want that shit. Vipr units or "icecream trucks" xraying us all the time. Every state but four or five has em.

[pajama]

I have learned that I can be my own worst enemy. My ass-umtions cost me 5 years. But now, I'm going to be me and not ass-u-me she is a certain way or has a certain preference. Maybe I was enough all along. *face palm*

[nycfem]

MODERATING

Hey there, Okie,
Your post was reported for giving a name and street (TMRI- too much real information). I've changed this below and will run on over and do so in your original post.
Sometimes when we want to "go off" to this extent it might be better to do so with a few close friends, instead of a public website.
Thanks,
Jennifer

Sometimes you just want to go off!

Hey! If any of you are looking for any last-minute gift ideas for me, I have one. I'd like ABC, my boss, right here tonight. I want him brought from his happy holiday slumber over there on ABC Lane with all the other rich people and I want him brought right here, with a big ribbon on his head, and I want to look him straight in the eye and I want to tell him what a cheap, lying, no-good, rotten, four-flushing, low-life, snake-licking, dirt-eating, inbred, overstuffed, ignorant, blood-sucking, dog-kissing, brainless, dickless, hopeless, heartless, fat-ass, bug-eyed, stiff-legged, spotty-lipped, worm-headed sack of monkey shit he is! Hallelujah! Holy shit! Where's the Tylenol?

[girl_dee]

that life is so precious and possibly short
that resentment is a waste of precious time
that everything happens for a reason, but sometimes i don't understand what the reason could possibly be.

[kittygrrl]

don't take a bite of fruitcake expecting it to taste different..fruitcake (by it's nature) isn't going to change although hopefully, (at some point) your taste for it will..

[girl_dee]

that i changed my mind, i do not believe that everything happens for a reason.

i've learned that only i can stop feeling so badly about things that i had no control over, reaching out does not help find answers, maybe because there is no answer


i've learned that carrying the heavy load for the actions of others is no way to live and that it is time to move on

i've learned to let myself be loved and to trust again

[girl_dee]

I learn and forget and painfully relearn the same message over and over: I am no one's priority. But I am my own priority. I am the one who must put things in place to ensure I will be taken care of it in my later years. This doesn't have to be a bad thing or a sad thing. This can be an exciting and liberating thing. I have a lot of resources and choices at my fingertips, and I can make something beautiful out of it to look forward to.

I am looking for a financial planner to consult with. I am fantasizing about my long-term peace and happiness.

Not being a priority is very hurtful indeed. i am so glad you are in control, because i've learned that sometimes you have to do what you have to do for YOU.

i learn that it feels better to read words of someone who has felt exactly as i have, that's pretty awesome

[femmsational]

I've learned that this is where everybody disappeared to.

LOL!!!

[kittygrrl]

the three greatest preachers in this world are:

i. Time
ii. Experience
iii. Consequences

[Jess]

don't take a bite of fruitcake expecting it to taste different..fruitcake (by it's nature) isn't going to change although hopefully, (at some point) your taste for it will..


I've learned also that not all fruitcakes are equal. They are not all the same. They may look alike, smell alike, even have the same apparent texture, but may be vastly different upon the lips.

Another good fruitcake lesson... is not to take the fruitcake when you really want creme brulee...

[~ocean]

LOl Jess very well said !! .. never settle :)

[Licious]

today, you know, just one of those days. so when I read the question, my first response was "apparently nothing" (sarcasm!)

but in truth, i keep learning every day WHO I AM. this turns out to be the main thing i needed to know all those years.

[femmsational]

I have learned, just today, that I really don't want him gone for 5 days every week for at least a year. I have also learned, throughout life, that I don't always get what I *want*.


And here I thought I was all independent and stuff. Not so much I guess when it comes to him. That sucks. LOL!!!

[~ocean]

I've accepted being friends.. and i try everyday to make that happen. i believe once freinds always friends. :) theres a song by musiqu soul child called half crazy . says it all :) i'll just go post it ~

[Cid]

I've learned a lot over the years, but one thing that surprised me is that I don't always respond to things the way I thought I would. So many times I've thought..if 'this' happens then 'that' is the way that I would react.

For instance, I thought if I ever got divorced or my husband were to leave me I'd end up in a corner crying my eyes out and being scared to death to face the world. Turns out that I'm doing just fine on my own and life is better than I ever thought it would be.

I've learned that sometimes it's best that the thing you really wanted to have happen, doesn't happen at all. But it usually takes a bit of time to figure that one out.

[sylvie]

i have learned..

that friends don't always have your best intentions at heart, and that as i grow on this journey of mine, i learn lessons more and more each day.. Seeing things at face value as they happen and seeing the fierce girl in me, who now protects herself and takes care of herself & those she loves..

Part of me, is so proud of the changes within , but the other part of me feels sadness, for having to see it differently now..

But mostly, i am very grateful for true friends, the ones who have your back & love you for all you are.. and who are truly tickled for your happiness, the changes you make in life and celebrate your successes along with you.. i do have some very kickass friends...<3

[OS Butch]

I have learned....
The hurrier I go, be behinder I get:seeingstars:

[Justin]

I have learned that nothing worth having is ever easy, do the hard work and all will be worth it !!!!

[Julien]

As a wise woman stated, we are all interconnected. It is a small world. :tiredcomputer:

[Amber2010]

I have learned that no matter how much you think you know someone you really never did. Until you can be in their head you just don't see the clear picture.

[kittygrrl]

I have learned that no matter how much you think you know someone you really never did. Until you can be in their head you just don't see the clear picture.

so true, you need both

[fever]

To appreciate our friends and family, and not wait to tell them how important they are in our lives. Also, and this is the biggest lesson for me, is to take care of our health before repairing damage is almost impossible.

I am grateful for every heartache and disappointment, because I now treasure every success and newfound joy.

:byebye:

[kittygrrl]

picking thru the cherries~of~ life is the pits!

[JAGG]

Just when you think you might know someone, they will prove you wrong.

[girl_dee]

That walking around this farm is like a slice of heaven and therapy all in one

That i thrive when i have lots to do

That as i visualize what i want to happen, it does.

That Syr is the reason that my life is so good.

[RockOn]

... I do not think I have a knack for growing flowers.

Thought I would try to do something different. Decided I would grow calla lilies to give to friends when they grew to pretty. I was so excited.

All twenty-something came up and are lushy green. Kelly Bully dog dug up, chewed a few bulbs to pieces and something came in the night - ate a couple more but still had plenty.

I do not know why they will not make at least one flower.
It has been 6 or 8 weeks I think ... or maybe five.

I had envisioned making people happy when I distributed them.

I continue watering, fertilizing - taking care of them.

I think I am a butch with silly dreams. Oh well, not the end of the world by any means.

I have learned not to attempt to grow any more flowers.

[JustJo]

Don't give up yet....callas take 3 or 4 months to bloom. They'll get there! :)


... I do not think I have a knack for growing flowers.

Thought I would try to do something different. Decided I would grow calla lilies to give to friends when they grew to pretty. I was so excited.

All twenty-something came up and are lushy green. Kelly Bully dog dug up, chewed a few bulbs to pieces and something came in the night - ate a couple more but still had plenty.

I do not know why they will not make at least one flower.
It has been 6 or 8 weeks I think ... or maybe five.

I had envisioned making people happy when I distributed them.

I continue watering, fertilizing - taking care of them.

I think I am a butch with silly dreams. Oh well, not the end of the world by any means.

I have learned not to attempt to grow any more flowers.

[chefhmboyrd]

as soon as you say that you are going to be celibate, :rollcat: comes flying at you from every direction.............

if it quacks like a duck, walks like a duck, and looks like a duck... She's a whore

as soon as you say you want to diet, a new flavor of ben and jerry's comes out
:seeingstars:

just when you think you have all the bills paid, something comes up:readfineprint:

as soon as you swear off blonde blue-eyed scorpio yankee women, one steals your heart................:fallenangel:

[MrSunshine]

There is a good reason why we don't begin life with the knowledge we gain along the way.

[Breezy]

Each day is special and best lived well rather than avoided.

I enjoy long hugs and lingering kisses.

Deep, intimate conversations are the best.

When I realized I had awakened spiritually I found I was avoiding conflict and negativity at all cost. I had to learn there is a big difference between those and the grief process and simply feeling. I thought I had to be above negative emotions. Who'dathunk it. lol. I am glad I figured it out.

I can feel my emotions and either let them over take me or I can process them and let it go.

"Good girls" DO get angry, they cry, they need, they deserve and they can desire. It was lie I was taught as a child that it was not okay.

I like who I am.

[kittygrrl]

it's the journey i treasure (most), the destination is empty w/o it

[Okiebug61]

I have learned that if anyone attempts to keep you from a hug, they need to rethink who they are as an individual. We all need to be touched and a hug is gate wood to peace.

[ruffryder]

It takes a mutual listening, understanding, and action in any relationship for it to work.

Broken hearts do heal.

The heart has its reasons that reason does not understand.

Do not always trust in and believe what others have to say about someone.

It's best to stay out of the gossip and drama at work.

If someone will talk to you about others, more than likely they will talk to others about you.

[RockOn]

JustJo, I appreciate your encouraging words. Thank you.

I think I was a little down after work yesterday when I went out and examined those no-bloom callas and decided I had failed.

Bet you are right and I will get lots of calla blooms to share around town by late summer. They are taking longer than I expected is all.

:)

[BoiJen]

Time heals and we may remember how we got those scars, but in the end, someone with a conscience feels it at some point.
I have had 2 people who hurt me come back into my life knowing i would accept them back because i hold no hate, and eventually it comes full circle. Cautiously I walk.

[Metro]

My late Mother taught me the valuable life lesson when I was no more than 7 or 8 years old...

While at the hearing aid service (to fit my eldest brother with hearing aids) I was given a set of ear phones to wear that dampened sound -- closely replicating what hearing loss was like for my brother.

To this day I recall that experience to remind myself that unless I am in another person's shoes I have no clue what they may be going through at any given moment.

[Julien]

The difference between and obi knot, a lark's head and a running loop. I knew how to make them just didn't know their names. :thinking:

[ruffryder]

Learning to choose my battles.

[Greco]

Have learned that sometimes one doesn't get a second chance

so I love like share with family friends now.

Greco

[StrongButch]

That you should only play with 1 boat at a time in the bathtub (lol)

[Blaze]

That everyday is always a challenge. Today is pretty good, last 2 days seizures have gotten the best of memories. Even medicine are not a sure thing...
If you get anything from this post, remember that being able to remember 2 days ago is a fantastic thing. Cause I don't....
But it's ok, cause not everything is worth remembering...

[Jesse]

I've learned that my truck is broken and the codes it is throwing means it could be one of several things bad...anything from the MAF sensor, to the fuel pump (in tank), to the fuel injectors, none of which is cheap to replace. :eek:

[~ocean]

ive learned sensors and cars dont go to well together

[Glenn]

I've learned to get a VW Rabbit Diesel. !978-84. Parts are still plentiful and cheaper than other foreign cars, no computer codes, mechanical fuelpump, igntion, etc. Can run off grid 45 -55+ mi per gal., and diesel is easier to store than regular gasoline.

[Blaze]

Iv'e also learned that trying really hard to recall what you thought you knew by repeating it... Doesn't work very well when you walk to another room. I had to walk back to recheck 4 times then finally gave up.
I forgot my tea that I wanted ... How many hours ago? *Tsk*
I think I need more posties! Now... What kind of car doesn't need Sensors?

[Jesse]

If the sensors were worth a damn in the first place, they would "sense" that I need to have my truck running! :brainsucker:

[Breezy]

Open my eyes , my ears and keep my heart open no matter what.

I was oblivious too long.

I am no longer oblivious.

Someone, a stranger, flirted with me today. I actually blushed and couldn't find words. lol. My daughter teased me about it. I can still feel. :)

It is so nice to experience less negativity. I had no idea how much there was until we split.

[morningstar55]

i have learned over the years , how some people treat there animals , abuse /neglect and more........ but today after seeing this poor horse that was rescued with a basket size gapping hole in its neck..you could see thru the other side!!!
i cant believe it was stil alive..walking around and such.. but so so under stress, just brought me to tears.
i think ....... people should have a license to own any kind of pet, and should have a back ground check.

[Ginger]

You know when you're getting your eyes checked and the optometrist switches the lenses back and forth and over and again, and your view of the letter chart snaps from fuzzy to crisp to fuzzy to crisp and so on?

I've learned that when I'm depressed or in a bad place emotionally, I constantly make the wrong call. That one! I'll say to the optometrist, when it should be, Let me see the other one again.

I've learned everyone does this and being aware of doing it makes it suddenly stop.

[Breezy]

The world surrounding me is a mirror of myself. It doesn't matter if it is good or bad, it is still a mirror of what is going on inside of me.

I can change anything about me anytime I desire.

Why go backwards through life when forward is so much better and brighter.

Progress happens as quickly or slowly as I decide.

When the voice in my mind tells me I can't do "it", the voice is lying.

[sara-bera]

I've learned that I still have so much more to learn.

[RockOn]

... to trust my gut instinct.

Also, if a person's words and actions do not match up, forget the words. Words can be cheap. The actions "speak" the truth.

[Ginger]

What have I learned? Clearly not enough.

[laruss]

Not to argue with crazy. Just back away slowly and talk to someone else who is sane.

[Ginger]

That music lifts me up, and gives me a way into feelings.

[Breezy]

I am going to spend less time here and more time in my community.

[Ginger]

Community isn't something I discover and dip into it; it's something I build, and dismantle, and rebuild, and tweak.

[Mrs Arcstriker]

I have learned that if I ever want to get Arcstriker out of cop-mode all I have to do is to put on my Latvian hair-drying bonnet...the one with the chin strap...

*Note to self...we really, REALLY need to stay home long enough to get some new towels...*

[Scuba]

Apparently not enough yet...

[The JD]

I learned yesterday that black widows move really FAST. Now I need to learn how to discourage her from inviting all her friends and holding the Spider Olympics in my back yard.

[LeftWriteFemme]

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[rockstar lover]

Trust your instincts.

If it's too good to be true...it probably is.

[kittygrrl]

never to say never:blink:

[RockOn]

I have learned ...

there are times when it is smarter not to inquire about something glaringly noticible.

[girl_dee]

I've learned that some people are not what they claim to be, and others surprise you with being more than you ever imagined. Hey it's 11:11

[Canela]

I've learned...

~I am pretty damned crazy when I am hurt, broken or just plain angry. I thought I was past (read better than) that...

~I have the capacity to love again...who knew? I thought that wasn't possible anymore. Huh.

~I am not the best person in the world. I am human, and when cut, I too bleed.

~I am very sorry that I am all of the above and I hope the party(ies) involved will one day forgive me for being insane a little bit for a little while.

~I am stronger every day.

~I can and will heal. I will survive and one day love again.

~Miracles do happen.

[kittygrrl]

there is always a little nightmare in every fairytale

[Elishat]

Being given trust, and giving back acceptance, is pretty awesome.

[lusciouskiwi]

Sometimes I feel I haven't learnt nearly enough.

[Tres]

I've learned that no matter how much I think the problem is someone else's - I need to look at my own side of the street and really that is the only side I can sweep...

[Greco]

it's alright to let the walls down

Greco

[MissItalianDiva]

I am just not the tie me down type...in more ways than one. Relationships do not suit me well and I love my freedom and space to do as I please.

Also learned I find it incredibly sexy to finally have met someone who is secure enough in who they are and their sexiness to not feel the desire to push the "label" envelope...letting it flow is a BEAUTIFUL thing.

[Bèsame*]

Learning..nervousness can be new and flustering.Your breathing increases..mmmmm

[Prudence]

That everyone has an agenda.....

[Breezy]

To stop hiding.

[MissItalianDiva]

I have learned that sometimes we put too much energy and space into things that really just are not worth the effort.

[cinnamongrrl]

I have learned.....

no matter what you do you can't make everyone happy....

no matter how far you go, you can't escape the past.....

despite your greatest efforts you can't always right a wrong....

letting go is sometimes all you can do...........

:bunchflowers:

[spritzerJ]

I've learned I am demanding and for good reason.

[WingsOnFire]

conversations via text are not something I should have when the subject makes me frustrated. I fully admit this form of communication does not work well for me. But I have yet to learn that lesson fully yet.

Must learn to stop before I get frustrated.

[Sun]

I have learned that loving means letting go of any attachment to any agenda, that saying that I will love someone as they are means that I love all aspects of them, and that even though it did not work out, love remains.

I have learned that I really do, wish her happiness, I wish her peace.

I have learned that beautiful memories are priceless. I have learned that endings do not have to be negative, sometimes they just mean that a new beginning is on the road ahead, and that the lessons learned along the way, are all a part of loving someone.

I have learned to be grateful for all of the gifts that each new chapter in my life has brought to me.

I have learned...and I have learned.

[Trev]

Inquiring minds want to know, and I like giving the information.

[sylvie]

i have learned that while i do not agree with the choices my 16 year old daughter has made, i 'can' make my own choices that will reflect on a healthier mindset in terms of the choices she has made.
i have also learned that it's important to me to keep her close, so that she keeps in touch with me and so i know she is safe. That arguing with her only brings stress on her and myself, and that i will do my very best to help her make positive choices when given the chance.

What is important to me, right now, is that she makes safe choices, and that if she should choose to find her way to go back to school, to come back home, and to her loving family that worry sick about her, We're here..

But the phone calls to check in each night and say she's okay and loves me, means too much for me to push her away.. i believe she needs me more than ever to be in her corner.. And while i 'can' be that, i will not allow her to steal, be disrespectful, or break rules.

i have learned, its okay to respect myself, to have feelings & believe one day she will understand that i love the hell out of her, and this isn't easy on me..but i also recognize this isn't easy on her.. She'll come to me.. in the meantime, i worry every day, i always want to hear from her, and i'll always hope for her finding her way, to happiness, success & safety..

[ValentineTomboy]

I've learned that life is short and you should never take anyone or anything for granted. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Take chances and dont be afraid to go out of your comfort zone. And if you love someone make sure you tell them because there will come a time when you wont be able to anymore and regret is a terrible thing.

[DJ Bear]

Not to over analyze my life, just live it. Live my life as the person I know in my heart I am. Live and love every day as if it were my last.

[cinnamongrrl]

I've learned to....

never try to parallel park in a car that is not yours...

Refill the liquid soap BEFORE you clean the bathroom....

Always get gas before you go to CT....

[Breezy]

I have learned:

age difference is unimportant in love.

he waited almost 12 years for me to come to my senses.

truly only love exists.

I have truly great love in my life with him and so does he.

I love him more than words can ever express and he feels the same way.

my teen daughter will ask the most embarrassing questions possible, and loudly, in public.

I cannot repair my daughter's heartbreak as a result of breaking up with her girlfriend and I really want to do more than just be there. I want to fix it.

Whoa, instantaneous lesson, ain't my place to fix it for her.

[CA_BabyCakes]

I have learned that only I can make myself truly happy.

I have learned to disregard some opinions and absorb the ones i want to hear.

I have learned to never let a person in my past direct the feelings i have towards anyone I choose to be in my future.

I have learned that gut instinct is always right.

I have learned that some people do not deserve the benefit of the doubt.

[WingsOnFire]

I have learned that life is still very much alive at 44. Infact, it can be the most exciting time of my life. I am looking forward to creating a life together with Sir and my pups in our new home.

I am so excited about the prospects of decorating it together.

[Bad_boi]

Sometimes the hardest person to forgive is yourself.

[kittygrrl]

I've learned some things never change

[kittygrrl]

When I rilly want a chocolate chip cookie, there is no point to telling myself I should have a pickle instead

[Glenn]

I have learned that Primal Therapy is beneficial for expressing and releasing emotional frustrations, rather than repressing them, and doing or saying certain things to people you may later regret. For example: Since I live alone in a wooded area with alot of animals, I growl, bark, groan, snort, hiss, hoot, whisle, screech, squeak, cluck, click, coo, caw, crawl, walk on all fours, etc. Tonight, it was very windy, and I put on an overcoat with long sleeves, and ran around in the woods flapping my arms like a bird, making bird sounds. I had alot on my mind, but before long, I started laughing at myself, and the way my cats were watching, and it felt great. I do this therapy mainly at night, before dawn, or when no one's around lol.

[Tuff Stuff]

I've learned not to be judgmental about people.You know,shoot first :fastdraq: and ask questions later.I treat everyone with the same respect i'm given but my kindness is NOT my weakness as some so unfortunately find out.As i have grown older and 'evolved' i finally got it that my mouth can be my worse enemy and that if i can keep it shut for the first 5 minutes in any conversation then more the better.I'm talking about relating better with people and it has helped me tremendously not only in my personal life but in the workforce.I still talk a mile a minute(i mean talk not type) the only difference these days is that i'm also listening.

[Artzy76]

I have learned that the the hokey pokey was a fun game as a child that was teaching us something much more profound that we realized...
As an adult I must say I have learned to ...
SHAKE IT OUT...
Do the Hokey pokey and turn your self around .. and THAT'S WHAT ITS ALL ABOUT....

At any moment in your life you get to reflect and get the choice to change things around be it positive or negative it is a choice!

Am doing the hokey pokey these days... turning things around... and I get to have fun while embracing these changes! YAY!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfPg_GzC-HA

[Ginger]

I've learned, or admitted recently, that I'm a terrible judge of character.

[kittygrrl]

I've learned, I'm not perfect and it's ok

[MysticOceansFL]

I've learned, I'm not perfect and it's ok




I've learned many things through the years, No one is perfect and that's ok, and that you have to look with both eyes opened and not with your eyes covered while peeking through the cracks of your fingers.

[Bad_boi]

People on the "good" side of things are still capable of being full of bitterness, ignorance and hate.

Extremists exist on both sides of every issue.

If anything Bigotry is the true enemy. Ignorance can be fought with education and kindness. Fighting fire with fire just makes things worse.

[SirenManda]

I've learned professionally everyone isn't what they seem. The same people who have a stern face and put on that mask of no emotions also have deep feelings and can be easily connected with if you try hard enough.

Also learned people aren't meant to live forever, and those who pass teach us something we wouldn't have learned without their absence. Losing my father to cancer was the most monumental change in my life, but I wouldn't be where I am if it didn't change me.

[stormprincess]

I have learned patience with people I used to have a low tolerance for.
I have learned tolerance for myself.
i have learned to take care of me, and stop sacrificing my needs to make everyone else happy.
i have learned that family isnt always blood related..

[JDeere]

I have learned that.... I need to have more patience
I have learned that.... I need to take care of myself, for a change
I have learned that... I can manage my own money

[starryeyes]

Live in the moment
The past is gone and the future is not here
Don't have expectations
The only thing I can depend on are my dogs and,
In the end, It's only me, myself and I.

[stormprincess]

I have learned that zebra stripes maybe not be a zebra
I have learned that you should learn before you trust.

[stormprincess]

I have learned who my friends are this few weeks.
I have learned how to let go of what is negative to my soul.

[stormprincess]

I've learned, or admitted recently, that I'm a terrible judge of character.

Sometimes its not you who is a bad judge of character, more that it is those who hide in sheeps clothing ...

[Kenna]

This can be anything...that's changed your mind, your routine, your ethics,..everything here is worthy of listening to, so don't be shy :readrules: Thanks

Thank you kittygrrl.
Under "Life, Thinking Harder, What have I learned"....

After reading a really good book to help me with my Advocacy work ...Learning, understanding and becoming aware of the following information has helped me change my routine, empowered me in several ways and enhanced my "red flag radar" ....
(I'm sorry for the photo of the guy, I couldn't find another image that worked)
http://breakups.org/images/narcissist-fake.gif

[cinnamongrrl]

I've learned that things (and people) aren't always what they seem...

Words are just words until they're backed up with action

Your time is often the greatest gift you can ever give

[Blade]

I've learned that friendship is precious, and you can't share it with just anyone.

I've learned that it's easy for me to give respect, and just as easy for me to take it back

I've learned that helping others as I was taught to do from childhood, is most rewarding, even more rewarding is I was taught to give without expecting or asking for anything in return

I've learned that if you don't ever expect anything out of someone, they will never disappoint you.

I've learned that there are many things in life that make me happy. Most are the very most simple things in life.

[firegal]

Reminded about life..... My mother and her dementia ... She would NEVER increase her abilities... Now 10 yrs later fresh diagnosis ..... We need to not try correct him'

[firegal]

Ten yes later my father has dementia issues!

[firegal]

I,m trying to keep up with the changes

[Blade]

I've learned that Geese nor Owls can fly when they are molting. They are very venerable during this time

I've learned you can make some really nice things out of junk, and people will buy it

I've learned that it doesn't matter how many glasses you wash, when you let the water out of the sink, suddenly you'll find another glass

[SleepyButch]

I've learned that objects in the mirror may not be closer than you think.

Something to ponder isn't it?

[Kenna]

I have learned that knowledge and confidence in myself has given my heart and soul much peace.

I have learned... I am not afraid to face difficult situations head on, because my other mom, Momma D, taught me how and encouraged me to "stop being mousy"

I have learned my value and the value of those I consider important to me.

I have learned I have nothing to be ashamed of, even bad decisions that lead me to reanalyze how I move forward and whom I allow in my circle of close family and friends.

I have learned (thru previous experience with my bio mom who has serious dependency issues) not to be codependent or to sacrifice my health and goals to take care of energy draining people.

I have learned...I have every right to stand proud of who I am and my dignity.

[Blade]

I've learned in the past 2 years I have rekindled a new love for the beach.
I've learned there is just as much nature to enjoy as there is in the mountains. You just have to look for it differently.
Ive learned that navigating around these islands can be tricky sometime.
I've learned that when there is a traffic issue you are just stuck cuz there is only one road in and out

[Kenna]

I have learned some very valuable information from an obituary, family tree website, and military records.

I have learned how to enjoy a beautiful day and to let go of ugly feelings.

I have learned a new confidence in my decisions to stand up for myself.

I have learned how intensely healing it is to "give my troubles to the land and water, and I will receive peace in return".

I have learned that it's time to write three separate messages in bottles, and set them free to find their new owners.

[JDeere]

That people aren't always who they appear to be

Not to be afraid of anything, anymore

[kittygrrl]

I've learned that the first answer you get is usually the best one.

[A. Spectre]

I've learned that the first answer you get is usually the best one.

...especially if that's the answer you wanted to hear. :jester:

[kittygrrl]

http://lrd.buffalohair-jage.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/150245_491473977562948_930226875_n.jpg

[homoe]

To always trust your gut instincts, they seldom stir you wrong:doh:

[CherryWine]

I've learned that things are seldom ever as bad as I think they will be...yet I still manage to worry. :worried:

[MysticOceansFL]

What I've learned:
Never take friendship for granted and don't say or do anything hateful during the times of being angry because your words and actions you can never take back but your actions in a positive way can move anyone forward. Always treasure friends and family and pets because to me all those things enhances humanity to be better as loving generation and that's what we all need. And I'm grateful for the friends I have because it might have appeared I was angry or pushing people away but those you know me some at least give me a chance and I'm grateful for that. So wishing everyone happy holidays!

[Rockinonahigh]

What I have learned is that money can't buy happiness,but it sure greases the wheels of life so it can roll smoothly.

[Vivacious1]

I have learned that true friends are few and far between, cherish them. I have also learned that love is rare...
I have learned that zebras don't change there stripes. If I've been there done that, the next time the situation comes around, don't do it again, cause the results are the same.

[~ocean]

~~ don't react without knowing ~~

[Daniela]

I've learned to never say never. You never know what will happen.

[kittygrrl]

http://holdinholden.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/blog418.jpg it's true

[FemmeBibliophile]

I have learned that just because things don't happen in the time frame that we ourselves set... doesn't mean it's not meant to happen. Sometimes it just takes a little time!

[Daktari]

I cannot control people, places or things. [unless consensually of course :groucho:]

If I continue to choose to do the next right thing then right things happen for me.

The world is a mirror and whatever I put out to it in thought, word and action, gets reflected back to me.

That the common denominator in any of the troubles in my life is me.
My experience has shown that once I stop creating my own chaos there are no dramas and I don't attract folks who bring their own dramas.

The universe is bountiful when I choose to see it.

That love is consistent action not a bunch of flowers or fancy words.

"The greatest thing you'll ever learn, is to just to love and be loved in return"[Nature Boy by eden ahbez <<< this dude insisted on his name being written in lower case according to wiki]

[Humanesque]

Love the simple things in life. They're what really mean the most.

[*Anya*]

By Marcus Hondro yesterday in Environment

The US Fish and Wildlife Service issued a press release on Monday that details a tragedy many are unaware of: the monarch butterfly has been nearly wiped out. A major reason this is happening? A product from Monsanto called Roundup.

Roundup destroying milkweed

First marketed in 1973, Roundup eradicates weeds and allows commercial crops to grow unmolested. The main ingredient is Glyphosate, and despite widespread use all over the world, its effect upon humans, other animals and the environment is still debated. Crops are genetically modified by Monsanto to become Roundup Ready; modified, they can survive Roundup — weeds cannot.
Roundup is used heavily by agricultural producers, homeowners and governments. Due to such heavy use, Monsanto's Roundup is eradicating milkweed. The vast destruction of milkweed creates a problem for the monarch butterfly, because milkweed is its main food source.

The U.S. Fish and Wildlife press release said there once were as many as one billion monarchs in the U.S. but that number has dwindled by 90 percent. No milkweed, no monarch.

Andrew Kimbrell, executive director for the Center for Food Safety, finds the situation "shameful." "This report is a wake-up call," Kimbrell said.

"This iconic species is on the verge of extinction because of Monsanto's Roundup Ready crop system. To let the monarch butterfly die out in order to allow Monsanto to sell its signature herbicide for a few more years is simply shameful.”

Fight to save Monarch butterfly

The press release from the Wildlife Service indicates they are not going to allow the monarch to become extinct. The Service is partnering with the National Wildlife Federation in a new funding initiative and in launching a Monarch Butterfly Conservation Fund.

A website has been created for the public to learn about the plight of the monarch and how they can help.

The Service is immediately providing $2 million in funding and intends to get groups and individuals to help with planting native milkweed and nectar plants, again giving monarchs a food source in areas they have dwindled in or disappeared from. Land has been targeted on which to again grow the plants the monarch butterfly needs.

The president and CEO of the National Wildlife Federation, Collin O'Mara, said that if individuals, groups and state and federal governments get behind the initiative to restore the monarch butterfly he believes they will "ensure that every American child has a chance to experience amazing monarchs in their backyards."

“By taking action today and addressing the growing threats that are affecting so much of America’s treasured wildlife - habitat loss, pesticide overuse and climate change - we will preserve monarchs and America’s rich wildlife legacy," O'Mara said.


http://www.digitaljournal.com/news/environment/monarch-butterfly-endangered-monsanto-product-zaps-900-million/article/426115

http://www.fws.gov/savethemonarch/


http://www.digitaljournal.com/news/environment/monarch-butterfly-endangered-monsanto-product-zaps-900-million/article/426115#ixzz3RunOKVWl

[kittygrrl]

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[JDeere]

I have learned that I can do more then I once thought I could

I have learned to have a bit more patience with people and situations

I have learned that naps are good to take

[Blade]

I have leared to keep my happy arse at home during inclement weather.
I've learned I don't have anything to prove to anyone.

[kittygrrl]

http://cdn3.gurl.com/wp-content/gallery/cheating-quotes/cheating7.jpg

[kittygrrl]

If another woman steals your butch, there's no better revenge then to let her keep him/her

[C0LLETTE]

Mosquitoes probably kill more people than people do.

If you don't have clean water, nothing else matters much.

[kittygrrl]

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/bb/e2/62/bbe2625e3cee98459cd0ebc119d691a4.jpg

[kittygrrl]

If you spend too long holding onto the one who treats you like an option, you'll miss finding the one who will make a priority

[kittygrrl]

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/ab/9b/bb/ab9bbbb20873d3646ea1ded142b04258.jpg

[JDeere]

I don't have much patience for people who wake me up in the morning, I DON'T DO MORNINGS anymore!

[LilyCat]

That I am enough

[kittygrrl]

http://www.yourlifeyourway.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/jpg

[JDeere]

Paying attention can really pay off in the long run.

[Tierney]

That sometimes, just sometimes I actually do hit the nail right on the head. (and even miss my thumb) ;)

[Tierney]

That sometimes it is ok to give up. To stop trying. For your own well being.

[Blade]

No matter how good you are to people in their time of need, doesn't mean they will remember your kindness in your time of need.

[kittygrrl]

never ever think there is only an end, without a new beginning blossoming

[JDeere]

Resistance is truly futile!!!!

[Humanesque]

I can handle being in the kitchen and getting my chef groove on with 10
Women in here at the same time. Just keep the beverages coming.

[Venus007]

I am ultimately only responsible for my own thoughts, deeds and actions

[Orema]

When I get back up after falling down, I'm a little smarter, a little more resilient, and grateful for the opportunity.

[Tierney]

That Life does not come with instructions nor a manual to go by. I have also learned that sometimes I wish I had that ability to flip a switch and just not care - but then - I would never feel what I am meant to feel.


*squints and shakes the Magic 8 ball again*

[kittygrrl]

When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them!

This will happen many times in your life. Don't think they will want to change, they won't. I've learned the only person you can change is yourself.

[C0LLETTE]

When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them!

This will happen many times in your life. Don't think they will want to change, they won't. I've learned the only person you can change is yourself.

I've learned that kittygrrl is right.

[Tierney]

Eating watermelon seeds does not make a watermelon grow in your belly.

Brown cows do not give chocolate milk.

Grandpa could not really piss up a rope.

If I cursed lightning really did not strike me down.



ps. I miss you Gram.

[kittygrrl]

Sex takes the least amount of time, and causes the most amount of trouble

[kittygrrl]

https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQkXh1elpJ2b5DeLAWy-g2IFk3H7vfs3JYzXpe0WjovvYyQzY3FBg

[kittygrrl]

https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcR3xsDLeGIzlVaoMYY8coV3FCZVtoYjd FEHEMIm7xNKBpy1yS4i7A

[Vivacious1]

Love is not enough
True friends are rare
I am enough, just the way I am
First impressions aren't always what they appear to be
No one controls me, but me
Jealousy truly is evil
Anger and resentment only hurt me
Life is short
Your health is not guaranteed
Looks are not everything
Money is not everything
The only opinion of me that truly matters, is mine
I am strong all by myself
There is nothing wrong with being a strong independent woman
That broken hearts do heal, eventually
That a broken heart doesn't mean a broken person
That what someone says isn't always what they mean
Revenge is pointless