Prayer And Support For EthanGaBoy

[OldSchoolButch]

Ethan was rushed too the hospital early this morning and has Diabetic ketoacidosis, He is in a bad way and his partner and love his life Deb0670 really needs support right now.
As I said before Deb Iam here and I will rally up our world too carry you threw this . You are in NO WAY alone my friend !

Always Your Friend .... OSB :rrose:

[durrrrrrrr]

my thoughts and prayers with ya Ethan and Deb0670. as well as family, and friends

[The_Lady_Snow]

Deb and Ethan we will be keeping you both in our thoughts!

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[deb0670]

* wipes away tears as I force myself to smile* thank You so much Jay. Truly appreciate this and You. You are an awesome Friend

[deb0670]

He also has some sort of infection but dunno what it where they had to put him on a cooling blanket to try to lower his 104.9 fever. No one has come out and said doom and gloom.. But their eyes betray them.
I am trying so hard to be strong for him and for my daughter at home..
All prayers, well wishes, whatever's are so needed and welcomed. Thank Y/you so much.

[Rockinonahigh]

Deb and Ethan,take it one day at the time,stay strong..prayers sent.

[Corkey]

Keeping you both in our thoughts.

[OldSchoolButch]

I promised you my friend you will NOT be alone in this. I Am not a man that breaks my promises. I may not be able too be there in the flesh as I wish I could be but my spirit is there by your side. You & Ethan both been dear friends too me in many of a dark hour and there is no way in hell I would leave you now. You will get threw this and I pray so will my Brother.

Always Syr Jay


* wipes away tears as I force myself to smile* thank You so much Jay. Truly appreciate this and You. You are an awesome Friend

[Greyson]

Deb and Ethan, my prayers are with you both. Yes, you are part of this community. I am sure many here remember you and will be sending you healing thoughts, love.

[Talon]

Regardless of the shadows that cross the moon to make it appear less than it is...
to the moon, it is always full.

~Buddha


Praying for comfort, healing, encouragement and strength, during this difficult time.

[Jess]

Will keep you both in my thoughts today. Tell Ethan Winter is almost over and he doesn't get out of gardening, so get well soon! Much warmth from Alohaland :rrose:

[Soon]

Healing thoughts for Ethan. Stay strong you two.

[clay]

Sending healing, comfort, support, and much prayer your way. Know I am with you in spirit. Hugs to you both....love you pnut!!

[sis]

Wishes for healing and strength, energy and guidance are being sent your way. Take it moment by moment .... your community is behind you and supporting you.

[Hollylane]

Gaige and I will keep the two of you in our thoughts. We hope Ethan is already on the path to feeling better!

[little_ms_sunshyne]

Keeping them both in my thoughts...

[PaPa]

Deb, Ethan, and Family,

My prayers are with you as you go through this medical emergency. I hope that they are able to lower his fever, get his glucose levels stablized, and find the infection and treat it very quickly. If y'all need anything then please let me know.

Paul

[alexri]

Sending positive thoughts to both of you. We are all here for you.

*hugs*

[Leigh]

Sending you both alot of love, and healing prayers for Ethan!

[Aryon]

I was driving when OSB texted me and I said I would come here later.
I just walked in the door and logged on before even making coffee.

... some things are more important than coffee ...

Ethan and Deb, I know from experience that the people here on BFP know all about the power of prayer, of healing thoughts and the aura of mental strength.

I hope Ethan makes a speedy recovery and that Deb stays strong.

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[TheMerryFairy]

(((((((((Hugs)))))))))) I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

[OldSchoolButch]

I guess Ethan is a lil better after they put cooling blankets on him, the fever went over 104..... Debs been awake and all alone at the hospital since the wee hours of the morning with no way home or cash to do such. Times like these piss me off I wish I were there. So she is taking a bit of a rest in a quiet space. I guided her too people in the hospital that may be able to help her. I made a few calls.
Ayron My Old Gaurd Brother thank you so much... Yes times like these are more important than coffee. I been speaking to Ethan all morning in my spirit.
Too all the rest of my BFP Family a heart felt thank you for being here for Ethan & Deb......

[cinnamongrrl]

Prayers, hope and wishes for Ethan's speedy recovery. Hugs for sister Deb.... :rrose:

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[~ocean]

oh wow i had no clue Ethan was even ill ** says a prayer for both ethan and deb **

[deb0670]

i am so overwhelmed.. glad i am able to type this, cause if i had to make a speech. oy vey,.. noone would be able to understand me over my blubbering and sobs.
i have never felt such a connection and a bond, as i do here on the Planet, and in this.. my community.
Even tho i am alone here physically dealing with this..
i know beyond a shadow of a doubt, i am not alone..
i feel y'all.. so tangible like You were actually standing in this room.
Words cannot express my love and gratitude for each and every one of you. and thank You is just not enough.
Ethan is getting better.. He is off the insulin drips( they had two going at once), so he can be moved out of the ICU into a regular room prolly tomorrow. His temp went from 98.6, to 99.9 to 102, to 104 and now it has been pretty stable at 99.2 for awhile. His blood pressure is normal, his heart rate was 140 but is now 91. still too high, but.. so much better.
He is still having issues with his blood sugar.. latest check was 311..
but.. they are still able to keep it out of 400..
i am ok.. not really.. but really..
i got about 4 hrs of sleep somehow on a very uncomfortable recliner, with my head covered by a blanket to block out the light above my head and the noises being made in a "quiet room". Guess my body just said "deal"
i will be able to go home tomorrow sometime and take a shower and gather a few things, visit with the fur babies ( who are prolly beside themselves cause momma and Daddy are not there), then head back up here to the hospital via a friend. HATE not having my own vehicle.. but.. i am making due. It could be worse.
I have shed quite a bit of tears, unbeknownst to Ethan of course, and said i cannot tell You how many prayers.. it is not easy being strong when all it feels like is the inside of me is a huge picture that has been shattered and one lil jolt will send all the pieces crashing down and it is being held together by a very flimsy cardboard frame.
HOWEVER.. through the fear, the uncertainity, the negativity.. etc..
i KNOW God is greater, and i KNOW that.. this too shall pass..
just gotta keep a hold of that.
Again,
Thank Y'all so much. from the bottom of this girl's heart.
i truly love Y/you all.

[TheMerryFairy]

i am so overwhelmed.. glad i am able to type this, cause if i had to make a speech. oy vey,.. noone would be able to understand me over my blubbering and sobs.
i have never felt such a connection and a bond, as i do here on the Planet, and in this.. my community.
Even tho i am alone here physically dealing with this..
i know beyond a shadow of a doubt, i am not alone..
i feel y'all.. so tangible like You were actually standing in this room.
Words cannot express my love and gratitude for each and every one of you. and thank You is just not enough.
Ethan is getting better.. He is off the insulin drips( they had two going at once), so he can be moved out of the ICU into a regular room prolly tomorrow. His temp went from 98.6, to 99.9 to 102, to 104 and now it has been pretty stable at 99.2 for awhile. His blood pressure is normal, his heart rate was 140 but is now 91. still too high, but.. so much better.
He is still having issues with his blood sugar.. latest check was 311..
but.. they are still able to keep it out of 400..
i am ok.. not really.. but really..
i got about 4 hrs of sleep somehow on a very uncomfortable recliner, with my head covered by a blanket to block out the light above my head and the noises being made in a "quiet room". Guess my body just said "deal"
i will be able to go home tomorrow sometime and take a shower and gather a few things, visit with the fur babies ( who are prolly beside themselves cause momma and Daddy are not there), then head back up here to the hospital via a friend. HATE not having my own vehicle.. but.. i am making due. It could be worse.
I have shed quite a bit of tears, unbeknownst to Ethan of course, and said i cannot tell You how many prayers.. it is not easy being strong when all it feels like is the inside of me is a huge picture that has been shattered and one lil jolt will send all the pieces crashing down and it is being held together by a very flimsy cardboard frame.
HOWEVER.. through the fear, the uncertainity, the negativity.. etc..
i KNOW God is greater, and i KNOW that.. this too shall pass..
just gotta keep a hold of that.
Again,
Thank Y'all so much. from the bottom of this girl's heart.
i truly love Y/you all.


If there is anything I can do Deb, please let me know! You have the strength and certainly the support here, both of you.

[Gemme]

You are both in my thoughts.

((((((((((Ethan and Deb))))))))))

[Jesse]

Deb & Ethan, my prayers for healing, peace of mind, and rest go up for the two of you today. Be still...everything will be okay.

[always2late]

Ethan and Deb, you are both in my thoughts and prayers.

[deb_U_taunt]

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[Lady Pamela]

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Lighting a candle and asking for direction, protection and healing to be with you at this time.


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[nycfem]

Deb and Ethan,
Thinking of you both with love and healing wishes.
Jennifer

[WolfyOne]

Sending healing light and prayers to Ethan and leaving a hug for you Deb

[MarquisdeShey]

Deb -

Wishing you a moment of peace so the overwhelming circumstances may be more bareable. Take care of yourself. Wishing Ethan a smooth recovery.

Take care.

[Zimmeh]

Dear Deb,

Ruff and I are thinking of you and Ethan. Hope the hospital was able to get Hys insulin under control and that Hy has a speedy recovery. I will text you in the morning and see how you two are doing.

Hugs,

Zimmeh

[Trev]

Sending prayers and positive thoughts. Don't forget to just breathe

[OldSchoolButch]

What a hell of a way too spend your birthday Bro ! Deb Im glad he is more stable. when he gets home you can have a party for him then.

[Gráinne]

Wishing a speedy recovery for Ethan and some rest for Deb.

[Sweet Bliss]

:rrose::rrose::rrose:

Keeping you both in my thoughts today.

Namaste`

[bkisbutchenuff]

Ethan,
Get Well Soon! Peace, comfort and rest to you both!

[deb0670]

WOOHOO UPDATE
Dr just came in and said that he will be working on transfer papers to have Ethan transferred to a regular room and out of the ICU today!
His fever has FINALLY broken and his temp has been at 98.5 for more than 4 hrs! His heart rate is at a steady 90! His blood sugar still needs some help however it is NOWHERE near as high as it was!
God is good!
Thank Y/y'all so so so much for all the prayers, well wishes, positive thoughts and energy.. They are working! this girl is no longer scared!!

[Katniss]

So, so happy to hear it!! Big hugs and keep my number, if you need anything at all please call.

Katniss~~

[Heavenleahangel]

Wonderful news!!! I'm sending prayers your way for a speedy recovery!

[clay]

Great news pnut! Hugs for you both. Happy to read this great Update. Stay strong, you can do it!!! Love you both

[Boots13]

Wishing you a speedy recovery !!

[PoeticWitch]

I know I am late as ever.. but better late then never.

Healing thoughts and prayers for Ethan

Warm thoughts and love for Deb

Happy Birthday Ethan! Time to grow up honey! you need to take better care of yourself! Not just for you but for your girl there and the kidlette! I know how it feels to wonder if someone I love is going to make it this time. If only they did a lil something more for themselves it would help everyone. I am not trying to be a bitch. This is called tough love. I have to do it too. My blood sugar is totally out of whack, and a series of other medical issues. I am taking a quarter off of school to get my shit together honey. If I can you can! I love you and I love Deb. Lets be good examples and take care of ourselves, for us and our loved ones.

Deb I am here for you whenever.

Ducky

[curlyredhead]

Ethan, we are thinking about you here on the planet. Get well soon! Deb we are here for you, keeping yall in our thoughts and prayers!

[deb0670]

* feeling the fear try to creep back up* Now they are saying something is wrong with his kidneys . They just did an ultrasound. An his fever is starting to climb again.. 99.1 ... Please keep prayin and stuff.

[PwrFemme]

Ethan and Deb,

Heel and I are both thinking of you and hoping everything comes out okay. I understand the fear as I went through it 16 months ago with Heel. Try to pull all the positive thoughts you can and be strong. So many people here are cheering for you! Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Heel and Pwr

[PinkieLee]

Sending thoughts & prayers his way!!!

[diamondrose]

Sending all my support and positive energy!

[goodlilfemme]

deb you and ethan are in my thoughts and prayers . holding you dear . wish nothing but a healthy outcome for ethan. hugssss my friend deb lots and lots of hugs . always goodlilfemme


* feeling the fear try to creep back up* Now they are saying something is wrong with his kidneys . They just did an ultrasound. An his fever is starting to climb again.. 99.1 ... Please keep prayin and stuff.

[DMW]

Hi deb, I don't know much and haven't read all posts but...sounds like he has an infection. Is he diabetic? If not...gotta find that infection and they have to watch his blood pressure and electrolytes. Especially his potassium. The glucose will feed the enemy which, reducing that sugar brought down his fever...most likely. Tell them to Find the infection. You watch his bp. And hang in there. They should or possibly put him on dialysis to assist his kidney function. I am no health care professional but been through a lot...helping people.

And deep breaths and God Bless...give you strength!
Gotta go

[RNguy]

I'm glad he is out of DKA.
Hourly and 30 min fingersticks around the clock is no fun :(
Get better soon and hang in there deb

[DMW]

Hey, sorry that I had to run away without finishing. See, I read your post about his high glucose levels...so, wonder if he is diabetic. The ketones can damage the kidneys and those get high when glucose is high. But once the glucose is under control then you move on. It must be monitored obviously and kept under control along with the electrolytes...( the electron balance that help your organs function properly and fluid regulation) So monitor his piss... kidney function And his bp.

My main point is...he must have an infection and it is imperative that they identify it and give the proper medication to eradicate it. The dialysis is not a bad thing because of the ketone overload and the infection. So, don't be afraid of that. It will help him. You may even inquire with the nurse or dr. Or both.

And you watch you bp too. God bless and give you both strength.

[barnes]

my prayers are with you and ethan !

[GreeneyedMe]

Big hugs and lots of prayers for both of you. I hope he will continue to improve. :praying:

[alexri]

Glad to hear the positive update! Wish Ethan a happy birthday and a speedy recovery.

Deb I hope you get some rest soon too. Hang in there.

[OldSchoolButch]

DMV it is Diabetic ketoacidosis and yes he is diabetic. Deb is awaiting the kydney test as I type this. It has been a up down roller coaster for both of them but they are watching him closely.


Hey, sorry that I had to run away without finishing. See, I read your post about his high glucose levels...so, wonder if he is diabetic. The ketones can damage the kidneys and those get high when glucose is high. But once the glucose is under control then you move on. It must be monitored obviously and kept under control along with the electrolytes...( the electron balance that help your organs function properly and fluid regulation) So monitor his piss... kidney function And his bp.

My main point is...he must have an infection and it is imperative that they identify it and give the proper medication to eradicate it. The dialysis is not a bad thing because of the ketone overload and the infection. So, don't be afraid of that. It will help him. You may even inquire with the nurse or dr. Or both.

And you watch you bp too. God bless and give you both strength.

[Finn]

You know you both have my support and are in my Prayers. Stay strong for now Deb,,and you know how to get me if you need a shoulder or to just talk..Tell my Bro I said get better man!! *S* Hang in there both of you ...xoxdo

[Kent]

You are both in my prayers.. Stay positive and strong..

[JustBeingMe]

Hey Deb and Ethan. I will say prayers for healing and strength in your time of need for you and your family. I'm sorry to hear of this and I pray for immediate relief for Ethan in Jesus name,Amen and Amen.

[deb0670]

UPDATE
Dr came in this morning and said that Ethan's kidneys are functioning abnormally and not sure why yet, but the Kidney Dr will be in a little whole to help us better understand and try to resolve this issue .
Since Ethan has been out of ICU his pain has increased quite a bit and the Dr will be addressing that.
Ethan's temp is still not regulating so Dr is gonna give him a third antibiotic to help fight this infection he has
FINALLY someone listened to me about Ethan's pain in his right flank that is not typical and won't go away, so they are gonna so a scan to find out . Dr thinks it could be his kidney, but not sure yet.
Update on me:
I have been able to rest a little here and there thanks to them bringing in an extra bed for me and the extra privacy we have in the private room. I have not been able to go home yet due to rides failing to work. Hopefull I can gong one for a little while today to visit with my daughter and our fur babies and to just feel a tad bit normal..
There are issues I need to deal with for myself but cannot do it here so hopefully soon.. I just need to make sure someone is here with him in my absence .
I will update more after the Kidney Dr come in.
I truly appreciate y'all
Thank you

[clay]

Sending loving thoughts and prayers to you both. Take care of you, pnut! Hugs...love ya...

[grenade]

Sorry to hear how things are going for y'all. *big hugs* I will be thinking of you.

[Canela]

I'm still praying and believing for Ethan's healing in Jesus name and yours as well, Deb... don't stop believing because God can, when no one else can, God always can.

[Sun]

Deb I know that I offered you prayers on Facebook but just wanted to post here as well. I am keeping the vision of Ethan walking and returning to his life at home. Stay strong, take good care of yourself, let me know if I can help network with some friends down there for your transportation. Taking care of yourself has to be a priority too sweetie.

Sending love and hugs

[deb0670]

LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank.
A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese".
i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. *goose frabba,, simmer down now deb*
His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic
GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today.
i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying.
Ethan's

[TheMerryFairy]

LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank.
A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese".
i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. *goose frabba,, simmer down now deb*
His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic
GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today.
i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying.
Ethan's


((((HUgs)))) Oh Deb I am so sorry it has been a rough day for you both. Shame on that dr! You did the right thing. I am happy Ethan is out of bed now and I will certainly keep the positive energy and good thoughts coming. I am here if you would like to pm.

[Jesse]

Deb,
I sure hope they find the source of that infection soon and get it treated so the pain will back off. Remember to take care of you too. Still have you both in my prayers and thoughts.
Jesse

[ManOMan]

Oh my Deb. Thank God you were there with Ethan when that doctor went off on him.

My prayers for both of you are for Peace of Mind, Clarity and Wholeness. I am knowing that the perfect doctors/staff are right there caring for Ethan and that his health is glowing. I am knowing that both of you (and all of your family) are resting comfortably. Perfect Health and Vitality are the order of the day.

Peace,
Kevin

[curlyredhead]

LATEST UPDATE: Today has been full of questions and frustrations, with not many answers. Ethan had a CT Scan today to try to see what is causing so much pain in his lower right flank.
A Dr came in today and brought Ethan to tears and scared him a lot and was down right rude.. i had to report him and refused to have him come back. Ethan had been on a whole lot of medication since he has gotten here.. more than normal, and it causes him to be disoriented, amongst other things. This Dr comes in and shakes Ethan awake( he had just fallen in a good sleep) and was talking kinda rough to him. i tried to talk to the Dr but he just ignored me and continued to talk to Ethan. Ethan started to cry and panic and the Dr was being very stern and almost yelling at Ethan telling him to stop crying. I had to yell at the Dr before he finally stopped and turned towards me with a disgusted look at me and i proceeding to tell him that i am his fiance and medical power of attorney and telling him how Ethan is blah blah blah. Dr then proceeded to say " Well he is hugely obese".
i went off.. when he left i called the charge nurse and told her what happened and he is not allowed back in this room. *goose frabba,, simmer down now deb*
His vitals are still pretty high, still has that bad infection, still not knowing what and why and for how long.. but he got a third antibiotic
GOOD NOTE: They were able to get him out of bed today and in a wheelchair today.
i am trying to keep positive and take care of me.. trying.
Ethan's

I am proud to hear you stood up for not only you but Ethan as well. That's horrible the doctor acted that way. My sister is a doctor and that is no way to treat a patient.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
The Main Dr just came in and told us they finally know what is wrong with Ethan. It started out as a Urinary Tract Infection that turned to E. Coli and a complete blood infection and Sepsis. That on top of the DKA made him a very very sick man. They are giving him the right kind of antibiotics now that they know what is wrong.
His kidneys have taken a hit due to both the UTI and the DKA, but they are slowly getting better. We are not looking at getting out of here anytime before the end of the week to mid next week.. just depends.
Please keep him/me in prayer. and thank You all for all the well wishes and prayers already!

[CherylNYC]

Sending you support. I'm very glad you finally have some answers.

[macele]

doctors work hard. they are extremely intelligent. they have given up a lot of their personal time. and so much more could be said.

but bed side manners and compassion can't be left out.

i've been the victim and i've seen doctors do others this way. no one stood up for me. but i did speak up for my mother, ... changed doctors too. i'm glad you stood up for ethan.

you all are in my prayers. i hope he gets to go home soon.

[Zimmeh]

Good to hear that the doctors have found out what is wring. Here is to a speedy recovery so you two can go home soon :)

Zimmeh and Ruff

[KCBUTCH]

sending healing prayers and light to you and Deb

[chai~]

~~~~~ _/l\_ ~~~~~~~

[Bard]

sending our thought love support and prayers to you both

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:

They found out that he has a 3.5 cm kidney stone in his right ureter and his right kidney is alittle larger than normal. They just took him to get an abdominal xray to see what they can find out that way.
Ethan's blood sugars are still kinda high, in between the 200-300's, but they are continually working on that.
He is supposed to be on this antibiotic for 14 days for the infection, however, it does not necessarily have to be by IV
If the kidney Dr and the General Dr think that he is ok to go home, we are prolly looking at getting released tomorrow..
HOWEVER, Ethan has become very weak, and we are weighing the option of him being released to a Rehabilitation Facility for a while til his strength gets better. I am hoping that is what they decide, because i do not think he could handle life on his own at this point when i return to work and my daughter is in school.
i want him to be able to go home, however, above all.. he needs to be safe. A rehab place will be able to keep an eye on him, have physical therapy help him, and he will be able to continue his antibiotic with no hindrances. And i won't have to feel so guilty leaving him when i am at work.
So, we shall see.
Thank Y/y'all again, from the depths of my soul..
i love Y/y'all more than words can ever say.

[Sun]

Good Lord deb!!

You poor girl.

Ok a couple of things here...Ecoli does not just create itself it has to come from somewhere. Not sure what they are telling you about that. The kidney stone can be insanely painful..been there..there are some natural therapies that will help to flush it out, break it up. PM me or hit me up on FB if you want to chat about that. Also food and nutrition at this point is crucial and most Dr's are not conversant in this arena, so let me know how I may help. Raw ginger juice cleared a stone for me, aloe juice will help the organs to detox and will comfort the digestive tract which is under attack right now.

Some good immune boosters are easy to add to the food/beverage routine. Make sure that they are giving him a diet that is easy on the renal fucntions, no high phosphate foods and so on.

Hugs to you!!

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((deb)))))))) )))))))))))))))))))))))))

[deb0670]

The E Coli came from the Urinary Tract Infection he got.
Thanks Sun, You will be hearing from me soon. hugsssss

[firegal]

Speedy recovery! Joining the prayer brigade a lil late , but I got a few angels that will help me.

[Liam]

Keeping both you and Ethan in my thoughts and prayers, Deb.

[TheMerryFairy]

Just coming by to say I haven't forgotten about eithr of you. I am keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers for a quick and easy recovery.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN
The 3mm stone passed , however the CT Scan yesterday showed an 8 mm stone that is stuck in his right ureter. We are in the preop awaiting a procedure where they will put a stint in to help open the ureter up to hopefully allow the stone to erode quickly.
Still waiting on the other Drs to assess him today.

[morningstar55]

wow i had NO idea this was going on.......
keeping Ethan n Deb in thought and prayer..
:rrose:

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:

I know it has been a lil bit since the last update, but there was not much difference to post on.
This morning the kidney Dr came in and said Ethan's kidneys are back to normal. YAY!.
Ethan is happy cause now he can be taken off of the Renal Diet and actually eat.
For those that don't know, the Renal Diet is very bland and you can only have like half of a hamburger patty and any all meats.
We are waiting for the other Drs to come in, but so far no release date yet.
He is more cognitive and alert for longer periods of time, and there has not been a fever in a few days.
Thanks for all the prayers and well wishes,, and please keep them coming. They are working.
It has been a week and a day since we have been in the hospital.

[WingsOnFire]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:

I know it has been a lil bit since the last update, but there was not much difference to post on.
This morning the kidney Dr came in and said Ethan's kidneys are back to normal. YAY!.
Ethan is happy cause now he can be taken off of the Renal Diet and actually eat.
For those that don't know, the Renal Diet is very bland and you can only have like half of a hamburger patty and any all meats.
We are waiting for the other Drs to come in, but so far no release date yet.
He is more cognitive and alert for longer periods of time, and there has not been a fever in a few days.
Thanks for all the prayers and well wishes,, and please keep them coming. They are working.
It has been a week and a day since we have been in the hospital.

as always I am here for you sissy. Love and hugs and prayers that you both will be home soon

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
PRAISE REPORT!!!!!
The infection is gone!!! No more Sepsis!! His kidneys are back to normal!!
His blood sugars are still semi out of whack, but not near as bad as before.
A Rehab Dr came in this morning and ordered Physical Therapy to come in tomorrow to access him to see if he is a candidate for a rehabilitation place to help him get his strength back. If so, that is where he is going in the next couple of days. If not, then most likely will be released to go home tomorrow.

[firegal]

Awesome news! Hugs to you both!

[JinxieB]

have been gone for 10 days so I am just rollin in here...but I wanted you to know that you are both in my thoughts and Prayers...

[Zimmeh]

Good to hear! Your babies are missing you two!

Zimmeh

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
PRAISE REPORT!!!!!
The infection is gone!!! No more Sepsis!! His kidneys are back to normal!!
His blood sugars are still semi out of whack, but not near as bad as before.
A Rehab Dr came in this morning and ordered Physical Therapy to come in tomorrow to access him to see if he is a candidate for a rehabilitation place to help him get his strength back. If so, that is where he is going in the next couple of days. If not, then most likely will be released to go home tomorrow.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:

They are transferring him to a rehabilitation facility tonight. He is medically ready to go home, but he is not physically strong enough yet. The rehab place will help him with that aspect. Not sure how long he will be there yet, but Praise God for small steps.

[Ginger]

Deb and Ethan,

I'm so sorry you're going through this, Ethan, but glad you have each other.

Sending you warm thoughts.

Scout

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN
He is settled in the rehab place, and finally sleeping. I decided to stay with him tonight so i can make sure he is ok, access the staff, and talk to the Dr tomorrow.
If things go the way i hope, i will be going home tomorrow and spend the first night in my own bed in almost two weeks.
We are unsure yet how long he will be in here.. hopefully not too long. We need things to get back to normal.

Thank Y'all again for all the prayers and well wishes.
i love Y'all so so much

[always2late]

UPDATE ON ETHAN
He is settled in the rehab place, and finally sleeping. I decided to stay with him tonight so i can make sure he is ok, access the staff, and talk to the Dr tomorrow.
If things go the way i hope, i will be going home tomorrow and spend the first night in my own bed in almost two weeks.
We are unsure yet how long he will be in here.. hopefully not too long. We need things to get back to normal.

Thank Y'all again for all the prayers and well wishes.
i love Y'all so so much

Thank you for the update Deb. It's so great to hear that he's doing better, you must be so relieved! Wishing you both all the best!

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN
He is settling pretty well in the rehabilitation facility, and from the looks of things he is there for at least 28 days. He is not happy about it, but realizes that he needs it . I am not allowed to spend the nights there unless i am a resident, which causes bittersweet feelings for me.
I want to be there to make sure he is treated right, and doing what he should, but i so desperately need to be home and reconnect with Anita and the fur babies.. plus i HAVE to start taking care of me.
I am gonna try to get a vehicle tomorrow.. hopefully it will work.. cause i need my own independence and transportation..

Just weird being here without him.
*sighs*
Trying to think positive.

[firegal]

Hang in there and we all will continue to put in our requests and energy for more healing and damn quick recovery!

Be good to you too!

PS give those fur babies some LUUUUV!

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN
Today was a good day. I got a vehicle today and was able to take Blaze( Ethan's dog) to him. That made the first time Ethan has seen her since the 2nd. He has had Blaze since she was 3 weeks old, and bottle fed her.. and now she is almost 13 yrs old.
I was able to also bring Anita and Blaze and Peaches back up to to see him again tonight.
It made his day and he thanked me several times.
I am glad that i was able to brighten his day some.
Ethan is working with the Occupational therapy to try to get his strength back, but it is a slow road.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
I just spoke with the Social Services Director at Ethan's Rehab place and he said according to the Drs and nurses, Ethan is doing well... and.. HE IS BEING DISCHARGED ON THE 28th of March!! He gets to come home in 8 days!!
So excited to have him back home, and we can start living a normal life again. Apparently he will still have Home Health Care come for a period of time to help his adjustment at home go smoothly.
He will be home in time for Easter. YAY!
Thank You all again sooo much for all the love, care, support, prayers, positive energy, etc that everyone gave..
i love y'all so much!

[TheMerryFairy]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
I just spoke with the Social Services Director at Ethan's Rehab place and he said according to the Drs and nurses, Ethan is doing well... and.. HE IS BEING DISCHARGED ON THE 28th of March!! He gets to come home in 8 days!!
So excited to have him back home, and we can start living a normal life again. Apparently he will still have Home Health Care come for a period of time to help his adjustment at home go smoothly.
He will be home in time for Easter. YAY!
Thank You all again sooo much for all the love, care, support, prayers, positive energy, etc that everyone gave..
i love y'all so much!

Oh I am so happy to hear this news, Deb!!!!! (((Hugs))) Thanks for keeping us all updated.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN:
Found out a little bit ago that they are keeping him in the rehabilitation place two more weeks. It took me getting mad and making them listen to him for them to finally realize what some of the major issues were with him. The Physical Therapist is using a special ultrasound on his knees to try to straighten and strengthen them, and it is slowly working.
He used to not be able to stand in place for more than 10 seconds before having to sit down or fall down.. since they started doing the ultrasound on Friday, he increased his ability to stand to 45 seconds today. He would not be able to get the kind of treatments he needs at home, and since there are signs of improvement, he will spend the next two weeks there. Sucky thing is, we are celebrating Easter in the rehab place.. *sighs*
At least i can still cook a ham and the fixin's and take a plate to him.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN
I know it has been awhile since i posted anything about him, but now...
For 13 years this Man was told," You will never walk again", "Might as well get used to being in a chair for life", "You have no need for physical therapy", etc etc etc.
After two weeks of physical therapy in the rehabilitation facility..
Ethan went from being able to stand for less than 10 seconds to....
Walking with a platform walker.. for... 350 Feet today!
Talk about amazing!!
They have been using ultrasound on the front and back of his knees, and working with him, and pushing him, and encouraging him and he is making sooooo much progress!
He is turning into Someone i never knew. He is wanting to work out.. He is wanting to stay out of bed, he is not reaching for extra pain meds.. He is really trying and forcing Himself to not give in to the pain that accompanies Him.
This is the first time in 13 years.. that someone.. has cared enough to say You can do this.. and then help him do it.
Hard part about all this, and please forgive me if this sounds selfish...
But i can't help it..
They are looking at keeping him there another 5 weeks.
Their goal is to get him completely out of his wheel chair and get him walking with maybe an assistance of just a cane.
That is another 5 weeks of sleeping alone, being a single mom.. yet again.. and travelling back and forth between the rehab and home.. and take care of everything else..
But to have him be able to walk again.. and not need a wheel chair..
it will be worth it.
I just have to remember that this is not about me right now..
It is about him finally getting the care and attention and help he has been denied for 13 years..
i can wait.

[Zimmeh]

Congratulations to him and hope he gets to come home soon!

Zimmeh


UPDATE ON ETHAN
I know it has been awhile since i posted anything about him, but now...
For 13 years this Man was told," You will never walk again", "Might as well get used to being in a chair for life", "You have no need for physical therapy", etc etc etc.
After two weeks of physical therapy in the rehabilitation facility..
Ethan went from being able to stand for less than 10 seconds to....
Walking with a platform walker.. for... 350 Feet today!
Talk about amazing!!
They have been using ultrasound on the front and back of his knees, and working with him, and pushing him, and encouraging him and he is making sooooo much progress!
He is turning into Someone i never knew. He is wanting to work out.. He is wanting to stay out of bed, he is not reaching for extra pain meds.. He is really trying and forcing Himself to not give in to the pain that accompanies Him.
This is the first time in 13 years.. that someone.. has cared enough to say You can do this.. and then help him do it.
Hard part about all this, and please forgive me if this sounds selfish...
But i can't help it..
They are looking at keeping him there another 5 weeks.
Their goal is to get him completely out of his wheel chair and get him walking with maybe an assistance of just a cane.
That is another 5 weeks of sleeping alone, being a single mom.. yet again.. and travelling back and forth between the rehab and home.. and take care of everything else..
But to have him be able to walk again.. and not need a wheel chair..
it will be worth it.
I just have to remember that this is not about me right now..
It is about him finally getting the care and attention and help he has been denied for 13 years..
i can wait.

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN

I know it has been quite a while since i last posted anything, but,
He gets to come home on May 9th! He is stronger than He has been in over 13 years! He is walking up to 450 ft now with the aide of a walker.. and He can push Himself in His manual chair with ease.
It has been a long, long struggle.. but.. it is paying off!
He has changed His outlook and has a brighter hope for the future.
It is going to take us all a bit to get adjusted to Him being home again, but it is way past overdue.
Thank Y/you everyone.. so much.. for all the prayers, positive thoughts, encouragements etc..
Thank Y/you does not seem near good enough to express my gratefulness to Y/you all.

[firegal]

Such good news...

Hope the progress continues and so glad he,s comin home and no more sleeping alone.

Hugs to you both....

[Tommi]

You two can walk hand in hand, and share a wondeful reunion.
Welcome Home signs will be posted, and many great wishes.

The smiles and hugs from Big and Little's will be such fun.
I know you are looking forward to that first night of sleeping in Ethan's arms at home again, Priceless.

The Rehab visitation, commuting, long distance caring, and keeping the home fires burning is tough. What he is accomplishing is tough.

The road forward and keeping mobile will be tough, but fun together...So, big kudo's to both of you. And being a caregiver is precious. :rrose:

[deb0670]

UPDATE ON ETHAN


He comes home tomorrow. He is excited and so are we.( my daughter and i)
We are also a bit apprehensive because it has been over 2 months since He went in the hospital and everyone kinda got used to the routine.
Honestly, i will be glad to break some of the routine.. like having to go to sleep alone, and having to make the big final decisions alone, and having to drive all the way to the rehab place and back every day.
We all will have to adjust to sharing the tv's again, and dual parenting( even though Ethan was not totally out of the loop.. was difficult to try to keep up with every day stuff from there)
Ethan is stronger than He was, able to walk at least 450 ft at a time with a walker, and He is healthy.

i wanna thank E/everyone so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so ( to infinity and beyond) much for all prayers, positive thoughts and energy and support for us during this time.
i know for myself.. i couldn't have made this journey without Y/you.
i truly do hope we get to go to the reunion, cause i really wanna thank as many P/people as i can face to face and hug T/their necks.
love Y/y'all!
debbie

[curlyredhead]

UPDATE ON ETHAN


He comes home tomorrow. He is excited and so are we.( my daughter and i)
We are also a bit apprehensive because it has been over 2 months since He went in the hospital and everyone kinda got used to the routine.
Honestly, i will be glad to break some of the routine.. like having to go to sleep alone, and having to make the big final decisions alone, and having to drive all the way to the rehab place and back every day.
We all will have to adjust to sharing the tv's again, and dual parenting( even though Ethan was not totally out of the loop.. was difficult to try to keep up with every day stuff from there)
Ethan is stronger than He was, able to walk at least 450 ft at a time with a walker, and He is healthy.

i wanna thank E/everyone so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so ( to infinity and beyond) much for all prayers, positive thoughts and energy and support for us during this time.
i know for myself.. i couldn't have made this journey without Y/you.
i truly do hope we get to go to the reunion, cause i really wanna thank as many P/people as i can face to face and hug T/their necks.
love Y/y'all!
debbie

So glad to hear the news!!! Welcome Home Ethan!!

Looking forward to seeing yall in LR!

[Rockinonahigh]

UPDATE ON ETHAN


He comes home tomorrow. He is excited and so are we.( my daughter and i)
We are also a bit apprehensive because it has been over 2 months since He went in the hospital and everyone kinda got used to the routine.
Honestly, i will be glad to break some of the routine.. like having to go to sleep alone, and having to make the big final decisions alone, and having to drive all the way to the rehab place and back every day.
We all will have to adjust to sharing the tv's again, and dual parenting( even though Ethan was not totally out of the loop.. was difficult to try to keep up with every day stuff from there)
Ethan is stronger than He was, able to walk at least 450 ft at a time with a walker, and He is healthy.

i wanna thank E/everyone so so so so so so so so so so so so so so so ( to infinity and beyond) much for all prayers, positive thoughts and energy and support for us during this time.
i know for myself.. i couldn't have made this journey without Y/you.
i truly do hope we get to go to the reunion, cause i really wanna thank as many P/people as i can face to face and hug T/their necks.
love Y/y'all!
debbie


Great news,hopefull things will be a bit normal.

[julieisafemme]

Deb I am so happy to hear Ethan will be coming home! Many blessings to you and your family. It's hard being the caregiver for everyone so give yourself some space to take care of you....I know that is easier said than done!