Prayers needed for Greyson and Julieisafemme

[princessbelle]

Asking for prayers for Greyson and Julie.

Greyson is undergoing open heart surgery tomorrow to replace a valve.

I KNOW it will go perfectly. I KNOW he will be ok. He has to be. He's Greyson.

I plan on being in contact with Julie as much as possible tomorrow, however i will be at work. I will update here when i can and on facebook.

Please send all the love, light, prayers, good wishes you can send for everything to go as planned and to bring both of them peace for tonight, the Surgeons/Nurses great care as they work on a dear friend/brother/member of our community, Julie comfort for tomorrow and Greyson God's speed in his recovery.

Major hugs to you Julie!!!!

You got this Greyson!!!!

Love you both to pieces!!!!

[Semantics]

Wishing Greyson all the best, and my thoughts are with you both.

[LeftWriteFemme]

http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2011/126/2/1/bokeh_light_and_love_texture_by_bluezircon_graphic s-d3fqm2j.png

Keeping them both in my prayers.

[Corkey]

Keeping Greyson and Julie in our thoughts. Energy being sent.

[Vic]

Stay strong & heal quickly. My thoughts with you both, Greyson & Julie.

[Rockinonahigh]

Greyson and Julie,the best to you both,all will be well not doubt about it.Healing light with power rays of enery heading your way.

[macele]

i ask god to give greyson and julie everything they need. in jesus name i pray, amen.


i've been through open heart surgery. i was mean as all get out afterward lol. and greyson can be to if he wants. let him. it's big time surgery, ... but you will be so much better when over and done with. the energy!

[Rockinonahigh]

Asking for prayers for Greyson and Julie.

Greyson is undergoing open heart surgery tomorrow to replace a valve.

I KNOW it will go perfectly. I KNOW he will be ok. He has to be. He's Greyson.

I plan on being in contact with Julie as much as possible tomorrow, however i will be at work. I will update here when i can and on facebook.

Please send all the love, light, prayers, good wishes you can send for everything to go as planned and to bring both of them peace for tonight, the Surgeons/Nurses great care as they work on a dear friend/brother/member of our community, Julie comfort for tomorrow and Greyson God's speed in his recovery.

Major hugs to you Julie!!!!

You got this Greyson!!!!

Love you both to pieces!!!!


PB thanks or posting this,u r the best.

[Gráinne]

My thoughts go out to both Greyson for a speedy recovery and for Julie for the support she will need.

[Sweet Bliss]

Love, healing, light and peace to you both.

[MysticOceansFL]

And lighting a candle for them both

[WolfyOne]

Will do just that my pink princess
Sending light and love and keeping Greyson in my thoughts and prayers
From a distance, Julie can lean on all of us.

[Princess]

sending positive thoughts and prayer to both!

[Kobi]

My thoughts and prayers are with you both.

[Nat]

Love and prayers to Greyson and Julie!

[JAGG]

I am sending you a couple angels ole friend. Hang tough brother!!!!!

[KCBUTCH]

My prayers for speedy and peaceful healing and minds during and after the surgery as well as blessings for all of the medical personnel with hands on during the procedure....:moonstars::praying:

[stargazingboi]

My thoughts and prayers are with both Greyson and Julie. Recover swiftly my friend!

[Turtle]

Prayers for Greyson and Julie as you go through this surgery and recovery period...

Blessings on you both and the whole care team...

[durrrrrrrr]

speedy recovery Greyson. thoughts and prayers are sent to you and Julie

[Inked_Trinity]

Sending positive energy and compassion

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_BoqsMMSqtoo/TQcMlKB0vPI/AAAAAAAACpU/7Y-VcYDcLQk/s1600/buddha-wallpapers-photos-pictures-candles.jpg

[tantalizingfemme]

Thoughts and prayers for both Greyson and Julia!

Dapper and TF

[starryeyes]

Keeping them in my thoughts! <3

[Trev]

Keeping both Greyson and Julie in my thoughts and prayers.

[girllikeu2]

Biglove to Grey and Julie. You have this Greyson!

[girl_dee]

Hugs to you both... Thinking of you

[julieisafemme]

Thanks to all of you! Prayers and good thoughts are much appreciated. Belle will post updates tomorrow. Thank you for doing that Belle! I don't know if my phone will work or what.

[Heavenleahangel]

Sending many, many prayers from a 4-state southern prayer chain for God's best handiwork tomorrow. Please keep us posted. Thank you.

[midwest chick]

Even tho the days ahead may be difficult, and painful in many ways,
Know that you both are in our hearts and thoughts.

Warm wishes for a speedy recovery,
we are here for support, anytime
(someone is Always here on the Planet)

[sis]

Sending prayers for you both ..... may you have the support before, during and afterwards that you need.

Deb

[always2late]

Sending thoughts, prayers, healing light, and positive wishes for a speedy recovery!

[Mel C.]

My thoughts to you both...love, peace and healing

[Sparkle]

So much love to both of you!

You're in my thoughts!

Wishing you a smooth surgery & a speedy recovery!

[nycfem]

Mi Sheberakh

Avoteinu: Avraham, Yitzhak, v'Yaakov,

v'Imoteinu: Sarah, Rivka, Rachel v'Leah,

Hu yivarekh virapei

et haholeh Greyson

HaKadosh Barukh Hu

yimalei rahamim alav,

l'hahalimo,

u-l'rap'oto,

l'hahaziko,

u-l'hay-oto.

V'yishlah lo

r'fuah shlemah,

r'fu-at hanefesh u-r'fu-at hagoof,

b'tokh sh'ar holei Yisrael v’holei yoshvei tevel,

hashta ba'agalah u-vizman kariv,

v'no-mar, Amen!

[Scuba]

All my well wishes and good ju ju heading your way!!! See ya when you wake up Greysen :)

[LaneyDoll]

~sending love and light~

:sparklyheart:

[deb0670]

Sending love, prayers and peaceful thoughts to Y/you both!

[GreeneyedMe]

Sending love and positive thoughts for all things good. Heal well and swift. (f)

[Katniss]

http://image.blingee.com/images19/content/output/000/000/000/7ab/765769473_1036474.gif

Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.

Katniss~~

[girllikeu2]

You can tell Grey that ALL the coolest kids have scars on their chests and that just makes em fiercer and sexier! <3

[DMW]

http://catholictradition.org/Saints/john-god.jpg

May God Bless you both and give you strength and comfort.

[Jesse]

Greyson and Julie, keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers as you undergo this task. May you both be safe, healthy and happy.

[TickledPink]

Prayers and healing energy from Shad and I!

[Ginger]

I was so stunned to see this. Greyson, I have so much respect for you. Julie, I feel such trust for you. Sending both of you all the love and energy I can call up.

[Gemme]

Wishing a very speedy recovery for Greyson.

He'll be okay in no time, Julie!

Our thoughts are with you both.

:bunchflowers:

[Tommi]

http://simplyjuliana.files.wordpress.com/2013/04/prayer-request.png?w=812
Miraculous surgery to start a new journey. XO
New heart valve, better plumbing, and more energy. Yeahhhh.
Look out Juliesafemme, Hold his hand and tell him Hi, then watch his gown flapping as you chase him down the hall...

[Breezy]

Love, light and prayers sent from me and Damon. :bunchflowers:

[DamonK]

Tons of love, thoughts, and energy for you both....

[Hollylane]

Gaige mentioned this to me while I was at work, and we wanted to tell you both, that we are thinking of you, hope that all goes well, and that Greyson is on the mend as quickly as possible.

[*Anya*]

Prayers, positive and healing thoughts for Grey and loving support for you both, Julie.:rrose:

[Arwen]

Greyson and Julie, you are in my thoughts.

[easygoingfemme]

Sending lots of healing thoughts, to you both. Looking forward to a positive update tomorrow!

[NorCalStud]

Are in my thoughts over the next several days while you recooperate. XX

[Deborah]

Keeping you in my thoughts -

[vixenagogo]

keeping both you in our thoughts. here's to a speedy recovery!

[MsTinkerbelly]

May God watch over you both, bring swift healing, and guide the hands of your doctor's.

Amen

[Soft*Silver]

singing soft prayers for Greyson and Julieisfemme. Courage and strength...love and support...

[femmeInterrupted]

http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/89/90/0f/89900fb9268fbc809778202842c6a7ea.jpg

Get well soon! All the best to you both! :)

[Duchess]

My healing thoughts go out to you both. I know Greyson's love for Julie and life itself will get him through this.(f)

[Greyson]

I want to thank all of you. I am sneaking in here tonight because I just could not stay away and say nothing before I go into surgery in the early morning. I have found community here and the Dash site for many years.

If you have been around here long enough you will see some of our best behaviour and behaviour maybe we would like to forget. I have done it all. What I am most grateful for is I have learned so much from this collective community and was given support when needed and constructive tough love at times. I am the sum of all of my encounters, experiences, people, animals that have passed through my life. Again, thank you.

[cinnamongrrl]

Sending prayers for a speedy recovery from Teddy and I...


http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQGTd16Uux-k4ylKDWX95iFtTT1b1hhY54F3tVWT_P8KTDRtaKn

[nanners]

Prayers going out to both of you, Greyson and Julieisafemme...we don't know each other but if you are on this site, you are part of a great bunch of people!
Prayers also to the surgeons and hospital staff to be at their best for you.

Nanners

[Daktari]

Another here on the prayer tree for Greyson and Julie :praying:

[SelfMadeMan]

Sending positive energy your way Greyson and Julie. I'll be thinking of you today and wishing for a speedy recovery! Stay strong!

[theoddz]

Wow, I just saw this thread. :|

Greyson, our thoughts, prayers and wishes for your successful surgery and swift, full recovery are with you and Julie. We'll be keeping the vigil with the rest of our biggo loving community. Know that you two are not alone and that you're holding the hands of everyone here. :) (f)

Please be strong and update us as things progress. :winky:

Much love and strength to you both,
~Theo and Ms. Tabs~ :bouquet:

[julieisafemme]

Greyson is all set and ready for surgery. His twin says he is relaxed and calm. I will be there after I drop my daughter off at school. He will already be in surgery then. I will update if I can or let Princessbelle know. Thank you all so much fr your kind words and thoughts. It really means a lot to us.

[BullDog]

Greyson and Julie, you are both in my good thoughts. I wish you a very speedy recovery.

[Bleu]

Greyson and Julie you and in my prayers, sending positive healing thoughts directly to you.
xo~Bleu

[UofMfan]

Keeping you both in my thoughts. Greyson, I hope your recovery swift and as pain free as possible.

[~baby~doll~]

Sending good energy their way.

[Spirit Dancer]

Healing energy and light for Greyson
and strength for Julie:praying:
http://i413.photobucket.com/albums/pp215/ylva51/candlelight/20091228-20.gif (http://media.photobucket.com/user/ylva51/media/candlelight/20091228-20.gif.html)

[Apocalipstic]

Just saw this!

Praying for both of you! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo :candle:

[StoneOne]

Prayers
To you and yours

[Liam]

Keeping both of you in my thoughts and prayers.

[Italianboi]

Send positive vibes and pray for both of you.
Greyson mate...wish you a super fast recovery, hugs from over the ocean!!!

[Nadeest]

Wishing you a speedy and complete recovery, and wishing strength to both you and Julie, on this journey.

[princessbelle]

The first cut was at 9 am pacific time...all is well...will update as I hear...keep the prayers and wishes comin. Thanks everyone!

[princessbelle]

Good news to report.Julie said they r not going to have to replace the valve..they r going to repair it. A ring has been placed into the valve and they r checking it to see if its going to work properly.......thanks Julie for keep us informed!

FYI...the ring in a heart valve...is sorta like an o ring on a facet for leakage ...its called..annuloplasty...hope I spelled that right....

I'll post when I hear more!

[The_Lady_Snow]

Stay strong Julie & Greyson

:hk2:


Thanks for the updates Pinkie Pie!!!!!!

[Novelafemme]

{{{{Greyson and Julie}}}}}} My thoughts are with you both. Sending lots of light and love for a speedy, full recovery! :bunchflowers:

[julieisafemme]

Going to try to post from my phone. Just spoke with the doctor HUGE SUCCESS! He had the valve repair and not a whisper of a leak. They also did some cryosurgery to treat his atrial fibrillation. They won't know if it worked for a bit but the valve repair was a success and no bad complications. We get to go up and see him in 45 minutes!

[Kätzchen]

Dear Julie & Greyson,

I will be keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers
for a full and speedy recovery!

:candle: :candle: :candle:

:bouquet:

:balloon:

[Tommi]

Going to try to post from my phone. Just spoke with the doctor HUGE SUCCESS! He had the valve repair and not a whisper of a leak. They also did some cryosurgery to treat his atrial fibrillation. They won't know if it worked for a bit but the valve repair was a success and no bad complications. We get to go up and see him in 45 minutes!

YEAAAHHhhhhhhh

[julieisafemme]

YEAAAHHhhhhhhh

He did not need any blood products at all during surgery!

[Heavenleahangel]

Going to try to post from my phone. Just spoke with the doctor HUGE SUCCESS! He had the valve repair and not a whisper of a leak. They also did some cryosurgery to treat his atrial fibrillation. They won't know if it worked for a bit but the valve repair was a success and no bad complications. We get to go up and see him in 45 minutes!

Wonderful news!!! Sending loving thoughts and prayers to both of you!

[Julie]

Greyson and Julie...

Sending you healing prayers -- and love.

Julie

[princessbelle]

Hooray!!!!

[SnackTime]

Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers!

GREAT news on the repair!

Thanks for the updates Princessbelle and Julie

[Blade]

Great to hear this news Julie!
God is good!

[Soon]

I was thinking of you both today and am so happy to come home from work to read this excellent news!

Wishes for Greyson's full and speedy recovery. (f)

[MsTinkerbelly]

Fabulous news!

A prayer is sent for quick and painless healing.

Keep a pillow handy for when you cough if you had open heart surgery, and it can also be used to cushion the area from any furry kids that want to cuddle or play.

[julieisafemme]

We are still waiting to see him and I am getting antsy! I need to see my spouse!

[KCBUTCH]

Good news so happy to hear the surgery went so well
Continued prayers to you both

[julieisafemme]

He looks really good. He is intebated now and still sleeping hard. We are waiting for him to wake up and then hey will take the tube out so he can breathe on his own and have some ice chips.

[The_Lady_Snow]

fantastic news!!

:hk2:

[Daktari]

Awesome news! :thumbsup:

Like Soon, I too have been thinking of you both all day as was hoping you might post with news before the end of my day over here.

:praying:

[Rockinonahigh]

Going to try to post from my phone. Just spoke with the doctor HUGE SUCCESS! He had the valve repair and not a whisper of a leak. They also did some cryosurgery to treat his atrial fibrillation. They won't know if it worked for a bit but the valve repair was a success and no bad complications. We get to go up and see him in 45 minutes!


Fantastic and wonderfull news.

[durrrrrrrr]

glad to hear that everything went well !!

[Dude]

He did not need any blood products at all during surgery!
:|
how's about slipping him a bonus pint Now? ;]

I'm glad he's ok
that's some scary shit

[StrongButch]

Glad to hear hes okay! Im sure he will be happy to open his eyes to a beautiful wife. You both take care! Oh maybe sneek him some snacks. (lol)

[fever]

I am glad to hear Greyson is okay and on the mend. Please relay my get well wishes to him, Julie.

Candice

[morningstar55]

keeping greyson in prayers and thoughts....

[princessbelle]

http://dl3.glitter-graphics.net/pub/1836/1836913wty62at05z.jpg (http://www.glitter-graphics.com)

Just got home from work and Julie says Greyson is doing GREAT!!!! She sent a pic of him laying in bed with that big red heart pillow across his chest and the best news is:

The tube is out and he has a smile on his face!!!!!!

Isn't our community amazing? Thanks all for all of the love and support to Julie and Greyson. I KNOW it has helped them through this!!!!

Yeeeeeeeehawwwwwwwwwww!!!!!

[girllikeu2]

He did not need any blood products at all during surgery!

Now he is just showing off...

[Liam]

I am so happy and grateful to hear that things went well!

[The JD]

So happy to hear everything went well- Speedy recovery, Greyson!

[Jesse]

Way to show em how you roll, Greyson! You both remain in my prayers and thoughts.

[Canela]

Tony and I have been believing for an amazing operation and healing since we heard. God is so good.

Canela

[firegal]

I just got home and am so thankfull for the news!

Speedy recovery my friend,thoughts and prayers are still with you and your wife!

Thanks for the messages these past week bro.

Hugs to you both.

[NorCalStud]

Both of you. It is a relief eh? Good deal!

[Breezy]

Yaaaaaaaaaaaay! Woooooohooooooo! Way to go Greyson~
We shall continue to send light, love and healing to you and Julie!

[spritzerJ]

I am thrilled to hear it went well for Grayson! Continued prayers for you both as the healing continues! :bunchflowers:

[JAGG]

Great news!!!!!!!! Good job Greyson!!!!! Hang tough my friend!!!

[RockOn]

Hey Greyson, hang tough, buddy! I know you have been through some really rough experiences and you can certainly get through this healing part.

Best wishes to both you and Julieisafemme!
Will be thinking of you.
Brock

[macele]

you know when i had surgery, the hospital was out of the heart pillows! ain't that a rip rah! the biggest hospital in the state of ms, ... no heart pillow. i'm glad greyson got his lol. that pillow will come in handy.

my brother told me that if you have to sneeze, ... to take your fingertip and push against the middle of your tongue, ... keeps you from sneezing. never worked for me lol. but did for him.

i'm glad all is good. i wish fast healing for you, greyson.

[julieisafemme]

Well I am home and fed and feeling good. Greyson is officially the super patient. They sat him up and then sat him in a chair! He sat and had ice chips which he declared better than ice cream and said we should have ice chips for dessert from now on at home!

Macele the heart pillow is to remind him not to use his arms or elbows to prop himself up and to hug when he needs to cough. Pretty nifty idea and cute to boot!

I'll be back there in the morning and update. Thank you all for your prayers and good wishes! It really means a lot and we so appreciate it.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Well I am home and fed and feeling good. Greyson is officially the super patient. They sat him up and then sat him in a chair! He sat and had ice chips which he declared better than ice cream and said we should have ice chips for dessert from now on at home!

Macele the heart pillow is to remind him not to use his arms or elbows to prop himself up and to hug when he needs to cough. Pretty nifty idea and cute to boot!

I'll be back there in the morning and update. Thank you all for your prayers and good wishes! It really means a lot and we so appreciate it.

I still have my heart pillow signed by all the hospital staff...a reminder of how precious life is.

[julieisafemme]

I still have my heart pillow signed by all the hospital staff...a reminder of how precious life is.

Happy birthday to you and your fixed up heart! Amazing what they can these days. My sil is a nurse and was remembering nursing school and heart surgeries and she said people could not move around like Greyson was two hours after surgery.

[macele]

Well I am home and fed and feeling good. Greyson is officially the super patient. They sat him up and then sat him in a chair! He sat and had ice chips which he declared better than ice cream and said we should have ice chips for dessert from now on at home!

Macele the heart pillow is to remind him not to use his arms or elbows to prop himself up and to hug when he needs to cough. Pretty nifty idea and cute to boot!

I'll be back there in the morning and update. Thank you all for your prayers and good wishes! It really means a lot and we so appreciate it.


yeah i know about needing a pillow quite well. a nurse made me a pillow. she took a regular one and wrapped tape around it to make it small lol.

so much in regards to the heart is better. like the heart catheterization. they did the cath through my wrist, not my groin. that's great.

maybe greyson will be home a few days. i hope.

[sis]

Delighted to hear that Greyson is on the mend .... will continue sending up prayers for his continued healing and strength for your family.

Deb

[FR]

Good grey ull be ur ole cranky self in no time- hehe!

[Words]

Only just saw this and SO happy that all went well.

Much love to you both...

Words

[jac]

Great news and best wishes for a healthy recovery!!

[Wolfsong]

Lord, You invite all who are burdened to come to you. Allow Your healing hand to heal Greyson. Touch his soul with Your compassion for others; touch his heart with Your courage and infinite love for all; touch his mind with Your Wisdom. Touch gently this life which You have created. Most loving Heart of Jesus, bring him health in body and spirit.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family for a speedy recovery and a long healthy life.


Wolf & Andi

[Tommi]

http://th08.deviantart.net/fs70/300W/i/2010/084/5/2/Audio_Heart_Tattoo_Design_by_PointOfYou.jpg
Glad to hear you have a good beat again. :)

[deb0670]

SO glad everything went well! Hugs and love to You both!

[firegal]

Good Morning Grey and Julie,

SHEESE 2 hours post surgery....he's an animal!

Enjoy your ice chips and keep it up bro.....

[PinkieLee]

Continuing positive, healing thoughts for Greyson.... and sending lots of (((HUGS)))) for Julie!

[~ocean]

Prayers and peace for u both ~ I admire your courage ~

[Boots13]

Prayers, light and healing headed your way !

[MsTinkerbelly]

Happy birthday to you and your fixed up heart! Amazing what they can these days. My sil is a nurse and was remembering nursing school and heart surgeries and she said people could not move around like Greyson was two hours after surgery.

Thank you so much!

I will never forget the look of awe on the nurses face when she said to me, "of course I'll sign your pillow, yours was the first heart I ever (literally) held in my hands".

Blessings to you and your family:bunchflowers:

[Electrocell]

Will keep you in my prayers for a speedy recovery.

[Canela]

Sending continued prayers of healing, strength and love to you both.

[julieisafemme]

Here at the hospital with the Patient of the Year. He will moved out of the ICU this afternoon. Besides nausea he is feeling pretty good. He will be back online tomorrow and that will make him happy. I am reading him the thread and it really lifts his spirits so thank you all for that.

[Breezy]

Woohoo! Out of ICU is always a good thing! Keep up the good recovery work. We send MORE light, love and healing.

[DamonK]

Fantastic news!!!!!

[alexri]

Sending positive healing thoughts to both of you. Glad to hear the good news.

[Nadeest]

Wishing you a speedy recovery.

[julieisafemme]

Home again. Good day for Greyson. He ate well this evening and the nausea is improved. He walked around a lot. The fact that he is a transman has been challenging. The staff have been wonderful but there has been some "she" and that is hard for him. I have been there most of the time so that helps. I am not shy about asking for proper pronouns! It's hard when people are all up in your business! Greyson though is the best patient and very gracious and calm. I am so impressed with how well he is doing.

[Hack]

Glad to hear he is doing well. Keep up the progress,Greyson! And remember to take care of YOU too, Julie.

[Liam]

Greyson, it brings me great joy, to hear that your recovery continues on a positive note. I must agree with you, you are a very lucky guy. Be patient with yourself, and keep up the good work.

Julie, your light shines brightly! Thanks for being there, thank you for your loving care and advocacy, and thank you for keeping us updated. Like Hack said, please take care of yourself.

[Kätzchen]

That's good news Julie, that Greyson is coming along well in his post-surgery status. I was part of a women's heart study at OHSU, several years ago, so I remember after my particular surgery, how criticial it is to be ambulatory and be able to keep ice chips down. I hope you get some rest tonight and thanks for keeping all of us aprised of his recovery process. Greyson is very fortunate to have you by his side.

[firegal]

awesome news again,

Greyson you are as they say " a sleeping giant"

One determined fella you sure are! Julie you rock for having his back.

Hugs to you both.

[julieisafemme]

Greyson will have his laptop tomorrow and I think he will have wifi. Keep those profile messages and pm's coming. He kept asking me to read the thread today. It really helps and makes him feel good. I am so amazed and appreciative of the wonderful support we have gotten. I am taking very good care of myself. I took care of my Mom before she passed and I know know how important that is.

[mustangjeano]

Here at the hospital with the Patient of the Year. He will moved out of the ICU this afternoon. Besides nausea he is feeling pretty good. He will be back online tomorrow and that will make him happy. I am reading him the thread and it really lifts his spirits so thank you all for that.

Great news. Best wishes for a smooth recovery. You are one tough guy and very lucky to have a great woman by your side.

[always2late]

Here at the hospital with the Patient of the Year. He will moved out of the ICU this afternoon. Besides nausea he is feeling pretty good. He will be back online tomorrow and that will make him happy. I am reading him the thread and it really lifts his spirits so thank you all for that.

This is wonderful and welcome news! :clap: Thank you Julie, for keeping us updated. Greyson, its so great to hear that you are on the mend...still sending prayers, positive thoughts, and wishes for your continued healing and recovery!

[Wolfsong]

.....it takes a tremendous spirit and the strength of real love to provide gladly the nurturing, gentle, steady touch that you have been for Greyson through this. You have been a heartwarming example to us all. Hope you guys have a great day!!

[Tommi]

Greyson will have his laptop tomorrow and I think he will have wifi. Keep those profile messages and pm's coming. He kept asking me to read the thread today. It really helps and makes him feel good. I am so amazed and appreciative of the wonderful support we have gotten. I am taking very good care of myself. I took care of my Mom before she passed and I know know how important that is.

You can put on some Friday music and start that rehab. So glad everything is going so well.
http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mc4yq6rSft1rj7vq1o1_400.gif

[NorCalStud]

It is a new day. I hope you both are comfortable and log in some rest time. This is a unconventional way to honeymoon.

[Mel C.]

There are lots of people thinking about you every day. Wishing you a full and speedy recovery!

[julieisafemme]

It is a new day. I hope you both are comfortable and log in some rest time. This is a unconventional way to honeymoon.

You are so right! I was just thinking about this this morning. Would I rather have a week vacation somewhere or the opportunity to stay home for a few months and take care of my spouse? This is actually a wonderful blessing for us both. His nurse yesterday said think of this as a required break from everyday life. I liked thinking of it that way.

[julieisafemme]

.....it takes a tremendous spirit and the strength of real love to provide gladly the nurturing, gentle, steady touch that you have been for Greyson through this. You have been a heartwarming example to us all. Hope you guys have a great day!!

Wow thank you so much. I think anyone here would do the same for their spouse or partner!

[julieisafemme]

Here at the hospital. Greyson is not feeling the best today. He is really tired and had some procedures today that hurt a lot. I am trying to force him to take a nap and he finally gave up and now is watching Judge Judy!

He got his computer today and saw all the wonderful messages and it made him feel great. Thank you.

[nycfem]

Judge Judy is the best medicine for healing imo!

Love to you both!

[julieisafemme]

Home again. Today was tougher for him. I brought the computer and he enjoyed looking at the posts everyone has left but he was really tired. If you know about heart stuff today was the day they removed the chest drainage tubes. That hurt a lot and wore him out. The good news is he is tube free except for one IV for meds. That means he will sleep lots better tonight. I left him watching his beloved Dodgers. I have tried to click on all of your profiles to write a thank you for each post. I know I have missed people. Thank you all so very much for all the kind words. It really does make a difference!

[Tye]

I'm glad everything went well for greyson with surgery and wish you both all the best with the recovery process.

[Rockinonahigh]

Greyson you now have two birthdays to celebrate,Julie take care of yourself so you two can party to just because you can.

[firegal]

Those drain tubes are painfull and I bet he is tired....lots of rest is always part of the healing process.

The judge Judy made me laugh...hey someday a show called judge grey!

Thanks so much for the updates .

Hugs hugs hugs.

PS grey we do gotta get caught up,good things goin on here!

[julieisafemme]

The Eagle has landed. Elvis has left the hospital. Greyson is home! He is feeling pretty good and does not have a lot of pain. Sleeping is challenging but he is giving it a try. Thank you all so much for the prayers, good wishes and support!

[firegal]

That is great news! Keep up the good work.... But rest yourself too!

Glad your home,thanks for the update Julie


Hugs!

[MissItalianDiva]

I am a little late to this thread but you both are in my prayers and I am happy the surgery went well. Healing thoughts and energy to you both

[girllikeu2]

Doe this mean we can make him laugh again?

[Greyson]

Everyone, thank you all so much for your support. I am home now and very tired. I could not thank every post individually. I am really tired and so happy to be home. The nurses and staff were over all great. There were many "teachable moments" and I think maybe a few people have moved forward in their thinking about LGBTQ people.

That's it for now. Again, thanks so much for all the love and support of both me and Julie. Julie has gone above and beyond. I have to tell you, to be loved so much by her really changes my perspective on so many things.

Namaste.

Greyson

[GreeneyedMe]

Take good care...rest, rest and more rest....from one heart patient to another. :)

[girllikeu2]

I am still stunned and awed that you are upish and about a week after surgery. Go ahead rock star!

[Greyson]

Sorry, I forgot to thank Princessbelle. This community is very fortunate to have her and I am grateful for belle's long friendship. Belle, thank you for starting this thread and giving moral support to Julie. You are a compassionate woman, intelligent and a Nurse that shares so much of your knowledge.

BTW, Happy Nurses Day. I know if you were my nurse, I would make a point of letting your supervisor know, buy you a token of my appreciation, and yes flirt with you a bit.

Grey

[torchiegirl]

So glad your surgery went well and it seems that you are up and about ^5!

ok, well ^5 at waist level anyway ;) *supa-stahhh

...
...
...

[Talon]

"For He will command His angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways;

They will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone."



Psalm~91:11-12 :candle:

[clay]

Greyson & Julie...I have been "away" awhile, and am just seeing this thread.
Know you both are in my heart & healing thoughts.
Take care my beautiful friends....godpseed your recovery....love and hugs..Clay

[firegal]

No more updates...he must be keeping Julie busy....wink wink!

Hugs

[julieisafemme]

Very busy. He is doing really well! Walks around the block and lots of napping. Many doctor appointments this week. I am a little stir crazy but so blessed to be able to be home with him.

[princessbelle]

Sorry, I forgot to thank Princessbelle. This community is very fortunate to have her and I am grateful for belle's long friendship. Belle, thank you for starting this thread and giving moral support to Julie. You are a compassionate woman, intelligent and a Nurse that shares so much of your knowledge.

BTW, Happy Nurses Day. I know if you were my nurse, I would make a point of letting your supervisor know, buy you a token of my appreciation, and yes flirt with you a bit.

Grey

Thank you Greyson, that was mighty sweet and kind of you.

So many times online we (general) play together, fight, disagree, laugh and cry together. I love finding opportunities to praise one another as well. I'm gonna take that opportunity right now.

So, all, indulge me, will you?

When i found the dash site, some 5 years ago, you talk about being a lost puppy. Green doesn't even begin to describe who i was. One of the first people i met was Greyson in chat and i think he could tell right away i was way out of my league and comfort zone. He befriended me and sorta took me under his wing. He taught me so much about our community, about gay life, about how things work online and most importantly he taught me about friendship. True, raw, real, unconditional friendship.

We've been through a lot haven't we Greyson? I've heard your fears and you've heard mine. I remember when you got your first T injection, how nervous you were. Each and every step on our paths we have known the other is not far away, to dry a tear, to hear a rant, to be genuinely happy of each other's lives. Now we don't always agree, but no matter, we are still there for each other...that's family.

I want to speak about Julie. When she came along i honestly had thought Greyson would live/die alone out there in big ole Cali. Not because he couldn't capture a girl's attention, cause he sure could, but because he was so freaking picky about who he developed relationships with. The first time i saw Julie and Greyson together in a picture, i could tell on both of their faces....this was it. They are perfect for each other. Both are smart, outstanding, and to me, almost regal in a way and the two of them together are one hell of a team. Nothing has made me happier than to see them date and eventually marry. What an amazing couple.

When i talked to Julie on the phone when Greyson was in ICU, the love she has for him traveled through those airways and touched my heart. The thing is, and i know it sounds simple, but they honestly, truly love each other. It is an energy felt by anyone around them, who knows them. It is simply beautiful.

You are both amazing people and i am honored to know you both and to call you both family.

Keep healing dear Greyson, you still have a lot to do in this community. Your journey is just beginning.

Anddddddd who knows what shy little girl or boi/boy is just signing in here and needs a mentor. I, for one, know just who to send them to. ;)

[JAGG]

Sorry, I forgot to thank Princessbelle. This community is very fortunate to have her and I am grateful for belle's long friendship. Belle, thank you for starting this thread and giving moral support to Julie. You are a compassionate woman, intelligent and a Nurse that shares so much of your knowledge.

BTW, Happy Nurses Day. I know if you were my nurse, I would make a point of letting your supervisor know, buy you a token of my appreciation, and yes flirt with you a bit.

Grey

Oh Geez well we can all see Greyson is getting back to his old self again. (rolling eyes) hahahah Just ribbing ya buddy somebody has to give you a hard time so I picked me. :)

[RNguy]

Lord, i just saw this thread . I need to browse more!!!!
Im glad youre feeling much better and your procedure went well !!!
If i were your nurse id keep ya pain and nausea Free :)

[Greyson]

I had my first follow up doctor appointment today with the surgeon. I felt like I was on a field trip on a beautiful California Spring day. Julie and I had lunch at the hospital cafeteria. When I was in the hospital Julie ate there a lot. She had nothing but kudos for the hospital cafeteria. The food is good, nutritional and reasonably priced. For Julie to like cafeteria food was amazing. She is a bit of a foodie. Me, I will eat almost anything. Maybe not so much anymore. Although I did not have heart disease, I am changing my diet. More veggies and fruit, less red meat and carbs.

You know, I did not even realize I had a malfunctioning heart valve and an enlarged heart. No heart attack, no chest pain, no shortness of breath. The heart condition was found by chance because I had a chest xray done for something unrelated to heart health.

I am very physically strong, good genes but this has also kept me in some denial about how I take care of myself, or lack there of. For me, losing weight is no longer just about how I look. This has really opened my eyes to yet another layer in my life onion. I appreciate the love and support of many here. How could it not feel inspiring to know people out there really do care?

Tomorrow I have another follow up appointment but with the cardiologist. Well really with his P.A. The P.A. is a white straight man and has treated me with nothing but professionalism, great bed side manner and respect.

There is much for me to learn, evaluate, consider and give back in this entire experience. Did I have fear? You bet. It did cross my mind that I may not wake up from surgery. I am not afraid of dying but I was afraid of not having lived some of my dreams, goals and leaving many people behind that I love.

I will say this, do not put off your life, your hopes, dreams and forgiving others and Yourself.

[Katniss]

I will say this, do not put off your life, your hopes, dreams and forgiving others and Yourself.

Truer words were never spoken.....

Also, so glad the both of you are doing well......


Katniss~~

[julieisafemme]

Hello everyone! Greyson is still healing but is hurting a lot. We have heard this is common when the sternum starts to mend. He will be five weeks post surgery on Wednesday. Any words of encouragement from those of you who have experienced this would be great. He says he feelis like a truck ran over him. The last few days have been almost as bad as when he first got home. He is taking Tylenol and that helps. It makes it hard for him to get his exercise. He's feeling a little blue and hopes the healing will be done soon.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Hello everyone! Greyson is still healing but is hurting a lot. We have heard this is common when the sternum starts to mend. He will be five weeks post surgery on Wednesday. Any words of encouragement from those of you who have experienced this would be great. He says he feelis like a truck ran over him. The last few days have been almost as bad as when he first got home. He is taking Tylenol and that helps. It makes it hard for him to get his exercise. He's feeling a little blue and hopes the healing will be done soon.

Ooooo goodie I get to give advice! LOL

I am post surgery 2007, and my sternum is still an issue. That being said, it is more annoying than anything.

My sternam is wired together, as I imagine yours is? I still feel pulling when I try to lift a heavy object, and for the longest time because of the healing process the area itched like the dickens!

One thing I have noticed is that I now have to "stretch" the area by tilting my head back slowly and letting the muscles lengthen. There was so much pain involved for a while that I kept my chin close to my chest, causing the area to contract and not feel as "free in movement" as it once was.

Be careful to stay sitting, standing or exercising as much as posssible...I gave into the pain and laid around just long enough to wind up back at the Hospital with Pneumonia.

My pain level got better around the 3 month mark...it truely takes a full year for everything to heal and mend on the inside, just as with most major surgeries.

Take care of yourselves!

Many Blessings,

Cindy

[julieisafemme]

Ok! Very helpful! Yes he is wired together. The chin thing sounds very helpful. I know his muscles are all bunched up because he is protecting his sternum. He is getting out more after two days of really resting a lot. It is hard to hear that he will be hurting for awhile more. Luckily he is off work long enough to fully recover and get stronger. Thank you so much for posting. It helps a lot to hear from someone who knows what it feels like!

[girllikeu2]

Ok! Very helpful! Yes he is wired together. The chin thing sounds very helpful. I know his muscles are all bunched up because he is protecting his sternum. He is getting out more after two days of really resting a lot. It is hard to hear that he will be hurting for awhile more. Luckily he is off work long enough to fully recover and get stronger. Thank you so much for posting. It helps a lot to hear from someone who knows what it feels like!

Good news is that thirtysomething years after my surgery I have almost no problems with the surgical site. Every so often I will get a sharp stab pain near the top of the scar where I have a little bone fragment protruding. That smarts when I knock it but otherwise I have no residual pain from it. I was a toddler when my sternum got into a fight with a surgeon's saw so not sure if my age at the time has any baring on the healing. When I was a child (probably 2 or 3 years post surgical) I know I had some pain there with deep breaths. Sorry I can't be more helpful!

[MsTinkerbelly]

Ok! Very helpful! Yes he is wired together. The chin thing sounds very helpful. I know his muscles are all bunched up because he is protecting his sternum. He is getting out more after two days of really resting a lot. It is hard to hear that he will be hurting for awhile more. Luckily he is off work long enough to fully recover and get stronger. Thank you so much for posting. It helps a lot to hear from someone who knows what it feels like!

I just wanted to check in and see how you both are doing?

How is the pain level now Greyson?

[cinderella]

Hi Greyson, Carmin here. I just became aware of this situation - I don't come on the site that often anymore - FB is my new hangout. If I hadn't seen this on the main board, I'd never known.

I haven't read all the posts, so I'm not in on all the details. I hope your surgery was successful, and that you are on a speedy road to recovery. You have always been one of the people on here I respect and like. My prayers and good thoughts go out to you for full recovery/healing.

Best regards,
Carmin

[Greyson]

I just wanted to check in and see how you both are doing?

How is the pain level now Greyson?

The pain level has lowered. It still hurts very much if I must cough or clear my throat. Thanks to Julie's insistence I now have a very comfortable bed and pillows. In my life I have never had a mattress made to my specifications but in this situation, it was so worth it. Thanks for checking in and asking.

[Greyson]

Hi Greyson, Carmin here. I just became aware of this situation - I don't come on the site that often anymore - FB is my new hangout. If I hadn't seen this on the main board, I'd never known.

I haven't read all the posts, so I'm not in on all the details. I hope your surgery was successful, and that you are on a speedy road to recovery. You have always been one of the people on here I respect and like. My prayers and good thoughts go out to you for full recovery/healing.

Best regards,
Carmin


Hi Carmen. Thank you. Yes, I see many have gone to FB. I should try harder to get the hang of it. Next time I go back on FB, I will try to find you and ask to befriend you. And, I am hoping you have pics of your puppy on your page.

[Greco]

Greyson,

Just came onto this thread, had no idea what you've been going through, and I second what Camin said, "You have always been one of the people on here I respect and like". I respect your clear, compassionate, and balanced responses to folks here.

I wish you a full recovery, and keep you in my thoughts.

keep on truckin Greyson.

warm regards, Greco

[cinderella]

The full name would be XXX. Am looking forward to seeing, and interacting with you on FB. Let me know that you are 'Greyson' with your friend request so I'll know who you are. :)

I'm so glad you are well enough to be on the computer. Best regards.


Hi Carmen. Thank you. Yes, I see many have gone to FB. I should try harder to get the hang of it. Next time I go back on FB, I will try to find you and ask to befriend you. And, I am hoping you have pics of your puppy on your page.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Hi Greyson and Julie,

Here you are at the 3 month mark...how are you feeling?

[Stronghealer]

I am sorry I missed this-I hope you have healed up well!









.