Instant Turn-Ons

[Girl_On_Fire]

It could be a smile, a certain type of clothing, a scent of cologne/perfume, etc. that just takes you from ordinary, everyday thoughts to naughty ones.

What are your "instant turn-ons"?

[Sweet Bliss]

Am so not telling :blush:

[Girl_On_Fire]

Am so not telling :blush:

Ha ha! Why? Afraid someone might learn your weakness and use it on you? ;)

[Sweet Bliss]

Well, I'm thinking the thread will blow up ... tee,hee,hee

[Mel C.]

Girl should start since it is her thread

[Parker]

A good sense of humor will get my attention, but I have a "thing" about hands - some women's hands can make me go from nice to naughty in an instant. :winky:

[Bad_boi]

http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mcztzuboif1ryt2jqo1_500.gif

[Mel C.]

sooooo many things....the right hands, or neck, or eyes....yummy!

[Slowpurr]

The spotting of a butch women, anywhere, anytime. Nice.

[SirLucian]

The MIND.........

[Mel C.]

corsets....fuck me pumps...leather...fishnet stockings...etc

[Jesse]

Intelligence

[Daktari]

A brain with a penchant for witty word play.
Cleavage
Playful grrl cheek (you lot might call is sass)

[PoeticSilence]

Bare shoulders
Exposed collarbones
The small of her back
Prominent hips
The arch of her foot
When she wears my button down shirts
When she gets dressed in the morning
When her hair is still damp from the shower
The way she talks in her sleep
Her morning conversations with the dogs, cats, and parrots
Nearly eight years now and I could still weep with joy and thanks for her in my life.

[Gemme]

It could be a smile, a certain type of clothing, a scent of cologne/perfume, etc. that just takes you from ordinary, everyday thoughts to naughty ones.

What are your "instant turn-ons"?

The split second when the voice goes from conversational to 'that'.

*swoon*

I won't lie, I love a good smelling person. Femme, butch, straight or spirally....I don't care. I WILL sniff you.


:blush:

[JAGG]

There are so many. :)

A pretty smile
Sweet personality
Articulate
Good dresser
Fit
Smells good
Heels and jeans
Very affectionate
Happy

[curlyredhead]

corsets....fuck me pumps...leather...fishnet stockings...etc

Mel are you inside my head or something or do we just have similar taste in women???

I drool when a woman with sexy legs is wearing thigh highs and garters.. Fuck me shoes...

The image is stained in my head for the rest of the day.

[puddin']

a sense o' humour, and swag
sense o' adventure
a snappy dresser

[Bèsame*]

the voice, and how words are used


SWAGGER

[imperfect_cupcake]

a good dresser. casual dapper.
a cheeky grin and banter
a sense of grace
hands
a filthy dark grin and dirty ideas

[PinkieLee]

veiny hands
quiet confidence

[peachy]

Kindness
Sweetness
Tenderness
Strength
That calm and unrufflable quality
Being a bit Masterful
Thighs in jeans or trousers
Strong arms

[GeeGina]

Attitude.
Confidence.
Unwavering eye contact.
A well tailored suit.
An easy laugh.

Butch specific -
Strong arms.
Packing.
Boots and a leather jacket.
Manners.
Hairy armpits.

[JAGG]

A subtle unmistakable strength
Independence
Shiny lips
Nice chest
Nice butt

[Jar]

a good sense of humor, intelligence, easy to talk to, good listener....

And I recently discovered a desire to bite belly buttons :gimmehug:

[Scots_On_The_Rocks]

Hands...any hands really
Eyes...the kind that you find yourself falling into their depths
Intelligence
Wit
Accents (have one myself, so I am kinda biased)

[deb_U_taunt]

a great laugh
eyes

[Daktari]

Small of back curve
A girl straight outta the bath/shower
When she finds *that* place on my neck :thud:

[Queenie]

What turns me on.... Geeks!

[Girl_On_Fire]

Girl should start since it is her thread

Oh no, I rarely go first when I start a thread. I think it makes it look like I'm making it "all about me".

My instant turn-ons:

On a butch or transguy:


leather chaps (oh, dear God)
"laugh lines" around the eyes
muscular arms and/or strong hands
intelligence
strong, commanding, yet soothing voice (this, apparently, is incredibly hard to pull off)


*swoon*

[PurerSands]

When she leaves the room in "that" way, giving me "that" look.... :seeingstars:

When she rubs my stomach/back under my t-shirt.... Letting me know she needs me... *Dies*

[girllikeu2]

Showing respect

Commanding respect without demanding respect

intelligence

wit

genuine kindness

[NitroChrys_Butch]

The way she looks at Me

her startled expression which leads to a blush then laughter when she catches Me staring

her playfulness

her strengths

the way she squeaks when I catch her in My arms

her smile

the tilt of her head

her scent

how she fits My body like we are made for one another

[mountainbikedyke]

Chemistry- the sexual AND non-sexual kind. The way we just "fit" with each other...

And her tits n ass! :)

[Tommi]

That come and get me smile

Her butt as she sways and bends makes me want to grab her

That feminine curve of the fingers as she sits and plays

Putting her hands together and raising them above her head .

Long wavy hair I can wrap my hand in

Dripping Wet, out of the shower , everytime

Intelligent, savy, sexy, sensual..


lucky me :)

[Syr]

Bacon!!!!!!!!!!

[Scots_On_The_Rocks]

A well worded turn of phrase at the right time.

Oh and a woman in a hockey jersey and NOTHING else. :drool:

[GeeGina]

Skilled, clever flirting.
Directness.
Rubbing the small of my back.

[imperfect_cupcake]

direct
dirty mouth

breast fetish


submarine

[JAGG]

Strong work ethic
Energetic
Adventure loving
Honesty
Great sense of humor
Healthy sexdrive
Good kisser
Good cook lol
Unselfish

[Sweet Bliss]

Strong work ethic
Energetic
Adventure loving
Honesty
Great sense of humor
Healthy sexdrive
Good kisser
Good cook lol
Unselfish

I don't know JAGG, looks like you are turned on by yourself, ... yep.

[SugarFemme]

Beautiful hands. Strong hands. Nothing stops me in my tracks quicker.

[*Anya*]

Reaching over, pulling my hair back and kissing my neck...

Or very gently nipping my neck with her teeth.

Oh gosh.

:blush:

[JAGG]

I don't know JAGG, looks like you are turned on by yourself, ... yep.

hahahahahaha Aw come on now Sweet Bliss !!! But you did make me laugh. I am not my type at all trust me.

[Enchantress]

A hand on the small of my lower back, to guide me as I walk.

[JAGG]

Slow to anger
Patient
Generous
Grateful
Thoughtful
Forgiving
Stubborn (but just a little) =)

[macele]

the first thing i ever noticed about a woman, and i was just a popsicle eatin' bicycle ridin' little tomboy back then, was that something in the way she talks to me. the way she cares. with a bit of discipline mixed in there.

banter/teasing

perfume (sometimes i turn myself on LOL.)

the woman that cuts my hair has a southern accent, not country, but southern. you guessed it. my hair stays short.

if she holds my hand. o my.

earrings. jewelry in general. love it! wear it!

if she touches my ass, i'm just poof, ... we gone!

[RockOn]

There's a certain type of plus-size fat-bottomed femmes...

As you can see, I am in "pig mode" right now. I will come back later and reveal my decent side ......... maybe. ;)

[Sweet Bliss]

Slow to anger
Patient
Generous
Grateful
Thoughtful
Forgiving
Stubborn (but just a little) =)?

There are several attributes you have mentioned, that I believe I have displayed, hidden, touted, perfected, performed, feigned or invented. Except I am not known for having a great rear view. But you are amazingly young, and I am amazingly alive today. And of course amazing. Only one thing turns me on and its not on anyone's list.

Imagine that.

I've survived the belief that the perfect person is "out there waiting ".

We are all waiting, never taking a risk or setting aside our "must haves " long enough to even get to know someone. There is no one out here who can meet your demands for the attributes for the "soul mate " you think you deserve or are entitled to receive.

I'm speaking of the collective "you and me and we".

[Scots_On_The_Rocks]

Being woke up to/with a kiss

[Bèsame*]

kisses on a bare shoulder

[Jesse]

I love when she is fresh out of the shower or bath.

[NorCalStud]

Always takes my hand walking

[Nat]

Braaaaiiiiins

[macele]

awww shoot fire i can't sleep!

so lol, ...

i can't believe that i am going to admit this. but here goes. if you watch duck dynasty then you know ms kay. well ms kay talks sweet to her dogs, bo bo and jay jay. i love it! LOL she instantly turns me on when she winks and talks sweet.

my niece gave me a dog. His name WAS nacho. i named him bo bo.

[Soon]

...her walking over *knowing* it is for a kiss...

[JAGG]

A running or workout partner would be a huge turn on.

If she can golf or play tennis or basketball .
Riding mountain bikes or any sport we can enjoy together.
A partner in projects.
A femme using a nail gun is freakin hawt!

[Katniss]

Someone who understands there is a *right way* for clothes to be put away. As in all *facing* the same way, grouped by function (work, casual, etc) then by color and if locale calls for it by season. Someone who understands that all of the *non-wire* hangers need to match and *face the same way* and who will understand when I go in the closet and fix it if they mess up.

Someone who also understands the *right way* to fold towels and store things in the linen closet. I won't go in to all the rules on this one as it is rather extensive.

Basically my soulmate is Martha Stewart. Although if you have enough bedroom skills to get me to scream "It's a good thing" until I can't speak anymore then I might cut you a break on the linen closet thing, but not on the clothes closet criteria.



Katniss~~(having now made it crystal clear why partnering with me is not for the faint of heart....)

[Amber2010]

The eyes!!!
They say the eyes are the mirror of our very soul but when I am looked at in a certian way.. a way there is no mistaken an interest.. I melt... I can feel my face turning red...
Yes those very sexy eyes start everything going for sure! giggles

[Sweet Bliss]

[QUOTE=Katniss;850672]Someone who understands there is a *right way* for clothes to be put away. As in all *facing* the same way, grouped by function (work, casual, etc) then by color and if locale calls for it by season. Someone who understands that all of the *non-wire* hangers need to match and *face the same way* and who will understand when I go in the closet and fix it if they mess up.

Someone who also understands the *right way* to fold towels and store things in the linen closet. I won't go in to all the rules on this one as it is rather extensive.

Basically my soulmate is Martha Stewart. Although if you have enough bedroom skills to get me to scream "It's a good thing" until I can't speak anymore then I might cut you a break on the linen closet thing, but not on the clothes closet criteria.

I love you Katniss, will you be my Girl? Swoon ... neat closets, properly folded towels, every thing in it's place, everything has a place, still swooning, omg, be still my hungry heart. :awww:

[Daktari]

A meal cooked with love just to please me

Sleep warm skin

A grrl on her knees ready for direction.

[JAGG]

Someone who understands there is a *right way* for clothes to be put away. As in all *facing* the same way, grouped by function (work, casual, etc) then by color and if locale calls for it by season. Someone who understands that all of the *non-wire* hangers need to match and *face the same way* and who will understand when I go in the closet and fix it if they mess up.

Someone who also understands the *right way* to fold towels and store things in the linen closet. I won't go in to all the rules on this one as it is rather extensive.

Basically my soulmate is Martha Stewart. Although if you have enough bedroom skills to get me to scream "It's a good thing" until I can't speak anymore then I might cut you a break on the linen closet thing, but not on the clothes closet criteria.



Katniss~~(having now made it crystal clear why partnering with me is not for the faint of heart....)
A squared away femme.
I love organization and a clean tidy home.
I could never date a slob. Huge turn off for me.

[Bèsame*]

http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Ex4sXyPoKMs/S33NW5lwfzI/AAAAAAAABdk/6NamhnbrPY4/S1600-R/ashleyheader.png

[Katniss]

I love you Katniss, will you be my Girl? Swoon ... neat closets, properly folded towels, every thing in it's place, everything has a place, still swooning, omg, be still my hungry heart. :awww:

Yes, yes, good, good....you are all about the sexy closet right now only to break my heart when I discover you don't know how to *correctly* load the dishwasher for maximum cleaning impact. *le sigh*

I am all about O.C.D.= Orgasmic Closet Design (<--I stole that from a CP I just got and not trying to take credit.)


But if this....

http://fungot.com/uploads/forum/media/71/712/annoying-photos-for-those-with-ocd1.jpg


bothers you way more than it should you might be the girl for me. If you are the kind to actually get out and straighten it then I might have to marry you.


Katniss~~( a good friend of mine claims there is a cure for my quirks but that is more of a BDSM topic.....)

[macele]

makes smoke appear in the tire area of barracuda, ... got to go borrow a manhole lifter from the town water department.

[SleepyButch]

Since this is about instant turn-ons:

Sucking on your own fingers while you look at Me

Eyes and that look of Come Hither.

Legs and a sexy pair of heels.

A sexy ass

Certain Sarcasm or quick wit

[gaea]

When he opens my car door knowing that a kiss awaits.

The way he smiles at me

The way He is just a part of my family

just him...

[Gemme]

Yes, yes, good, good....you are all about the sexy closet right now only to break my heart when I discover you don't know how to *correctly* load the dishwasher for maximum cleaning impact. *le sigh*

I am all about O.C.D.= Orgasmic Closet Design (<--I stole that from a CP I just got and not trying to take credit.)


But if this....

http://fungot.com/uploads/forum/media/71/712/annoying-photos-for-those-with-ocd1.jpg


bothers you way more than it should you might be the girl for me. If you are the kind to actually get out and straighten it then I might have to marry you.


Katniss~~( a good friend of mine claims there is a cure for my quirks but that is more of a BDSM topic.....)

I can do that.

And, yes, I want to turn the cover.

:blink:

[girl_dee]

intelligent conversation....

*swOOooOooOon....

[Just_G]

That hot little up-do thing that femmes do with their hair where they swirl it around and bam! Instant turn on for G! When I see, even a random woman that I do not know do that, I stop dead in my tracks and watch her do it. I know I may or may not have drooled a time or two over the years!

If she sticks a pencil through the swirl of hair to get it to stay up on the back of her head; I am DONE. Cold shower baby. :thud:

[Sweet Bliss]

Yes, if you will divulge the location of that atrocity I will fix it promptly. It's making me anxious, maybe I should look for something to clean or fix.

I make gorgeous fabric bags, all sizes for stuff that looks tacky in clear plastic bags. I Crochet shopping bags, add beads and ribbons. Japanese origami boxes with special Japanese paper for paper clips etc. I have special fabric bag made of special cat fabric that holds plastic bags for cleaning out the litter boxes.

I don't just organize, I have to make or buy pretty things to put things away in. Am way more obsessed with perfect than just neat. And ugly stuff goes straight to the trash. Much to roomies horror. I tossed the broken chair when she brought home the replacement. So now I'm forbidden to throw away trash. I sense a battle coming.

I'm kidding of course, I have given up trying to clean up this place. Some folks prefer chaos and filth. I'm not one of them. Hurricane is coming soon, maybe Karen will clean out the house.

[cara]

sensually whispering into my ear. Or snuggling up to me from behind if I'm standing up. Or brushing up against me subtly but totally on purpose. :)

[Girl_On_Fire]

Being bitten on the neck. Not nipped. That's irritating. If you can use your whole mouth and chomp without breaking skin (or dousing my neck in saliva), you've got the skills I'm looking for. ;)

[NorCalStud]

She is filled wih golden light and yet she would clock someone if they threatened her or her family.

[Gemme]

I've thought about something regarding this thread and it may only be my perception or the fact that we are all individuals with different tastes or that the question is being answered as I also interpreted it but I just don't have that particular 'on' button orrrr I could just really be missing the mark on this totally, but (for me) some of the posts are more along the lines of what turns you on, as in a general way, and that's great. Turn ons are certainly better than turn offs. Maybe I just experience an instant turn on differently than others.

What I gathered from Girl_On_Fire's orginal post was that she wanted to know what flips the switch and/or what changes the script in an instant. See original post below:

It could be a smile, a certain type of clothing, a scent of cologne/perfume, etc. that just takes you from ordinary, everyday thoughts to naughty ones.

What are your "instant turn-ons"?

That word 'instant' makes all the difference to me. For me, it is not the 'oh, that's nice' or 'I could feel desire or attraction for this person if they did/said/were/knew this'.

For me, it's the eye-widening, breath catching, tummy tightening moment that says I DESIRE YOU whereas in the previous moment there weren't sexual thoughts or undertones at all. Whether right or wrong, whether in a public or private environment, whether expected or unexpected. It's just suddenly there, where it was not immediately before, like a flame in the dark.

1epnpcHf3Ko

I don't know. Late night/early morning pontification and rambling, I guess.

[Glenn]

This happened only a few times to me, and I still don't understand wth happened. They were'nt really looking, doing, or wearing anything attractive or sexy, just sitting at a table as usual talking to me. One I knew a short time, and one a long time.There was no previous physical attraction, and then BAM! Pure unadulterated lust that went on and on for months.. Tennov and others called this limerence, or some kind of chemical bath in our brains.



QUOTE=Gemme;850967][B][SIZE="3"][COLOR="YellowGreen"]I gathered from Girl_On_Fire's orginal post was that she wanted to know what flips the switch and/or what changes the script in an instant. See original post below:



That word 'instant' makes all the difference to me. For me, it is not the 'oh, that's nice' or 'I could feel desire or attraction for this person if they did/said/were/knew this'.

For me, it's the eye-widening, breath catching, tummy tightening moment that says I DESIRE YOU whereas in the previous moment there weren't sexual thoughts or undertones at all.

[gaea]

when we are having our morning coffee and he is reading and he looks up over the rim of his glasses and smiles at me

instant turn on

[BestButchBoy]

A beautiful woman.

[Girl_On_Fire]

I've thought about something regarding this thread and it may only be my perception or the fact that we are all individuals with different tastes or that the question is being answered as I also interpreted it but I just don't have that particular 'on' button orrrr I could just really be missing the mark on this totally, but (for me) some of the posts are more along the lines of what turns you on, as in a general way, and that's great. Turn ons are certainly better than turn offs. Maybe I just experience an instant turn on differently than others.

What I gathered from Girl_On_Fire's orginal post was that she wanted to know what flips the switch and/or what changes the script in an instant. See original post below:



That word 'instant' makes all the difference to me. For me, it is not the 'oh, that's nice' or 'I could feel desire or attraction for this person if they did/said/were/knew this'.

For me, it's the eye-widening, breath catching, tummy tightening moment that says I DESIRE YOU whereas in the previous moment there weren't sexual thoughts or undertones at all. Whether right or wrong, whether in a public or private environment, whether expected or unexpected. It's just suddenly there, where it was not immediately before, like a flame in the dark.

1epnpcHf3Ko

I don't know. Late night/early morning pontification and rambling, I guess.

Yes, this is pretty much what I meant. Instant. As in, I'm thinking about bagels right now to "Oh my God, take me now." It's okay though. We can expand. ;)

[Gemme]

You never know. A good bagel can take you places.

;)

[Sweet Bliss]

Yes, this is pretty much what I meant. Instant. As in, I'm thinking about bagels right now to "Oh my God, take me now." It's okay though. We can expand. ;)

Well guess I didn't understand the question, again, lol.

Only happened that way two times in my life so far. Other wise, takes me a while to feel comfortable.

Having the brain bathed in "take me now " sounds accurate. Makes no logical sense otherwise. Kind of like a roller coaster with no brakes.

[Dude]

Brains
A Good winker ; /
Good mothers

Warm eyes
Humor
Big Love of animals

[NorCalStud]

watching her tight ass slip out the front door wrapped in a long fleece horse print blanket with an unlit cigarette between her painted, small, polished, fingers.

I mean GOOD GAWD

[SleepyButch]

A moan from her sexy lips! I mean holy hell!!

[ruffryder]

**taking notes :readfineprint:

My instant turn on,
come with coffee and food!

[SirLucian]

Blood that runs thru his veins

:vampire:

[QueenofSmirks]

Self-confidence

[o'queery]

Sexy brains.... mmmmmmmmm

Swagger

Self confidence/awareness

Dominance

and one for me... and not for most is... YES! Arrogance.

[puddin']

Having the brain bathed in "take me now " sounds accurate. Makes no logical sense otherwise. Kind of like a roller coaster with no brakes.


da point is it makes no logical sense. lol. and it's exactly like a roller coaster outta control...

[whale]

Chubby cheeks, short skirts, athletic wear, dresses, boobs.. I'm at the stage right now that if I see a woman I'm instantly attracted, so I don't have a type ATM.

[Girl_On_Fire]

The sound of a low, rumbling growl. One I can feel right in my heart chakra. Oh, yes please!

[Smiling]

It goes hand-in-hand with self-confidence; it's a certain way of being comfortable in one's own skin. A sense of humor that just comes naturally; not having to force it or embellish it in any way. Not being in a hurry; though not slothful or lazy either.

I'm not sure I can explain it; but when I recognize it in others, I respond to it in very positive ways.

[Gemme]

The sound of a low, rumbling growl. One I can feel right in my heart chakra. Oh, yes please!

Yes, yes. This.

Although I tend to feel it directly a little lower than there.

:praying:

[Girl_On_Fire]

Yes, yes. This.

Although I tend to feel it directly a little lower than there.

:praying:

Well, it starts in my heart chakra anyway... ;)

[weatherboi]

blunt and direct takes me from cold to hot instantly!

[DapperButch]

blunt and direct takes me from cold to hot instantly!

Well, hell, you must be hot and bothered all the time then, with Ms. Snow around! :sunglass:

[Gemme]

Well, hell, you must be hot and bothered all the time then, with Ms. Snow around! :sunglass:

Clearly, you haven't heard.

She keeps him warm.

:blink:

[DapperButch]

Clearly, you haven't heard.

She keeps him warm.

:blink:

Wait...isn't that a lyric in a song?

[Gemme]

Wait...isn't that a lyric in a song?

Oh, Dapper. Dapper, Dapper, Dapper.

Yes.

Yes, it is.

NhqH-r7Xj0E

[DapperButch]

Ha! Is Snow getting all warm and fuzzy about Grant again?

Quick, she must be losing her mind!

Gemme help, me! :hospital-snoopy: :ambulance:

[Gemme]

Ha! Is Snow getting all warm and fuzzy about Grant again?

Quick, she must be losing her mind!

Gemme help, me! :hospital-snoopy: :ambulance:

There is no help for you, dude.

:sunglass:

[DapperButch]

There is no help for you, dude.

:sunglass:

I know, I know...:sigh:

[Guy]

A sexy naked woman with a mouth full of of poprocks!!!! Best BJ I've ever had!!!

[grenade]

fingertips on my lower back.

a firm hand to the ass.

freshly showered skin and cologne.

work boots.

[Okiebug61]

Red is the only instant turn on in my life!

[JustLovelyJenn]

Confidence... does it every time.

BUT... a nice skinny tie... yeah, that will get me too!!

[Girl_On_Fire]

work boots.

Oh yes, work boots. Yum!

[Leigh]

hmmmm lets see:

~ strong hands and arms

~ that cologne that reminds me of Hym

~ swagger; that walk and the way they carry themselves

~ a wink, or that smirk that melts me everytime

:D

[Lazy Daze]

A sexy naked woman with a mouth full of of poprocks!!!! Best BJ I've ever had!!!


**shakes my grape pop rocks**

[Smiling]

when we are having our morning coffee and he is reading and he looks up over the rim of his glasses and smiles at me

instant turn on


That kind of look is an instantaneous turn-on! I'd definitely have to agree, gaea. I've always been gaga for it.

Also, I have no idea why, but I find it incredibly sexy when someone raises just one eyebrow. What's that about? lol

[Smiling]

No matter the color or shape; playful, twinkling eyes can just about send me right over the edge. You know; the kind that can see right through you....

and a rakish smile.

I really like it when someone sort of looks like they are up to no good, lol.

[LaDivina]

Huge Smile, are you me? I was just going to say the raised eyebrow and eyes that look right through me. :)

And the light scrape of a fingernail down the back of my neck.

[Bard]

her smile her walk that sexy wanting look in her eyes.. running her nails down my back tha way she looks just out of the shower all tousled her soft kisses on my neck.. heck my wife is the biggest turn on for me .. uh yeah the way her hair spills out on the pillows in our bed yummy

[Smiling]

crows feet (smile lines; I love how the face can tell the story of someone's life and experience)

gray, slightly-graying, and/or salt and pepper hair (sometimes - depends on the individual, of course; but when it works, it's hot)

voices (especially those with a low or raspy timbre to them)

accents (especially southern drawls, which is a relatively new phenomenon for me; I wasn't ever really a fan until I heard one a while ago that changed my mind about that, lol)

[LaDivina]

crows feet (smile lines; I love how the face can tell the story of someone's life and experience)

gray, slightly-graying, and/or salt and pepper hair (sometimes - depends on the individual, of course; but when it works, it's hot)

voices (especially those with a low or raspy timbre to them)

accents (especially southern drawls, which is a relatively new phenomenon for me; I wasn't ever really a fan until I heard one a while ago that changed my mind about that, lol)

That's it. You ARE me. :winky:

[Smiling]

That's it. You ARE me. :winky:

lol, well you have excellent tastes if I may be so bold. ;)
Great minds, as they say....












Okay - I need to stay out of this thread; I'm just out of control now, lol. :blush:

[bright_arrow]

Freshly showered and cologne.. Mmmmm
Small kisses on the neck, and then a bite
Fingers through my hair
The gleam in her eye when she watches me walk
The look she gets when we sit across from each other and she raises her eyes to mine

[pajama]

Knee-length skirt and high heels

Brains

Long hair

Musical talent

Cleavage

[Mel C.]

Knee-length skirt and high heels

Brains

Long hair

Musical talent

Cleavage


Yanno, it's like I can picture a woman like this. *wink*

[pajama]

Yanno, it's like I can picture a woman like this. *wink*

Well ya'know. It's my type. ;)

[Vivacious1]

sexy arms and a great sense of humor

[Vivacious1]

self confidence

[weatherboi]

getting cruised from across the room!

[cinnamongrrl]

strong shoulders and backs are my weakness.....always have been....

[Girl_On_Fire]

crows feet (smile lines; I love how the face can tell the story of someone's life and experience)

gray, slightly-graying, and/or salt and pepper hair (sometimes - depends on the individual, of course; but when it works, it's hot)

voices (especially those with a low or raspy timbre to them)

accents (especially southern drawls, which is a relatively new phenomenon for me; I wasn't ever really a fan until I heard one a while ago that changed my mind about that, lol)

Yowza! I second all of these!

[Gemme]

crows feet (smile lines; I love how the face can tell the story of someone's life and experience)

gray, slightly-graying, and/or salt and pepper hair (sometimes - depends on the individual, of course; but when it works, it's hot)

voices (especially those with a low or raspy timbre to them)

accents (especially southern drawls, which is a relatively new phenomenon for me; I wasn't ever really a fan until I heard one a while ago that changed my mind about that, lol)

I don't know how instant the first two are for me...they would at least perk my interest I know....but the second two. Oh yeah.

[cinnamongrrl]

Ohhh non physical ones...lol my bad...

Intelligence, a way with words (not always a hand in hand thing) and yes...confidence....swagger if you will....

These are a few of my favorite thingsssssss

My client was bed bound for a duration and watched a LOT of The Sound of Music..... :|

[Cin]

I love accents as well. Certain South and Central American accents are my favorites. I feel them on a visceral level. And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful. Then there are things that a person I am attracted to can do to turn me on. My wife doing or saying something that I find particularly hot (which happens often really) works instantly but I doubt it would have the same effect if anyone else were doing/saying it. I guess she has the keys to the instant turn-on switch.

[DaddyNik12]

there are certain fragrances that Victoria secret has that for some reason flip a switch , I have a very hard time containing myself

[Gemme]

Ohhh non physical ones...lol my bad...

Intelligence, a way with words (not always a hand in hand thing) and yes...confidence....swagger if you will....

These are a few of my favorite thingsssssss

My client was bed bound for a duration and watched a LOT of The Sound of Music..... :|

Who said it had to be non-physical.

<----likes the physical a whole lot

[cinnamongrrl]

Who said it had to be non-physical.

<----likes the physical a whole lot

I just felt shallow only stating THOSE....since it really is all about the mind for me.... ;)

[Slowpurr]

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment. If we are speaking of a more physical outcome then a turn on with one person does not translate into a turn on with another. I agree with that. I also cannot tie one thing into an instant turn on other then a general physical and mental butchness which has to be accompanied by the attractiveness, as interpreted by me, of that person as a whole.

I can remember mentioning to people who would comment on my crooked teeth that it my unique characteristic and is a part of what makes me me. I expect it was your positive reinforcement that allowed me to believe it.

And a passion gap or a crooked tooth always move me, I’m not particularly attracted to too straight cookie cutter teeth. My ex husband had a crooked slightly broken tooth from a hockey accident and it was one of the things I really enjoyed about his looks. It made me sad when the tooth died and he had to have a root canal and get it capped. It made him quite sad too, just not for the same reasons.

Truthfully though there aren’t instant turn-ons existing in a vacuum for me. There isn’t anything I can think of that would work instantly and singularly for me. It’s a package thing and really more like two separate things. There are things that I am attracted to in a person, things that would get my attention, turn my head. But in my experience they rarely translate to anything meaningful.

[SleepyButch]

Her touching herself or even the thought of her touching herself!

[Daktari]

Laughing at my jokes :cheesy:

Having the patience of saint :|

[Cin]

I interpreted an instant turn on to be a fleeting, fun moment.

I'm sure that is what it is supposed to be. I don't know if you know this about me, but I tend to over-analyze stuff. I turn it over and over looking at it from every angle possible, then I might dunk it in a pail of water to see how it handles being wet. Then I squeeze it making sure to wring out every bit of spontaneity and joy. I examine and then re-examine. I even bore myself.

[Tony]

Instant to me is visual, audio, physical.
The click of high heels on the floor.
Blonde hair.
Beautiful & manicured hands.
Manicured nails on my skin.
Said hands in my hair.
A soft whisper.
A soft Southern accent.
That look...in her eyes & in her appearance.
Damn, I got more but I think I beat stop here.
Lol

[Gemme]

I just felt shallow only stating THOSE....since it really is all about the mind for me.... ;)

I'm shallow and I'm okay with that, because if I don't feel that shimmery feeling that says 'take me', none of the rest of it matters. Sometimes that feeling finds its way to me through my brain and sometimes through my groin. I don't care how it gets to me as long as it's there.

:cheesy:

[Tommi]

that one spaghetti strap slipping off the shoulder shimmy look :love1:

[Ts_kaijira]

That come and get me smile

Her butt as she sways and bends makes me want to grab her

That feminine curve of the fingers as she sits and plays

Putting her hands together and raising them above her head .

Long wavy hair I can wrap my hand in

Dripping Wet, out of the shower , everytime

Intelligent, savy, sexy, sensual..


lucky me :)

This is how you see me? Wow. I love you forever. Your kaijira

[Ts_kaijira]

that one spaghetti strap slipping off the shoulder shimmy look :love1:

Oh, I do know that gets you Love. Big Hug. j

[puddin']

watchin' a woman on da train engrossed in a book, especially if said book evokes various facial expressions along da way...

[JAGG]

Great conversation that makes 7 hours disappear.

When they lean their body into yours .

A sexy text out of the blue.

When they give you vivid details of what they want you to do to them.
When they do little surprise things to make you smile because they know you will love it.

Attentive

and involved in the relationship.

Emotionally mature.

[JAGG]

When they fall asleep in your arms with their head on your shoulder and their soft warm breath on your neck.

Lying in bed holding each other close in the dark , talking about everything under the sun.

Inside jokes and special names for things that only you two know about.

Total trust.

[LoyalWolfsBlade]

Intelligent conversation that make hours disappear and the mundane seem interesting

Being passionate about a project they are doing and showing that passion as they describe it to you

The innocent touch on the back of my neck at just the right time and just the right spot

Shared secrets about the day or life that only the two of us know

Enjoying each other as we make dinner together or compromise and pick out two movies to watch while their head is on my lap or in my arms

[Bard]

the feel of her skin under my fingertips...

[Sweet Bliss]

When they fall asleep in your arms with their head on your shoulder and their soft warm breath on your neck.

Lying in bed holding each other close in the dark , talking about everything under the sun.

Inside jokes and special names for things that only you two know about.

Total trust.

You could be talking about your Kitty cat..... lol
:hiding::rollcat:

[tessie]

Confidence, protective of me, a naturally deep voice .<3

[JAGG]

You could be talking about your Kitty cat..... lol
:hiding::rollcat:

No vile creatures allowed. :| You are ruining my visual. lol

[MissItalianDiva]

No vile creatures allowed. :| You are ruining my visual. lol

LMAO TOUCHDOWN!!!!

[JAGG]

LMAO TOUCHDOWN!!!!

Now that's a good visual!

[Ts_kaijira]

Cologne, not too strong, just a whisper when I am near. Leather, musk, woody, masculine.

[GraffitiBoi]

Her smile. The curve of her lips, the sparkle in her eyes, the arch of her brows. The way my name sounds when she calls me out on my bs. The smell of her perfume on my pillows when she's gone...

[Sweet Bliss]

No vile creatures allowed. :| You are ruining my visual. lol

I predict you will fall in love with a cat woman with more than one cat in her company.

:| <…… JAGG's predicted face when he reads this post ...... :pointing:

[Shay McGee]

I love redheads

[Miss Scarlett]

His kiss...

The little things he does just because...

His laugh...

The silly things he does to make me laugh...

When he whispers my name...not my nickname, but my real name...(and he's the only one, outside of work, who gets away with using it)

[JustLovelyJenn]

Eyes that hold secrets in crouded places...

[JAGG]

Soft shiny lips
A good kisser
Passion
Keeps promises
Dependable

[Joness]

For starters a great butt, feminine dress sense and lady like jewellery. Oh, and a shawl . ... sophisticated look, nice :-)

In saying all that on the aesthetic level what binds it all together to become a turn on is a nice accent and someone that likes to play with words semantics stylie :cigar2: x

[Nat]

a comforting nature

[JAGG]

I predict you will fall in love with a cat woman with more than one cat in her company.

:| <…… JAGG's predicted face when he reads this post ...... :pointing:

No !!!!! That's the first question I ask, they have cats I cross them off my list. Disqualified!!! hahahaha

[skeeter_01]

a pretty brunette with blues eyes will stop me in my tracks.....

[Nic]

A beautiful woman.

All women are beautiful. So are a few men IMO.

[Sweet Bliss]

No !!!!! That's the first question I ask, they have cats I cross them off my list. Disqualified!!! hahahaha

You realize what message you are sending to the universe right?

JAGG does not like or want puss in his house or bed. :|

Gee JAGG, you are never gonna have, you know what, EVER. :)

Bummer Karma. :)

[Rockinonahigh]

The Mae West look and attitude,put's a spark in my battery for shure.

[Talon]

A sharp, unique wit....my death for sure.

[MrSunshine]

When someone knows how to Shut Up and Fuck!

[JAGG]

You realize what message you are sending to the universe right?

JAGG does not like or want puss in his house or bed. :|

Gee JAGG, you are never gonna have, you know what, EVER. :)

Bummer Karma. :)

Um she didn't mean that delete delete delete !!! Pay no attention to her. I am always referring to felines not humans !!! She is a crazy cat lady but you already knew that, carry on. lol

[Venus007]

Well muscled forearms with ropey veins, I especially like when you can see the muscles and tendons move when they move their fingers.

Deft dextrous fingers especially on a squarish palm

A woman with crows feet and greying hair in a buzz cut, hubba hubba

A really well fitting suit and tie worn like the person was born to it

[MissItalianDiva]

You realize what message you are sending to the universe right?

JAGG does not like or want puss in his house or bed. :|

Gee JAGG, you are never gonna have, you know what, EVER. :)

Bummer Karma. :)

LMAO Sweet Bliss....this is such a great moment ty!!! :)

[JAGG]

LMAO Sweet Bliss....this is such a great moment ty!!! :)

Oh no , they are ganging up on me. The Karma Gods have been informed of the truth. The crazy cat lady has no power here.

[MissItalianDiva]

Oh no , they are ganging up on me. The Karma Gods have been informed of the truth. The crazy cat lady has no power here.

LOL pfft she has a valid point

[JAGG]

LOL pfft she has a valid point

Stop encouraging her she is trying to cast a meatloaf spell on me or something. ha

[MissItalianDiva]

Stop encouraging her she is trying to cast a meatloaf spell on me or something. ha


Mmm meatloaf with a lil cat food in it meow!! lmao

[JAGG]

more like a hacked up fur ball.

[MissItalianDiva]

more like a hacked up fur ball.


Mmm yummy.....seconds right?

[JAGG]

Mmm yummy.....seconds right?

Yeah come on over. Sloppy seconds.

[Sweet Bliss]

Stop encouraging her she is trying to cast a meatloaf spell on me or something. ha

Let's look at the facts shall we?

You just thanked Mr Sunshine for his post.

Yah. The Femme Coalition is watching and taking names.

And for the record, it's a done deal on the meatloaf. Spell schmell.

[JAGG]

Let's look at the facts shall we?

You just thanked Mr Sunshine for his post.

Yah. The Femme Coalition is watching and taking names.

And for the record, it's a done deal on the meatloaf. Spell schmell.

Now Mr. Sunshine had a vaild point if anyone did!!!!

[JAGG]

When someone knows how to Shut Up and Fuck!

I am all for that !!!!

[Sweet Bliss]

Now Mr. Sunshine had a vaild point if anyone did!!!!

And you just made mine.

[JAGG]

It's past my bedtime. I think I will just sleep on it and give you an answer in the morning. Or wait that is meatloaf isn't it. LOL

[imperfect_cupcake]

Someone who looks down my top when we are arguing.

Someone who laughs at me hitting them with a rolled up newspaper when I'm frustrated at their shenanigans or laughs at me slapping them across the face when they grab a body part.

[Random]

That damned confident, cocky swagger...

I kid you not... It makes me walk into walls and lamposts...

[Canela]

Charm.
Manners.
Muscles.
Quick wit.
Intelligence.

Not necessarily in that order...

[Sheridan]

Intelligence, self-confidence, a sense of humor, her eyes (they are the windows to the soul), the curve in a woman’s back, athletic calves, and the femininity of her breasts:rose:.

[Ginger]

Someone who calls me on my shit, with gentle humor.

[sofimichi]

I love to sniff my partner. They smell great. asdkjhasdf;gkhj
I also like the biting of the ear. Like, if you do that, we are fucking.
:bedfuck:

[Bino85]

Someone who is happy.
I LOVE MILFS

[tiggs]

It could be a smile, a certain type of clothing, a scent of cologne/perfume, etc. that just takes you from ordinary, everyday thoughts to naughty ones.

What are your "instant turn-ons"?

"instant turn-ons"

That certain confident swagger in a pair of heavy leather boots

The look that broadcasts animal hunger

The sound of Hys voice deep and dark with a slight almost hidden growl in it

A strong hand on my throat.... :blush: this above all else will instantly send me spinning :praying:

[nellsbells]

Boots. Tattoos. Cigarettes. Smirking. Quick wit, and intelligence are must-haves.

[o'queery]

Boots. Tattoos. Cigarettes. Smirking. Quick wit, and intelligence are must-haves.

agreed!

/////

[~baby~doll~]

Strength
Confidence
Command
A call for respect
Great posture
Power, as in ability to immediately take control in any situation

[CA_BabyCakes]

Ambition
Intelligence
A good sense of humor
Integrity
Someone who makes me a better me.....

[Nic]

Intelligence, a sense of humor and a smart mouth turn my brain on.

Sidelong glances, biting the bottom lip when nervous, someone who isn't too thin gets my attention.

Vulnerability makes me hard.

Watching her get flustered when I start to flirt with her makes me want to fuck her right there. On the floor. Any floor. Any where.

[Jess]

Someone who looks down my top when we are arguing.

Someone who laughs at me hitting them with a rolled up newspaper when I'm frustrated at their shenanigans or laughs at me slapping them across the face when they grab a body part.

OUCH DAMMIT! hehehe

[selty]

a turn on for me is the feeling of being owned like an object.

the best gift in the world when givin to you you look after it with pride and keep it safe fro harm

[stepfordfemme]

Confidence.

A nice light cologne smell.

Boots <3

Touching the back of my neck in any form.

Naughty whispering in my ear in public.

[SimpleAlaskanBoy]

When she touches my ears or kisses them!

~SAB

[Bèsame*]

...mmmmm, when you can keep up with my innuendoes. If we can have a lingering conversation and you end up blushing...even better

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[kittygrrl]

chivalry
intelligence
synergy
confidence

[ONLY]

Coming into the bedroom and she is laying there in a sexy little nightie/lingerie.......

She makes the first move slowly and unexpectedly......

Let's start with those two for now.....

[nanners]

Waking up to a frisky butch....:bedfuck:

[ONLY]

that sexy smile that tells me she wants me.....

that look in her eyes when we are hot and heavy......

the sounds that escapes her throat while we make love.......

at times I ask her what she wants me to do and she softly tells me ........

[Sweet Bliss]

Muscle rippling under your skin

Awareness of how I show you my love for all you are.

[ONLY]

When she is all done up for a night out and she is wearing a dress, light make up and hair done, just the right amount of cleavage showing, looking sexy as hell.......INSTANT TURN ON!!!!.....in those moments it is quite alright with me if we are late........

[Rolo]

When a plain old T-shirt and jeans fit just right.
A well journeyed life.
Tattoos 1 or 50.
Confidence.
Hands...strong hands, rough hands, working hands, artist hands...complete turn on!

[Kenna]

I was pleasantly reminded today of an instant turn on..
the yin yang energy We share and the incredible intensity.

[cinnamongrrl]

a good vocabulary.....


strong shoulders/back....


an open mind...

:)

[ForeverMe]

The feeling of a strong butch come up behind me and gently touch me while I am cooking. The feel of her wrapping her arms around me - OMG makes me weak in the knees just thinking about it.

Spontaneity - show up at my job with lunch, surprise me with a small getaway, run me a bubble bath, lots of possibilities with this one.

I love love love the smell of a freshly showered woman with just the right amount of her own scent - be it cologne, lotions, etc. or a combination of these things.

A woman that knows my spots. The right touch can mean you can have me right now, I am yours.

Just writing this post has my mind racing.

[ONLY]

seeing the pleasure on her face and her moans.............

[tessie]

Crisp cuffs on Hys dress shirts , that perfect tie coordinated with the perfect vest, the way the whole package is ultra Gentleman * swoon*

[WildHorses]

Hearing a sexy femme's voice on the phone not yelling at me.

[SirenManda]

Hearing him say "I miss you" every day when I'm at work. Sexiness has became more than just sexual contact.

[VintageFemme]

Strong, rough, weathered hands.
Well defined, cut arms.
Catching you watching me.
Sexy whispers in public.
Confidence.

[MsTinkerbelly]

Being wrapped in blankets under the stars with my wife; we couldn't see the massive starry sky when we lived in the city.

[Blade]

Tan legged southern girls of course:fastdraq:

[Femmadian]

Some things that turn an otherwise platonic, innocent situation into an air-crackling, whimpering-like-a-dog torture fest:

-That crunch/scrunch sound of leather as they move slowly and readjust themselves
-Catching a glimpse of their leather boots and shoes
-Languid movements and body language
-That amused look that says, "yes, I know you want me. Now what are you going to do about it?" ... usually followed by a slightly raised brow
-Alternatively, a bashful, blushing butch! Makes my mind go to very naughty places...
-Aviator sunglasses or an otherwise flattering pair of shades. There's something about not being able to see their eyes fully which adds an air of mystery.
-A slightly popped collar on a peacoat in winter paired with an understated, classy scarf... though a well dressed butch in general makes me conflicted - I don't know which I'd enjoy more: watching them move with those clothes on or ripping them off... Decisions, decisions...
-Running fingers through their hair (their own fingers or mine)
-Watching their hands when they drive... I find it hard to keep my hands to myself after that. That's all I need for foreplay!
-Kiss on the back of my hand, a tongue on the palm, etc...
-Tall, tall butches... I'm 5'8 and if you're taller than me, butch, and breathing, I'm basically going to try to rip your clothes off later. No exceptions (well, unless someone else got to you first!).

Basically, I'm a horny bastard. :eyebat:

[bokster]

When a woman I'm quietly crushing on locks eyes with me and let's me know that she knows I'm attracted to her and that the feeling is mutual.

Wicked humor! Physical beauty pales in comparison to a sexy, intelligent mind.

[Hey You]

men's clothes and a short men's haircut.

Or a security uniform. There's something about them.

[kittygrrl]

the truth:tea:

[MysticOceansFL]

Truth and Honesty

[Trev]

A shy smile

A cute giggle

Sense of humor

Just to name a few

[Stud_puppy1991]

Oh man, let's see. Hmmmm... well, a sexy smirk is one to get me hot right away. And a nice scent is sure to draw me close. Oh, and biting and scratching, oh hot damn. And that's just some...

[DanceFoolsDance]

Physical flirtation. The natural expression from eyes, mouth, tone of voice, body language...that shows how much they want you. So hot.

[Candelion]

Hearing their motorcycle pull into the driveway. :)

[Duchess]

Ambition
Optimism
Sense of humor

[nanners]

A hot bath with patchouli scent, candlelight and a cold beverage...ahhhhh.

[MacMastr00]

....her scent....sleep induced softness..catching her off guard..hearing her clear her throat when she becomes flustered and shy..quietly laying behind her and listening to her breathe..the glance across a crowded room...pulling her closer as we dance...the back of her bare legs...

[starryeyes]

Flowers! Always a turn on :)

[DJ Bear]

her bare shoulders
her smile
her laugh
and
her ass!

[SaltyButch]

The sway of a woman's body as she walks with confidence in that stunning dress and beautiful high heels...

[Leigh]

That wink, a mischevious smile, their very confident swagger, how the compliment me in every way ................. the way they kiss, hug, laugh, love & move in this world in just a way that can't be described

[Diablo]

when she is annoyed at me...and trying to make her point...and i cant help but smile and laugh...which makes her even more mad...then,,,she cant take it anymore and starts laughing too....or she slaps me...either way ,..its a win win situation

[Kenna]

Once again. . You're to blame, you turned me on to a slice of heaven. . And i ain't leaving your island. .. dayaamm

[Bèsame*]

certain voices

Southern drawl
Raspy voice



Ooooooo la la

[~ocean]

~ u notice hys watching u ~ throws u a wink ~ u melt inside ~u continue to move just for hym ~

[SirenManda]

Compassion.
Seeing someone show affection to animals or kids is an instant turn on.

[Bèsame*]

Up against the wall, while holding my hands over my head.... Kissing me, biting my lip

[grenade]

having my butt rubbed. :)

[candy_coated_bitch]

Someone who is willing to let me laugh at them and tease them mercilessly. Not everyone can do that with grace, so it always warms my heart. I only make fun of people I like.

[Duchess]

~Vibrant smile
~Romantic imagination
~Sexy deep or raspy voice



Duchess

[Ginger]

Instant turn-on:

You get my sense of humor

[Contessa]

That moment she shows such sweet vulnerability in her eyes.:nyahnyah:

A sturdy sense of humor

The right lick on a margarita glass @ the right time:callme:

Good self-esteem (no need to knock others down to build herself up)

[Play]

When I make her blush.....just by looking at her.

Nothing sexier than a blushing femme.

[Cole]

Blushing, unexpected dirty talk, soft grazing of fingertips along the back of my neck...surprises in general.

[gotoseagrl]

~ Retrophilia
~ The little "flaws" that make someone unique & imperfect
~ Humbleness
~ Sincerity
~ Speaking through the eyes & through music
~ Confidence & self-control
~ Honesty & respect
~ Tasteful directness

[Venus007]

Some older grizzled tattooed butch roaring up on a big ass bike and have on cop boots and/or chaps, there will be a dally in the ally

[Candelion]

Gentleness

[Elijah]

~Intelligence
~A quick wit
~Open mindedness
~That perfect balance of confidence and vulnerability
~Passion without obsession
~Mindfulness
~Knowing eyes

[Candelion]

When silence never becomes awkward because we speak the same language...body language.