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Linus 11-23-2009 11:51 AM

Average Age of the Planet
 
Since it was mentioned, I have to admit that I am curious what is the average age. In the support group that I'm in, I'm one of 2-3 older guys. The rest range from 16-25 (and boy! makes me feel old!)

So identifiers, just curious as to what is the average age of the community at large.

Andrew, Jr. 11-23-2009 01:01 PM

Well, I am not that young either Linus. :cracked: Selling life insurance now? :pointing: No? :freak: I know, grave sites. :thumbsup:

Love,
Andrew
:superman::rofl::cigar:

Apocalipstic 11-23-2009 01:51 PM

Is it OK that we are older? Would younger people feel more welcome if those of us who are older were not here?

Linus 11-23-2009 01:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andrew, Jr. (Post 10800)
Well, I am not that young either Linus. :cracked: Selling life insurance now? :pointing: No? :freak: I know, grave sites. :thumbsup:

Love,
Andrew
:superman::rofl::cigar:

LOL.. ya.. that might work. ;)

Linus 11-23-2009 01:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apocalipstic (Post 10824)
Is it OK that we are older? Would younger people feel more welcome if those of us who are older were not here?

I think it's ok. The younger guys have mentioned that they like to hear my side of things because it gives them an insight into what might be (good or bad). I don't any age is a bad thing; it's just a different thing and a different perspective. Being open to that perspective is important and closing your mind to it, IMO, isn't helpful for anyone. We all have a need to be heard and actively listened to on both sides of the coin of respect.

:2cents:

Bit 11-23-2009 02:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apocalipstic (Post 10824)
Would younger people feel more welcome if those of us who are older were not here?

Nope, Jen, because if we weren't here, there wouldn't be a website at all. People will come to us as they need to, whatever their ages might be; but if you and I and everyone who is over thirty left the site to make room for them, well, what on earth would anyone come to... since yanno... the site owners are also over thirty? ;)

I think the vibrancy and richness of the site is directly due to the mix of ages we have; having only one narrow age range would defeat the purpose, yanno?

Andrew, Jr. 11-23-2009 02:18 PM

I think age is just a state of mind. If you really think about it. We can all learn something from each other, only if we are open to it. If not, then we miss out on alot.

Love,
Andrew

Apocalipstic 11-23-2009 02:20 PM

:) I am a 16 year old boy in my head a lot of the time :)

*grin*

NJFemmie 11-23-2009 02:24 PM

So it seems that so far, we are outnumbering the younguns.
Can we flip our depends at them?
lol ... just kidding ... I am not quite there .... yet..... oy.


NJFemmie 11-23-2009 02:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by apocalipstic (Post 10824)
Is it OK that we are older? Would younger people feel more welcome if those of us who are older were not here?

.. and who would provide the wisdom, the history, the target for all the old people jokes?

Pixie 11-23-2009 02:52 PM

I can honestly say by being one of the "youngins" cringe..... that I wouldn't be here if everyone was younger.... Wouldn't be the same atmosphere....

NJFemmie 11-23-2009 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PixieStars (Post 10870)
I can honestly say by being one of the "youngins" cringe..... that I wouldn't be here if everyone was younger.... Wouldn't be the same atmosphere....

And I feel the same in reverse.
We all need each other to feed off of and learn from.
It's what we need for consciousness expansion.
:hangloose:

Bit 11-23-2009 07:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PixieStars (Post 10870)
...being one of the "youngins" cringe.....

No cringing, sugar, you're fine. :bouquet: {{{{{{{{{{{{Pixie}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Pixie 11-23-2009 09:25 PM

Thanks NJ and bit.....wooot!!

Sassybren 11-24-2009 12:04 AM

I had to be forced into 50 kicking and screaming but now that I've arrived it's ok and I don't mind owning it.

The next poll should be How old do you feel. Of course if the mental pause monster is around some might have to wait a day or too to take the poll.
Just sayin. lol

lee07 11-24-2009 12:44 AM

i want ur lil picture thingamijigster :)
@ msLinus

WILDCAT 11-24-2009 01:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by NJFemmie (Post 10844)
So it seems that so far, we are outnumbering the younguns.
Can we flip our depends at them?
lol ... just kidding ... I am not quite there .... yet..... oy.


WELL! The "youngin's" have a life!! AND, they are still gettin' laid! (Just kidding to some of you married and involved folks!)

OK, I may have "revealed" something here about myself, huh?!

Really, "we are some of the ones who paved the way" for what/HOW it is today. Whether or not young kids and/or young adults grow to learn and appreciate that in history or as part of the "process" to continue on - or not, remains up to them... and I HOPE they continue on to be radical for our cause(s). I will be, until I can no longer breathe! (But, I respect ALL ways of "contributing". It doesn't just have to be marching on the streets, etc...)

I'm OK, in fact... GOOD with all of that/this! I'm just so proud of our history and any part that I was fortunate to experience! Existing HERE (at this site), in fact - is "something" special in history and time!

(And I may or may not still get lucky now and then at age "fiddy-somethin'"... out here in the woods!)
____

Seriously, my best "female" friend died at the age of 98. I learned SO MUCH from her. And her gone from this physical plane has left SUCH A HUGE WIDE OPEN VOID IN ME!!!!!

SHE SAID TO ME:

I will always be alright, as long as I remain "teachable". I will never forget her, nor that advice.

:heartbeat:


*Hugs and kisses my sister Virgo! I love you and miss you terribly.

Angelika 11-24-2009 01:47 AM

45 and proud *smiles* .... I love being older ... and cannot wait to actually get older. Life is just better served when older *grins*

Angelika

JustLovelyJenn 11-24-2009 03:24 AM

I like the age range here. I don't often get along well with people in my own age range and tend to, instead, have a good number of friends who are older than me. Most of the time I just forget about age, I don't even remember to ask anymore, cause I don't care. If you make me smile and we have something to talk about. BRING IT ON!!

Linus 11-24-2009 07:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lee07 (Post 11322)
i want ur lil picture thingamijigster :)
@ msLinus

which picture thingamijigster?? :eyebrow:

suebee 11-24-2009 08:26 AM

Our household has an "age difference r us" thingie going on, so I don't tend to think about it that often. I don't have much contact with twenty-somethings though. I kinda miss that in my life.

hottprof 11-24-2009 09:39 AM

so I guess I am one of 8 or so "youngin's on this site" not too shabby... I am movin' my way up the ladder...

Smiles :frog:

WolfyOne 11-24-2009 01:48 PM

The older I get, the more I learn, the more I can share with the younger generation.

MsDemeanor 11-24-2009 03:55 PM

The planet is 4.6 billion years old, give or take ;)

Unndunn 11-25-2009 12:29 AM

The results look like a pretty standard bell curve, which I would think is the norm for an online site like this.

sharkchomp 11-25-2009 04:12 AM

Well crap! I was all excited thinking this was a thread about the age of the planet... earth! I was all ready to have a scientific convo.... sigh

~~~shark~~~~~~~
*equal opportunity chomper*

SelfMadeMan 11-25-2009 06:56 AM

Age is just a state of mind for me, I just turned 40 but I don't FEEL 40. No one is too old to be here and be an important part of the Planet. We all have something to offer others, and besides, the older you are, the more experience you have and the more insight you can bring to the table.

Linus 11-25-2009 07:52 AM

I suppose I should have referenced the thread (http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=365) and someone had said that the Online B-F community was a lot older, hence the desire to hold on to the older terms of Butch and Femme.

MsDemeanor: Smart ass! :p (although better than being a dumb one eh? :cheesy: )

ZoeyJayne 11-25-2009 02:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PixieStars (Post 10870)
I can honestly say by being one of the "youngins" cringe..... that I wouldn't be here if everyone was younger.... Wouldn't be the same atmosphere....

I am going to have to agree with you... Although sometimes it can be frustrating to be part of the younger crowd, I enjoy having people that are older than I am around to look up to and hear how they have experienced things IMO that is

Darth Denkay 11-26-2009 12:01 AM

You're right, very much a standard bell curve, and that does make sense.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Unndunn (Post 12002)
The results look like a pretty standard bell curve, which I would think is the norm for an online site like this.


Milly 11-26-2009 10:22 PM

I'm 53 with an 8 year old son. I party hardy in Disneyland twice a year and love kiddie movies. My spouse and I leave our "FUDDY DUDDIES" at home so that our son has two age appropriate playmates. I love my current age. There is not one day of my life that I would give up to relive another. The good was great and the bad was terrible. All of my same age friends agree, that none of us came into ourselves and realized ourselves until our 40's. Since then, it's been wonderful! Old age ain't for the meek and if I were all of you younguns, I'd start jogging now so that old age can never catch up with you!

NotAnAverageGuy 11-27-2009 01:14 AM

I can honestly say I like my age, 32, right now, I don't think I will mind turning 40 is say 8 years.

But I won't ever become a Manther (male version of a cougar)

hippieflowergirl 11-30-2009 01:06 AM

i've been looking forward to 50 since the day i turned 40. 4 more years to go!

Dean Thoreau 11-30-2009 03:19 PM

:groupphoto:


I dont know but if it were just old farts..... on this site it woould be awful boring......and not very diverse. Of course if was just younguns..... ya'all sure would miss me and all the other old farts and Depends crowd!

I like hanging with the young guys...and sure would miss them if they were not here!

I like the diversity, now if you can just add some kwanzaa smilies and tibet flag and maybe a few holidays that are not " judeo christian" and flags of various countries in Africa,South America, and puerto rico, Haiti, Dominican Republic, we would have diverse smilies as well :D

hpychick 12-01-2009 08:51 PM

I truly enjoy being in my mid-40s. I can't imagine returning to a previous age.

One thing I enjoy so much about my job is that I experience diversity in every aspect: age, race, sex, sexual orientation, religion, personality, etc.

So many things color my world and help me grow in becoming a more accepting and loving person.


DapperButch 01-18-2010 07:50 PM

*Bumping* because I'd like to see more data.

Blade 01-23-2010 06:13 PM

I'm 47 and some days feel 107 and some days feel 17 it is a mind set. I like the age diversity of the site. Keeps me thinking young, and sometimes makes me quite glad that I have already past some of the speed bumps in the road between 20 and 50. Also makes me look at the young people today and go.....now why didn't I do that? I guess as they say we live and learn.

DapperButch 02-21-2010 06:41 PM

Still Curious
 
*Bumping* again...('tis confidential, you know)

:cluck: <--- Side note: I really dig this chicken.

Medusa 03-30-2010 08:34 PM

Looks like a Bell Curve. :)

Write14u 03-31-2010 11:44 AM

Dammit....following my recent birthday, I'm now the "middle finger" of this. Heh. I give it the middle finger.


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