11-24-2009, 10:35 PM
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Magically Delicious
How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch
Relationship Status: Single and content
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Minnesota
Posts: 6,558
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Originally Posted by kassykit
Thank you !  sometimes when it comes to these labels i feel if i'm beating my head against a wall  one day i will break down the wall and be comfy with being me!
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Sometimes it takes years before one can be comfy with themselves. First you have to figure out who you are or want to be. I've seen gals transform from being a total femme to breaking out and becoming butch. What used to be expected of us is no longer something we have to stand behind. Sometimes all it takes is coming out to family and friends that makes us begin to feel comfy with who we are or who we want to grow into. Trust yourself and it'll all fall into place.
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