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			Hi, interesting topic. 
Before finding the on line sites 
I had no clue  
sometimes ignorance is bliss 
I have seen what you are talking about some 
but then I don't know a lot of people in real time 
nor do I talk to most on the phone. 
 
But I have seen it. 
 
 
when I first started hearing about this I was shocked 
so my take on it 
1. female/male ided butches and transmen are adults 
    as such they can take care of themselves 
2.  the idea of trashing someone based on their Id sickens me 
     it says more about the person doing the talking than the person being 
     trashed. 
3.  when I see it happen. I stay out of it.  I do not feel it is my job to stand up for another adult.   They can do that for themselves. 
4. and as I will always say:  humans are humans first, everything else comes after. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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A year from now you will wish that you started today~Karen Lamb
			 
		
		
		
		
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