Cause & Affect: A Femme's Influence On The Friendships Between Butches and Transmen

amiyesiam · 06-13-2010, 10:32 PM

Hi, interesting topic.
Before finding the on line sites
I had no clue
sometimes ignorance is bliss
I have seen what you are talking about some
but then I don't know a lot of people in real time
nor do I talk to most on the phone.

But I have seen it.

when I first started hearing about this I was shocked
so my take on it
1. female/male ided butches and transmen are adults
as such they can take care of themselves
2. the idea of trashing someone based on their Id sickens me
it says more about the person doing the talking than the person being
trashed.
3. when I see it happen. I stay out of it. I do not feel it is my job to stand up for another adult. They can do that for themselves.
4. and as I will always say: humans are humans first, everything else comes after.

06-13-2010, 10:32 PM	#11
amiyesiam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/they Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: pa Posts: 2,703 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,488 Thanked 10,135 Times in 2,161 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Hi, interesting topic. Before finding the on line sites I had no clue sometimes ignorance is bliss I have seen what you are talking about some but then I don't know a lot of people in real time nor do I talk to most on the phone. But I have seen it. when I first started hearing about this I was shocked so my take on it 1. female/male ided butches and transmen are adults as such they can take care of themselves 2. the idea of trashing someone based on their Id sickens me it says more about the person doing the talking than the person being trashed. 3. when I see it happen. I stay out of it. I do not feel it is my job to stand up for another adult. They can do that for themselves. 4. and as I will always say: humans are humans first, everything else comes after. __________________ A year from now you will wish that you started today~Karen Lamb